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By *traightmidsguy34 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dudley

Anyone else “accidentally” leave the curtains open after a shower and give the neighbours over the road a little flash? Or get changed with the lights on so they can see in?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Anyone else “accidentally” leave the curtains open after a shower and give the neighbours over the road a little flash? Or get changed with the lights on so they can see in? "

No.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. They don't consent

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Nope, 3 flights up and yet no-one needs to see me without clothing

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

No. And just don’t. It’s really not a good thing OP. Because you know… consent??

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

This isn't going to go well

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

No my neighbor already seen everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped giving a shit. I'm sure they've seen Alice taking photos with her tits out at some point. She never shuts the blinds.

We're technically showing the whole world our birthday suit on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If I did it accidentally I wouldn't know if done it

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"If I did it accidentally I wouldn't know if done it "

But then you'd have to keep doing it just in case people saw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. They would have to have an extra strong set of binoculars to be able to see us over that distance.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If I did it accidentally I wouldn't know if done it

But then you'd have to keep doing it just in case people saw "

Nooo I've seen too many threads on here from men who think women are naked in their own home for their viewing pleasure

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By *iscreett84Man
over a year ago

Longford

That’s verging on a sex offence….. ever ‘accidentally’ have your cock out in a public place, so people who don’t want to, are forced to see it?

Kinda the same……. just imagine one of the those neighbours has a child who sees you, or a camera recording you because their child saw you?? Or a visiting relative?? No curtains will hide that shame lolllol

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"That’s verging on a sex offence….. ever ‘accidentally’ have your cock out in a public place, so people who don’t want to, are forced to see it?

Kinda the same……. just imagine one of the those neighbours has a child who sees you, or a camera recording you because their child saw you?? Or a visiting relative?? No curtains will hide that shame lolllol"

Was a case while back both were having sex through the day people passing could see their defence was well it was in their own home but still got charged public indecency

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Not accidently on purpose no! If the nosy fekers looking in and I happen to b topless or whatever then yes! I shall be in my home how I want to be! X

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"That’s verging on a sex offence….. ever ‘accidentally’ have your cock out in a public place, so people who don’t want to, are forced to see it?

Kinda the same……. just imagine one of the those neighbours has a child who sees you, or a camera recording you because their child saw you?? Or a visiting relative?? No curtains will hide that shame lolllol"

I don’t think this is the same. Inside your house is not a public space and people shouldn’t really be looking in your windows should they?

If you were standing up against your window, looking out and waving while wanking perhaps, but there shouldn’t be any rules about walking about your own home naked surely

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Not accidently on purpose no! If the nosy fekers looking in and I happen to b topless or whatever then yes! I shall be in my home how I want to be! X"

This is how i see it too

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away


"Not accidently on purpose no! If the nosy fekers looking in and I happen to b topless or whatever then yes! I shall be in my home how I want to be! X

This is how i see it too"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did this once and immediately regretted it after Helen Daniels had a stroke.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Doubt it, wouldn’t surprise if someone around here rang the army because they’d seen a nipple, not exactly the most down to earth breed I’ve ever come across.

The mr

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

My wife is always walking around naked, so I have no doubt that she has been seen through the window.

I love it

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Nope. Definitely not.

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Nope. Definitely not. "
wish you were my neighbour xx

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"That’s verging on a sex offence….. ever ‘accidentally’ have your cock out in a public place, so people who don’t want to, are forced to see it?

Kinda the same……. just imagine one of the those neighbours has a child who sees you, or a camera recording you because their child saw you?? Or a visiting relative?? No curtains will hide that shame lolllol

I don’t think this is the same. Inside your house is not a public space and people shouldn’t really be looking in your windows should they?

If you were standing up against your window, looking out and waving while wanking perhaps, but there shouldn’t be any rules about walking about your own home naked surely"

x

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"Nope. Definitely not. wish you were my neighbour xx"

Would you be hidden in their hedgerow with your tongue and cock out every evening?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I stopped giving a shit. I'm sure they've seen Alice taking photos with her tits out at some point. She never shuts the blinds.

We're technically showing the whole world our birthday suit on here. "

Right I'm moving to Bradford.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I live alone, and I’m walking around naked on a daily basis (not 24/7, but as I feel like it, making a cuppa in the morning etc).

I wouldn’t make it blatant, but if people are looking in my windows then it’s not my problem. They are invading my privacy.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Where we live the house's are right on the footpath with virtually no front garden to speak of over in Portsmouth lot's have no front garden and doors open onto the street, gardens overlooked on every side.

It's very difficult not to do it accidentally otherwise you have to have all your curtains shut 24/7.

