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"So, those amongst us with a cock. Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with? Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them? I'm asking for research purposes!!" Physical attraction is somewhat there but I prefer the mental attraction more, can’t meet at short notice simply because I don’t know if I’m going to get the right vibe no matter how good someone looks | |||
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"You thinking of ordering a gimp mask op?" Haha well it could be an option! Just wondering if women are right to be dubious when guys on here drool over the opportunity to meet. | |||
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"Dunno, never tried fucking anything I'm not attracted to... yet. " You can start with me if you'd like hahaha | |||
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"Dunno, never tried fucking anything I'm not attracted to... yet. " Anything? Like a chair? Lol | |||
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"Why would I be with someone I'm not attracted to. It has a mind of its own and does me proud " That's what I thought would be the case for most but it seems there are exceptions | |||
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"Why would I be with someone I'm not attracted to. It has a mind of its own and does me proud That's what I thought would be the case for most but it seems there are exceptions" I'm exceptional | |||
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"Why would I be with someone I'm not attracted to. It has a mind of its own and does me proud That's what I thought would be the case for most but it seems there are exceptions I'm exceptional " I don't doubt that for a second | |||
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"I have no idea because I have never had sex with someone I didn't like or was attracted to " That is good to hear | |||
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"I have to be attracted to them at a cerebral level." I prefer that level almost. Physical attraction can only go so far | |||
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"Why would I be with someone I'm not attracted to. It has a mind of its own and does me proud That's what I thought would be the case for most but it seems there are exceptions I'm exceptional I don't doubt that for a second" You're welcome to prove me wrong | |||
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"Dunno, never tried fucking anything I'm not attracted to... yet. " I volunteer as tribute | |||
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"So, those amongst us with a cock. Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with? Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them? I'm asking for research purposes!!" Need an attraction but to be honest it doesn’t take much to get me really hard! Lol | |||
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"So, those amongst us with a cock. Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with? Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them? I'm asking for research purposes!!" For me if I am having sex with someone there has to be some type of connection be it flirting, physical or mental attraction Keeping hard is not always guaranteed…multiple reasons. Could be tired from work, alcohol, if playing at a club could be something as simple as someone is to close watching. If I was watching a group play or couple and there was no physical attraction and we hadn’t spoken then I would probably not stay hard if invited. Sometimes if I fancy person a lot then I struggle to stay hard | |||
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"Dunno, never tried fucking anything I'm not attracted to... yet. You can start with me if you'd like hahaha" Damn .. beat me to it lol | |||
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"So, those amongst us with a cock. Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with? Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them? I'm asking for research purposes!!" nope you have to be turned on to stay hard if youre not attracted how can you do it unless you use a dare i say it gloryhole | |||
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"God no. It's not just about physical attraction, either. I've turned down a threesome with two women I found extremely attractive (many years ago, not on Fab) because I wasn't feeling that they both really wanted it. ….. " I can relate to this. To answer the op - I could probably get an erection by having anyone simply stroke it, but it only gets really HARD when everything clicks. The attraction that’s both ways and the situation we are in, in that moment. | |||
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"You thinking of ordering a gimp mask op? Haha well it could be an option! Just wondering if women are right to be dubious when guys on here drool over the opportunity to meet." Get one and put up a meet.I think 5 women with mask will suffice | |||
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"Attraction comes in many levels, physical and mental. A sight a smell a tease, all different, but when you feel that twitch you just know." Absolutely this! It can be as simple as a cheeky little smile, or a glint in their eye and away you go….. | |||
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"I know of more than one penis owner that could easily find *something* fuckable about almost anyone. One in particular could find someone unattractive to look at, yet if they had what he considered a nice arse, she was fuckable. One was a horrid person, yet gave wonderful compliments and those compliments turned him on and made her fuckable. One had an accent that made her fuckable. One was going through a tough time, and knowing she'd "feel better" after seeing him made her fuckable. One had a clothing style that made her fuckable. Some blokes can pinpoint one thing, one thing that can turn that flaccid chunk of flesh into a hard on, and sometimes that one thing can simply be willingness." really hey i think some peoples self worth is low though and they simply dont feel attractive when they are? | |||
