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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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New Year... for their resolutions? (light hearted please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tradition (probably cos they are still stuffed from xmas lol)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"New Year... for their resolutions? (light hearted please

It's a new beginning for lots of people. I hope to go to the gym more.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"tradition (probably cos they are still stuffed from xmas lol)

You mean it is easy to make resolutions not to eat when you are feeling full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont always know what you do after a skinful of beer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New year, new start...guess it makes sense to some to start a new year with any changes they want to make?

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"New Year... for their resolutions? (light hearted please

It's a new beginning for lots of people. I hope to go to the gym more. "
So what makes it a new beginning at the stroke of midnight?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"New Year... for their resolutions? (light hearted please

It's a new beginning for lots of people. I hope to go to the gym more. "

And meet sexy ladies xx

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"dont always know what you do after a skinful of beer lol

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Very true - I have been known to make promises under the influence ...;-)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"New Year... for their resolutions? (light hearted please

It's a new beginning for lots of people. I hope to go to the gym more. So what makes it a new beginning at the stroke of midnight?

No idea....mine start about 2 weeks in.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"New year, new start...guess it makes sense to some to start a new year with any changes they want to make?"
And do you think it is different from saying... It is Monday so I ll start with my new diet/ exercise regime or whatever then?

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"New Year... for their resolutions? (light hearted please

It's a new beginning for lots of people. I hope to go to the gym more. So what makes it a new beginning at the stroke of midnight?

No idea....mine start about 2 weeks in."
Brilliant... you a regiving yourself a period of grace...;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"tradition (probably cos they are still stuffed from xmas lol)

You mean it is easy to make resolutions not to eat when you are feeling full

yep like its easy to do the shopping quickly without adding crap to your trolley when u have had dinner .......... go when u r hungry at your peril lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

new year new start.. mine is to shed some weight and cut down booze...

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"tradition (probably cos they are still stuffed from xmas lol)

You mean it is easy to make resolutions not to eat when you are feeling full

yep like its easy to do the shopping quickly without adding crap to your trolley when u have had dinner .......... go when u r hungry at your peril lol

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So are we saying it is easier to choose wisely on future meets once we have had a successful meet the day before?

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

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Yes new year new start not many will outlive January though

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"new year new start.. mine is to shed some weight and cut down booze... "
And January is a long dull month... will be hard to do! But hey.. good luck if that is what you have set yourself as a target

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New Year... for their resolutions? (light hearted please

If I could spell resolewsons I would make one

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"tradition (probably cos they are still stuffed from xmas lol)

You mean it is easy to make resolutions not to eat when you are feeling full

yep like its easy to do the shopping quickly without adding crap to your trolley when u have had dinner .......... go when u r hungry at your peril lol

I did that and spent £120

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Yes new year new start not many will outlive January though

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I have heard that - and actually I dont make New Years Resolutions for that reason. I kind of decide on any changes i want to make during the month of December and I try and implement their beginning before 1st January so it does not feel like a New Years Resolution

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"New Year... for their resolutions? (light hearted please

If I could spell resolewsons I would make one

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I think you are one of mine...;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"tradition (probably cos they are still stuffed from xmas lol)

You mean it is easy to make resolutions not to eat when you are feeling full

yep like its easy to do the shopping quickly without adding crap to your trolley when u have had dinner .......... go when u r hungry at your peril lol

So are we saying it is easier to choose wisely on future meets once we have had a successful meet the day before?

Brilliant question ......... one might assume that the successful meet the day before might get another look in .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New Year... for their resolutions? (light hearted please

If I could spell resolewsons I would make one

I think you are one of mine...;-)"

I'm making one right now I intend to keep

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"New Year... for their resolutions? (light hearted please

If I could spell resolewsons I would make one

I think you are one of mine...;-)

I'm making one right now I intend to keep

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I need to write some of mine down ... to remind myself...;-)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"New Year... for their resolutions? (light hearted please

If I could spell resolewsons I would make one

I think you are one of mine...;-)

I'm making one right now I intend to keep

I need to write some of mine down ... to remind myself...;-)"

To keep posting and meeting on here? Or were you going to do that anyway?

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"New Year... for their resolutions? (light hearted please

If I could spell resolewsons I would make one

I think you are one of mine...;-)

I'm making one right now I intend to keep

I need to write some of mine down ... to remind myself...;-)

To keep posting and meeting on here? Or were you going to do that anyway?"
Oh thank you - just reminded me there was something else I have to add to my list

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What about the Chinese New Year instead? I've celebrated that before but didn't make any resolution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose in just comes down to tradition, out with the old and in with the new

And some info from google...

The ancient Babylonians made promises to their gods at the start of each year that they would return borrowed objects and pay their debts.

The Romans began each year by making promises to the god Janus, for whom the month of January is named.

