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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

I would say around about 30% if not more on here who are single are not swingers looking more one to one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the forums? Or on fabs in general?

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe


"On the forums? Or on fabs in general?"
Both an awful lot on the forums are not swingers you can tell with what they write

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork

People look for all sorts here- it's not (only) a swinger site, despite the name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was, I’m probably not now. I don’t think it matters.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"People look for all sorts here- it's not (only) a swinger site, despite the name "

This

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork


"I don’t think it matters."

This ^^

We're all on a journey here

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Can by definition a single person even be a swinger?

What's your definition of a swinger?

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Definition someone who playwith others for eample cuople with cuoples

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Surely someone who will play with others is a single who will play with a single without it being within the confines of a relationship OP

Or am I not getting the meaning of being a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it really matters, so long as someone is enjoying the site?

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"I don’t think it matters.

This ^^

We're all on a journey here "

It would be great that whilst on these journeys, some of you (the good looking ones, not the fugley ones) made a detour past my place

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

I swing into the river for my cold water dips

I’ve been here as a single and a couple I’ll be fucked if I know what a swinger is these days

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

There's a lot of definitions that some would not call swingers but cliques will always exist.

No they have to be married? Can it just be an unmarried boyfriend & girlfriend? Can it be 2 unmarried girls, or boys? Can it be a 3rd in a throuple as the 3 isn't married? When you boil it down you essentially just mean single men, using Fab as a dating site.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?"

I think "guest" might be more acceptable

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm not a swinger. I'm not bi and most couples want a bi woman, so I stick to single men.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?

I think "guest" might be more acceptable "

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Can by definition a single person even be a swinger?

What's your definition of a swinger?"

if they have keys and a bowl.... Yes

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"There's a lot of definitions that some would not call swingers but cliques will always exist.

No they have to be married? Can it just be an unmarried boyfriend & girlfriend? Can it be 2 unmarried girls, or boys? Can it be a 3rd in a throuple as the 3 isn't married? When you boil it down you essentially just mean single men, using Fab as a dating site."

Maybe just as many women.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


" Definition someone who playwith others for eample cuople with cuoples "

Wouldn't anyone playing with anyone exploring sexually be a swinger

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away


"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?"

The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?

The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them"

But he/she is engaging within the lifestyle so anyone whom is would be a swingers

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?

The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them"

So a single can’t be a swinger

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"There's a lot of definitions that some would not call swingers but cliques will always exist.

No they have to be married? Can it just be an unmarried boyfriend & girlfriend? Can it be 2 unmarried girls, or boys? Can it be a 3rd in a throuple as the 3 isn't married? When you boil it down you essentially just mean single men, using Fab as a dating site.

Maybe just as many women."

That may be true, but in a club nobody ever complains about groups of feral women following a man around

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?

The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them"

So a single can’t be a swinger

noun: swinger; plural noun: swingers

1.

INFORMAL

a lively and fashionable person who goes to a lot of social events.

"one of the oldest swingers in town"

2.

INFORMAL

a person who engages in group sex or the swapping of sexual partners.

"a twilight world of swingers and wife-swapping"

3.

CRICKET

a bowler who makes a delivery of a ball deviate sideways from a regular course in the air.

"the left-handed swinger was the toughest player in the League"

a ball delivery that deviates sideways from a regular course.

"the innings fell away to Johnson's away swingers"

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"There's a lot of definitions that some would not call swingers but cliques will always exist.

No they have to be married? Can it just be an unmarried boyfriend & girlfriend? Can it be 2 unmarried girls, or boys? Can it be a 3rd in a throuple as the 3 isn't married? When you boil it down you essentially just mean single men, using Fab as a dating site.

Maybe just as many women.

That may be true, but in a club nobody ever complains about groups of feral women following a man around"

I don’t think feral men in a club are using fab as a dating site.

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

Does it need to be defined?

Enjoy yourself.

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away


"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?

