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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No Strings Attached.

What does that phrase mean to you?

Tell all, fantastic forum folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me NSA is a way to cure a itch for both parties involved that can be agreed with out and consequences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both having the need, both getting something out of it, potential for on going, but no preassure on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a real boy..

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

When Pinocchio became a real boy?

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I'm a real boy.."

Great minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an nsa meet, to me, is just that.

you spark interest, you meet, you have an incredible time, and you leave.

nothing more. Px

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a real boy..

Great minds "

….aaaaand now I’m singing the song. Thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No Strings Attached.

What does that phrase mean to you?

Tell all, fantastic forum folk "

Dunno, shall we find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a real boy..

Great minds "

Probably just fools....

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I'm a real boy..

Great minds

Probably just fools...."

More than likely.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It means*to me* that outside our time together we have no obligation to each other

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It means exactly what it says.It is sex pure and simple.They have no interest in getting to know the person they meet it's just sex. Fuck and go basically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No games, conditions or hidden agendas

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By *ed MartinMan
over a year ago

Shefford

A mutually satisfying sexual encounter where both parties have a prior agreement that romantic attachments are not part of the arrangement- potentially to the extent of anonymity, and often a one-off occurrence.

It differs from a Friends With Benefits arrangement as these relationships involve a social element on an ongoing basis but not a romantic relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah in all seriousness it just means no commitment to each other. No exclusivity essentially, you can both do whatever you want / feel how you want but can do the same with others.

Usually ends in someone getting feelings and then heartbreak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sex

Don’t need to know they life’s hang ups and such

What job they have

They use me I am useing them nothing more nothing less

One off or regular

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Just sex

Don’t need to know they life’s hang ups and such

What job they have

They use me I am useing them nothing more nothing less

One off or regular "

I don’t think it just means just sex though

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

Is it not code for let’s have a quickie

It’s not for me I’m more mind body and soul but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shag and bag

For me it’s the same as when I see “hassle free”

I don’t see chatting to someone as hassle, but then I’m a people person

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

It's a term that still flummoxes me, along with FWB. I know within my heart and mind what I'm looking for and desire, but I stop short of shoe-horning it into a term.

What does it mean to •me•? It means EVERYTHING, except the spousal attachment, the union, the commitment, the romance, the yearning, the love...; but not at the detriment to what is important to me: feelings, closeness, bonding, mental connection, trust, unconditional friendship, tactility and substance.

But that's just me.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I'm a real boy..

Great minds

….aaaaand now I’m singing the song. Thanks guys"

•

Incidentally, I require my Tripod. But keep my pristine white shirt, with the pearlescent buttons.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Its a casual hook up, both parties have no commitments to each other, can see each other when ever and walk away at any time with no retributions

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

LH

Casual fun, no commitment. Meet up when and if you can with no pressure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just sex

Don’t need to know they life’s hang ups and such

What job they have

They use me I am useing them nothing more nothing less

One off or regular

I don’t think it just means just sex though "

True it could mean other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's amazing how many people believe it just means sex. This modern world

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's amazing how many people believe it just means sex. This modern world "

So what is it to you, if not just sex?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

To me it means fuck n go. Puts me off seeing that on profiles. Not for me

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"It's amazing how many people believe it just means sex. This modern world "

I'd say its more a case of within the context of the company around here and the room that the examples will surround sex.

What people have said does not change the meaning, which is essentially "here is the deal, we do this and that's done, no little extras or frills. The end"

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I think it’s a term that can be something someone wants from here. No strings fun.

But I like there to be a connection with my playmates so I invest time and effort into that. So it doesn’t really apply to what I’m looking for OP

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

It means we won’t have to padlock the rabbit cage when we’re done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means nothing set in stone to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It means we won’t have to padlock the rabbit cage when we’re done "

Dark…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That he'll bang you like a rocket but there will never be a ring in his pocket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That he'll bang you like a rocket but there will never be a ring in his pocket."

That's the sexiest thing you've ever said

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By *ervice2000Man
over a year ago

derby

It means to me whatever you want it to mean to you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a reason why the violin I bought was so cheap.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"No Strings Attached.

What does that phrase mean to you?"

I suppose to get technical about it, NSA is defined in opposition to having ‘strings’ attached. So what are those strings and why might you not want them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a real boy..

Great minds

….aaaaand now I’m singing the song. Thanks guys

•

Incidentally, I require my Tripod. But keep my pristine white shirt, with the pearlescent buttons."

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

N.s.a.

No singles apply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No Strings Attached.

What does that phrase mean to you?

I suppose to get technical about it, NSA is defined in opposition to having ‘strings’ attached. So what are those strings and why might you not want them?"

So how would you answer, sir?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Such Thing ..... !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just sex init, and nothing more than that.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"No Strings Attached.

What does that phrase mean to you?

I suppose to get technical about it, NSA is defined in opposition to having ‘strings’ attached. So what are those strings and why might you not want them?

So how would you answer, sir? "

One man's string, is another man's nipple chain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing how many people believe it just means sex. This modern world

So what is it to you, if not just sex?"

I expressed what it means to me in a previous post on the thread

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By *unthum62Man
over a year ago

Benidorm

A simple meet purely for sex.

No need to know each others life story or get involved in any aspect of each others lives except for meets.

It is very rare it stays that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's amazing how many people believe it just means sex. This modern world

So what is it to you, if not just sex?

