FabSwingers.com forum: Body

By *addy bare OP Man
over a year ago

lakeside

How many people would just meet up with someone just by there body pics? For me I would have to see the face before a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not.

Miss S x

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"How many people would just meet up with someone just by there body pics? For me I would have to see the face before a meet."

No way would I meet without a face pic. I would also be very suspicious of a man who would be prepared to meet me without one.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

No way! Had one guy day he wouldn't send pics under any circumstances, but I wouldn't be disappointed. How he knew that, I don't know.

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Not a chance. I’m shallow as fuck so looks are very important.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People have met us without seeing our faces. They simply didn't ask for a face picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t, no.

I’ve had a couple of guys I’ve been chatting to that have suggested meeting having not seen my face yet, at which point my face was like this

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"How many people would just meet up with someone just by there body pics? For me I would have to see the face before a meet."

I would say probably most men, but virtually no women

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I definitely would not meet with just body pix. Need to see face, left big toe, either ear lobe and one of their pinkies. Better safe than sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No way! Had one guy day he wouldn't send pics under any circumstances, but I wouldn't be disappointed. How he knew that, I don't know.

XX"

He must of thought of himself that highly he would fit absolutely everyone's type

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not for me. Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I try to get face swaps out of the way early in conversations so we can establish if there’s a mutual attraction.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I wouldn't arrange to meet someone without seeing their face first.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

way to risky for the ladies,

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

No definitely not it doesn’t matter how hot your body is if I’m not attracted to your face is not going to happen.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I wouldn’t, no.

I’ve had a couple of guys I’ve been chatting to that have suggested meeting having not seen my face yet, at which point my face was like this

I'd think twice too if your face was like that...

LvM

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I wouldn’t, no.

I’ve had a couple of guys I’ve been chatting to that have suggested meeting having not seen my face yet, at which point my face was like this

Are you sure it was

Or what is more like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t, no.

I’ve had a couple of guys I’ve been chatting to that have suggested meeting having not seen my face yet, at which point my face was like this

I'd think twice too if your face was like that...

LvM"

for you two, I’ll wear a balaclava

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I have a few times and it's a risky game to play.

One woman was gorgeous and I was very happy.

One woman was not that attractive to me and had I seen her face before hand I probably would not have not met her... but funnily enough we still hook up from time to time as I quite like her as a person.

One guy was fine to look at but not really my cup of tea and I probably would not have met him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

More interested in a face than a body photo or 17 arty cock shots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be an attraction to the face, if the face fits , the cock fits!

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By *a_fun_30_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We’d never meet without seeing and sending face pics x

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

no good having a great body, if youve got head like quasimodo

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

I wouldn't even message someone if I can't see a face unless it's through games on forum etc

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By *ainyDaySunshineMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

100 % needs to be an attraction. The face is as important as the rest

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Nope... I wouldn't want to meet someone that was wanting to, based on that, either... Just weird

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"no good having a great body, if youve got head like quasimodo"

I've got a body like quasimodo.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Yes I've done this many times.

Face picture isn't particularly important to me, as firstly I'm not attracted to faces (I don't plan on kissing you anyway), and secondly it can be faked equally as much as any other body part.

I hate how the implied idea that a face pic somehow adds credibility to a profile is encouraging some people to weaponize their face pics by including it amongst their gallery of dismembered body parts when sending them to you - unsolicited - like I'm supposed to automatically return the favour or something lol jog on.

Any face picture that isn't attached to the rest of the body in the photo, is about as much use as a verification tool as a foot or elbow picture.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"no good having a great body, if youve got head like quasimodo

I've got a body like quasimodo."
,, its ok ive got his head

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Need to see the face pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a type as far as looks go, it's more the full package that draws me in and turns me on. I need a connection, a miminum level of comfort.

Can't imagine getting naked/intimate/vulnerable with a person who was effectively a total stranger.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Yes I would but each one would be how a feel based on body pictures.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"Yes I've done this many times.

Face picture isn't particularly important to me, as firstly I'm not attracted to faces (I don't plan on kissing you anyway), and secondly it can be faked equally as much as any other body part.

Any face picture that isn't attached to the rest of the body in the photo, is about as much use as a verification tool as a foot or elbow picture."

I've seen you express this view before, and no question you are entirely free to have it. But the certainty with which you express it, as if it were self-evidently true, interests me. For the vast majority of people,the face is not just 'a body part' akin to an elbow, but the site of the personality.

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By *ocktoplaywithMan
over a year ago

Derby

I met a lady once, a few years ago, we’d exchanged face pics but she looked absolutely nothing like it. Turned out it was 10 years out of date, her hair was different style, colour and length. No glasses in photo, glasses at the meet, etc etc. I had to guess judging by her being the only single lady in the coffee shop.

Anyway it didn’t matter too much. Things went very well.

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By *ayna20Couple
over a year ago

Kent

As we tend to only meet after chatting to people for a while first then I can’t imagine ever meeting without having seen a face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without seeing a face pic at some point before meeting, I’d never believe someone wasn’t a fake.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I wouldn’t, no.

I’ve had a couple of guys I’ve been chatting to that have suggested meeting having not seen my face yet, at which point my face was like this

I'd think twice too if your face was like that...

