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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've become what most members here despise, a lurker!!

This wasn't intentional, but I now come here look at the few hot pics my none paying membership allows me, post the odd comment in forums that tend to go unnoticed.

I daren't approach ladies as being bi is a turn off to most, ladies are pickier than guys, and even the guys are interested. This isn't a ploy to get people to tell me to stay, just wondering if I go now before I begin to get hooked in further without much luck. Or if I should stay and stop being such a negative prick?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Just stay lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you think you should do...an indecisive man be it bi, straight or whatever is a turn off due an incapacitated ability

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

LH

Define luck op ?

There's a whole lot more to this site than just "getting lucky"

Relax, put your feet up and join in the chats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don’t get the line being bi is a turn off

I am bi here and I have 0 problems meets and commcating with woman

I alway see this like and think nope definitely not true

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I really don’t get the line being bi is a turn off

I am bi here and I have 0 problems meets and commcating with woman

I alway see this like and think nope definitely not true "

I like bi men too

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"I've become what most members here despise, a lurker!!

This wasn't intentional, but I now come here look at the few hot pics my none paying membership allows me, post the odd comment in forums that tend to go unnoticed.

I daren't approach ladies as being bi is a turn off to most, ladies are pickier than guys, and even the guys are interested. This isn't a ploy to get people to tell me to stay, just wondering if I go now before I begin to get hooked in further without much luck. Or if I should stay and stop being such a negative prick?"

I pay very close attention to men who put themselves down excessively in general. I notice this in women also but I don't want to sexually touch women or be sexually touched by women.

Sex-positive women like me will play with you but with excessive negative talk about yourself can be draining on anyone. The only people this wouldn't drain is a highly trained and skilled Femme Domme.

The average straight or bisexual woman wants a confident man.

Unless you are specifically looking for a dominatrix....in which case you would be better on fetish and kink sites.

I don't need a penis to have multiple orgasms but I do need a man who is 8 out of 10 sexually confident with a 5 out of 10 and above level of sexual skill.

I rate myself 8 out of 10 in sexual confidence, 8 out of 10 in sexual experience and 7 out of 10 in sexual skill/technique. I'd rank a porn 10-year porn star at a 10 out of 10 in all.

I say work on your self-confidence and self-esteem and ego which will help in your on Fab life and off Fab life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really don’t get the line being bi is a turn off

I am bi here and I have 0 problems meets and commcating with woman

I alway see this like and think nope definitely not true

I like bi men too "

there is a small minority that aren’t in to bi men but I find it’s not as wide spread as most make it out to be

Everyone has they preference and that’s perfectly fine by me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I try and engage in forums from time to time, I'm not brilliant with words online and have zero self confidence. I work mainly with women, and I can literally say anything because I know them and have no interest in any of them sexually. I have had one meet with a guy and some contact with ladies. I guess I need to stop being silly, just sit back and enjoy whatever may be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then you will have done what i cannot so full credit to you good luck on what you choose also is that short for birmingham?

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"I really don’t get the line being bi is a turn off

I am bi here and I have 0 problems meets and commcating with woman

I alway see this like and think nope definitely not true "

You come across as way more confident than the OP.

I like cock and a man's body and his own personality with a side of confidence. Doesn't matter if there's a traditionally feminine face or feminine attire.

I'm not saying a man can't have insecurities. ( i mean who doesn't at this point. thanks internet) but your insecurities shouldn't be the only thing people thing about you in your first interactions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for the positive feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If what you’re doing isn’t working for you here. Change it up and see if it brings you more interaction.

I’m not buying that you being bisexual is the barrier to you meeting people. That’s a copout of an excuse to cover up some other reason.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Do what makes you happy. If that's not to be found here, then take a break or go.

