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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kindness and politeness doesn't cost anything.

I can never understand why people are so rude on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because like most of the internet, it’s easy to be abusive and get away with it.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

If you have received abuse, report the profile

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think people need necessarily be kind to each other but politeness isn't difficult to practice.

What seems to be the problem op?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If you have received abuse, report the profile "

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

In general it can be difficult to understand but I've personally not come across this on here. Besides once but that's just a blip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kindness and politeness doesn't cost anything.

I can never understand why people are so rude on here.

"

Can you give an example of what you feel is rude?

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"Because like most of the internet, it’s easy to be abusive and get away with it. "

Not everyone is like that. I (LB) treat anyone I interact with remotely exactly the same way I would if they were sat beside me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because like most of the internet, it’s easy to be abusive and get away with it.

Not everyone is like that. I (LB) treat anyone I interact with remotely exactly the same way I would if they were sat beside me. "

Who said everyone? Not me.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i can honestly say i havent come across this yet on here,, if there rude to you just block them and move on,,,

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"Because like most of the internet, it’s easy to be abusive and get away with it.

Not everyone is like that. I (LB) treat anyone I interact with remotely exactly the same way I would if they were sat beside me.

Who said everyone? Not me. "

You said "most" which by my understanding of our language means nearly everyone. If you'd said "some" instead then my post would have been slightly different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because like most of the internet, it’s easy to be abusive and get away with it.

Not everyone is like that. I (LB) treat anyone I interact with remotely exactly the same way I would if they were sat beside me.

Who said everyone? Not me.

You said "most" which by my understanding of our language means nearly everyone. If you'd said "some" instead then my post would have been slightly different."

Most does not mean everyone.

Why are you offended?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Kindness and politeness doesn't cost anything.

I can never understand why people are so rude on here.

"

Without more detail it's hard to comment.

On here the things you state are sometimes attributed to people who simply ignore messages, decline to meet, disagree in the forums or do nothing deserving of being labelled rude, unkind or impolite.

But it's also certainly true that there are some people in life who deserve neither kindness or politeness.

So you'll need to be more specific OP if you want meaningful responses to your statement.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kindness and politeness doesn't cost anything.

I can never understand why people are so rude on here.

"

Because it's easy to be a twat with relative anonymity

I don't strive to be kind, but I do strive to be courteous and respectful. Basically you get from me what you give out

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"Kindness and politeness doesn't cost anything.

I can never understand why people are so rude on here.

Without more detail it's hard to comment.

On here the things you state aresometimes attributed to people who simply ignore messages, decline to meet, disagree in the forums or do nothing deserving of being labelled rude, unkind or impolite.

But it's also certainly true that there are some people in life who deserve neither kindness or politeness.

So you'll need to be more specific OP if you want meaningful responses to your statement.

A,,, i agree

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I agree, manners and kindness are important, but it also depends on what you are defining as ‘rude’. If you mean someone ignoring messages or choosing to not respond, or being blocked, that is not rude, it is every Fab users prerogative.

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Kindness and politeness doesn't cost anything.

I can never understand why people are so rude on here.

"

It's not just on the internet people are fucking rude in real life too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kindness and politeness doesn't cost anything.

I can never understand why people are so rude on here.

"

It’s only about 1 in ten. So the majority are not nasty. don’t worry about it, just report them.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I think people’s perception of what is polite and kind on here depends on how they’re approaching things.

I find it really impolite when people message me without bothering to read my profile to see what I’m looking for. If I get those messages I ignore them. The person who’s messaged me probably thinks I’m rude for not replying.

It’s different depending on which angle you approach it from.

And then, obviously, there are the people who are just horrid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy to be a coward behind a keyboard, but it takes a special kind of arsehole to go out of your way to cause a stranger distress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kindness and politeness doesn't cost anything.

I can never understand why people are so rude on here.

"

Give an example of rudeness please.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"If you have received abuse, report the profile "

Do they have moderators in pubs and similar contentious environments?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have received abuse, report the profile

Do they have moderators in pubs and similar contentious environments?"

You can ask for Angela at the bar. So they say.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Kindness and politeness doesn't cost anything.

I can never understand why people are so rude on here.

"

Because they can?

They don’t owe you anything?

They are responding in kind?

You are misinterpreting what has been said or done?

I mean the list goes on….

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