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"Better off asking r/BDSMAdvice on Reddit " What's wrong with asking here ? | |||
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"Better off asking r/BDSMAdvice on Reddit What's wrong with asking here ?" Absolutely nothing. You are asking for opinions, preferences and dislikes That's what the Forum is all about. You crack on... | |||
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"Better off asking r/BDSMAdvice on Reddit What's wrong with asking here ? Absolutely nothing. You are asking for opinions, preferences and dislikes That's what the Forum is all about. You crack on..." Thought maybe I was missing something | |||
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"I recently had a discussion that lasted almost an hour with my best friend in which she expressed to me that she absolutely hates being called a ‘slut’ or ‘whore’ while having sex. I honestly thought it was just dirty talk but she stated that to her it was degrading and she didn’t like it. Me well I love to be called a a slut or whore. Conversely, she mentioned that she loves it when during sex her partner calls her a ‘naughty girl’ or ‘bad little girl’ She also stated that her absolute favorite is when he considers her a ‘good girl.’ Finally, she said she loved the word ‘daddy’ during sex, we joked about how often that term is used in porn and she said for some reason it turns her on. As do things like ‘sir’ during sex; stating it really turns her on if she responds to yes/no questions with ‘yes sir’ or ‘no sir’. So ladies what word(s) do you like to be called during sex and conversely what word(s) do you not like to be called during sex?" My FWB is a teacher. I thought one time I would yank his chain. So I called him sir and said I had been bad and he needed to punish me. Well....fireworks. The end I like Sir and Mr. I don't use daddy because that's just too weird for my neurodivergent brain considering my real Daddy is still alive. I suppose if I was in the BDSM scenario, I would have no problem with master. Slut, Whore, Bitch and Sl@ve would probably mess with my neurodivergent brain too much. Being called girl and sub is ok. I'm a switch so they can call me Mrs. Ms. Ma'am.. Mistress. What I find how is when we talk about my pussy and his cock in the third person. Lol! My greedy cunt. Lol! | |||
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"Nothing derogatory, that's for sure. I prefer to be told I'm sexy, gorgeous, hot, got an amazing bum/boobs. How much they love kissing me etc etc " This for me too. | |||
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"Nothing derogatory, that's for sure. I prefer to be told I'm sexy, gorgeous, hot, got an amazing bum/boobs. How much they love kissing me etc etc " Do guys actually call you sext,hot etc during sex? | |||
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"Varies by mood and circumstance. One partner calling me a good little slut while I ch*ke on his dick might work for me, but another whispering it in my ear while fucking might not. Pretty much all things can be good in the right situation." | |||
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"I recently had a discussion that lasted almost an hour with my best friend in which she expressed to me that she absolutely hates being called a ‘slut’ or ‘whore’ while having sex. I honestly thought it was just dirty talk but she stated that to her it was degrading and she didn’t like it. Me well I love to be called a a slut or whore. Conversely, she mentioned that she loves it when during sex her partner calls her a ‘naughty girl’ or ‘bad little girl’ She also stated that her absolute favorite is when he considers her a ‘good girl.’ Finally, she said she loved the word ‘daddy’ during sex, we joked about how often that term is used in porn and she said for some reason it turns her on. As do things like ‘sir’ during sex; stating it really turns her on if she responds to yes/no questions with ‘yes sir’ or ‘no sir’. So ladies what word(s) do you like to be called during sex and conversely what word(s) do you not like to be called during sex?" She sounds like me! | |||
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"OK. I absolutely detest derogatory words from a sexual partner. But that's because I don't find them arousing in any way. But I'm happy to hear those words from friends in a non sexual way. A stranger saying them to me wouldn't bother me as I don't give their opinions any value. Yeah my brain is weird and multi layered " This all makes sense to me. I'm the same. | |||
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"I always call a woman Trevor or Nigel, drives them wild…" | |||
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"I love all of the above! Slut, whore, good girl, bad girl, naughty girl. Mr amps it up by saying "my" at the start of each name. Saying I'm his *melt*. If anyone called me or referred to my vajayjay as a c*nt they'd be getting kicked straight out of bed and swiftly out the door." You sound like fun | |||