Being bi is not always an impediment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will redo my profile and be more positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay

It doesn't sound like it's the place itself that's causing you anything negative, and we all have ups and downs in life. Just log off for a bit when you feel somewhat irritated by stuff. Nothing stays the same.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"I try and engage in forums from time to time, I'm not brilliant with words online and have zero self confidence. I work mainly with women, and I can literally say anything because I know them and have no interest in any of them sexually. I have had one meet with a guy and some contact with ladies. I guess I need to stop being silly, just sit back and enjoy whatever may be"

It's not silly.( that's another statement of you putting down yourself) None of this social stuff comes naturally to me. I had to learn and practice and I still fuck up from time to time.

My take is feel the fear and do it anyway or just do what I want/need ( bar physically or psychologically traumatizing anyone) and not give a shit.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Should you stay or should you go.?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Two months on the site is nothing, I’d be surprised if you had any verifications unless you were a regular at a club. Also I’d suggest you join the other site with Guys in the title.

Some women or couples will not be interested in you due to your bisexuality, but some others maybe put off for a variety of other reasons.

If things aren’t working try something new, different pictures or text on your profile. Go to a social or club, admittedly they’re not for everyone.

One thing that’s guaranteed, feeling sorry for yourself isn’t going to garner yourself to anyone on here. Confidence, respect and an ability to either laugh at yourself or be humorous in general will help your chances.

Good luck and it’s the weekend crack open a beer and chill

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"I really don’t get the line being bi is a turn off

I am bi here and I have 0 problems meets and commcating with woman

I alway see this like and think nope definitely not true

I like bi men too

there is a small minority that aren’t in to bi men but I find it’s not as wide spread as most make it out to be

Everyone has they preference and that’s perfectly fine by me

"

Sadly I see most of these complaints outside of London and the big cities...so I don't know if people are more conservative ( not the tories) or change-adverse/traditional family orientated outside of the big cities. There is a well-attended bi-night every week in central London and people come from all over London to attend and it's free for women/MTF? and there's none of the alleged "picky women" trope.

The fact that it's over 300 men to 139 women in a five-mile radius in London probably drops dramatically in smaller populations within a 30-mile radius.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just stay mate get involved give it a little while, then reassess where your at with it all..if you don't approach anyone, how will you learn that it's OK to.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

You will be back within weeks. Nobody ever leaves, but they don’t tell you this when you obliviously sign in.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Then you will have done what i cannot so full credit to you good luck on what you choose also is that short for birmingham?"

Click on quote so we know who you are responding to. 5 weeks is nothing in Fab terms.

It was slow going for me until I started going to the clubs. The quality of the men in the clubs is far better than random individual meets as far as I can tell. And when I say quality, I mean fun, confident, interesting personality, good social skills with men and women and other genders but highly respectful and capable of handling disappointment and rejection appropriately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then you will have done what i cannot so full credit to you good luck on what you choose also is that short for birmingham?

Click on quote so we know who you are responding to. 5 weeks is nothing in Fab terms.

It was slow going for me until I started going to the clubs. The quality of the men in the clubs is far better than random individual meets as far as I can tell. And when I say quality, I mean fun, confident, interesting personality, good social skills with men and women and other genders but highly respectful and capable of handling disappointment and rejection appropriately."

im good it was in response to the op

Im good as far as advise goes im not in need and as for clubs i think id rather trap my willy in a door and have someone set fire to the trapped end than go to a club

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Two months on the site is nothing, I’d be surprised if you had any verifications unless you were a regular at a club. Also I’d suggest you join the other site with Guys in the title.

Some women or couples will not be interested in you due to your bisexuality, but some others maybe put off for a variety of other reasons.

If things aren’t working try something new, different pictures or text on your profile. Go to a social or club, admittedly they’re not for everyone.

One thing that’s guaranteed, feeling sorry for yourself isn’t going to garner yourself to anyone on here. Confidence, respect and an ability to either laugh at yourself or be humorous in general will help your chances.

Good luck and it’s the weekend crack open a beer and chill "

Ooozzing Confidence in your profile Steph!

I mean I went to a club and didn't play but I met men who I would consider playing with and got their Fab name and then can meet up away from the club.

Did the same thing at a social last night at a vanilla pub in Central London.

I love a natter anyway and I find people interesting so I forget all about my self-consciousness most of the time when I'm focusing on other people!

