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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many times do you try before you give up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried 189 times with Rex and I am still trying because he's like L'Oréal and he's worth it.

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By *i1971Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

With one person? Just the once.

With swinging generally? Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying that, if I’m stuck on a Mario level I’ll try hundreds of times

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Once is the correct answer when it comes to a particular person rejecting you.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"How many times do you try before you give up? "

If you're talking about one particular person, never badger- if she says no or doesn't reply, it's the same as a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

27637 times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't try, manoeuvre them into a position that they ask you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't respond to my faf message they are dead to me..

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Once. Always. With one particular recent exception where I lost my mind and stupidly tried about three times. Unsurprisingly, it didn’t go well!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you make a genuine effort and it’s rebuffed, then stop there. If you’re not convinced you have done yourself justice, then maybe several weeks later try once more… maybe…

The best advice I guess is to put in a good effort each time, and just try the once. A no is a no, and that’s ok!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times do you try before you give up? "

For what?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"How many times do you try before you give up?

For what? "

^^ this. It makes a big difference OP

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Never "

This.

If you never try, you never fail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never

This.

If you never try, you never fail. "

Exactly

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By *illybeachboyMan
over a year ago

Guernsey

Rejection is the norm isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times do you try before you give up?

For what?

^^ this. It makes a big difference OP"

It does.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Unless you’re trying to break into show business, once.

No means no. Whatever the question. Whatever the audience. Wherever the forum.

No reply also means no (which still means no).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't reply then only 1 message, but then I get confused by the people on friends list that never speak to you but still like your pics even though they never replied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0.5

I think about liking them and if they can’t pick up on my vibes they can fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless you’re trying to break into show business, once.

No means no. Whatever the question. Whatever the audience. Wherever the forum.

No reply also means no (which still means no)."

And that's the last time I'm sharing my traffic cone with you

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"Unless you’re trying to break into show business, once.

No means no. Whatever the question. Whatever the audience. Wherever the forum.

No reply also means no (which still means no).

And that's the last time I'm sharing my traffic cone with you "

It’s your turn to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless you’re trying to break into show business, once.

No means no. Whatever the question. Whatever the audience. Wherever the forum.

No reply also means no (which still means no).

And that's the last time I'm sharing my traffic cone with you

It’s your turn to reply "

I do it in silence... apparently it's a mean and moody thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once is the correct answer when it comes to a particular person rejecting you."

This.

If they then later change their mind, I’m happy enough to chat and see if there’s any connection there to meet and play, but they would have to contact me.

It’s not rocket science, and too many people on here get hung up about the fact that not everybody likes everybody else enough to want to get naked.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

685 times.

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By *un-n-frolicsMan
over a year ago

London

But apparently some people get too many messages to notice them all. Why not one more polite message a few weeks later?

Or they might have been too busy to respond the first time, and the next time you could get lucky, catch them in the right mood.

I’m also part of a couple’s profile. We don’t mind another message. Normally ignore them, but not always. I bet the occasional second attempt works, and what’s the harm in trying?

But always be polite, and charming if possible.

The worst, though, is a second message within a few hours: “not interested?” “No?” They won’t get a reply, or maybe some sarcastic advice if I’m feeling generous.

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By *orthwhile27Man
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

Once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One shot one chance

Blow it and no mater the circumstances

Never give another

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By *un-n-frolicsMan
over a year ago

London


"One shot one chance

Blow it and no mater the circumstances

Never give another "

Why not?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

More than 3 times and it's harassment. You might want to remember that.

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By *un-n-frolicsMan
over a year ago

London


"More than 3 times and it's harassment. You might want to remember that."

In law? Is that what it says in the Equality Act? Not that I would.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Depends who with if it's a whole never give up but anything else theirs limits

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"More than 3 times and it's harassment. You might want to remember that.

In law? Is that what it says in the Equality Act? Not that I would. "

That's what the police told me. Not sure what the equality act has to do with it?

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"How many times do you try before you give up? "

Once never re visit a oast mistake

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"More than 3 times and it's harassment. You might want to remember that."

But if they respond in a positive way do you start from 1 again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until you get a restraining order.

Then you'll know you tried your best. As they say God loves a trier

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"How many times do you try before you give up? "
Don't give up mickey just think what minnie would say

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By *ittall2020Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Just give up and only come on here for the forums & cams, saves wasting a load of time

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

½

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"½"

You’re certainly pushing the boundaries there

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Rejection isn't nice, but you get used to it after a few hundred times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One shot one chance

Blow it and no mater the circumstances

Never give another "

If at first you don’t succeed, give up! - Homer Simpson.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Once

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Once upon a time"
ok continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rejection isn't nice, but you get used to it after a few hundred times. "

Ahh bless young man chin up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once.... Place a note against the profile and move on.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Once. If someone doesn’t want me I sure as hell won’t want them, no matter who or what the circumstance

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they said no once, you should respect that.. Always

No, means no under all circumstances and situations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they said no once, you should respect that.. Always

No, means no under all circumstances and situations "

Even when someone says ‘pull my finger?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they said no once, you should respect that.. Always

No, means no under all circumstances and situations

Even when someone says ‘pull my finger?’ "

Are you joking me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive not failed, just found 1000 ways that didn't work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they said no once, you should respect that.. Always

No, means no under all circumstances and situations

Even when someone says ‘pull my finger?’

Are you joking me "

Go on. Pull it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they said no once, you should respect that.. Always

No, means no under all circumstances and situations

Even when someone says ‘pull my finger?’

Are you joking me

Go on. Pull it? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they said no once, you should respect that.. Always

No, means no under all circumstances and situations

Even when someone says ‘pull my finger?’

Are you joking me

Go on. Pull it?

"

This doesn’t work by text does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally try to understand what stories people's profiles tell before even attempting.

For example, the demographic of verified meets compared to the actual age range preference. And, the sexes of meets compared to actual sexual preferences on the profile. The profile text also goes a long way in helping my decisions.

If my analysis of their profile doesn't show favourable signs I don't bother myself at all. If it does, once and call it quits.

You can't convince anyone into forming an attraction to you.

Tip: avoid rude sounding profiles and those that compel you to convince them - it's not an audition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive not failed, just found 1000 ways that didn't work "

No such thing as failure, just a lesson learned

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

If at first you don't succeed, give up.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Once, because you risk becoming a pest, otherwise.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"If they said no once, you should respect that.. Always

No, means no under all circumstances and situations

Even when someone says ‘pull my finger?’

Are you joking me

Go on. Pull it? "

As I read this I parped!! Spooky….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive not failed, just found 1000 ways that didn't work

No such thing as failure, just a lesson learned "

Lessons to be carried forwaed for optimum outcome lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the details if it matters to me tho i never give up

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"½

You’re certainly pushing the boundaries there "

•

Boundaries? One of these days I shall make a break for the border!

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