It means that we have to have net curtains as lot's of folks love having a good old stare as they pass.

Not done it on purpose tho.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

We never deliberately flash, but we tend to subscribe to the ‘our house, our rules’ way of thinking. That said, unless the light is on, you have to be very close to the window to be seen - which we never do.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"That’s verging on a sex offence….. ever ‘accidentally’ have your cock out in a public place, so people who don’t want to, are forced to see it?

Kinda the same……. just imagine one of the those neighbours has a child who sees you, or a camera recording you because their child saw you?? Or a visiting relative?? No curtains will hide that shame lolllol"

Pretty sure if someone was recording you in your home without your consent it falls under unlawful surveillance and they’d be in a fair bit of trouble.

We’d never flash someone, but if someone looks in our window while we’re getting changed then that’s their issue.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I live alone, and I’m walking around naked on a daily basis (not 24/7, but as I feel like it, making a cuppa in the morning etc).

I wouldn’t make it blatant, but if people are looking in my windows then it’s not my problem. They are invading my privacy. "

It is one of those things that is a weird area. You are in your home doing your own thing. However due to it being a window it counts as being on view to the public outside - indecent exposure can apply. For most people a quick glance, maybe a double take just to be sure they saw what they saw and then move on - few will think otherwise about it than a giggle.

This then brings us to the intent. The OP clearly states "accidentally" heavily suggesting that the intent is to be seen.

This right here is the issue more than anything and what a lot of people have issue with, in private property or not they are still intentionally exposing themselves to those who have not given consent for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live alone, and I’m walking around naked on a daily basis (not 24/7, but as I feel like it, making a cuppa in the morning etc).

I wouldn’t make it blatant, but if people are looking in my windows then it’s not my problem. They are invading my privacy.

It is one of those things that is a weird area. You are in your home doing your own thing. However due to it being a window it counts as being on view to the public outside - indecent exposure can apply. For most people a quick glance, maybe a double take just to be sure they saw what they saw and then move on - few will think otherwise about it than a giggle.

This then brings us to the intent. The OP clearly states "accidentally" heavily suggesting that the intent is to be seen.

This right here is the issue more than anything and what a lot of people have issue with, in private property or not they are still intentionally exposing themselves to those who have not given consent for that. "

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"I live alone, and I’m walking around naked on a daily basis (not 24/7, but as I feel like it, making a cuppa in the morning etc).

I wouldn’t make it blatant, but if people are looking in my windows then it’s not my problem. They are invading my privacy.

It is one of those things that is a weird area. You are in your home doing your own thing. However due to it being a window it counts as being on view to the public outside - indecent exposure can apply. For most people a quick glance, maybe a double take just to be sure they saw what they saw and then move on - few will think otherwise about it than a giggle.

This then brings us to the intent. The OP clearly states "accidentally" heavily suggesting that the intent is to be seen.

This right here is the issue more than anything and what a lot of people have issue with, in private property or not they are still intentionally exposing themselves to those who have not given consent for that. "

It’s not against the law to be naked, even in your own home.

Performing sex acts is a different kettle kid fish altogether.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I live alone, and I’m walking around naked on a daily basis (not 24/7, but as I feel like it, making a cuppa in the morning etc).

I wouldn’t make it blatant, but if people are looking in my windows then it’s not my problem. They are invading my privacy.

It is one of those things that is a weird area. You are in your home doing your own thing. However due to it being a window it counts as being on view to the public outside - indecent exposure can apply. For most people a quick glance, maybe a double take just to be sure they saw what they saw and then move on - few will think otherwise about it than a giggle.

This then brings us to the intent. The OP clearly states "accidentally" heavily suggesting that the intent is to be seen.

This right here is the issue more than anything and what a lot of people have issue with, in private property or not they are still intentionally exposing themselves to those who have not given consent for that.

It’s not against the law to be naked, even in your own home.

Performing sex acts is a different kettle kid fish altogether."

The Sexual Offences Act 2003 says someone commits exposure if they intentionally expose their genitals and intend that someone will see them and be caused alarm or distress. Someone who commits exposure can be sentenced for up to two years in prison.

This includes your own home.

The major difference in this scenario present by the OP is that it can be covered as an accident and unintentional - the act however is still the same.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Creepy af

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, wouldn't ever deliberately expose myself. I have neighbours who don't close their bedroom curtains, even whilst fucking. They must know my house overlooks them. I was surprised at the ropes and blindfold though...