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee


"I've become what most members here despise, a lurker!!

This wasn't intentional, but I now come here look at the few hot pics my none paying membership allows me, post the odd comment in forums that tend to go unnoticed.

I daren't approach ladies as being bi is a turn off to most, ladies are pickier than guys, and even the guys are interested. This isn't a ploy to get people to tell me to stay, just wondering if I go now before I begin to get hooked in further without much luck. Or if I should stay and stop being such a negative prick?"

From reading this, it doesn't sound like you put much effort in. Everyone gets knocked back on here at times can be hard to have the confidence to keep at it. The worst that can happen though is your message will be ignored, which again happens to all. Have a look at other men's profiles and try to get ideas on how to improve your own. Having good pics and something about yourself is important. Your profile is your chance to sell yourself. So I'd say either put the effort in or go.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Then you will have done what i cannot so full credit to you good luck on what you choose also is that short for birmingham?

Click on quote so we know who you are responding to. 5 weeks is nothing in Fab terms.

It was slow going for me until I started going to the clubs. The quality of the men in the clubs is far better than random individual meets as far as I can tell. And when I say quality, I mean fun, confident, interesting personality, good social skills with men and women and other genders but highly respectful and capable of handling disappointment and rejection appropriately.im good it was in response to the op

Im good as far as advise goes im not in need and as for clubs i think id rather trap my willy in a door and have someone set fire to the trapped end than go to a club "

Lol! ok but don't complain then. Lol!

I try not to complain about men on Fab. I learned how to handle them. Swift kick to the arse, ego strokes, teasing, challenging or asking them out to a nice social to relax. Or all of the above for some of them. Lol!

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

There is no harm having a break or coming back when you are ready to do so. Just reinvent yourself and introduce yourself again and there will be some people.

When Tom has a beak he usually states on his profile ..

'Tom knows how this works. He has been on here before and is not out to shag the whole site. Please verify Tom if we have previously met'

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Fab members despise lurkers??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've become what most members here despise, a lurker!!

This wasn't intentional, but I now come here look at the few hot pics my none paying membership allows me, post the odd comment in forums that tend to go unnoticed.

I daren't approach ladies as being bi is a turn off to most, ladies are pickier than guys, and even the guys are interested. This isn't a ploy to get people to tell me to stay, just wondering if I go now before I begin to get hooked in further without much luck. Or if I should stay and stop being such a negative prick?"

OP stay strong , I / we are Lurkers and it’s kinda nice . Don’t worry about being ignored on posts etc , we like it as we can say something controversial and get away with it . Sending you positive vibes x

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

LH


"I've become what most members here despise, a lurker!!

This wasn't intentional, but I now come here look at the few hot pics my none paying membership allows me, post the odd comment in forums that tend to go unnoticed.

I daren't approach ladies as being bi is a turn off to most, ladies are pickier than guys, and even the guys are interested. This isn't a ploy to get people to tell me to stay, just wondering if I go now before I begin to get hooked in further without much luck. Or if I should stay and stop being such a negative prick?

I pay very close attention to men who put themselves down excessively in general. I notice this in women also but I don't want to sexually touch women or be sexually touched by women.

Sex-positive women like me will play with you but with excessive negative talk about yourself can be draining on anyone. The only people this wouldn't drain is a highly trained and skilled Femme Domme.

The average straight or bisexual woman wants a confident man.

Unless you are specifically looking for a dominatrix....in which case you would be better on fetish and kink sites.

I don't need a penis to have multiple orgasms but I do need a man who is 8 out of 10 sexually confident with a 5 out of 10 and above level of sexual skill.

I rate myself 8 out of 10 in sexual confidence, 8 out of 10 in sexual experience and 7 out of 10 in sexual skill/technique. I'd rank a porn 10-year porn star at a 10 out of 10 in all.

I say work on your self-confidence and self-esteem and ego which will help in your on Fab life and off Fab life."

Nail on the head

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"I've become what most members here despise, a lurker!!

