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"She's not done anything. You're her friend, so of course she wouldn't want that to end. I would reach out too if I was missing the friendship. You've not done anything either, you were honest and put your cards on the table. Unfortunately it's just a shitty situation all around, but if being friends is too painful and will only make things worse then be straight with her and let her know you care but it's best to keep some distance." I agree with the above and would add that at least she was honest and expressed her feelings | |||
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" I don’t really understand why woman do this." She has done absolutely nothing wrong. The issue here is with you and the way you're perceiving the situation. | |||
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"I don’t really understand why woman do this." Really?! | |||
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"I know this is a strange place to ask this. I let a friend know I had feelings for her. She said she only saw me as a friend. It hit me very hard but after the Christmas break and being travelling for almost a month, I feel like I’m myself again. We hadn’t been in contact at all since I asked her out. While she said she wanted to remain friends, I never once bought it and knew our friendship would be over if she rejected me. Come new year. After a couple of months of radio silence, she messages me saying she doesn’t want to lose me as a friend but if I don’t feel it’s fine we can keep distance. I don’t really understand why woman do this." Understand yourself first. | |||
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" We hadn’t been in contact at all since I asked her out. While she said she wanted to remain friends, I never once bought it and knew our friendship would be over if she rejected me. I don’t really understand why woman do this." Just be honest with her. As soon as she knows you had/have no interest in being friends with her she can move on without worrying about loosing someone who wasn’t really her friend | |||
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"I know this is a strange place to ask this. I let a friend know I had feelings for her. She said she only saw me as a friend. It hit me very hard but after the Christmas break and being travelling for almost a month, I feel like I’m myself again. We hadn’t been in contact at all since I asked her out. While she said she wanted to remain friends, I never once bought it and knew our friendship would be over if she rejected me. Come new year. After a couple of months of radio silence, she messages me saying she doesn’t want to lose me as a friend but if I don’t feel it’s fine we can keep distance. I don’t really understand why woman do this." lol because they dont know what they want until they lose it | |||
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"The issue is with you not her . Just accept that she doesn't see you like that.it stings ..but it's a thousand times easier than torturing yourself wishing something could happen Don't lose a friend for a potential fuck .it's never worth it " So true | |||
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