FabSwingers.com forum: Do you have a type?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve been thinking about this recently, I don’t seem to follow a pattern when it comes to type. But there’s been quite a few instance on here someone’s sent me a face pic and I tell them they’re not my type. Some ask what my type is and I honestly can’t answer because I’m not sure. But I just seem to know when someone is, I can’t work out exactly why they are but I just know they are. Not sure any of that makes sense tbh, hopefully you’ll get what I mean anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it just comes down to the fact you like what you like and see or you don’t, you don’t need reasons, just a gut feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t. If I stood all the women I fancy together (I wish

) they would be very different to each other.

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

Smaller lady up to 5'5" size 10 or smaller love smaller bust as well.

Petit

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

But sexy is diferant that comes from within.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I stood all the men I fancy together it would look like a family photo. So yes I have a type.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"I’ve been thinking about this recently, I don’t seem to follow a pattern when it comes to type. But there’s been quite a few instance on here someone’s sent me a face pic and I tell them they’re not my type. Some ask what my type is and I honestly can’t answer because I’m not sure. But I just seem to know when someone is, I can’t work out exactly why they are but I just know they are. Not sure any of that makes sense tbh, hopefully you’ll get what I mean anyways

Maybe you could try a visual exercise to help? Like, gather as many pictures of celebrities/characters, of their faces, the ones that give you fanny flutters, and put them all together into a collage, the more the better. Then step back and look at the collage. Maybe you'll identify come common traits?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Looks and personality can differ in each person and difficult to explain until it actually comes across

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I totally have a type. Still haven't seen or met him on fab yet. All my experiences with different men definitely has influenced me to have a particular type. I know exactly what I don't like in a man

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't have a type, unless you count interesting to me as a type.

Physically, my partners vary wildly, and I adore them all for different reasons.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I think I like 3 types of men though to give me some flexibility lol

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I know exactly what i dont like in a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes sense to me. One of Bros is hot, the other one isn't.

It annoys me when they start asking stupid questions like that. If I say my type is XYZ are they suddenly going to morph into XYZ?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I definitely don’t have “a type” at all. I’m all about a connection

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes I think I definitely seem to

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Yes, definitely. Though my long term partners have not confirmed to my physical preferred type

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I, K, definitely have a type although sometimes personality wins and I go wild for someone that wouldn't normally fit my type.

LVM doesn't really have a type, but he really likes ladies in glasses

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

It makes sense to me. One of Bros is hot, the other one isn't.

It annoys me when they start asking stupid questions like that. If I say my type is XYZ are they suddenly going to morph into XYZ?

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yes of course make up artists can do anything these days

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Not really. Physically they're all quite different, even more so in women I'm attracted to. I like passion in people but that's not a type as such. Or maybe it is and I just want to sound edgy.

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By *ecret-64Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Oh yes very much so....especially with females that I'm attracted to. [Female]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a type in so far as personality traits and that sort of thing. Looks guarantee nothing. I find too pretty or too gym'ed off-putting though. I like healthy. Healthy mind as much as healthy body

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

What a great idea

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I think judging off the people I message first I have a type that is curvy women but I do have to be able to hold a conversation and have a laugh with them.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I have an "ideal" type of man, but haven't met anyone that fits the description yet

Generally, if I like what I see I'll go with it, they just need to have something about them.

But pretty eyes are always a winner.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I’ve only kissed three girls. My type is ‘anyone who’ll let me.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"No I don’t. If I stood all the women I fancy together (I wish

) they would be very different to each other. "

Same with men. Makes planning a threesome a nightmare. Lol!

I can't let the short guys go with the tall guys.

I can't let the fat guys go with the gym guys.

I can't let the well-off guys go with the not-so-well-off guys.

I can't let the young guys go with the old guys.

I just discovered a new level of male insecurity last month. Body hair.

I can't let the smooth guys go with the hairy guys.

That's even before I get down to cock size and performance/stamina.

Balancing male ego and competitiveness and "gay fear" is a mindfield.(pun intended)

let's just go with I like cock and men.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

But pretty eyes are always a winner."

Well, hello there. How YOU doin'?

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I tend to like the ‘lived in’ look in men

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"I tend to like the ‘lived in’ look in men

My look is more the 'sorry about the last tenants trashing the place' look.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I think that telling someone that you don't fancy they're not your type is just a way of letting them down without hurting feelings- it's a bit like telling someone of the same sex who hits on you that you're not interested because you're straight. It's an easier get-out than actually saying that you don't find them physically appealing.