This wasn't intentional, but I now come here look at the few hot pics my none paying membership allows me, post the odd comment in forums that tend to go unnoticed.

I daren't approach ladies as being bi is a turn off to most, ladies are pickier than guys, and even the guys are interested. This isn't a ploy to get people to tell me to stay, just wondering if I go now before I begin to get hooked in further without much luck. Or if I should stay and stop being such a negative prick?

From reading this, it doesn't sound like you put much effort in. Everyone gets knocked back on here at times can be hard to have the confidence to keep at it. The worst that can happen though is your message will be ignored, which again happens to all. Have a look at other men's profiles and try to get ideas on how to improve your own. Having good pics and something about yourself is important. Your profile is your chance to sell yourself. So I'd say either put the effort in or go. "

Shogun here has put in the effort in his profile to attract this woman here...me.

I didn't even see if he was bi or bi curious. All I know my vagina is willing to find out but thorough exploration. Lol! based solely off those pics.

To the OP: The majority of Bi/straight women I know are not into men's bum holes So your bumhole pics won't attract them. I'm one of the few happy to peg/learn to peg.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"There is no harm having a break or coming back when you are ready to do so. Just reinvent yourself and introduce yourself again and there will be some people.

When Tom has a beak he usually states on his profile ..

'Tom knows how this works. He has been on here before and is not out to shag the whole site. Please verify Tom if we have previously met'"

Tom here I've never met but since he's a regular Forumite, I will find his interest in popular news good conversation to have. He always lets me know when there's a local outrage at Waitrose or Sainsbury's lol!

Meanwhile, the only thing outrageous in my life are energy bills and the cost of my sports rehabilitation!!! My bank account is crying and I'm off work!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Fab members despise lurkers?? "

Lol! I'm too me to be a lurker. As a child who was raised to be seen and not heard, I'm now a raving ( lunatic?) loud adult. You see me and you hear me coming a mile away. Lol! It's unlikely to change so those who need discretion are better off not approaching me.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"I've become what most members here despise, a lurker!!

This wasn't intentional, but I now come here look at the few hot pics my none paying membership allows me, post the odd comment in forums that tend to go unnoticed.

I daren't approach ladies as being bi is a turn off to most, ladies are pickier than guys, and even the guys are interested. This isn't a ploy to get people to tell me to stay, just wondering if I go now before I begin to get hooked in further without much luck. Or if I should stay and stop being such a negative prick?

I pay very close attention to men who put themselves down excessively in general. I notice this in women also but I don't want to sexually touch women or be sexually touched by women.

Sex-positive women like me will play with you but with excessive negative talk about yourself can be draining on anyone. The only people this wouldn't drain is a highly trained and skilled Femme Domme.

The average straight or bisexual woman wants a confident man.

Unless you are specifically looking for a dominatrix....in which case you would be better on fetish and kink sites.

I don't need a penis to have multiple orgasms but I do need a man who is 8 out of 10 sexually confident with a 5 out of 10 and above level of sexual skill.

I rate myself 8 out of 10 in sexual confidence, 8 out of 10 in sexual experience and 7 out of 10 in sexual skill/technique. I'd rank a porn 10-year porn star at a 10 out of 10 in all.

I say work on your self-confidence and self-esteem and ego which will help in your on Fab life and off Fab life.

Nail on the head "

As much as I like..um..nailing/hammering?...i wasn't trying to nail the OP. lol!

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By *aximum_funMan
over a year ago

West Herts


"The fact that it's over 300 men to 139 women in a five-mile radius in London probably drops dramatically in smaller populations within a 30-mile radius."

I have come to the conclusion that most people in the home counties don't have sex!*

*Not really, but there is definitely an activity drop off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no harm having a break or coming back when you are ready to do so. Just reinvent yourself and introduce yourself again and there will be some people.

When Tom has a beak he usually states on his profile ..

'Tom knows how this works. He has been on here before and is not out to shag the whole site. Please verify Tom if we have previously met'"

Will fill in later

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"The fact that it's over 300 men to 139 women in a five-mile radius in London probably drops dramatically in smaller populations within a 30-mile radius.