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"I know of more than one penis owner that could easily find *something* fuckable about almost anyone. One in particular could find someone unattractive to look at, yet if they had what he considered a nice arse, she was fuckable. One was a horrid person, yet gave wonderful compliments and those compliments turned him on and made her fuckable. One had an accent that made her fuckable. One was going through a tough time, and knowing she'd "feel better" after seeing him made her fuckable. One had a clothing style that made her fuckable. Some blokes can pinpoint one thing, one thing that can turn that flaccid chunk of flesh into a hard on, and sometimes that one thing can simply be willingness." Very accurate. Only turn off for me is attitude. Always find something about a woman that will raise the mast. If she has a personality/attitude that I don't like. Ain't no level of hardness that'll make me fuck her. | |||
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"I know of more than one penis owner that could easily find *something* fuckable about almost anyone. One in particular could find someone unattractive to look at, yet if they had what he considered a nice arse, she was fuckable. One was a horrid person, yet gave wonderful compliments and those compliments turned him on and made her fuckable. One had an accent that made her fuckable. One was going through a tough time, and knowing she'd "feel better" after seeing him made her fuckable. One had a clothing style that made her fuckable. Some blokes can pinpoint one thing, one thing that can turn that flaccid chunk of flesh into a hard on, and sometimes that one thing can simply be willingness.really hey i think some peoples self worth is low though and they simply dont feel attractive when they are? " Absolutely without question. But that doesn't detract from the fact there are fellas who can bang away with no attraction. Another example, this same bloke was balls deep in another geezer. He wasn't into geezers, but, he thought I may like it so whilst ploughing other penis owner he was smiling away watching for my reaction. It was the excitement that got him excited. The unknown. The possibility of a positive outcome. | |||
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"So, those amongst us with a cock. Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with? Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them? I'm asking for research purposes!!" | |||
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"So, those amongst us with a cock. Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with? Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them? I'm asking for research purposes!!" If I was not attracted to a female and did not fancy the female then I would not be with them full stop. | |||
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"I know of more than one penis owner that could easily find *something* fuckable about almost anyone. One in particular could find someone unattractive to look at, yet if they had what he considered a nice arse, she was fuckable. One was a horrid person, yet gave wonderful compliments and those compliments turned him on and made her fuckable. One had an accent that made her fuckable. One was going through a tough time, and knowing she'd "feel better" after seeing him made her fuckable. One had a clothing style that made her fuckable. Some blokes can pinpoint one thing, one thing that can turn that flaccid chunk of flesh into a hard on, and sometimes that one thing can simply be willingness.really hey i think some peoples self worth is low though and they simply dont feel attractive when they are? Absolutely without question. But that doesn't detract from the fact there are fellas who can bang away with no attraction. Another example, this same bloke was balls deep in another geezer. He wasn't into geezers, but, he thought I may like it so whilst ploughing other penis owner he was smiling away watching for my reaction. It was the excitement that got him excited. The unknown. The possibility of a positive outcome." This I know many play Bi guys who would never play with a man 1 to 1, but will happily sink balls deep in men, while they watch the ladies playing together | |||
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"So, those amongst us with a cock. Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with? Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them? I'm asking for research purposes!!" Have to fancy them for cock to get hard | |||
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"Ask yourself this. Glory holes. Men folk get hard and release a jizz squiz. They don't even know the gender of the person on the other side. The situation is the turn on." That is a good situation | |||
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"Ask yourself this. Glory holes. Men folk get hard and release a jizz squiz. They don't even know the gender of the person on the other side. The situation is the turn on. That is a good situation " But how anyone can say they need to be attracted to a person to have sex with them yet have sex with an unknown person on the other side of a hole boggles my head. It proves to me that the situation plays a FAR higher percentage of inducing a boner than anything else. | |||
