FabSwingers.com forum: Profile help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey everyone. Hope you are all having a great night whatever you are up too!

Just a quick question, i wondered if there was anything i could do to help my profile at all? I know i haven't been on for too long but i'm not having that much luck lol.

Happy for any constructive criticism.

Thank you

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I really like your profile. I wish you good luck and hope you find what you're searching for.

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I really like your profile. I wish you good luck and hope you find what you're searching for.

Ruby"

Thanks very much Ruby

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP the profile is fine and its great to see a smile but it's hard for single guys on here and 2 weeks is a very short time in Fab terms.

Be patient, have no expectations and join in on the forums.

It's also worth trying clubs and socials.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

It's not bad.

You could consider these:

You don't say what you're looking for or what you find attractive.

You could add more pics.

You could go to a club.

You could look at other profiles for ideas on how people present themselves.

Most of all, be yourself.

Good luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP the profile is fine and its great to see a smile but it's hard for single guys on here and 2 weeks is a very short time in Fab terms.

Be patient, have no expectations and join in on the forums.

It's also worth trying clubs and socials. "

Thank you, i think i'm just about realising how hard it is!

I'll certainly consider going to a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not bad.

You could consider these:

You don't say what you're looking for or what you find attractive.

You could add more pics.

You could go to a club.

You could look at other profiles for ideas on how people present themselves.

Most of all, be yourself.

Good luck OP. "

Thanks Sprockett! I'll update my profile now. Hope to see you at a club at some point maybe. If you recognise me then come and say hi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consider checking out profiles of other guys on here. Find the fellas who look like they’re having success, see what it is that they’re doing right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a look. Great profile. Expect nothing, it's a journey. Just get through it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Consider checking out profiles of other guys on here. Find the fellas who look like they’re having success, see what it is that they’re doing right. "

Thanks for the advice Tyler

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just had a look. Great profile. Expect nothing, it's a journey. Just get through it. "

Cheers Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP your profile looks good to me, your only on the site a couple of weeks, interact on the forums, on the Irish forum we have threads like help a fabber out, as lots of men not many women,help them get verified even to meet for a cuppa.. every little helps lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP your profile looks good to me, your only on the site a couple of weeks, interact on the forums, on the Irish forum we have threads like help a fabber out, as lots of men not many women,help them get verified even to meet for a cuppa.. every little helps lol "

Thanks Lou

. That's a greqt idea! I'll go and have a look x

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Hey OP your profile is great I can't fault it. Keep at it and more importantly don't expect anything!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey OP your profile is great I can't fault it. Keep at it and more importantly don't expect anything!

Thanks Red, that's a lovely compliment! Will do

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

First 2 pics are great, personally not keen on 3&4, maybe something more Fabby? Have a look at some of the guys who post regularly in the Lounge, great pic inspiration.

Bio comes over as pretty honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"First 2 pics are great, personally not keen on 3&4, maybe something more Fabby? Have a look at some of the guys who post regularly in the Lounge, great pic inspiration.

Bio comes over as pretty honest."

Cheers Mimi. I'll see what i can do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not bad.

You could consider these:

You don't say what you're looking for or what you find attractive.

You could add more pics.

You could go to a club.

You could look at other profiles for ideas on how people present themselves.

Most of all, be yourself.

Good luck OP. "

All of the above and be patient. It take weeks if not months to get a meet. Be yourself, being nice usually helps too, plus chat in the forums and get to know people. Get a few more pics on profile, no dick pics though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks Lou

. That's a greqt idea! I'll go and have a look x

No problem at all

Best of luck here x

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

"It's not bad.

You could consider these:

You don't say what you're looking for or what you find attractive.

You could add more pics.

You could go to a club.

You could look at other profiles for ideas on how people present themselves.

Most of all, be yourself.

Good luck OP.

Thanks Sprockett! I'll update my profile now. Hope to see you at a club at some point maybe. If you recognise me then come and say hi!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not bad.

You could consider these:

You don't say what you're looking for or what you find attractive.

You could add more pics.

You could go to a club.

You could look at other profiles for ideas on how people present themselves.

Most of all, be yourself.

Good luck OP.

Ahh, cheers Paul. Great advice, will do

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By *XXDREAMMan
over a year ago

sudbury

Change your pic to mrbigdick and a dick pic to the profile pic and you’re set hahaha

Nah looks alright bro just interact more with forums people get a few pics up and get your first veri, might be wise to go to a club/party or cam to get one, then meeting/interacting becomes a lot easier

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi and welcome

I think your profile is good, maybe a few more pics would help. Something that gets the imagination going

Mostly it’s about making those first connections. Get involved in the forums, go to clubs, organised group socials. Makes friends and the fun times will follow

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Change your pic to mrbigdick and a dick pic to the profile pic and you’re set hahaha

Haha! And change the age range from 18-99 , right??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi and welcome

I think your profile is good, maybe a few more pics would help. Something that gets the imagination going

Mostly it’s about making those first connections. Get involved in the forums, go to clubs, organised group socials. Makes friends and the fun times will follow

Kx"

Thanks K! I'll try and see what i can do. Looking great yourself btw! X

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By *XXDREAMMan
over a year ago

sudbury

"Change your pic to mrbigdick and a dick pic to the profile pic and you’re set hahaha

Haha! And change the age range from 18-99 , right?? "

98 have some standards young man

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Profile help

Hey everyone. Hope you are all having a great night whatever you are up too!