I have come to the conclusion that most people in the home counties don't have sex!*

*Not really, but there is definitely an activity drop off"

Mate, they are all heading into London for their debauchery. I'm in a club 20-30 minutes drive from my house or an hour on the tube meeting people who come down from Luton West from Reading and up from Brigton of all places!

I don't know if it's the anonymity that London provides that they don't want their Home counties neighbours and colleagues finding out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really don’t get the line being bi is a turn off

I am bi here and I have 0 problems meets and commcating with woman

I alway see this like and think nope definitely not true

You come across as way more confident than the OP.

I like cock and a man's body and his own personality with a side of confidence. Doesn't matter if there's a traditionally feminine face or feminine attire.

I'm not saying a man can't have insecurities. ( i mean who doesn't at this point. thanks internet) but your insecurities shouldn't be the only thing people thing about you in your first interactions."

Thanks and yes it really shouldn’t be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact that it's over 300 men to 139 women in a five-mile radius in London probably drops dramatically in smaller populations within a 30-mile radius.

I have come to the conclusion that most people in the home counties don't have sex!*

*Not really, but there is definitely an activity drop off

Mate, they are all heading into London for their debauchery. I'm in a club 20-30 minutes drive from my house or an hour on the tube meeting people who come down from Luton West from Reading and up from Brigton of all places!

I don't know if it's the anonymity that London provides that they don't want their Home counties neighbours and colleagues finding out."

Norfolk is it’s own little Island

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By *aximum_funMan
over a year ago

West Herts


"The fact that it's over 300 men to 139 women in a five-mile radius in London probably drops dramatically in smaller populations within a 30-mile radius.

I have come to the conclusion that most people in the home counties don't have sex!*

*Not really, but there is definitely an activity drop off

Mate, they are all heading into London for their debauchery. I'm in a club 20-30 minutes drive from my house or an hour on the tube meeting people who come down from Luton West from Reading and up from Brigton of all places!

I don't know if it's the anonymity that London provides that they don't want their Home counties neighbours and colleagues finding out."

*Makes notes, boards train*

It may be that, I live in Herts and it is very much a couple, 2.4 kids and half a Labrador kind of town!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then you will have done what i cannot so full credit to you good luck on what you choose also is that short for birmingham?

Click on quote so we know who you are responding to. 5 weeks is nothing in Fab terms.

It was slow going for me until I started going to the clubs. The quality of the men in the clubs is far better than random individual meets as far as I can tell. And when I say quality, I mean fun, confident, interesting personality, good social skills with men and women and other genders but highly respectful and capable of handling disappointment and rejection appropriately.im good it was in response to the op

Im good as far as advise goes im not in need and as for clubs i think id rather trap my willy in a door and have someone set fire to the trapped end than go to a club

Lol! ok but don't complain then. Lol!

I try not to complain about men on Fab. I learned how to handle them. Swift kick to the arse, ego strokes, teasing, challenging or asking them out to a nice social to relax. Or all of the above for some of them. Lol!"

im not complaining im saying i cant leave its the lotus flower of the internet

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"The fact that it's over 300 men to 139 women in a five-mile radius in London probably drops dramatically in smaller populations within a 30-mile radius.

I have come to the conclusion that most people in the home counties don't have sex!*

*Not really, but there is definitely an activity drop off

Mate, they are all heading into London for their debauchery. I'm in a club 20-30 minutes drive from my house or an hour on the tube meeting people who come down from Luton West from Reading and up from Brigton of all places!

I don't know if it's the anonymity that London provides that they don't want their Home counties neighbours and colleagues finding out.

Norfolk is it’s own little Island "

I always envisage everyone in Norfolk connected to Sandringham. I know logically that's not true but I think everyone knows someone who works there or for there.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Then you will have done what i cannot so full credit to you good luck on what you choose also is that short for birmingham?

Click on quote so we know who you are responding to. 5 weeks is nothing in Fab terms.

