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Orgasms & how long does the 'average man' last.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I was reading a Tantra book and apparently the average man last 3 minutes in bed before he fires all missles. Shocking. Not so long ago we were having this discussion at work and one of the men told me he ejaculates in a matter of seconds. Like literally. His excuse was his partner is religious, thus sex is a chore(a sin one night say). However from speaking to the men it does seem that a few minutes seems to be the norm. Which is incredibly frustrating for the woman. Well I'd be very annoyed if my partner squinted in a few minutes and then couldn't perform till hours later. Why I'd say she should be sent to the naughty corner, and be given a pet talk.

Anyway that's my take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not about lasting its about enjoying yourself who said theres only supposed to be 1 bombing run just reload and go again

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Sometimes all we want is a quickie and get incredibly bored of the 'studs' that bore us for hours on end.

There's plenty else can be done while someone recovers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 minutes??? Does that include foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 mins sounds about right for me but before that I've spent a good while going down on the wife, I make sure she orgasms first then I pump n dump.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long does the average woman last?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D’ya know something? I get a bit fed up reading about how long a man ‘should last’. It’s a load of old pony, given that every man is as unique as the next. There is no one right answer to it.

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By *o againTV/TS
over a year ago

swansea

Unfortunately I'm a meds that don't let me cum. And desensitised to old boy. So takes at lease 30mins to get that build up feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"D’ya know something? I get a bit fed up reading about how long a man ‘should last’. It’s a load of old pony, given that every man is as unique as the next. There is no one right answer to it.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"How long does the average woman last?"

I think they're still waiting... thus the faking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately I'm a meds that don't let me cum. And desensitised to old boy. So takes at lease 30mins to get that build up feeling."

I know, you've gotta have minimum 20 minutes to get high. That's when you ride the wave of bliss without falling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes me ages. If it's a quick one I'll end things with my own hands while she's doing some sexy stuff to me

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By *XXDREAMMan
over a year ago

sudbury

Generally too fucking long

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ever seen countdown? The part where they countdown. With that all iconic tune.

That.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"So I was reading a Tantra book and apparently the average man last 3 minutes in bed before he fires all missles. Shocking. Not so long ago we were having this discussion at work and one of the men told me he ejaculates in a matter of seconds. Like literally. His excuse was his partner is religious, thus sex is a chore(a sin one night say). However from speaking to the men it does seem that a few minutes seems to be the norm. Which is incredibly frustrating for the woman. Well I'd be very annoyed if my partner squinted in a few minutes and then couldn't perform till hours later. Why I'd say she should be sent to the naughty corner, and be given a pet talk.

Anyway that's my take. "

A lot of men ( in London) are just too tense and stiff and un-relaxed when it come to sex. I can tell.

Some of the best penetrative sex I've has with a man is the slow coital alignment technique. It slows the man down and speeds the woman up and I can tell how much of a release it is for men.

The porn hammering will release some tension but for sure it will build back up quickly after because it's only releasing a small part. And isn't relaxing at all.

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