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"I love all of the above! Slut, whore, good girl, bad girl, naughty girl. Mr amps it up by saying "my" at the start of each name. Saying I'm his *melt*. If anyone called me or referred to my vajayjay as a c*nt they'd be getting kicked straight out of bed and swiftly out the door. You sound like fun" Tones of fun me LOVE your nails btw x | |||
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"I love all of the above! Slut, whore, good girl, bad girl, naughty girl. Mr amps it up by saying "my" at the start of each name. Saying I'm his *melt*. If anyone called me or referred to my vajayjay as a c*nt they'd be getting kicked straight out of bed and swiftly out the door. You sound like fun Tones of fun me LOVE your nails btw x" Thanks. They make me feel sexy. | |||
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"Don't call me daddy, unless you want the fun to end. That's reserved for my kids" Good point | |||
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"Interesting thread, personally i use whatever term the ladys preference is and avoid like the plague the ones she doesn't like, after all surely its about giving pleasure and not pissing them off, then again i suppose there are also those who enjoy the derogatory side of things.. it takes all sorts at the end of the day. " So do you actually ask what she likes to be called during sex | |||
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"I recently had a discussion that lasted almost an hour with my best friend in which she expressed to me that she absolutely hates being called a ‘slut’ or ‘whore’ while having sex. I honestly thought it was just dirty talk but she stated that to her it was degrading and she didn’t like it. Me well I love to be called a a slut or whore. Conversely, she mentioned that she loves it when during sex her partner calls her a ‘naughty girl’ or ‘bad little girl’ She also stated that her absolute favorite is when he considers her a ‘good girl.’ Finally, she said she loved the word ‘daddy’ during sex, we joked about how often that term is used in porn and she said for some reason it turns her on. As do things like ‘sir’ during sex; stating it really turns her on if she responds to yes/no questions with ‘yes sir’ or ‘no sir’. So ladies what word(s) do you like to be called during sex and conversely what word(s) do you not like to be called during sex?" we are all different and respond to different words or phrases, if we actually did think the same as other people here wouldn't it be boring | |||
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"Better off asking r/BDSMAdvice on Reddit What's wrong with asking here ?" Nothing. I use loads of names, but it’s reflective on who I’m talking to. I’m also sensitive to being called certain names too. And it can be good or bad, if you get it wrong, it can turn me on or off. It’s hard to explain. | |||
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"Better off asking r/BDSMAdvice on Reddit What's wrong with asking here ? Absolutely nothing. You are asking for opinions, preferences and dislikes That's what the Forum is all about. You crack on... Thought maybe I was missing something " I was quietly reading this thread, but had to comment. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you asking, this question here. I have seen much worse statuses on here and this guy, complains about this one. Crack on darling it's a good thread. | |||
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"Nothing derogatory, that's for sure. I prefer to be told I'm sexy, gorgeous, hot, got an amazing bum/boobs. How much they love kissing me etc etc Do guys actually call you sext,hot etc during sex?" Yes, they do | |||
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"Don't call me daddy, unless you want the fun to end. That's reserved for my kids" Yeah my Pop is still alive. | |||
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"love being called names but like others any reference to the word 'daddy' and my knickers are out of my handbag and im off to the kebab shop " I could do with a kebab right now. Lol! | |||
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"The second anyone calls me Daddy I'm out of there. " Yeah my Pop's still breathing. | |||
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"Don't call me daddy, unless you want the fun to end. That's reserved for my kids" Yeah Daddy is reserved for my actual alive-and-kicking biological father. Maybe when he's gone, I might start but for now..No-one else gets that name. | |||
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"I recently had a discussion that lasted almost an hour with my best friend in which she expressed to me that she absolutely hates being called a ‘slut’ or ‘whore’ while having sex. I honestly thought it was just dirty talk but she stated that to her it was degrading and she didn’t like it. Me well I love to be called a a slut or whore. Conversely, she mentioned that she loves it when during sex her partner calls her a ‘naughty girl’ or ‘bad little girl’ She also stated that her absolute favorite is when he considers her a ‘good girl.’ Finally, she said she loved the word ‘daddy’ during sex, we joked about how often that term is used in porn and she said for some reason it turns her on. As do things like ‘sir’ during sex; stating it really turns her on if she responds to yes/no questions with ‘yes sir’ or ‘no sir’. So ladies what word(s) do you like to be called during sex and conversely what word(s) do you not like to be called during sex?we are all different and respond to different words or phrases, if we actually did think the same as other people here wouldn't it be boring " | |||