It was slow going for me until I started going to the clubs. The quality of the men in the clubs is far better than random individual meets as far as I can tell. And when I say quality, I mean fun, confident, interesting personality, good social skills with men and women and other genders but highly respectful and capable of handling disappointment and rejection appropriately.im good it was in response to the op

Im good as far as advise goes im not in need and as for clubs i think id rather trap my willy in a door and have someone set fire to the trapped end than go to a club

Lol! ok but don't complain then. Lol!

I try not to complain about men on Fab. I learned how to handle them. Swift kick to the arse, ego strokes, teasing, challenging or asking them out to a nice social to relax. Or all of the above for some of them. Lol!im not complaining im saying i cant leave its the lotus flower of the internet "

I wish more men would treat women's genitalia like a Lotus flower but you know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its up to you how you wish to engage with the site.. But sometimes taking a break can give one a fresh perspective

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

If you gotta go, you gotta go... Doesn't have to be forever. If it isn't fun... Maybe a break for a while.?

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee


"I've become what most members here despise, a lurker!!

This wasn't intentional, but I now come here look at the few hot pics my none paying membership allows me, post the odd comment in forums that tend to go unnoticed.

I daren't approach ladies as being bi is a turn off to most, ladies are pickier than guys, and even the guys are interested. This isn't a ploy to get people to tell me to stay, just wondering if I go now before I begin to get hooked in further without much luck. Or if I should stay and stop being such a negative prick?

From reading this, it doesn't sound like you put much effort in. Everyone gets knocked back on here at times can be hard to have the confidence to keep at it. The worst that can happen though is your message will be ignored, which again happens to all. Have a look at other men's profiles and try to get ideas on how to improve your own. Having good pics and something about yourself is important. Your profile is your chance to sell yourself. So I'd say either put the effort in or go.

Shogun here has put in the effort in his profile to attract this woman here...me.

I didn't even see if he was bi or bi curious. All I know my vagina is willing to find out but thorough exploration. Lol! based solely off those pics.

To the OP: The majority of Bi/straight women I know are not into men's bum holes So your bumhole pics won't attract them. I'm one of the few happy to peg/learn to peg.

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Wow, thank you very much lol. Things you love to read A thorough exploration would be good. A meet n greet sort of thing!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na sod off, do one. Only joking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you need time out just hide your profile until your ready to return to fab

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

We all need a break from here.

I agree to what's already been said - hide your profile and don't come online

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"I've become what most members here despise, a lurker!!

This wasn't intentional, but I now come here look at the few hot pics my none paying membership allows me, post the odd comment in forums that tend to go unnoticed.

I daren't approach ladies as being bi is a turn off to most, ladies are pickier than guys, and even the guys are interested. This isn't a ploy to get people to tell me to stay, just wondering if I go now before I begin to get hooked in further without much luck. Or if I should stay and stop being such a negative prick?

From reading this, it doesn't sound like you put much effort in. Everyone gets knocked back on here at times can be hard to have the confidence to keep at it. The worst that can happen though is your message will be ignored, which again happens to all. Have a look at other men's profiles and try to get ideas on how to improve your own. Having good pics and something about yourself is important. Your profile is your chance to sell yourself. So I'd say either put the effort in or go.

Shogun here has put in the effort in his profile to attract this woman here...me.

I didn't even see if he was bi or bi curious. All I know my vagina is willing to find out but thorough exploration. Lol! based solely off those pics.

To the OP: The majority of Bi/straight women I know are not into men's bum holes So your bumhole pics won't attract them. I'm one of the few happy to peg/learn to peg.

Wow, thank you very much lol. Things you love to read A thorough exploration would be good. A meet n greet sort of thing!!!!"

My vagina wishes it lived closer to Dundee. My head and my body is like " we never leave London unless we are on a plane" Lol!

It's a constant battle to balance my vagina, head and body. lol! Head and body are always spoiling vagina's fun!

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

You are an adult! Decide yourself

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee


"I've become what most members here despise, a lurker!!

