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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

my poor son now 21 yrs old has the initials BJ - we never really thought about it at the time- confessed hed been teased rotten about it over the years but fortunately he has a great sense of humour ( he now says its a great nickname )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I own some dayglo green Armani trunks!

Seemed like a good idea at the time!

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

Tell him he shares it with Billy J Kramer, the 60's heart throb.

C'mon, surely you remember Billy J Kramer and the Dakota's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all of them

(and there have been many )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using a can of lynx as a flamethrower on another can therefore making it explode and burst my eardrums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a high speed motorbike crash.

had multiple injuries and was on fire due to fuel fire.

got patch on arm to remind me of it.

thankfully all the rest was operated on and was worth the expense.

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By *orset manMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

'' does anyone want to know a secret ''

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

MY WIFE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not leaving my ex when I had an inkling that he was cheating on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The biggest mistake was when my ex ma in law's parents forgot to use a condom....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep made plenty but you can't turn back time or change what's happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not leaving my ex when I had an inkling that he was cheating on me. "

always niggles at you doesnt it.

yet you suffer on.

arent we strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont have many mistakes that i regret i see them as learning curves so i dont do it again......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No mistakes...just 'learning opportunities'

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont regret any of my mistakes, its what you have learnt by them that counts. Im sure i will continue to make mistakes along the line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not leaving my ex when I had an inkling that he was cheating on me.

always niggles at you doesnt it.

yet you suffer on.

arent we strange."

2 years I stayed with him for. Last 2 years of my dad's life. He's shacked up with her now. Bastard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"'' does anyone want to know a secret ''"

go on share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No mistakes...just 'learning opportunities' "

precisely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not leaving my ex when I had an inkling that he was cheating on me.

always niggles at you doesnt it.

yet you suffer on.

arent we strange."

not listening to the ex when he told me in the very early days he was a selfish pig - should really learn to listen in future - mind you hes not changed much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No mistakes...just 'learning opportunities' "

yes son has learnt to laugh at himself - done him no harm at all

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By *thyorksCouple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM


"No mistakes...just 'learning opportunities' "

Couldn't agree more with that statment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes is doesnt matter what people tell you.

we often ignore the best advice

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By *azNdavCouple
over a year ago

barnsley

Heard a saying once.

Don't regret what you have done just regret what you havnt done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sometimes is doesnt matter what people tell you.

we often ignore the best advice"

i have to agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No mistakes...just 'learning opportunities'

yes son has learnt to laugh at himself - done him no harm at all "

My eldest has the initials DIY...he's now a painer and decorator. I didn't think then either lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my mum said i was a mistake.

funny how you always know.

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By *obroyman17Man
over a year ago

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"No mistakes...just 'learning opportunities' "

brill answer.... not to say i actually learn from them all.. but getting better with old age...

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By *obroyman17Man
over a year ago


"Not leaving my ex when I had an inkling that he was cheating on me.

always niggles at you doesnt it.

yet you suffer on.

arent we strange.

2 years I stayed with him for. Last 2 years of my dad's life. He's shacked up with her now. Bastard. "

your having the fun now! he is prob in a boring relationship with boring sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both billy j and the Dakotas are still performing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still kicking myself for falling in love with a woman who early on said "you should know I'm spoiled and always get my own way."

Now I know she should have just said "im a psychopath"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not standing up to my P***head of an ex mother in law.

She used to throw abuse at me for no reason. We used to have take aways and taxis ordered to our house.

Boy am i glad i no longer have to have anything to do with her

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Dont live with them. Learn from them and move on.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"Not leaving my ex when I had an inkling that he was cheating on me.

always niggles at you doesnt it.

yet you suffer on.

arent we strange.

your having the fun now! he is prob in a boring relationship with boring sex lol"

My ex recently asked me direct if I was going to a certain club. I made it quite clear thst it was very inapropriate for him to be adking me questions about my private life. I ambpretty sure he has boring sex.

I would rather have little sex or good sex based on the truth rather than sex based on lies. Lies get you into trouble and he found that out big time. Being single now is better than a relationship founded on lies and pretence. Sometimes sitting down and having a conversation with yourself makes you see things you hadnt. Shame that people go on to make the same mistakes over and over again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long story short:

Got 2 lynx cans

Pierced one

Used second one with a lighter on the first one

First one explodes

Gives me tinnitus.

Nice one me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my ex! in the time we were together she cheated on me 3 times, in 10 years, the first i found out about more of less straight away, but we were only seeing each other at the time so i let it slide, the second i only found out about after we split, and the third was the reason i left her, apparently it was only a 1 off but he moved in with her 3 weeks after i left and when i had all my paper work from her she had stupidly put the mobile phone bills in also and they had been in contact for 6 months before i found out.

She got her just deserts anyway because he got her pregnant and fucked off haha

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

Not taking up the job offer in Australia 20 years ago.

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford


"my ex! in the time we were together she cheated on me 3 times, in 10 years, the first i found out about more of less straight away, but we were only seeing each other at the time so i let it slide, the second i only found out about after we split, and the third was the reason i left her, apparently it was only a 1 off but he moved in with her 3 weeks after i left and when i had all my paper work from her she had stupidly put the mobile phone bills in also and they had been in contact for 6 months before i found out.

She got her just deserts anyway because he got her pregnant and fucked off haha"

Karmas a wonderful thing Hun

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

isnt it just! I said that to her at the time haha. cheeky trout tried getting back with me too, she said she wasnt sure if the baby was mine or not because she caught more or less when we split. i told her the csa does dna tests, and i happily did one too, and as jeremy would say im not the dad xx

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"my ex! in the time we were together she cheated on me 3 times, in 10 years, the first i found out about more of less straight away, but we were only seeing each other at the time so i let it slide, the second i only found out about after we split, and the third was the reason i left her, apparently it was only a 1 off but he moved in with her 3 weeks after i left and when i had all my paper work from her she had stupidly put the mobile phone bills in also and they had been in contact for 6 months before i found out.

She got her just deserts anyway because he got her pregnant and fucked off haha"

Have had similar experiences but not as bad as yours. Its amazing how people can flip a coin almost and you sit back and think omg your off your rocker! You know whats going to happen and its going to be messy. A friend of mine moves from one disaster to another and never learns. I tend to learn and allow time to digest and see where it went wrong before involving myself in another person. She feels she needs to be loved but meets the wrong ones. Where as she is better to stay single and repair herself. Am always there for her if she needs it.

But dating on the rebound is bad for everyone. She doesnt do it maliciously at all but have seen it done that way. It makes you realise they are using you like a pawn in a game. Just feel for the un suspecting people who will get hurt.

Have told my friend she needs to get herself to a club as her eyes will open wide lol. She needs a laugh lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex girlfriend had a wonderfull daughter of 6 named summer Holly. Such a nice name until you add her surname "day". Poor girls gonna have a nightmare at school when shes older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some tartan trousers from my late teens n i loved them

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Lol x

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