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"I’ve been thinking about this recently, I don’t seem to follow a pattern when it comes to type. But there’s been quite a few instance on here someone’s sent me a face pic and I tell them they’re not my type. Some ask what my type is and I honestly can’t answer because I’m not sure. But I just seem to know when someone is, I can’t work out exactly why they are but I just know they are. Not sure any of that makes sense tbh, hopefully you’ll get what I mean anyways " Maybe you could try a visual exercise to help? Like, gather as many pictures of celebrities/characters, of their faces, the ones that give you fanny flutters, and put them all together into a collage, the more the better. Then step back and look at the collage. Maybe you'll identify come common traits? | |||
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"I’ve been thinking about this recently, I don’t seem to follow a pattern when it comes to type. But there’s been quite a few instance on here someone’s sent me a face pic and I tell them they’re not my type. Some ask what my type is and I honestly can’t answer because I’m not sure. But I just seem to know when someone is, I can’t work out exactly why they are but I just know they are. Not sure any of that makes sense tbh, hopefully you’ll get what I mean anyways " It makes sense to me. One of Bros is hot, the other one isn't. It annoys me when they start asking stupid questions like that. If I say my type is XYZ are they suddenly going to morph into XYZ? | |||
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"I’ve been thinking about this recently, I don’t seem to follow a pattern when it comes to type. But there’s been quite a few instance on here someone’s sent me a face pic and I tell them they’re not my type. Some ask what my type is and I honestly can’t answer because I’m not sure. But I just seem to know when someone is, I can’t work out exactly why they are but I just know they are. Not sure any of that makes sense tbh, hopefully you’ll get what I mean anyways It makes sense to me. One of Bros is hot, the other one isn't. It annoys me when they start asking stupid questions like that. If I say my type is XYZ are they suddenly going to morph into XYZ? " yes of course make up artists can do anything these days | |||
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"I’ve been thinking about this recently, I don’t seem to follow a pattern when it comes to type. But there’s been quite a few instance on here someone’s sent me a face pic and I tell them they’re not my type. Some ask what my type is and I honestly can’t answer because I’m not sure. But I just seem to know when someone is, I can’t work out exactly why they are but I just know they are. Not sure any of that makes sense tbh, hopefully you’ll get what I mean anyways Maybe you could try a visual exercise to help? Like, gather as many pictures of celebrities/characters, of their faces, the ones that give you fanny flutters, and put them all together into a collage, the more the better. Then step back and look at the collage. Maybe you'll identify come common traits?" What a great idea | |||
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"No I don’t. If I stood all the women I fancy together (I wish ) they would be very different to each other. " Same with men. Makes planning a threesome a nightmare. Lol! I can't let the short guys go with the tall guys. I can't let the fat guys go with the gym guys. I can't let the well-off guys go with the not-so-well-off guys. I can't let the young guys go with the old guys. I just discovered a new level of male insecurity last month. Body hair. I can't let the smooth guys go with the hairy guys. That's even before I get down to cock size and performance/stamina. Balancing male ego and competitiveness and "gay fear" is a mindfield.(pun intended) let's just go with I like cock and men. | |||
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" But pretty eyes are always a winner." Well, hello there. How YOU doin'? | |||
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"I tend to like the ‘lived in’ look in men " My look is more the 'sorry about the last tenants trashing the place' look. | |||
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"I’ve been thinking about this recently, I don’t seem to follow a pattern when it comes to type. But there’s been quite a few instance on here someone’s sent me a face pic and I tell them they’re not my type. Some ask what my type is and I honestly can’t answer because I’m not sure. But I just seem to know when someone is, I can’t work out exactly why they are but I just know they are. Not sure any of that makes sense tbh, hopefully you’ll get what I mean anyways " I think that telling someone that you don't fancy they're not your type is just a way of letting them down without hurting feelings- it's a bit like telling someone of the same sex who hits on you that you're not interested because you're straight. It's an easier get-out than actually saying that you don't find them physically appealing. You may not have a type, but you reserve the right to make that decision on an individual basis. If you're not attracted, then obviously they're not your type, but that doesn't mean that your type should all fit into a similar physical model. | |||
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"If I stood all the men I fancy together it would look like a family photo. So yes I have a type. " Haha me too! I once went to the pub with a fuck buddy and my then boyfriend and everyone in the pub could swear they were brothers! They did look very alike... | |||
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"Yes. Handsome, dark hair, bearded, good jawline, a man who dresses well with a strange sense of humour. A little nerdy and interesting. " 1/8 ain't bad. (Yes, it is. Ed.) | |||
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"I’ve been thinking about this recently, I don’t seem to follow a pattern when it comes to type. But there’s been quite a few instance on here someone’s sent me a face pic and I tell them they’re not my type. Some ask what my type is and I honestly can’t answer because I’m not sure. But I just seem to know when someone is, I can’t work out exactly why they are but I just know they are. Not sure any of that makes sense tbh, hopefully you’ll get what I mean anyways " OP I completely get that,as I'm the same. Can't say I have a definite type,but I know when someone isn't my type. XX | |||
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"Of course there can be plenty of reasons I can find someone attractive, but guaranteed to make me melt are chunky, strong, bearded guys especially with tattoos! There's a distant lack of those in this neck of the woods " I mean if you live in the woods...It's not exactly London.... That said I was browsing the internet and came across a lumberjack chopping wood in some random forest. Let's just say I and several women in the comments flooded downstairs. I don't think anyone in London chops wood...they do things like cycle, tough mudder and crossfit. Lol! but plenty of tattoos and beards in East London. | |||
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"If I stood all the men I fancy together it would look like a family photo. So yes I have a type. Haha me too! I once went to the pub with a fuck buddy and my then boyfriend and everyone in the pub could swear they were brothers! They did look very alike..." Love these comments. The only thing I can say are the same is that I liked their smile. | |||
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"I don’t have a type. Sure good looks and a good body can catch my attention initially but actually I’m unlikely to approach those people anyway. I’m more likely to gravitate those people who make me feel comfortable and wanted. Good conversation and a similar sense of humour will get me. As long as I find them attractive but there isn’t any look particular that i go for. Kx" Hello | |||
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"Yes. Handsome, dark hair, bearded, good jawline, a man who dresses well with a strange sense of humour. A little nerdy and interesting." ….. it’s funny you should type this… | |||
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"Mentally unstable, apparently. " You too? | |||
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"Mentally unstable, apparently. You too? " I was trying to concoct a witty reply, when I stumbled upon "gaping fanny" Kinda threw me off scent. | |||
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