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"Thoughts on this I would be one that sends a request with a message saying I've done so and if the profile wants to have a quick look at all my profile 1st instead of just what I want them to see before making a decision. " Are you saying your first message to people is along the lines of "I've sent you a friend request, have a look at my profile and see what you think"....? | |||
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"Thoughts on this I would be one that sends a request with a message saying I've done so and if the profile wants to have a quick look at all my profile 1st instead of just what I want them to see before making a decision. Are you saying your first message to people is along the lines of "I've sent you a friend request, have a look at my profile and see what you think"....?" Yeah that idea | |||
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"Why not just send them a photo you want them to see in the first place?" This man knows the score | |||
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"Thoughts on this I would be one that sends a request with a message saying I've done so and if the profile wants to have a quick look at all my profile 1st instead of just what I want them to see before making a decision. Are you saying your first message to people is along the lines of "I've sent you a friend request, have a look at my profile and see what you think"....? Yeah that idea " Why though? You have a face pic visible, what's the need for a friend request? | |||
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"Why not just send them a photo you want them to see in the first place?" I do , that's what I mean , I could send what I think is my best pictures , but after chatting a while you add as friend and photos they haven't seen puts them off .rather see the lot and then it's up to them | |||
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"Thoughts on this I would be one that sends a request with a message saying I've done so and if the profile wants to have a quick look at all my profile 1st instead of just what I want them to see before making a decision. Are you saying your first message to people is along the lines of "I've sent you a friend request, have a look at my profile and see what you think"....? Yeah that idea " Speaking from my own personal point of view, I'd delete bother message and the friend request without replying. Accepting the friend request would also give you instant access to my friends-only pics/vids. They're friends-only for a reason - I only want people I'm comfortable with seeing them | |||
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"I leave friend requests if I don’t want to accept them then it means they can’t be resent again at a later date " You wait until they go offline and have a peek then block | |||
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"My dear fellow, sending a polite and hand-crafted, articulately polished message will •probably• open a few doors... ...sending a friend request will abruptly close them with a deafening sound. Just. Don't." Give this man a prize! | |||
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"My dear fellow, sending a polite and hand-crafted, articulately polished message will •probably• open a few doors... ...sending a friend request will abruptly close them with a deafening sound. Just. Don't." No way I could have put this any better, I hate random friend requests I don't even look at them I just bulk delete. | |||
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"Uncool bro, friends requests straight away are only ok through threads dedicated to that or if it's says they accept them in bio " This. | |||
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"My dear fellow, sending a polite and hand-crafted, articulately polished message will •probably• open a few doors... ...sending a friend request will abruptly close them with a deafening sound. Just. Don't." ^^ this. Every goddamn time | |||
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"I'd think "No thanks mate" and delete the message. Probably leave the friend request hanging so I don't have to delete it multiple times." This is THE lesson to learn on fab! Every woman does this! No exceptions! I can verify that as, during Covid, I sent out 350,000 frriend requests to different women on this site who I had previously never contacted. You know the theory that if you chuck enough paint at a wall, some will stick! Well, it didn’t! Only one replied to me and only to complain that I’d accidentally sent her two friend requests both of which she took great pains to tell me she’d deleted for pure pleasure! | |||
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"My dear fellow, sending a polite and hand-crafted, articulately polished message will •probably• open a few doors... ...sending a friend request will abruptly close them with a deafening sound. Just. Don't." This was always my way before but with little return. I've attached a friend request to my messages for a few months now and had more replies than before, I think curiosity plays a part as well. | |||
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"Someone who sends me a friends request at first message is just left hanging. I think they just want to see my friends pics. They’re not there for any old randoms to see, if they were, they’d be public. " This is why I don't bother with keeping friend's pics. If I get to the point of sharing anything more than my public pics I'll be MUCH better acquainted and chatting with them off fab. | |||
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"We have over 200 pics people can see…we still get messages asking us to be friends from people with no pics, so basically wanting to see all our others Why yes of course Ken…have them all We never delete as they can’t send you another one then. Not sure why anyone would accept a friends request from a random - clue is there! K" Most likely photo hunters. XX | |||
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"I don't add people to my friends list who I don't know, espically not after one message. " same | |||
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"They get deleted and the user blocked *sends one*" Good luck lol you're out with my age filter | |||
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"They get deleted and the user blocked *sends one* Good luck lol you're out with my age filter " Can I still get blocked? | |||
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"They get deleted and the user blocked *sends one* Good luck lol you're out with my age filter Can I still get blocked? " You could but I won't. I'm nice that way | |||
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"Thoughts on this I would be one that sends a request with a message saying I've done so and if the profile wants to have a quick look at all my profile 1st instead of just what I want them to see before making a decision. " Seems like a good idea to me. I swear some people are just obtuse on purpose. It's easy enough to wait till you're offline, accept the request, check your Friend pics and delete the Friend link so you can't see theirs. It's much better than just sending a Friend request without ever chatting first. You will know if they are interested when they message you... or if they don't. | |||
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"They get deleted and the user blocked *sends one* Good luck lol you're out with my age filter Can I still get blocked? You could but I won't. I'm nice that way " Awwww | |||
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"Thoughts on this I would be one that sends a request with a message saying I've done so and if the profile wants to have a quick look at all my profile 1st instead of just what I want them to see before making a decision. " So you just send friend requests without reading profiles or sending a message. | |||
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"Thoughts on this I would be one that sends a request with a message saying I've done so and if the profile wants to have a quick look at all my profile 1st instead of just what I want them to see before making a decision. Are you saying your first message to people is along the lines of "I've sent you a friend request, have a look at my profile and see what you think"....? Yeah that idea " I'd just delete the message and the request | |||
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"They get deleted and the user blocked *sends one* Good luck lol you're out with my age filter Can I still get blocked? " Oh man, seriously? Kittykat’s hot! If she blocked me I’d probably cry! | |||
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"They get deleted and the user blocked *sends one* Good luck lol you're out with my age filter Can I still get blocked? Oh man, seriously? Kittykat’s hot! If she blocked me I’d probably cry! " Each to their own | |||
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"Yep as many others have said, I’d just delete the request and their message and/or block. I’m not interested in seeing someone else’s ‘friends only’ pics. If they didn’t have a few decent public pics, I wouldn’t respond to them anyways. " This | |||
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"Can you all block me please " No | |||
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"Thoughts on this I would be one that sends a request with a message saying I've done so and if the profile wants to have a quick look at all my profile 1st instead of just what I want them to see before making a decision. Erm.. No! We won't accept any unsolicited friend requests at all. " | |||
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