I expressed what it means to me in a previous post on the thread"

Blimey, ok. Thanks for your input.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It means ‘a shit guitar’ to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No Such Thing ..... !!!"

This is what I think. There are always strings. I want to care, and if I don’t care, I don’t see the point.

As Harlot said above - no hassle/ baggage is a similar concept. We all have it, but some won’t acknowledge it…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No Such Thing ..... !!!

This is what I think. There are always strings. I want to care, and if I don’t care, I don’t see the point.

As Harlot said above - no hassle/ baggage is a similar concept. We all have it, but some won’t acknowledge it…"

But I think that depends on the person then. Maybe for you, there's no such things as you want to e emotionally I vested in the meet. But that doesn't apply to others who want to meet and purely see sex as an act between two consenting adults and nothing more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No Such Thing ..... !!!

This is what I think. There are always strings. I want to care, and if I don’t care, I don’t see the point.

As Harlot said above - no hassle/ baggage is a similar concept. We all have it, but some won’t acknowledge it…"

And this is why swinging and swingers speak to me. I like people who I get along with. I don’t just want to forget who they are after we’ve been intimate.

NSA bothered me, and I don’t go looking for that with anyone. Been there, and i felt like shit afterwards.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

For me it implies a mutual agreement between parties that the relationship shall remain casual indefinitely (friends with benefits).

Marriage and moving in together is taken off the table.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"No Such Thing ..... !!!

This is what I think. There are always strings. I want to care, and if I don’t care, I don’t see the point.

As Harlot said above - no hassle/ baggage is a similar concept. We all have it, but some won’t acknowledge it…

And this is why swinging and swingers speak to me. I like people who I get along with. I don’t just want to forget who they are after we’ve been intimate.

NSA bothered me, and I don’t go looking for that with anyone. Been there, and i felt like shit afterwards. "
Yes I'm with you on that Woody NSA makes you feel as though you are just there to perform, make them cum and leave no kissing no intimacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NSA - Meet and go our separate ways, may never meet again.

No emotional involvement.

I see a progression to FB and finally FWB if we get on well.

Even a FWB would never be a part of my RL.

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By *KG12Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Sounds like an extention to FB. so you'd be f buddies with no strings attached

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"So how would you answer, sir? "

Oooh, I think I like it when you call me ‘Sir’.

The answer to this is going to vary person by person. As it should!

For me, no strings means no ties. No commitments beyond being good to each other.

Nothing’s specifically off the table, it’s just a relaxed sexual relationship between two people. Whether that’s for a few hours or a few decades.

Whereas, in contrast, I’m married. That’s a sexual relationship which very much comes with strings attached. There’s a ring, a house, a duty of care to each other, a garage full of cars, a dog to look after, gas bills to pay and all sorts.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"It means we won’t have to padlock the rabbit cage when we’re done

Dark… "

Nah… he’s all white and fluffy

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Fuck and go/fuck buddy.

Not for me thanks

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It means, definitely not for me.

I can understand why it works/how it could work for others. Have sex. Don't see each other again. No how are you messages, random chats. Pretty perfunctory, heat of the moment sort of sex. Simple. Uncomplicated.

But for me, I like strings. I like friendship. I'd love for it to be minimal drama, wouldn't we all? No one wants to deliberately court it. I don't want to move in with anyone. Get married. Have a child with them.

It's such a subjective term isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means their tryna fuck not start a family

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

To me, it's a way of the person making it clear that they'll potentially expect to be able to lift you and lay you at their whim

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

To me it means having the oppertunity to be able to satisfy each other without any anything more

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Yes, as many have said, the strings are what I'm looking for. That connection is the key. Sex can be the supreme expression of that connection, a catalyst for it, or one essential element of touch and desire, but I never want to have 'just' sex. It would do nothing for me. I'd infinitely rather a sexless connection than a connectionless shag. And yet sex is hugely important to me.

Doesn't mean we have to be all Victorian about it. Sex doesn't have to mean moving in together, let alone marriage/kids/mortgage - the full catastrophe, as they put it in Zorba the Greek. But it's partly because I love people, and partly because I crave responsibility - I WANT to know about your day, your family problems, what the lady in the flower shop said about your hair...everything. For at least that time together, I need us to be the whole world to each other.

I ended a relationship with someone shortly before I joined here - someone who sometimes said she wanted to marry me, that she loved me, and far more extravagantly romantic things - because she never wanted to talk about her life anymore. She actively shut down talk like that. I had become at worst a distraction, at best a wonderful fantasy. But I wasn't real anymore. In a way, I didn't matter. That's not for me.

(Shouldn't need saying, yet somehow always does on these threads...OBVIOUSLY these are entirely personal opinions, and OBVIOUSLY there are masses of people who are wholly happy and fulfilled with physical only sex.)

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing how many people believe it just means sex. This modern world

So what is it to you, if not just sex?

I expressed what it means to me in a previous post on the thread

Blimey, ok. Thanks for your input."

Blimey? Hah I'm assuming you were hoping for a deeper meaning with more words. What does NSA mean to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it means someone with a broken marionette....

Dear lord I'm funny

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By *es_ivebeen_hereb4Man
over a year ago

I'm always around here

Not

Sodding

Answering?

I'm sure that's the meaning, I mean let me know if I'm wrong hahahaha...
"No Strings Attached.

What does that phrase mean to you?

Tell all, fantastic forum folk "

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