You may not have a type, but you reserve the right to make that decision on an individual basis. If you're not attracted, then obviously they're not your type, but that doesn't mean that your type should all fit into a similar physical model.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"If I stood all the men I fancy together it would look like a family photo. So yes I have a type. "

Haha me too! I once went to the pub with a fuck buddy and my then boyfriend and everyone in the pub could swear they were brothers! They did look very alike...

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Of course there can be plenty of reasons I can find someone attractive, but guaranteed to make me melt are chunky, strong, bearded guys especially with tattoos!

There's a distant lack of those in this neck of the woods

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By *orksguy1965Man
over a year ago

Howden

A mature curvy lady

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By *ilks xXxWoman
over a year ago

East Mids

God yes …. It’s all there ….

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Older women are my type

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I like women but mature women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes have type

Lady’s my own age or older

Bigger lady’s

It’s who I am what I am

And I love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grey hair and beards, stood up a mountain turn my eye currently.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

As the famous lyrics from the hit song by 'Rae Sremmurd' go:

I ain't got no type

Bad bitches is the only thing that I like

You ain't got no life

Cups with the ice and we do this every night

I ain't check the price

I make my own money, so I spend it how I like

I'm just livin' life

And let my mama tell it, son, I ain't livin' right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer athletic bodies.

The rest is more a vibe I get from someone.

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By *heodore21Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

My type isn’t based on looks but personality and mentality....she has to love kissing...endless for play and be submissive...simple

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By *onest8Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I am more attracted to your mentality than anything else chemistry makes everything else work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Handsome, dark hair, bearded, good jawline, a man who dresses well with a strange sense of humour. A little nerdy and interesting.

I do find others attractive too but I'm always a sucker for that kind of man.

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By *all Guy 00Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

No, i like to interact with lassies to see if they can me smile and laugh

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I don't have a type all my.gentlemen friends looked completely different

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

personality and connection matter most,

but we like meeting big beautiful bi ladies.

Dark hair and green or brown eyes all the better.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Having dated ladies of varying ages and different body types it's hard to describe my type just based on looks. A cute smile, bright eyes & long hair is a good start

Easy going personality, self confidence & sense if humour seal the deal! If she can make me laugh she's a winner

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"Yes.

Handsome, dark hair, bearded, good jawline, a man who dresses well with a strange sense of humour. A little nerdy and interesting.

1/8 ain't bad.

(Yes, it is. Ed.)

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

I definitely have a type when it comes to women but not at all when it comes to guys x as long as a guy can make me laugh and hold my attention he's a winner x ladies in the other hand... Where would I even start??

J x

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

OP I completely get that,as I'm the same. Can't say I have a definite type,but I know when someone isn't my type.

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By *harelzMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Nope,your a long time dead.All about numbers for me

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Of course there can be plenty of reasons I can find someone attractive, but guaranteed to make me melt are chunky, strong, bearded guys especially with tattoos!

There's a distant lack of those in this neck of the woods

I mean if you live in the woods...It's not exactly London....

That said I was browsing the internet and came across a lumberjack chopping wood in some random forest.

Let's just say I and several women in the comments flooded downstairs.

I don't think anyone in London chops wood...they do things like cycle, tough mudder and crossfit. Lol! but plenty of tattoos and beards in East London.

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

I definitely have a type… and I can’t sway from it.

Hence why I am not very active on here … because not many fit it sadly

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By *rjamesMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

The women I have dated have been extremely varied but were all interesting and attractive in their own way.

It's a bit like my taste in music: the genre does not matter as much as the quality.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Mischievous eyes and smile are my type, that's the only thing that is the same across everyone physically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't seem to have a type either and to be honest, it kinda gets me a bit worried because if I don't have a type, it does make me wonder whose type I am and as result, I struggle to see who I would have a good chance with and who I wouldn't.

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By *unthum62Man
over a year ago

Benidorm

I have met some really ugly people living in attractive bodies.

It is definitely more about the person than anything else.

Someone with a positive, happy, fun attitude erring on the weird, sarcasm wins points as does a dark sense of humour. A genuine person, not up their own arse or prone to ignorance.

The physical aspect obviously has an initial attraction but 90% of my partners have been "individuals" as regards personality.

There has been a range of "types" physically.

