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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people think its okay to share pics of their partners without having consent?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Obviously not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know its not ok to do anything without peoples consent if they're involved, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. End of story

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do indeed just had 2 people in 2 days who clearly don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people think its okay to share pics of their partners without having consent? "

Yes some (loads?) of men seem to.

If you get an abusive message report it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people clearly do, as there’s a massive amount of it going on here.

Personally I think it’s a pretty dick move to do so, and that’s before we even get into the illegality of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do people think its okay to share pics of their partners without having consent?

Yes some (loads?) of men seem to.

If you get an abusive message report it. "

I got blocked by him for telling him to respect his wife (along with other abuse)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people think its okay to share pics of their partners without having consent?

Yes some (loads?) of men seem to.

If you get an abusive message report it.

I got blocked by him for telling him to respect his wife (along with other abuse) "

You are right and he is wrong.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Course it's not OK x

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Nope never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a word no

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not! Not that he ever would but if my husband done that he’d be gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just NO

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

How is this even a question ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, no, no! FB and I discussed what we were comfortable with posting, and we always talk about which photos we will upload. There has to be consent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm glad everyone sees sense on this - I was starting to worry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How is this even a question ? "

I've has 2 people in 2 days send me stuff without the consent of others thats why I wondered if it was the new norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often mention it, if I see a face on a single male profile that doesn’t look like it’s theirs (bj pic/vid for example). Amazing how many react in a surprised or defensive way.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Definitely absolutely not okay!

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"Do people think its okay to share pics of their partners without having consent?"

Obviously not, no.


"I've has 2 people in 2 days send me stuff without the consent of others thats why I wondered if it was the new norm"

Yeah, there are those that don't give a flying fuck about consent. Very rare I've actually been sent images (twice, maybe?), slightly more common is the messages offering to do so. I just delete & block.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"How is this even a question ?

I've has 2 people in 2 days send me stuff without the consent of others thats why I wondered if it was the new norm "

Are you contacting guys on wife chat threads?

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

No, it’s never ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but it is common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often mention it, if I see a face on a single male profile that doesn’t look like it’s theirs (bj pic/vid for example). Amazing how many react in a surprised or defensive way."

Whenever I ask who the woman is they claim it's an ex.

So many lovely kind women who are happy for their *ex* to use their sex pics as bait.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

From Citizens Advice

It’s not a crime to send intimate images or videos of yourself privately to another person if you're both consenting adults.

It's a crime to show intimate images or videos, send them to another person, upload them to a website, or threaten to do this, without your consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone in the pic, needs to explicitly consent to where it ends up. Its the fab rules (report if not followed), & also just common decency too. Whether its a pic of a spouse, partner, playmate, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The key word being 'consent'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck no, big clue in the word

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. Not ever. Not under any circumstances. Never in a million years. Nein , Niet, Non! Forbidden Verbotten ...... no no no no no no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often mention it, if I see a face on a single male profile that doesn’t look like it’s theirs (bj pic/vid for example). Amazing how many react in a surprised or defensive way.

Whenever I ask who the woman is they claim it's an ex.

So many lovely kind women who are happy for their *ex* to use their sex pics as bait. "

Sadly this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How is this even a question ?

I've has 2 people in 2 days send me stuff without the consent of others thats why I wondered if it was the new norm

Are you contacting guys on wife chat threads?"

No they have both messaged me in relation to posts or comments i have put on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just want to clarify im not asking if it is OK that I do it it's in relation to messages I am receiving on here

I know it is completely wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always check with each other, is it ok to share? It always is lol but always good to check -mrs xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All that’s need is one word

NO

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

Absolutely not

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

Always a definite NO.

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Loads of single guys with photos of women in their pics, wrong!!!

Shouldn't be allowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I respect his wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of single guys with photos of women in their pics, wrong!!!

Shouldn't be allowed. "

Lots of single women have guys in their pics and videos also. Some couples have images of threesomes and moresomes....

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

[Removed by poster at 12/01/23 00:25:17]

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Do people think its okay to share pics of their partners without having consent?

Yes some (loads?) of men seem to.

If you get an abusive message report it.

I got blocked by him for telling him to respect his wife (along with other abuse) "

I don't think you're in any position to preach to anyone about respecting their partners.....

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Some may do so but its not right to and becomes a criminal offence

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I often mention it, if I see a face on a single male profile that doesn’t look like it’s theirs (bj pic/vid for example). Amazing how many react in a surprised or defensive way.

Whenever I ask who the woman is they claim it's an ex.

So many lovely kind women who are happy for their *ex* to use their sex pics as bait. "

Its even better when their “ex” has different body shapes and sizes, moles and freckles.

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

I have some group ones but everyone included is have faces blocked and all have consented. That’s the key here ‘consent’.

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By *oldups999TV/TS
over a year ago

Mallow

Definitely not

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yeah mate crack on. Bang them on social media as well, you’ll probably get more likes that way. I’m sure they won’t mind. I mean who doesn’t like their genitalia on public view for all to see without your knowledge.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently some people do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a very sticky area. Legally in this country and some others whoever took the photo has the copyright and can do with it what they will. In recent times laws have changed following some high profile revenge porn lawsuits and thankfully there are now laws in place to stop this happening. Revenge porn laws now cover sharing pics or videos without consent or threatening to share them. Unfortunately the biggest problem is with hosting sites that encourage sharing exes etc, these usually ask you to prove you own the image before they’ll remove it (which is impossible to do unless you’ve got a copyright registration). We still have a long way to go regarding consent and imagery

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I always avoid profiles full of pics of all the people they've slept with akes me worry about consent & also not very discreet when most of the other party is on show.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Yeah mate crack on. Bang them on social media as well, you’ll probably get more likes that way. I’m sure they won’t mind. I mean who doesn’t like their genitalia on public view for all to see without your knowledge.

The mr "
doesn't bother me to be fair

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

20 hours and he's already left site, not much point replying anymore, I think he got the message

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Do people think its okay to share pics of their partners without having consent? "

^^ He obviously answered his own question then

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

No, we will never share each other’s pictures with asking the other first.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

Oh crumbs

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