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"Respond, I've never been inundated with messages. Find it hard to search when I can't see face pics, as that's where the attraction lies for me... I'm never going to msg anyone with a dick for their avatar." Exactly our experience ^^ | |||
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"Oh, that's interesting that you don't get inundated (especially having looked at your pics). How many messages do you get a day, on average, do you think? And agree - if a person has a dick as a profile pic, probably an accurate indication of their personality. " I don't really keep count, but never more than about 50. Certainly not 100s like some of the ladies on here. | |||
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"Ahhh, see 50 seems like quite a lot to me, but I suppose it is relative. And maybe it's not that much is the vast majority of the messages are trash." 95% get deleted as they haven't read the profile and aren't a match | |||
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"So you've never browsed to see what is available? " I've looked, and maybe sent a wink, but never messaged | |||
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"I actually do something entirely different OP. I message people I've engaged with in the forum - having checked out their profiles and got a sense of who they are from their forum comments." That actually seems like a very sensible way to approach the situation. It works well, I'm guessing? | |||
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"So you've never browsed to see what is available? I've looked, and maybe sent a wink, but never messaged " So you've been window shopping, as it were, but never enquired. | |||
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"I actually do something entirely different OP. I message people I've engaged with in the forum - having checked out their profiles and got a sense of who they are from their forum comments. That actually seems like a very sensible way to approach the situation. It works well, I'm guessing?" I have had some awesome outcomes | |||
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"So, thus far, it's not an either or situation, no option is clearly the preferred one generally - but I'm getting the impression that you ladies do like being messaged, even you still want to look for yourselves. " Mostly I'd rather people didn't message if there's no chance of a connection. But I'm glad the rare interesting ones do. | |||
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"So, thus far, it's not an either or situation, no option is clearly the preferred one generally - but I'm getting the impression that you ladies do like being messaged, even you still want to look for yourselves. Mostly I'd rather people didn't message if there's no chance of a connection. But I'm glad the rare interesting ones do." Yeah, I get the impression that a lot of men who message are just doing so blindly, throwing things against and seeing if anything sticks. Probably not the best way to go about it. | |||
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"So, thus far, it's not an either or situation, no option is clearly the preferred one generally - but I'm getting the impression that you ladies do like being messaged, even you still want to look for yourselves. Mostly I'd rather people didn't message if there's no chance of a connection. But I'm glad the rare interesting ones do. Yeah, I get the impression that a lot of men who message are just doing so blindly, throwing things against and seeing if anything sticks. Probably not the best way to go about it. " Not just men do this ^^ | |||
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"So, thus far, it's not an either or situation, no option is clearly the preferred one generally - but I'm getting the impression that you ladies do like being messaged, even you still want to look for yourselves. Mostly I'd rather people didn't message if there's no chance of a connection. But I'm glad the rare interesting ones do. Yeah, I get the impression that a lot of men who message are just doing so blindly, throwing things against and seeing if anything sticks. Probably not the best way to go about it. Not just men do this ^^ " You get women doing it as well? | |||
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"I browse ... then may message if there's someone I want, but mainly I just perv in peace " PIP. Amen | |||
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"Respond, I've never been inundated with messages. Find it hard to search when I can't see face pics, as that's where the attraction lies for me... I'm never going to msg anyone with a dick for their avatar." I for one would welcome a feature of being able to filter by at least one admin verified face pic. | |||
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"I browse ... then may message if there's someone I want, but mainly I just perv in peace " I now feel utterly unwanted | |||
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"I browse ... then may message if there's someone I want, but mainly I just perv in peace " Perving in peace really is a lot of fun | |||
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"I browse ... then may message if there's someone I want, but mainly I just perv in peace I now feel utterly unwanted " Don't forget the perving | |||
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"I browse ... then may message if there's someone I want, but mainly I just perv in peace I now feel utterly unwanted Don't forget the perving " Pokeball?? | |||
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"I browse ... then may message if there's someone I want, but mainly I just perv in peace I now feel utterly unwanted Don't forget the perving Pokeball?? " Used for catching a target, yes | |||
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"I browse ... then may message if there's someone I want, but mainly I just perv in peace I now feel utterly unwanted Don't forget the perving Pokeball?? Used for catching a target, yes " A cake carrying target | |||
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"I respond and it's usually to say no thanks " haha, well at least you have the decency to at least say that. | |||
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"I refrain from perving, I only go on profiles for the artistic value " Plenty of " artistic value" around isn't there! | |||
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"I refrain from perving, I only go on profiles for the artistic value Plenty of " artistic value" around isn't there! " As a blind person it's hard to tell | |||
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"I refrain from perving, I only go on profiles for the artistic value Plenty of " artistic value" around isn't there! As a blind person it's hard to tell " Ahhh man ! That must be REALLY hard for you . Commiserations..can i lend a hand | |||
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"I refrain from perving, I only go on profiles for the artistic value Plenty of " artistic value" around isn't there! As a blind person it's hard to tell Ahhh man ! That must be REALLY hard for you . Commiserations..can i lend a hand " I have to get my cat to type for me, so any help is appreciated...when I find a profile he thinks I might like he goes "mee, ow" on a typically unperving kind of way | |||
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"I refrain from perving, I only go on profiles for the artistic value Plenty of " artistic value" around isn't there! As a blind person it's hard to tell Ahhh man ! That must be REALLY hard for you . Commiserations..can i lend a hand I have to get my cat to type for me, so any help is appreciated...when I find a profile he thinks I might like he goes "mee, ow" on a typically unperving kind of way " Interesting! As i also have cat references in my profile. Does he wear a smoking jacket and have a dish of roe on the side ,? Least you can do. Though obviously apologies if he's a she or a they!!! | |||
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"I refrain from perving, I only go on profiles for the artistic value Plenty of " artistic value" around isn't there! As a blind person it's hard to tell Ahhh man ! That must be REALLY hard for you . Commiserations..can i lend a hand I have to get my cat to type for me, so any help is appreciated...when I find a profile he thinks I might like he goes "mee, ow" on a typically unperving kind of way Interesting! As i also have cat references in my profile. Does he wear a smoking jacket and have a dish of roe on the side ,? Least you can do. Though obviously apologies if he's a she or a they!!!" "He" has a diamond encrusted bow tie collar and prefers salmon cutlets...a boy of particular taste...when awake! | |||
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"I refrain from perving, I only go on profiles for the artistic value Plenty of " artistic value" around isn't there! As a blind person it's hard to tell Ahhh man ! That must be REALLY hard for you . Commiserations..can i lend a hand I have to get my cat to type for me, so any help is appreciated...when I find a profile he thinks I might like he goes "mee, ow" on a typically unperving kind of way Interesting! As i also have cat references in my profile. Does he wear a smoking jacket and have a dish of roe on the side ,? Least you can do. Though obviously apologies if he's a she or a they!!! "He" has a diamond encrusted bow tie collar and prefers salmon cutlets...a boy of particular taste...when awake! " Then i bow the knee to his superior taste in cutlets and collar ( good couples name there ) | |||
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"I refrain from perving, I only go on profiles for the artistic value Plenty of " artistic value" around isn't there! As a blind person it's hard to tell Ahhh man ! That must be REALLY hard for you . Commiserations..can i lend a hand I have to get my cat to type for me, so any help is appreciated...when I find a profile he thinks I might like he goes "mee, ow" on a typically unperving kind of way " Don’t you mean purrving? | |||
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