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"As a rule we find that if we get a reply to a message but it’s generic and doesn’t really leave anywhere to go EG: “thanks you look great” or “yes the forums are hilarious”….. Then they’re not really interested, are probably inundated with messages or we are going to have to do all the work which kills chemistry. " We find ourselves with that a lot. How do you respond to such a first message. Typically get something like this; "Hey guys, you look like a hot couple". We really don't know what to say about that. They are stating the obvious and nothing that we already don't know. We've probably put off a few because we respond to a generic message with a generic message and so the conversation dies. How can you put effort into a reply if there is none presented at first. | |||
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"As a rule we find that if we get a reply to a message but it’s generic and doesn’t really leave anywhere to go EG: “thanks you look great” or “yes the forums are hilarious”….. Then they’re not really interested, are probably inundated with messages or we are going to have to do all the work which kills chemistry. We find ourselves with that a lot. How do you respond to such a first message. Typically get something like this; "Hey guys, you look like a hot couple". We really don't know what to say about that. They are stating the obvious and nothing that we already don't know. We've probably put off a few because we respond to a generic message with a generic message and so the conversation dies. How can you put effort into a reply if there is none presented at first." Whilst it's generally Fox that deals with messages (most get a straight delete) if I get there first or she's busy and I see one like that I generally reply with something along the lines of 'which one?'. If someone gives me an opportunity to have a real conversation I'll take it. If it's a statement, a cringy compliment or just a generic one line 'Hi, how are you' or worse still 'How are you finding the site?' (having been here 14 years that's a pretty daft question) - I'll reply back with the same minimal effort. Few conversations continue from statements. Plenty do from a good witty opener or a question that's actually leading somewehere. A | |||
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"I always try to read their bio and look at the pictures to personalise the first message. Altough sometimes it is hard with no bio or one pic... still try to do best instead of generic ones. " No bio and one or no pics = no reply | |||
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