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm a naturist / nudist and am perfectly at home naked, i live on the ground floor but my curtains are permanently shut, i think if it was accidental and somebody were to see you no harm done but exposing yourself deliberately would be kinda like doing it in public, which is ok on a beach where people would be expecting it but otherwise no

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MOROCCO Wherever I lay my hat

As someone who is always wandering around naked or in lingerie this thread is genuinely interesting to me. I had always thought that what I got up to in the privacy of my own home was my business

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"As someone who is always wandering around naked or in lingerie this thread is genuinely interesting to me. I had always thought that what I got up to in the privacy of my own home was my business"
well technically you are right and i dont think anyone would complain in your case

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"As someone who is always wandering around naked or in lingerie this thread is genuinely interesting to me. I had always thought that what I got up to in the privacy of my own home was my business"

It is, however having a clear view through a window and making it easy/obvious to be seen from the outside that can potentially be considered exposing yourself.

This thread does not care about what people do in their own home, but when it comes to flashing/exposing/intentionally being seen by others who have not consented to it, then it is an issue.

I say you as a broad term, in response to your quote, not about you singled out as an individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of times... think they have even heard us fuck with the window open xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seen the silhouettes of my neighbours shagging once but never purposely exposed myself neither they done it for my or their satisfaction

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"I live alone, and I’m walking around naked on a daily basis (not 24/7, but as I feel like it, making a cuppa in the morning etc).

I wouldn’t make it blatant, but if people are looking in my windows then it’s not my problem. They are invading my privacy.

It is one of those things that is a weird area. You are in your home doing your own thing. However due to it being a window it counts as being on view to the public outside - indecent exposure can apply. For most people a quick glance, maybe a double take just to be sure they saw what they saw and then move on - few will think otherwise about it than a giggle.

This then brings us to the intent. The OP clearly states "accidentally" heavily suggesting that the intent is to be seen.

This right here is the issue more than anything and what a lot of people have issue with, in private property or not they are still intentionally exposing themselves to those who have not given consent for that.

It’s not against the law to be naked, even in your own home.

Performing sex acts is a different kettle kid fish altogether.

The Sexual Offences Act 2003 says someone commits exposure if they intentionally expose their genitals and intend that someone will see them and be caused alarm or distress. Someone who commits exposure can be sentenced for up to two years in prison.

This includes your own home.

The major difference in this scenario present by the OP is that it can be covered as an accident and unintentional - the act however is still the same. "

Exposing your genitals to cause alarm or distress is indeed an offence. Being naked is not. Even outside of your home.

Please see British naturism website for clarification.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

There is no law against being naked. The law doesn’t care what you wearing - it only cares about what you are doing.

So for example: walking down the road is not against the law. Whether you are wearing clothes (or not)is irrelevant. If you are gyrating your groin wildly whilst holding your genitals then the law would have something to say about that - clothed or otherwise.

People tend confuse nudity with sex. The law doesn’t make that distinction.

You may wish to read the CPS guidelines for clarity: https://www.cps.gov.uk/legal-guidance/nudity-public-guidance-handling-cases-naturism

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MOROCCO Wherever I lay my hat


"As someone who is always wandering around naked or in lingerie this thread is genuinely interesting to me. I had always thought that what I got up to in the privacy of my own home was my business

It is, however having a clear view through a window and making it easy/obvious to be seen from the outside that can potentially be considered exposing yourself.

This thread does not care about what people do in their own home, but when it comes to flashing/exposing/intentionally being seen by others who have not consented to it, then it is an issue.

I say you as a broad term, in response to your quote, not about you singled out as an individual. "

It is open to interpretation tho isn't it. To all intents and purposes I live in a glass box, on a busy road with flats directly opposite. I have no intention of setting out to be seen (or indeed watched whilst fucking) but I think if anyone did complain (notwithstanding macky999's comment not everyone would want to see me in my undercrackers or going at it on my dining table!) it would be difficult for me to argue that there wasn't intent to be seen on my part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noo man there could be kids around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else “accidentally” leave the curtains open after a shower and give the neighbours over the road a little flash? Or get changed with the lights on so they can see in? "

My neighbours are in their 90s, pretty sure they're not interested in seeing my junk, and I definitely don't want the image in my head of them enjoying it if they did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I walk round my flat naked all the time. It's first floor so you can see from the street but I blame London and the lack of privacy. If I wanna jump on the sofa naked in my own home I'm gonna!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone who is always wandering around naked or in lingerie this thread is genuinely interesting to me. I had always thought that what I got up to in the privacy of my own home was my business

It is, however having a clear view through a window and making it easy/obvious to be seen from the outside that can potentially be considered exposing yourself.

This thread does not care about what people do in their own home, but when it comes to flashing/exposing/intentionally being seen by others who have not consented to it, then it is an issue.

I say you as a broad term, in response to your quote, not about you singled out as an individual.

