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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you say that you are confident or do you struggle with meeting new people etc

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm confident in myself.

I'm less confident that people aren't going to disappoint me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not confident to start but once the initial interaction has past and I know we have each others attention I am confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've struggled with confidence issues all my life and I don't think it will ever change. A mixture of self esteem issues, trauma and vicious people have shaped who I am and it's hard to shake off. What I am working on is being kinder to myself, that's the best I can hope for right now.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Would you say that you are confident or do you struggle with meeting new people etc"

No I'm not that confident at all, it's one of my biggest failings in life. I'm much better than I used to be though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read an article on Imposter Syndrome about 18 months ago......and every bloody thing in that article struck a chord with how I see myself sometimes.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m cripplingly shy sadly and always have been.

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

I’m pretty confident. At my age I’ve had enough experience to know what I’m like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've struggled with confidence issues all my life and I don't think it will ever change. A mixture of self esteem issues, trauma and vicious people have shaped who I am and it's hard to shake off. What I am working on is being kinder to myself, that's the best I can hope for right now."

Yes be kind to yourself I learned to do that,I was always confident growing up ,but when I hit my late 30s I was diagnosed with an underactive thyroid and my weight has doubled since then,my hubby of 25 years even left me because he said he just didn't fancy me anymore,that hit me hard and I struggled,but now I'm at an age where I have accepted who I am ect,I'm the same person I've always been,just a hell of alot more of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not in the slightest Px

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By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow

I fake it to make it. Naturally reserved and insular but realise that beyond my comfort zone, ‘there be treasure’

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By *mperiumMan
over a year ago

@

Overly confident here.

Set myself up.... to be let down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I fake it to make it. Naturally reserved and insular but realise that beyond my comfort zone, ‘there be treasure’"

That's a great way to go about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Overly confident here.

Set myself up.... to be let down "

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"not in the slightest Px "

Well you look great so be kind to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In person no but I’m shy on fab

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

I can be quite shy and do struggle meeting and talking to new people, especially in clubs. I try and push myself out of my comfort zone a little though, because that’s the best way to have a good time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In person no but I’m shy on fab "

Shy? You? Hmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can be quite shy and do struggle meeting and talking to new people, especially in clubs. I try and push myself out of my comfort zone a little though, because that’s the best way to have a good time "

Aye that is so very true,just put you out there

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By *airyChestedDaveMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’m confident on here but shy in real life

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Online, confident.

Real life, quiet as a mouse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m pretty confident. At my age I’ve had enough experience to know what I’m like."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not confident to start but once the initial interaction has past and I know we have each others attention I am confident "

Which is good

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Im fairly Confident,

Sure if you survived primary and secondary school in the 80/90s as a ginger in Ireland and came out the other side stronger for it, safe to say your are confident.

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By *tsalwaysthequietonesCouple
over a year ago

Lancs

Masking is the key

The fab version of me is alot different to the real me, when we go to a club or meet I just play at being a confident woman and most of the time it works, other times i've crumbled over the pressure.

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By *arriedcoupleNECouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Very much depends on the circumstances.

Professionally, yes, I know what I'm doing and talking about.

Socially, especially with new people, not at all.

M

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im fairly Confident,

Sure if you survived primary and secondary school in the 80/90s as a ginger in Ireland and came out the other side stronger for it, safe to say your are confident. "

I was a ginger in school to but there was a few of us back then,so I wasn't really teased about my ginger hair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Masking is the key

The fab version of me is alot different to the real me, when we go to a club or meet I just play at being a confident woman and most of the time it works, other times i've crumbled over the pressure. "

I can understand that,I some hide behind humour,sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In person no but I’m shy on fab

Shy? You? Hmmmm"

I haven’t sent a dick pic yet. Everyone else is doing it.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Not confident at all & socially awkward

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

It might surprise some people reading this but I'm not really confident and am actually quite shy too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not confident at all & socially awkward "

Which is a vicious circle

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Would you say that you are confident or do you struggle with meeting new people etc"

I don't think those 2 things are necessarily the same. I would answer your questions as 1) Yes and 2) No.