The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them

But he/she is engaging within the lifestyle so anyone whom is would be a swingers"

Just because you wish it so doesn't make it so

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?

The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them

But he/she is engaging within the lifestyle so anyone whom is would be a swingers

Just because you wish it so doesn't make it so "

Its taking the part not everyone needs to get a badge

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away


"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?

The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them

But he/she is engaging within the lifestyle so anyone whom is would be a swingers

Just because you wish it so doesn't make it so

Its taking the part not everyone needs to get a badge "

agreed

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?

The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them

But he/she is engaging within the lifestyle so anyone whom is would be a swingers

Just because you wish it so doesn't make it so

Its taking the part not everyone needs to get a badge

agreed "

Hence a single female is classified as a unicorn Absolutely singles are swingers. Swingers are not just couples who couple swap. Swingers are just anyone whom takes part within the lifestyle

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?

The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them

But he/she is engaging within the lifestyle so anyone whom is would be a swingers

Just because you wish it so doesn't make it so

Its taking the part not everyone needs to get a badge

agreed

Hence a single female is classified as a unicorn Absolutely singles are swingers. Swingers are not just couples who couple swap. Swingers are just anyone whom takes part within the lifestyle "

And the lifestyle is not just about sex, its the friendships you make in this lifestyle as well.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?

The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them"

A couple can't be because they are parents think I've heard so much bs when folk engage into something but clearly don't understand what is once involved omg

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I know what true definition is, but for my own purposes I class myself as one. Its not about my relationship status it's about the core values.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I would say around about 30% if not more on here who are single are not swingers looking more one to one"

Is that with the intention of eventually swinging do you think?Otherwise why not just use a dating site.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Yes that applies for me. I'm not a swinger.

Just promiscuous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do we need a cock length contest over who’s a swinger and who isn’t every few months?

It’s been done to death

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Why do we need a cock length contest over who’s a swinger and who isn’t every few months?

It’s been done to death "

Pretty much this

People are free to use the site anyway they want once it's inside the site rules.

I find it amusing how annoyed people get when others use the site differently to them. As though their way is right and everyone who do things different are wrong.If they spent more time concentrating on those who are after the same thing they would be much better off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say around about 30% if not more on here who are single are not swingers looking more one to one"

And…..

Who cares?

It’s a tired old argument, that goes round and round in circles. Never truly gets answers, and everyone resumes the status quo.

Why does wanting to meet 1-2-1 mean that someone isn’t a swinger?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I wish to embark on lunch/dinner dates.

I want to gaze upon a Pre-Raphaelite with someone, handholding optional.

I hanker for the unconventional.

I want to have sex, hither and thither.

I have no idea what this labels me as. If at all.

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe


"Surely someone who will play with others is a single who will play with a single without it being within the confines of a relationship OP

Or am I not getting the meaning of being a swinger? "

that's one to one

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe


"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?

The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them

So a single can’t be a swinger "

sibgle people can be swingers but one to one isnt swinging

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?

The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them

So a single can’t be a swinger sibgle people can be swingers but one to one isnt swinging"

oh yes it is

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"I would say around about 30% if not more on here who are single are not swingers looking more one to one"

Does it matter? If they and others have one to one meets and enjoy. Don’t all have to be a swinger? Yes that site name but some might want to build up to swinging scene

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"I would say around about 30% if not more on here who are single are not swingers looking more one to one"

How about you, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say around about 30% if not more on here who are single are not swingers looking more one to one

How about you, OP? "

Yes. If you’re a single female, going by what your profile says and your views in your posts on this thread, you shouldn’t be on here?

It’d be a quiet site if everyone except the couples left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging has evolved. It’s no longer just couples meeting couples. Swinging is a mindset to me…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say around about 30% if not more on here who are single are not swingers looking more one to one"

I would say more like 60%

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I prefer one to one but I have a partner so pretty sure that counts *shrugs*

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