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Do you ever loose interest??

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

For no reason with someone you have met on a few occasions....then find yourself thinking do I really want to make the effort any more???

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By *obbieCMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

yep happens a lot to me hun.....

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

cant say that i have experienced that personally but all guys that i meet are 'friends' and we keep in touch even wen we cant get together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose if you meet the same person or people on numerous occaisions you can feel a bit stale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea it's odd sometimes because I can't really explain why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to me often, but I tend to lose interest before I've even met then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think i've ever lost interest.

Some it's only ever been planned as a one off, others it's a case of being in the right place at the right time if distance is an issue.

With others it's just a case of other commitments - work/family etc getting in the way of things.

But I don't think i've ever conciously decided that I can't be bothered to keep in touch with anyone via here or MSN.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok not in the meet kinda sense, but when i passed my driving test i just felt like all my mates took advantage and only used me for a taxi service. They pissed up their wages and i worked hard and saved for my lessons/licence.

I just couldn't be bothered with them anymore.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yeah I have in the past, but mainly due to negative feelings (you women know what I mean) Just when things tend to not feel right, the last time you have met, so I have backed off. But the 'GOOD ONE'? Not a chance in hell, I know which side my bread is buttered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes but there must be a reason.

sometimes i have met people who i have met before just for something to do

wasnt that interested in them realy.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Yeah I have in the past, but mainly due to negative feelings (you women know what I mean) Just when things tend to not feel right, the last time you have met, so I have backed off. But the 'GOOD ONE'? Not a chance in hell, I know which side my bread is buttered "

Yeah the good ones you want to keep hold of....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I have in the past, but mainly due to negative feelings (you women know what I mean) Just when things tend to not feel right, the last time you have met, so I have backed off. But the 'GOOD ONE'? Not a chance in hell, I know which side my bread is buttered "

OI !!!!

Some of us blokes have psychic powers too you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found that happening a lot lately, one minute you have my full attention then all of a .................

Ooo chocolate biscuits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For no reason with someone you have met on a few occasions....then find yourself thinking do I really want to make the effort any more??? "

Yep...usually when they start pushing for bareback or making comments along the lines of how they could never have a relationship with a woman who was on here. Not that I'm looking for a relationship at all, but I'm also not keen on being made to feel like damaged goods!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Yeah I have in the past, but mainly due to negative feelings (you women know what I mean) Just when things tend to not feel right, the last time you have met, so I have backed off. But the 'GOOD ONE'? Not a chance in hell, I know which side my bread is buttered "

This!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"

Some of us blokes have psychic powers too you know! "

do women talk to cocks the same way that guys talk to tits ??

we cud almost be in parallel universes if this is correct ??

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Yeah I have in the past, but mainly due to negative feelings (you women know what I mean) Just when things tend to not feel right, the last time you have met, so I have backed off. But the 'GOOD ONE'? Not a chance in hell, I know which side my bread is buttered

OI !!!!

Some of us blokes have psychic powers too you know! "

Never said you didn't! But women can normally sense when things don't feel right, and I'll now keep my mouth shut!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For no reason with someone you have met on a few occasions....then find yourself thinking do I really want to make the effort any more??? "

I have done but sometimes its like....do i really want to meet them at all ?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"For no reason with someone you have met on a few occasions....then find yourself thinking do I really want to make the effort any more???

I have done but sometimes its like....do i really want to meet them at all ? "

Or even why the hell did I even go there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For no reason with someone you have met on a few occasions....then find yourself thinking do I really want to make the effort any more???

I have done but sometimes its like....do i really want to meet them at all ?

Or even why the hell did I even go there! "

yup

Or even think of doing so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes once is enough.

if she wants to see you again she will soon let you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I have in the past, but mainly due to negative feelings (you women know what I mean) Just when things tend to not feel right, the last time you have met, so I have backed off. But the 'GOOD ONE'? Not a chance in hell, I know which side my bread is buttered

Yeah the good ones you want to keep hold of.... "

If there's any left that is!!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"For no reason with someone you have met on a few occasions....then find yourself thinking do I really want to make the effort any more???

I have done but sometimes its like....do i really want to meet them at all ?

Or even why the hell did I even go there!

yup

Or even think of doing so "

Exactly! In my case the first few times were ok, then it went a bit weird and I just thought never again!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"sometimes once is enough.

if she wants to see you again she will soon let you know."

This one wouldn't! Read another thread about phone numbers....

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Or why we stuck if out for so long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I have in the past, but mainly due to negative feelings (you women know what I mean) Just when things tend to not feel right, the last time you have met, so I have backed off. But the 'GOOD ONE'? Not a chance in hell, I know which side my bread is buttered

OI !!!!

Some of us blokes have psychic powers too you know!

Never said you didn't! But women can normally sense when things don't feel right, and I'll now keep my mouth shut! "

That could make life difficult!

You're off the hook!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No, if we meet a second time more often than not it becomes a continution. But i dont see the same person week in week out, it can be quite some time between meets, plus it always gets better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sometimes once is enough.

if she wants to see you again she will soon let you know.

This one wouldn't! Read another thread about phone numbers.... "

well i dont like to be pushy.

guess i cannot win lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"sometimes once is enough.

if she wants to see you again she will soon let you know.

This one wouldn't! Read another thread about phone numbers....

well i dont like to be pushy.

guess i cannot win lol"

Neither can I in that case, coz the men on here always tend to think the female is looking for more than NSA, when we're not, I just don't put myself in the position that they can even think that

So that might mean we all lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell, I should be so lucky to get to that point, one visit to me and they're running for the hills that way

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think im lucky that i can be nice to guys and have repeat meets and because im with jay they know im not looking for anything else

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am very guilty of it, not intentional but not into texting, msn or sending messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a playmate via another site prior to joining FAB, and we met up at my place a few times.

Sex was very good, however, it did get harder each time, as his politics and outlook in life were quite different to mine, and there was only so much BS I was prepared to take.

Luckily, our circumstances changed, and we stopped meeting up, and that was that.

Nearly all the gents I have met off FAB on a 1-1 basis turned out to be one-offs .

It was not intentional on my part, however, it just happened that way, and I am not going lose any sleep over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup I'm in that place now and he's quite a good one! I hate feeling not in control not used to it. And I'm very unsure what to do.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Bloody hell, I should be so lucky to get to that point, one visit to me and they're running for the hills that way "

Me too... it could be because I keep breaking them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't lose interest, I meet Will regularly and still get excited at what we plan to do together for each meet we have.

I do however something's struggle to keep up a conversation with some guys on FABS, initial couple messages start off good, then replies their end are replies in such that requires no come back, which I find hard to continue conversation, and rapid ally lose interest

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Events....if they have done something and I look back and think you cheeky fucker...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Events....if they have done something and I look back and think you cheeky fucker...lol"

Hey - just cos I rigged the roulette so you ended up naked first!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

saw one guy a few times but never even got the , oh i'm looking forward to seeing you feeling - with W i cant wait to see him jus t thinking about it makes me tremble inside

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"For no reason with someone you have met on a few occasions....then find yourself thinking do I really want to make the effort any more??? "

Not had this happen to me yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For no reason with someone you have met on a few occasions....then find yourself thinking do I really want to make the effort any more??? "

Yes, yes and yes again as I can be a little shallow at times. Good cooking though does keep me interested for far longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes sometimes

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