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By *dventurousSexplorersCouple
over a year ago

Fantasy Land

I’d like to think I’m very confident… although I do struggle meeting new people because I’m antisocial and socially awkward haha

Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I'm confident in myself, put me in new situations or with new teams at work and I struggle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confident. Does that surprise anyone here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In person no but I’m shy on fab

Shy? You? Hmmmm

I haven’t sent a dick pic yet. Everyone else is doing it."

But you do have one.on your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm confident. Does that surprise anyone here?"

In a word,nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d like to think I’m very confident… although I do struggle meeting new people because I’m antisocial and socially awkward haha

Mr. "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Although I'm confident in myself, put me in new situations or with new teams at work and I struggle x"

I know where your coming from x

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Used to have no confidence but that changed when I started giving zero fucks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you say that you are confident or do you struggle with meeting new people etc

I don't think those 2 things are necessarily the same. I would answer your questions as 1) Yes and 2) No."

Hmmm fair point

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I'm confident in myself, but still get the butterflies when meeting someone new.... all in a good, exciting way though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im full of confidence best way to be

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I used to be very confident and outgoing until I hit the menopause then I slowly started to lose it. This last 18 months I've had no confidence and since Jay died its even worse.

I do wonder where the old me went and if she will come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m terrified of strangers. A situation that blighted my whole life.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I’m confident, I love meeting new people. I can be a little more reserved until I get to know someone well though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In person no but I’m shy on fab

Shy? You? Hmmmm

I haven’t sent a dick pic yet. Everyone else is doing it.

But you do have one.on your profile "

Peeping Jane half of it is covered

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Would you say that you are confident or do you struggle with meeting new people etc"

I struggle a bit initlly but as I have a hearing disability making the first approach can be a little daunting.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm pretty confident and in my ways do try to make others feel more confident within themselves so it becomes less of issue.

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm not the most confident I'm trying to make myself more confident by putting myself in situations I don't normally thrive in, I go to clubs regularly but do find it difficult initiating the convo at times.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Used to have no confidence but that changed when I started giving zero fucks"

It’s times like these I wish there were a ‘fab this’ button on forum posts.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

It depends on the situation but on the whole yes I am, I find a smile and saying something that brings about a laugh always helps to ease any nerves in both sides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would think Confident people would not need to "photoshop" their own pics but so many seem to do this on fab.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"Not confident at all & socially awkward

Which is a vicious circle "

Very much so & it's what's mostly stopping us from getting in to the club scene atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suffer with imposter syndrome quite bad in a professional sense, but can fake a level of confidence in that area.

In other aspects, I suppose I carry on with that same "fake it till I make it" attitude. I find it easy to falsely project confidence all while keeping a lid on the screaming in my head haha

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By *liceinwanderlust101Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge/London

Extremely, I just breeze into meets and dates

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Absolutely confident and love meeting people, more cautious on those we allow close though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The clue is in my name.

As a child I was extremely confident, at the front for everything, always making new friends and this continued through my teenage years. Unfortunately in my early twenties I had my confidence seriously knocked and I haven't fully regained it.

I am getting better but I am still quite shy around new people until I get to know them and feel comfortable around them.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Very confident and am happy speaking to all. I am a social butterfly though and tend to do lots of small chats and flit from person to person. Unless at dinner or in a intellectual conversation

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Yes I'm confident, not much fazes me and I generally enjoy meeting new people, happy to stand up and do presentations etc. I have been told that I seem aloof or even shy sometimes, but that's generally because I'm either sussing people out or bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I'm confident, not much fazes me and I generally enjoy meeting new people, happy to stand up and do presentations etc. I have been told that I seem aloof or even shy sometimes, but that's generally because I'm either sussing people out or bored. "

thats funny

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Would you say that you are confident or do you struggle with meeting new people etc"

I’m confident in work and socially I quite enjoy meeting new people.