It is open to interpretation tho isn't it. To all intents and purposes I live in a glass box, on a busy road with flats directly opposite. I have no intention of setting out to be seen (or indeed watched whilst fucking) but I think if anyone did complain (notwithstanding macky999's comment not everyone would want to see me in my undercrackers or going at it on my dining table!) it would be difficult for me to argue that there wasn't intent to be seen on my part. "

Not really. Unless you are virtually standing on the windowsill pressing your parts up against the glass (thereby showing an intent). If I were just wandering about in my own house naked, not having frequented/loitered at windows waving my willy about, my question would be 'why are they looking in my windows?'

I do actually know of a senior police officer who was investigated for standing at his window clearly masturbating. His excuse of just applying a medication was apparently acceptable..

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

No because we wouldn’t want kids or people who wouldn’t consent to it, seeing our naked bodies.

Not pointing an accusatory finger here and we all have our kinks (each to their own and all)!but posts which fetishise stuff like this really do raise eyebrows.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"There is no law against being naked. The law doesn’t care what you wearing - it only cares about what you are doing.

So for example: walking down the road is not against the law. Whether you are wearing clothes (or not)is irrelevant. If you are gyrating your groin wildly whilst holding your genitals then the law would have something to say about that - clothed or otherwise.

People tend confuse nudity with sex. The law doesn’t make that distinction.

You may wish to read the CPS guidelines for clarity: https://www.cps.gov.uk/legal-guidance/nudity-public-guidance-handling-cases-naturism"

I'd rather not expose myself to people who don't consent. Not because I thought it'd be illegal, but because I consider it unethical.

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol


"I live alone, and I’m walking around naked on a daily basis (not 24/7, but as I feel like it, making a cuppa in the morning etc).

I wouldn’t make it blatant, but if people are looking in my windows then it’s not my problem. They are invading my privacy. "

Same here ,but blinds are closed in the mornings

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By *i1971Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

Wouldn't flash anyone. However, as I've walked around housing estates have seen both males and females over the years as they have either been going past windows starkers or one chap I guess had just gone to sleep on the bed.

Unfortunately for him with the lights on and curtains pulled back, so anyone going by couldn't help but see him on his back - bet he never lived it down

I wouldn't have classed any of those as intentionally flashing nor wishing to cause alarm or distress

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I live alone, and I’m walking around naked on a daily basis (not 24/7, but as I feel like it, making a cuppa in the morning etc).

I wouldn’t make it blatant, but if people are looking in my windows then it’s not my problem. They are invading my privacy.

It is one of those things that is a weird area. You are in your home doing your own thing. However due to it being a window it counts as being on view to the public outside - indecent exposure can apply. For most people a quick glance, maybe a double take just to be sure they saw what they saw and then move on - few will think otherwise about it than a giggle.

This then brings us to the intent. The OP clearly states "accidentally" heavily suggesting that the intent is to be seen.

This right here is the issue more than anything and what a lot of people have issue with, in private property or not they are still intentionally exposing themselves to those who have not given consent for that. "

I think unless you were pressed up against the window clearly trying to attract attention you would find a lawyer that could just as easily say there was a breach of consent looking in your windows as there was a breach of consent forcing your naked body on a passer by

The only exception i could think of would be if a couples set an alarm to go at it every time the window cleaner came, even then a one off i think would be laughed out of court as just bad timing

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By *hill1965Man
over a year ago

Camberley

I walk around naked, if someone looks in it’s their choice!

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"There is no law against being naked. The law doesn’t care what you wearing - it only cares about what you are doing.

So for example: walking down the road is not against the law. Whether you are wearing clothes (or not)is irrelevant. If you are gyrating your groin wildly whilst holding your genitals then the law would have something to say about that - clothed or otherwise.

People tend confuse nudity with sex. The law doesn’t make that distinction.

You may wish to read the CPS guidelines for clarity: https://www.cps.gov.uk/legal-guidance/nudity-public-guidance-handling-cases-naturism

I'd rather not expose myself to people who don't consent. Not because I thought it'd be illegal, but because I consider it unethical."

You consider naturism unethical? How odd.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

An ex male friend of mine while I was staying overnight, decided he would stand there with his cock out. Totally unwanted and inappropriate. I've also had a guy I'd met and getting to know get his shirt off on the pretence of clipping his hair ! Again, awkward and quite entitled. Seeing someone by accident is not a problem for me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are you sure it was by accident op ? or are you trying to convince yourself it was lol

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"are you sure it was by accident op ? or are you trying to convince yourself it was lol "

The inverted commas and use of the word ‘so’ suggest otherwise.

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