This wasn't intentional, but I now come here look at the few hot pics my none paying membership allows me, post the odd comment in forums that tend to go unnoticed.

I daren't approach ladies as being bi is a turn off to most, ladies are pickier than guys, and even the guys are interested. This isn't a ploy to get people to tell me to stay, just wondering if I go now before I begin to get hooked in further without much luck. Or if I should stay and stop being such a negative prick?

From reading this, it doesn't sound like you put much effort in. Everyone gets knocked back on here at times can be hard to have the confidence to keep at it. The worst that can happen though is your message will be ignored, which again happens to all. Have a look at other men's profiles and try to get ideas on how to improve your own. Having good pics and something about yourself is important. Your profile is your chance to sell yourself. So I'd say either put the effort in or go.

Shogun here has put in the effort in his profile to attract this woman here...me.

I didn't even see if he was bi or bi curious. All I know my vagina is willing to find out but thorough exploration. Lol! based solely off those pics.

To the OP: The majority of Bi/straight women I know are not into men's bum holes So your bumhole pics won't attract them. I'm one of the few happy to peg/learn to peg.

Wow, thank you very much lol. Things you love to read A thorough exploration would be good. A meet n greet sort of thing!!!!

My vagina wishes it lived closer to Dundee. My head and my body is like " we never leave London unless we are on a plane" Lol!

It's a constant battle to balance my vagina, head and body. lol! Head and body are always spoiling vagina's fun!"

Haha, nothing should get in the way of a vaginas fun. Happy vagina, happy head! At least that's what I'm going with lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have edited my profile and will work on getting some better pics

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I've become what most members here despise, a lurker!!

This wasn't intentional, but I now come here look at the few hot pics my none paying membership allows me, post the odd comment in forums that tend to go unnoticed.

I daren't approach ladies as being bi is a turn off to most, ladies are pickier than guys, and even the guys are interested. This isn't a ploy to get people to tell me to stay, just wondering if I go now before I begin to get hooked in further without much luck. Or if I should stay and stop being such a negative prick?"

you're already hooked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've become what most members here despise, a lurker!!

This wasn't intentional, but I now come here look at the few hot pics my none paying membership allows me, post the odd comment in forums that tend to go unnoticed.

I daren't approach ladies as being bi is a turn off to most, ladies are pickier than guys, and even the guys are interested. This isn't a ploy to get people to tell me to stay, just wondering if I go now before I begin to get hooked in further without much luck. Or if I should stay and stop being such a negative prick?you're already hooked "

With such wonderful pics, nice friendly people it's hard to stay away.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I've become what most members here despise, a lurker!!

This wasn't intentional, but I now come here look at the few hot pics my none paying membership allows me, post the odd comment in forums that tend to go unnoticed.

I daren't approach ladies as being bi is a turn off to most, ladies are pickier than guys, and even the guys are interested. This isn't a ploy to get people to tell me to stay, just wondering if I go now before I begin to get hooked in further without much luck. Or if I should stay and stop being such a negative prick?

From reading this, it doesn't sound like you put much effort in. Everyone gets knocked back on here at times can be hard to have the confidence to keep at it. The worst that can happen though is your message will be ignored, which again happens to all. Have a look at other men's profiles and try to get ideas on how to improve your own. Having good pics and something about yourself is important. Your profile is your chance to sell yourself. So I'd say either put the effort in or go.

Shogun here has put in the effort in his profile to attract this woman here...me.

I didn't even see if he was bi or bi curious. All I know my vagina is willing to find out but thorough exploration. Lol! based solely off those pics.

To the OP: The majority of Bi/straight women I know are not into men's bum holes So your bumhole pics won't attract them. I'm one of the few happy to peg/learn to peg.

Wow, thank you very much lol. Things you love to read A thorough exploration would be good. A meet n greet sort of thing!!!!

My vagina wishes it lived closer to Dundee. My head and my body is like " we never leave London unless we are on a plane" Lol!

It's a constant battle to balance my vagina, head and body. lol! Head and body are always spoiling vagina's fun!"

Think independence for vaginas

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