Big groups who all know each other and I’m the newbie are more difficult, perhaps because I find it uncomfortable to interrupt. Picking off one or two is an easier way to work my way in.

It’s definitely a skill you can learn and improve and I love learning new things.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Depends on the day... But I'm actually quite shy, reserved and riddled with anxiety alot of the time.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Fairly confident

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat


"Used to have no confidence but that changed when I started giving zero fucks

It’s times like these I wish there were a ‘fab this’ button on forum posts."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you say that you are confident or do you struggle with meeting new people etc"

Confident with an under current of nervousness that passes in a little bit of time

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes very confident x

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By *ustintime69Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Socially I can be reserved and a bit shy at first and though I have learnt to be more confident since I first joined Fab, there are still times when I feel out of my depth and a bit of a fraud…I guess that’s the imposter syndrome thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm introverted and somewhat reserved, so meeting new people is tricky, but will go with the flow and see where it takes me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In person no but I’m shy on fab

Shy? You? Hmmmm

I haven’t sent a dick pic yet. Everyone else is doing it.

But you do have one.on your profile

Peeping Jane half of it is covered "

Well I'm a red blooded female I had to look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can walk in to a room and captivate everyone eyes on me

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Quietly confident.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've struggled with confidence issues all my life and I don't think it will ever change. A mixture of self esteem issues, trauma and vicious people have shaped who I am and it's hard to shake off. What I am working on is being kinder to myself, that's the best I can hope for right now."
I totally know where you are coming from I feel the same no self confidence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've struggled with confidence issues all my life and I don't think it will ever change. A mixture of self esteem issues, trauma and vicious people have shaped who I am and it's hard to shake off. What I am working on is being kinder to myself, that's the best I can hope for right now. I totally know where you are coming from I feel the same no self confidence "

Be kind to yourself you look good

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Confident and outgoing both online and in person. Never experienced difficulties in meeting people here and did everything possible to calm the other's nerves if they were having any

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Confident. I’ll speak to anyone

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Confident. I’ll speak to anyone "

Me too. Hiya Nora, fancy a blether?

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By *oanne ETV/TS
over a year ago

Near Warrington

I'm confident as Joanne but very reserved in male mode xx

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Confident. I’ll speak to anyone

Me too. Hiya Nora, fancy a blether?"

A what now?

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Would say I'm confident in myself & don't struggle much meeting new people as I'm very easy going.

Problem comes when the people don't put in effort then I get bored/lose patience quick & move on

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"A what now? "

Sorry, I’ve been in Glasgow too long. Gone native. It just means chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say I’m pretty confident at meeting new people. It doesn’t phase me…

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I didn't have any self confidence at all until about 7 or 8 years ago and a number of things happened to change that.

I'm still not one for starting random conversations with strangers but I can hold my own and rarely suffer from nerves.

That could be linked to having anhedonia so there is no nervous anticipation or excitement before or after any event and it means I'm always in the moment.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Fairly confident. Love a good natter

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I'm confident with new people, individually or in small groups, and in speaking/acting in public. The only place I'm quiet is in large, loud social groups. I'm not going to shout to be heard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m fine once I’ve met a new person, but full of anxiety before hand.

Even on here hidden behind a keyboard, it can be daunting sending a message to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confident and will go up to people and start up a conversation. What's the worst that can happen.

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

I'm very confident...about not being confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle with meeting new people but I don't back out of it if that makes sense. I'll force myself into the situation. Sometimes it's awkward, sometimes it's fine. Completely depends on the person too, sometimes you talk to someone new and you bounce off each other and I feel comfortable and confident... but there are times that definitely isn't the case.

I wouldn't say that I ooze confidence, but I do alright. I did used to have crippling anxiety and had panic attacks at the slightest things but luckily I don't see that side of me too often anymore thank goodness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re a confident couple but definitely not arrogant

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

If I know ya - super confident. If I don’t then I kinda people watch and like to get to know the situation

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

When I am dressed as Rachel, very confident. As a man, sadly I an not confident at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m quite confident and outgoing, Mrs can be a bit shy but comes out of her shell pretty quickly

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By *ryan...Man
over a year ago

1950's Original

Has anyone got a ring of confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've struggled with confidence issues all my life and I don't think it will ever change. A mixture of self esteem issues, trauma and vicious people have shaped who I am and it's hard to shake off. What I am working on is being kinder to myself, that's the best I can hope for right now."