In the Medieval era, the knights took the "peacock vow" at the end of the Christmas season each year to re-affirm their commitment to chivalry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the 'new year resolution' has religious origins. Different religions made promises to their god at the beginning of each year

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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Julie and XredX... that makes a lot of sense.. that the resolutions are ultimately based in some religious beliefs, going along with the thought of sacrifice or something.

Taking this a bit further... what do we need to sacrifice to the God of Sex?;-)

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"What about the Chinese New Year instead? I've celebrated that before but didn't make any resolution. "
That is a really interesting point - I dont know if it is a Chinese tradition to make resolutions but it would be interesting to know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Julie and XredX... that makes a lot of sense.. that the resolutions are ultimately based in some religious beliefs, going along with the thought of sacrifice or something.

Taking this a bit further... what do we need to sacrifice to the God of Sex?;-) "

Hopefully not a virgin...not sure where we're find one of those on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes new year new start not many will outlive January though

I have heard that - and actually I dont make New Years Resolutions for that reason. I kind of decide on any changes i want to make during the month of December and I try and implement their beginning before 1st January so it does not feel like a New Years Resolution

I never have any new year's resolutions.

If I want to make a change, then I just do it. Why wait a year?!!

I started my diet on November 30th, took a few days off for xmas then back on it tomorrow.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Julie and XredX... that makes a lot of sense.. that the resolutions are ultimately based in some religious beliefs, going along with the thought of sacrifice or something.

Taking this a bit further... what do we need to sacrifice to the God of Sex?;-)

Hopefully not a virgin...not sure where we're find one of those on here!"

lol.. you re right.. probably not the best place to try and find virgins...;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about the Chinese New Year instead? I've celebrated that before but didn't make any resolution. That is a really interesting point - I dont know if it is a Chinese tradition to make resolutions but it would be interesting to know! "

From what I have read regardless of creed yes it is custom to do so.

Take Catholics for example lent is a time they give up things.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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From what I have read regardless of creed yes it is custom to do so.

Take Catholics for example lent is a time they give up things."
You know I could never understand the sense of that. For example of giving up meat... to me that would be no sacrifice whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes new year new start not many will outlive January though

I never have any new year's resolutions.

If I want to make a change, then I just do it. Why wait a year?!!

I started my diet on November 30th, took a few days off for xmas then back on it tomorrow.

The tradition behind a new year resolution that sets it apart from others is it is made at the start of whatever year you may celebrate and kept for that whole year.

So come November you've done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Julie and XredX... that makes a lot of sense.. that the resolutions are ultimately based in some religious beliefs, going along with the thought of sacrifice or something.

Taking this a bit further... what do we need to sacrifice to the God of Sex?;-)

Hopefully not a virgin...not sure where we're find one of those on here!

lol.. you re right.. probably not the best place to try and find virgins...;-)"

oh i dont know ....... think outside the box a little, there must be loads of virgins in some kink or other

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I once lent a catholic a book and despite asking, she never gave it back. I gave up asking.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Julie and XredX... that makes a lot of sense.. that the resolutions are ultimately based in some religious beliefs, going along with the thought of sacrifice or something.

Taking this a bit further... what do we need to sacrifice to the God of Sex?;-)

Hopefully not a virgin...not sure where we're find one of those on here!

lol.. you re right.. probably not the best place to try and find virgins...;-)

oh i dont know ....... think outside the box a little, there must be loads of virgins in some kink or other

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OMG dont even go there.....

I could certainly claim the title of virgin in rather a few ...;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I have read regardless of creed yes it is custom to do so.

Take Catholics for example lent is a time they give up things.You know I could never understand the sense of that. For example of giving up meat... to me that would be no sacrifice whatsoever.

Well New year being a celebration and Lent yes is to sacrifice and I would definitely struggle to give meat up.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

I've had a crap year was in a top floor flat when a numpty deceided to burn his bottom flat out am lucky I got out. I then lost a grandson went on a big downer. I'm hopin 2013 will be a good year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New year, new start! Some people use their birthday in a similar way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a born again virgin if that's any help?

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I've had a crap year was in a top floor flat when a numpty deceided to burn his bottom flat out am lucky I got out. I then lost a grandson went on a big downer. I'm hopin 2013 will be a good year "
Hell that is so sad about your grandson! And serious stuff re your escape, by the sound of it you were really lucky there. Hope 2013 will be better for you xx

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I'm a born again virgin if that's any help?

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What are you offering to help with...;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a born again virgin if that's any help?

What are you offering to help with...;-)"

any initiations that require a virgin.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I'm a born again virgin if that's any help?

What are you offering to help with...;-)

any initiations that require a virgin.

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I think that almost deserves a new thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a born again virgin if that's any help?

Did you use expanding foam then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my new year will be going for a walk to reflect on things.

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