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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So me and Fel were discussing who is soft in our relationship and kind to other people and who’s cruel and straight to point.

Haha in this case I’m the one who is straight to point and if I don’t like it, either my face will show or I will just say it either way. but Fel is softie

How about you guys ?

Do you tell often people no or you just too soft for it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too soft in all the wrong situations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm like a lovable teddy bear with a hard on!

I think I've essentially screamed at people 3 times in my adult life. Once I had to wait over an hour at a restaurant and I was hangry and I literally made the rest of the restaurant silent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to be but hart brake as turned me cold and hard

In the sens off if someone dosent like it there’s the door

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Wife is the soft one with others , but will stand her corner with me , I won’t take crap and will speak my mind when needed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I use to be but hart brake as turned me cold and hard

In the sens off if someone dosent like it there’s the door "

That’s how I’m like. Can’t baby everyone and think about their feelings being hurt. there’s more important things to worry about,honestly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use to be but hart brake as turned me cold and hard

In the sens off if someone dosent like it there’s the door

That’s how I’m like. Can’t baby everyone and think about their feelings being hurt. there’s more important things to worry about,honestly. "

Yip there is that

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

I've been soft in the past but now I'm not so much , now I tell it like it is and if someone doesnt like it theres the door

That said there has to be give and take because I'm a very giving person

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"So me and Fel were discussing who is soft in our relationship and kind to other people and who’s cruel and straight to point.

Haha in this case I’m the one who is straight to point and if I don’t like it, either my face will show or I will just say it either way. but Fel is softie

How about you guys ?

Do you tell often people no or you just too soft for it ? "
I'm a softie until you hit a nerve

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I don’t care if the truth will upset someone so I guess I’m the cunt. My wife is the most caring person I’ve ever met and tries her best to not upset people. I think we could both learn to be a bit more like each other.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I think I'm quite soft really. Bit chaotic at times. I don't like hurting people. I wouldn't lie to someone but I have a hard time letting people down or being cruel when I could deliver something with kindness. You can be straight with someone without being cruel.

If I'm unhappy with something I'm more likely to say "hey, don't worry about it" if they notice I'm a bit meh because... I can manage my hurt. Try and minimise afflicting it on others. Self appointed martyrdom thanks to upbringing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t care if the truth will upset someone so I guess I’m the cunt. My wife is the most caring person I’ve ever met and tries her best to not upset people. I think we could both learn to be a bit more like each other."

I love my partner to bits. Because he can be soft and try’s to teach me in which situations I should be too and other times I’m like him and then he asks what’s wrong with me

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm soft, but polite and can be direct, be straight to the point. Some may find it as being cheeky but it works

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We always have this conversation op, E regularly reminds me I’m to nice to others.

Mr

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm soft as shit till you upset me.

Having said that I can't remember the last time I lost my temper

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm way too soft and the mr is a cunt we equal eachother out well

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, I'd say we're both quite straight to the point but polite with it and not rude by any means.

In life and swinging life that is.

Miss S x

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I don’t care if the truth will upset someone so I guess I’m the cunt. My wife is the most caring person I’ve ever met and tries her best to not upset people. I think we could both learn to be a bit more like each other.

I love my partner to bits. Because he can be soft and try’s to teach me in which situations I should be too and other times I’m like him and then he asks what’s wrong with me "

In the 10 years with my wife I’ve definitely gotten softer but there’s still a long way to go.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we are both both lol

I can be soft,

so can Husband.

But, I can be very, very hard,

and Husband, well, let's just say don't push his buttons, and you'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cruel

Kinky

And

Dominant

Think this covers all

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I can be both.

Easy going, generous (overly so some may say), charitable.

But at times can be ruthless when needed.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I'm very direct, but not intentionally cruel. I don't see any point in mollycoddling people, and it's easy enough to be direct pleasantly.

I'd much prefer it if everybody I met was direct with me, I can't be doing with wishy washy "politicians" answers and trying to guess what people really mean.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Wish to God I was more to the point but the thought of upsetting someone I can't bare. Its to my own detriment but its who I am despite my efforts to change it x I even got sacked once for being too nice!!! Smh

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

We pick our battles, either can be brutally harsh or soft & forgiving - all depends on what the infringement is.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"I'm too soft in all the wrong situations "

Me too

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England


"I'm too soft in all the wrong situations "

Me too

Sara

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Not soft at all never been get to the point no beating around the bush, pardon the pun

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

My approach veries depending on the situation/person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A depends who I'm talking to, what I'm talking to them about, what needs to be said. If it's my sponsees who need to be told about themselves then they get it Straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m way too soft for my own good. I hate hurting people I feel too guilty. Something I really need to work on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can say no but I'm also a kind generous person. I thibk having boundaries is healthy.

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