LvM

for you two, I’ll wear a balaclava"

Make it a latex one and you're on

LvM

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No, I couldn't do it, I can't kiss a face I don't want to look at, I don't care if that's shallow, I have to be attracted to someone.

Mrs

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

It’s a no from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In veris we trust

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"How many people would just meet up with someone just by there body pics? For me I would have to see the face before a meet."
Not a chance...

I need to see face,bond with them...

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

"I've seen you express this view before, and no question you are entirely free to have it. But the certainty with which you express it, as if it were self-evidently true, interests me. For the vast majority of people,the face is not just 'a body part' akin to an elbow, but the site of the personality."

Greetings. Thanks for taking an interest in my forum activity.

I stated my opinion in full knowledge that it would almost certainly not be the popular consensus viewpoint here. This is not my very first day on a dating app (as you know).

You may be somewhat taken aback by how stridently I adhere to this view, but it's clearly just an opinion and nothing more than that. How one chooses to manage their pictures & how one chooses to receive/perceive pictures from others, is clearly something that's up to the individual to decide. For example, the way you perceive a face as some kind of window to the soul, is not the same way I perceive one, where to me it's merely just the location of the noise-hole.

Needless to say I won't be changing my opinion

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

If they're lying over my lap to have their bum smacked, I can't see their face anyway

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Have to see face pic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met people without seeing face photos

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Rather see a slapped arse than a stiff kipper

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope ,if I don't find their face attractive,it wouldn't go any further.

I'm not bothered about body as much as I am liking how they look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never! Many have a good body but the face is key for me

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"I wouldn’t, no.

I’ve had a couple of guys I’ve been chatting to that have suggested meeting having not seen my face yet, at which point my face was like this

I’m sure that face wouldn’t put anyone off anyways unless it was like

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"No, I couldn't do it, I can't kiss a face I don't want to look at, I don't care if that's shallow, I have to be attracted to someone.

Mrs "

Not shallow at all attraction is key for me

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"No way! Had one guy day he wouldn't send pics under any circumstances, but I wouldn't be disappointed. How he knew that, I don't know.

XX"

Wow he fancies himself

I had a man say years ago I didn't need to see his face to meet for a drink ,err yeah I do & I stopped chatting to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In veris we trust

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Hell no

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

No, unfortunately some people are BOBFOC

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Nope, bodies are not what attracts me, personalities are. I can't see a personality in a torso or dick pic

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
over a year ago

I'm cautious, mainly because I'm a pretty introverted fella. Yes I want to exchange face pics, because tight thing to do. Clicking early saves everyone's time. However, I value privacy and know that many of us have respectable jobs, work in public spaces or can bump into people in non-Fab land. And I'd prefer to avoid uncomfortable glares. Also I think it's probably paranoid thoughts, but don't like the idea of sharing intimate information that can be scammed, black mailed or used against me.

I accept that this is a trust thing and maybe a few more exchanges are needed to check that things are going the right way before sharing face pics which can loose a connections interest (and I'm sure it way harder for men to attract females than females screening a full indox) but there you go.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Superficial as fuck maybe.. But body off Baywatch etc not for us! Feeling bad for saying it honestly..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Superficial as fuck maybe.. But body off Baywatch etc not for us! Feeling bad for saying it honestly.."

Why feel bad? Most people need to be attracted to the people they fuck.

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By *weetpea2000Woman
over a year ago

Wexford

Not a hope

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Nope.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I have in the past. But as it's always a social meet first so it's not a big deal.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Never in a month of Sundays. Too many prawns about (body you want to devour but you want to rip the head off and throw it away)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really have a body type but facial attraction is a must for me. If I find you facially attractive then I'll likely find your body sexy too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never in a month of Sundays. Too many prawns about (body you want to devour but you want to rip the head off and throw it away)

That's a new one I've not heard of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not! How can people meet without seeing face pics?! We’ve seen plenty of bodies we’re attracted to but the face pics we weren’t.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is key and for us it starts with the face.

We don't even engage in conversation if no face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no good having a great body, if youve got head like quasimodo

I've got a body like quasimodo."

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"Absolutely not! How can people meet without seeing face pics?! We’ve seen plenty of bodies we’re attracted to but the face pics we weren’t.

Mrs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have in the past. But as it's always a social meet first so it's not a big deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have.. But my then Dom 'vetted' them and was present throughout

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

It's also a slightly different situation for Tgirls like me as opposed to women.

Often a lot of men are closeted about their attraction to t=girls & often, don't want to send you any pictures AT ALL. Not even body pics (which is just ridiculous), and certainly not face pics.

so to try & make it easier for them to contact people like me, i will disregard the "requirement" for face pics as they don't do anything for me sexually anyway, & I don't think they hold much water as a method for filtering out timewasters/catfish or assessing credibility.

From MY POV it's a pointless hoop to make people jump through at the end of the day.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We always ask and have turned meets down if people are not prepared to swap a simple face photo on here first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always insist on meeting at the gloryhole just in case

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Never in a month of Sundays. Too many prawns about (body you want to devour but you want to rip the head off and throw it away)

Omg, this is brilliant!!!

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

I would, but don't really see why someone wouldn't share at the point a meet is being arranged.

It would be a social thatbmay become more if we click are attracted

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