I’m suprised. You seem like a confident women on here.

Always be kind to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love meeting new people, that’s never a worry for me, I know people can be good company and that’s what excites me and get me up for meeting them.

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By *eladeCouple
over a year ago

hull

I am very confident,I used to worry about my body but then went to sex clubs.It made me feel very comfortable in my skin and now I love been naked.Tbh I would be naked all the time if I could.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Hmmm. It's not quite as simple as confident or not for me. Sometimes I get those butterflies and I'm nervous but in a positive way and when I relax into it I'm very confident. With socials I find it a bit of a sensory overload at first and then the confidence kicks in. Outside of Fab, yes, generally I'm quite confident. Quietly so. I'm confident in my abilities and what I have to offer.

But then all of that can be affected by external factors which makes my confidence waver. So it's very varied.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I’m confident- but not cocky. Just comfortable in my skin.

If I am a bit nervous - I do go for fake it until you make it.

There is a very tiny amount of people who have seen me nervous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m more confident around men than I am women for some reason. But it does also depend on the other person as sometimes I bounce off of them. In groups I’m not confident, think I suffer from social anxiety hence why I’ve not had the courage to go to any socials yet.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I'm a good actress,

Have no confidence in being me, push myself daily to talk/meet new people.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"If I know ya - super confident. If I don’t then I kinda people watch and like to get to know the situation

"

It took me 6 months to speak to the ladies that sit behind me at football

I am rubbish at asking people to play lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm super confident with new people.. They have nothing to judge me by...but I'm shyer /less confident amongst acquaintances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a good actress,

Have no confidence in being me, push myself daily to talk/meet new people.

"

Yes that's me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably come across as a lot more confident than I actually am. I’m not the type of person that will see a big group of people and confidently walk over and strike up a conversation. One to one I’m a lot better , especially when I meet people who i can click with straight away. Outwardly confident i think the word is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably come across as a lot more confident than I actually am. I’m not the type of person that will see a big group of people and confidently walk over and strike up a conversation. One to one I’m a lot better , especially when I meet people who i can click with straight away. Outwardly confident i think the word is. "

I’m the opposite is there a name for that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm super confident with new people.. They have nothing to judge me by...but I'm shyer /less confident amongst acquaintances "

Just to clarify - individuals, not groups!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably come across as a lot more confident than I actually am. I’m not the type of person that will see a big group of people and confidently walk over and strike up a conversation. One to one I’m a lot better , especially when I meet people who i can click with straight away. Outwardly confident i think the word is.

I’m the opposite is there a name for that? "

Confident?

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Im confident enough I can spot bullshitters and people farting above their arseholes ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation. I can stand in front of a group of people and talk about my job/hobby with no feat at all.

Ask me to chat up a woman and I'm fucked. Just not in the way I'd like hahaha

Terrible lack of confidence chatting to women irl. Online, again not a problem really.

If we do ever get as far as the bedroom my anxiety levels shoot up !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence goes after abusive relationships. I hope it will come back though, of all the things I’ve lost, that’s what I miss the most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not shy, or arrogant but I definitelycan seem shy at first.. I like to way up people when I first meet them,firstly to not come across up myself but also to test see if the other person is.

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By *ust me 999Man
over a year ago

near you

I have my own confidence and feel good but it’s others who I have less confidence in who let me down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably come across as a lot more confident than I actually am. I’m not the type of person that will see a big group of people and confidently walk over and strike up a conversation. One to one I’m a lot better , especially when I meet people who i can click with straight away. Outwardly confident i think the word is.

I’m the opposite is there a name for that?

Confident?"

Inwardly confident

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