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"Ask yourself this. Glory holes. Men folk get hard and release a jizz squiz. They don't even know the gender of the person on the other side. The situation is the turn on. That is a good situation But how anyone can say they need to be attracted to a person to have sex with them yet have sex with an unknown person on the other side of a hole boggles my head. It proves to me that the situation plays a FAR higher percentage of inducing a boner than anything else." I agree with you! I'm guessing these men mean conventional meets from chatting on here to meeting and having sex which is different. But right place, right time, right level of horniness, we are all (men and women) guilty of fucking people below our usual self standards right?! | |||
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"Ask yourself this. Glory holes. Men folk get hard and release a jizz squiz. They don't even know the gender of the person on the other side. The situation is the turn on. That is a good situation " I enjoy Glory Hole fun | |||
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"The answer is yes. It’s how men are sexually assaulted. The other answer is yes, I was once a long long time ago with someone as a group, absolutely not my cup of tea but she was really into to, I stayed hard the issue was it was really bad and no matter what I did I couldn’t cum. After she had a couple times, I ended up behind her pulling out, taking the condom off and making sure I had I a lot of spit pretending to cum, and spitting a lot of her bum and back. She didn’t need to know anything different, and she had great time. " It's quite easy to fake an orgasm when you're wearing a condom, if you're not really 'feeling it', or can't finish.... | |||
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"Ask yourself this. Glory holes. Men folk get hard and release a jizz squiz. They don't even know the gender of the person on the other side. The situation is the turn on." Only once been fortunate to find a gloryhole in a club with someone on the other side, and it was definitely a woman (because her fella motioned me over to it, and I cheated by taking a quick peek), and whilst it was quite nice having my cock sucked, it didn't get me off, so I gave up and thanked her as I left. The lack of visual stimulus coupled to zero connection/attraction to the giver just didn't do it for me. Ticked a box off the list though! | |||
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"So, those amongst us with a cock. Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with? Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them? I'm asking for research purposes!!" Love the research questions. Mines always hard. | |||
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"I need to be attracted to them, but then I’ve never been pumped full of viagra so I’m sure that would work " Tried before, just makes it harder | |||
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"Personally I only play with ladies whom I'm attracted to." All the ladies?? | |||
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"So, those amongst us with a cock. Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with? Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them? I'm asking for research purposes!!" In truth, and i only speak for myself here, i can get hard quite easily... That being said the person and situation involved makes quite a difference to, shall we say, performance, many moons ago there would be truth to the any holes a goal theorem and i suspect thatd be the case for many young guys, but with maturity things change and like i said the person and situation becomes more important, so much so that now i have to fancy the person.. so to summarise, yes and no. | |||
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"Personally I only play with ladies whom I'm attracted to. All the ladies?? " Even the ones with cocks ? | |||
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"Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with?" On the rare occasions that I actually use mine, I MUST be attracted to them otherwise the other person is going to be very disappointed. So no if I'm not attracted to them or at least something about them, I won't even get hard. | |||
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" lol so I would say it's up to the woman to keep it hard if they want it to stay hard for them. Work it and get on it. It's like a machine, you have to give it attention" Lube and a bit of teasing | |||
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"So, those amongst us with a cock. Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with? Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them? I'm asking for research purposes!!" Definitely has to be a connection/attraction, either physically, mentally or both is better | |||
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"So, those amongst us with a cock. Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with? Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them? I'm asking for research purposes!!" Attraction is need for me | |||
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"So, those amongst us with a cock. Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with? Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them? I'm asking for research purposes!!" Can get hard and perform just from horny situations. Don’t need to be attracted to get hard at all. X | |||
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"I can get hard from a horny situation with limited attraction. But there is a limit. If I'm disgusted it ain't happening." . I’m the very same | |||
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"So, those amongst us with a cock. Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with? Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them? I'm asking for research purposes!!" I wouldn't be with someone I didn't find attractive | |||
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