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"Better off asking r/BDSMAdvice on Reddit What's wrong with asking here ? Absolutely nothing. You are asking for opinions, preferences and dislikes That's what the Forum is all about. You crack on... Thought maybe I was missing something I was quietly reading this thread, but had to comment. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you asking, this question here. I have seen much worse statuses on here and this guy, complains about this one. Crack on darling it's a good thread." Thank you | |||
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"A girl may like being called a whore or a slut, but I don't like don't personally like it. I would rather do praise kink and say how hot, sexy, how good they are, how hard they make me, how beautiful they are, etc. " This is such a turn on. | |||
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"love being called names but like others any reference to the word 'daddy' and my knickers are out of my handbag and im off to the kebab shop I could do with a kebab right now. Lol!" Yum. Me too | |||
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"If you call me a slut, slag or where then you will most likely leave the building via a window. Your testicles will arrive some time later via 2nd class post. " *whore | |||
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"I recently had a discussion that lasted almost an hour with my best friend in which she expressed to me that she absolutely hates being called a ‘slut’ or ‘whore’ while having sex. I honestly thought it was just dirty talk but she stated that to her it was degrading and she didn’t like it. Me well I love to be called a a slut or whore. Conversely, she mentioned that she loves it when during sex her partner calls her a ‘naughty girl’ or ‘bad little girl’ She also stated that her absolute favorite is when he considers her a ‘good girl.’ Finally, she said she loved the word ‘daddy’ during sex, we joked about how often that term is used in porn and she said for some reason it turns her on. As do things like ‘sir’ during sex; stating it really turns her on if she responds to yes/no questions with ‘yes sir’ or ‘no sir’. So ladies what word(s) do you like to be called during sex and conversely what word(s) do you not like to be called during sex?" its an in the moment thing if you are enjoying the sex thats what counts, i personally wouldn't use the words slut or tart incase they offended | |||
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"Nothing derogatory, that's for sure. I prefer to be told I'm sexy, gorgeous, hot, got an amazing bum/boobs. How much they love kissing me etc etc Do guys actually call you sext,hot etc during sex? Yes, they do" yes they do | |||
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"It depends on the situation. If we're kissing & playing then absolutely not. If I'm wearing pvc, a collar & on my hands and knees crawling around for them, then they can call me whatever they want " Hot | |||
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"I recently had a discussion that lasted almost an hour with my best friend in which she expressed to me that she absolutely hates being called a ‘slut’ or ‘whore’ while having sex. I honestly thought it was just dirty talk but she stated that to her it was degrading and she didn’t like it. Me well I love to be called a a slut or whore. Conversely, she mentioned that she loves it when during sex her partner calls her a ‘naughty girl’ or ‘bad little girl’ She also stated that her absolute favorite is when he considers her a ‘good girl.’ Finally, she said she loved the word ‘daddy’ during sex, we joked about how often that term is used in porn and she said for some reason it turns her on. As do things like ‘sir’ during sex; stating it really turns her on if she responds to yes/no questions with ‘yes sir’ or ‘no sir’. So ladies what word(s) do you like to be called during sex and conversely what word(s) do you not like to be called during sex?" Any of these names in the heat of the moment is hot is my take on this | |||
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"Just don't call me darling and we're good. " Really?! This is news! | |||
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"I always call a woman Trevor or Nigel, drives them wild…" Bernard I think is the appropriate name. | |||
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"Just don't call me darling and we're good. " Dar........ing idea. | |||
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"Just don't call me darling and we're good. Dar........ing idea. " | |||
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