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By *rolicUsCouple
over a year ago

Alluringly mysterious

People with a fond appreciation for the ridiculous, which I am. Minimal, but healthy, ego.

I do have a penchant for dark hair and some facial hair in men, but equally tempted elsewhere and longer term partners have often been against type.

Women with a twinkle in their eye who I can cackle with while stroking their soft, soft skin.

People who get enthusiastic about a pet excitement. And who agree with me that Grease 2 is the best Grease.

Okay now I’m horny and I need to work. Dammit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, Ford fiesta drivers, Kia ceed lovers and fiat owners.

Can’t fuck a Renault aficionado

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By *hGlobbitsMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have several!

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nice eyes , lovely smile and wicked sense of humour?

Good laugh so breaks the ice

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

I would say I defo have a type dangerous reds hint hint

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I have a type that I am attracted to but I have probably ly dated and had relationships with women outside of that. A type is I think a gut instinct initial attraction thing. Iys getting to know someone and clicking with them at a deeper level that is real attraction.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Women have a type, men don't.

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By *edstockings2Couple
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I (female) don't have a type as far as appearances go, it's what they do or don't do that gets me going.

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By *he_TicklersCouple
over a year ago

Havant & Aberdare

Our type is clean and nice smelling

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By *old HoopsWoman
over a year ago

Near Chester

"If I stood all the men I fancy together it would look like a family photo. So yes I have a type.

Haha me too! I once went to the pub with a fuck buddy and my then boyfriend and everyone in the pub could swear they were brothers! They did look very alike..."

Love these comments.

The only thing I can say are the same is that I liked their smile.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Intelligence but nothing physical

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Is stupid enough to take me on a type?

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes I do but it's very wide ranging.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

No, it varies, I like confident friendly people with nice smiles. And if they can make me laugh they are halfway to getting into my pants…

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

No type, I just have an attraction to someone or I don't

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I thought I knew what my type was but now I just go with the twitch. Turns out it’s never wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny and intelligent and I'll be able to stand your company!

Nice body, flirty smile, great butt, and I'll be able to stand getting all sweaty with ya too!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes. I have a type.

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By *lasgowguy1984Man
over a year ago

bracknell

Brunette, big brown eyes, bubble butt and absolutely essential serious daddy issues - my type.

I’m actively avoiding this as my two long term relationships where the type and they both ended badly. Apparently I have a superhero fantasy where I swoop in and fix those daddy issues, except three months in I realise that you can’t fix people but still try anyway, so now I know my destructive patterns I actively avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah

For me it's goth/emo/alternative curvy or BBW women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I have a type in the terms of physicality. Personality yes. Just somebody I can have a laugh. I've always found the best sex is with the one you can really connect with.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

A nice smile, sparkling eyes - other things my grab my attention but smile and eyes win every time

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don’t have a type. Sure good looks and a good body can catch my attention initially but actually I’m unlikely to approach those people anyway. I’m more likely to gravitate those people who make me feel comfortable and wanted. Good conversation and a similar sense of humour will get me. As long as I find them attractive but there isn’t any look particular that i go for.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I don’t have a type. Sure good looks and a good body can catch my attention initially but actually I’m unlikely to approach those people anyway. I’m more likely to gravitate those people who make me feel comfortable and wanted. Good conversation and a similar sense of humour will get me. As long as I find them attractive but there isn’t any look particular that i go for.

Kx"

Hello

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Type 2!

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Mentally unstable, apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Handsome, dark hair, bearded, good jawline, a man who dresses well with a strange sense of humour. A little nerdy and interesting."

….. it’s funny you should type this…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really but I do prefer slim / athletic bodies

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Mentally unstable, apparently. "

You too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I do. I find all sorts attractive, but there has to be so much more than that.

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By *uggy 555Man
over a year ago

Swansea

They would have to be a nice person with a nice personality....

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

"Mentally unstable, apparently.

You too?

I was trying to concoct a witty reply, when I stumbled upon "gaping fanny"

Kinda threw me off scent.

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By *rdxx999Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I don’t really have a type, just a connection and vibes are important. The only preference I have is I do prefer a larger busted lady

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I didn't think so... certainly not where looks or physique are concerned, as most of the men I've dated or had fun with have all been quite different. However, on reflection I do find that I have an attraction to a certain geeky, yet humerous, personality... without fail that's what draws me in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I typically like older men, thanks to my pretty severe daddy issues

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes i love people who are nice, who are beautiful inside and out and who have a personality

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