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Hoping for a good evening of entertainment now that such an unusual topic has been raised!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Profile help

Hey everyone. Hope you are all having a great night whatever you are up too!

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Hoping for a good evening of entertainment now that such an unusual topic has been raised!"

Cheers?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Hey everyone. Hope you are all having a great night whatever you are up too!

Just a quick question, i wondered if there was anything i could do to help my profile at all? I know i haven't been on for too long but i'm not having that much luck lol.

Happy for any constructive criticism.

Thank you

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honest profile, honest pics it may be your age, you need more write up but they either like you or they dont, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Change your pic to mrbigdick and a dick pic to the profile pic and you’re set hahaha

Haha! And change the age range from 18-99 , right?? "

Definitely

The biggest lessons are to not get hung up on no replies to messages, people have life outside of FAB! If they don't reply straight away, give it week or so and then message again. If still no reply, leave well alone.

And don't be rude...

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Dear OP, all great advice from the gentlefolk above. Have a look around the profiles on the forum to get some inspirational ideas and to get a 'feel' of what seems to prevail.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Change your pic to mrbigdick and a dick pic to the profile pic and you’re set hahaha

Haha! And change the age range from 18-99 , right??

Definitely

And don't be rude... "

Cheers mate, thanks for the advice. Still getting to grips with FAB etiquette!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can borrow my Irish flag .. luck of the Irish lol joking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dear OP, all great advice from the gentlefolk above. Have a look around the profiles on the forum to get some inspirational ideas and to get a 'feel' of what seems to prevail.

Good luck.

Cheers Nero. Appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile was written by Stevie Wonder and photo's taken by cat....if you don't like I am completely blameless

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can borrow my Irish flag .. luck of the Irish lol joking

Haha, i'm actually 1/4 irish myself. I just don't have the accent unfortunately!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My profile was written by Stevie Wonder and photo's taken by cat....if you don't like I am completely blameless

Stevie Wonder? Your name should be Master Blaster...

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Profile pretty good just needs a little twerking as suggested above

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can borrow my Irish flag .. luck of the Irish lol joking

Haha, i'm actually 1/4 irish myself. I just don't have the accent unfortunately!"

Lol ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi op

Profile pretty good just needs a little twerking as suggested above

Good luck

Cheers Bucka!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 weeks is nothing.

Ask yourself what your expectations were on joining the site and prepare yourself to drastically realign them.

Most single men on here can wait up to a year before getting their first meet. When I first staryed using fab about 10 years ago it was more like 6 months.

Some fair better, others not so.

So if you were thinking that having signed up and knocked up a quick profile that ypu'd be beating off ladies with a shitty stick, then I have a bridge to sell you.

Just like in the real world, finding someone you fancy who fancies you in return is like trying to predict when and where lightning will strike. Rare and there's no magic formula.

Try doing a forum search on profile advice and see what others have been told and see what you can pick up from that

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"2 weeks is nothing.

Ask yourself what your expectations were on joining the site and prepare yourself to drastically realign them.

Most single men on here can wait up to a year before getting their first meet. When I first staryed using fab about 10 years ago it was more like 6 months.

Some fair better, others not so.

So if you were thinking that having signed up and knocked up a quick profile that ypu'd be beating off ladies with a shitty stick, then I have a bridge to sell you.

Just like in the real world, finding someone you fancy who fancies you in return is like trying to predict when and where lightning will strike. Rare and there's no magic formula.

Try doing a forum search on profile advice and see what others have been told and see what you can pick up from that"

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That's a lot of narrative giving the ³rd degree but of little substance.

The OP was asking for profile advice and wasn't lamenting about his 'success rate'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you have yourself verified, so thats a good start.

Maybe review your profile text and see if you can inject a little of your personality, it sounds a bit generic.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I think your profile is pretty much spot on OP. Hope your fab journey is enjoyable and you find your fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well you have yourself verified, so thats a good start.

Maybe review your profile text and see if you can inject a little of your personality, it sounds a bit generic."

Certainly will. Cheers Chestnut

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think your profile is pretty much spot on OP. Hope your fab journey is enjoyable and you find your fun x"

Cheers _ittlebird. You've got a lovely profile yourself

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Did you pick up any useful replies from the WOMEN?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a guy to a guy. Your profile looks fine to me. Maybe a few more pics as time goes by.

Good luck dude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From a guy to a guy. Your profile looks fine to me. Maybe a few more pics as time goes by.

Good luck dude.

Cheers Woody!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did you pick up any useful replies from the WOMEN?

Haha, i did

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