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By *atricia Parnel OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Come and say hi

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

Not entirely new but have known to lurk now and again

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I pretend I am a newbie ?

Like a phoenix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get lots of dms from lurkers - dunno why they're afraid to post openly, we're a lovely bunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi everyone this is my first post

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By *piritualSFCMan
over a year ago

london


"Can I pretend I am a newbie ?

Like a phoenix. "

New for 2023

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I pretend I am a newbie ?

Like a phoenix.

New for 2023"

Absolutely. Shedding my old attire. Baring myself to a new year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I pretend I am a newbie ?

Like a phoenix.

New for 2023"

Hold on. Are you new? Hello *enthusiastic wave*

Tones

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By *atricia Parnel OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"I get lots of dms from lurkers - dunno why they're afraid to post openly, we're a lovely bunch "

So Do I which is why I do the threads, took me 3 months after I first joined, before I was happy posting on the forums

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By *atricia Parnel OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"Can I pretend I am a newbie ?

Like a phoenix. "

Ha

I did that this year, but without the newbie part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I pretend I am a newbie ?

Like a phoenix.

Ha

I did that this year, but without the newbie part "

Well us too in a way.

It was fun interacting with some who wouldn't speak to me on my single profile just shows we can entertain each other despite of old anonimosities. Waving those who now realised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get lots of dms from lurkers - dunno why they're afraid to post openly, we're a lovely bunch

So Do I which is why I do the threads, took me 3 months after I first joined, before I was happy posting on the forums "

Ah yes, back when I first started on these forums - 9 yrs ago - I was straight in! Now I peruse them, see who's about and get a feel for them otherwise it can end up a bull in a China shop kind of thing, so fully understand any initial reticence

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By *atricia Parnel OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"Can I pretend I am a newbie ?

Like a phoenix.

New for 2023"

Welcome to the forums

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Hi, self confessed lurker here

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

Alas to be a newbie once again... Wait no I much prefer being a veteran

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alas to be a newbie once again... Wait no I much prefer being a veteran "

What a great username ! Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love how a thread for newbies has been partly taken over by regulars !

To those who don't post: hello! I was worried about posting once, and getting lost. And the truth is... I was. But post for yourself, not others. Have fun with it... And you will start to get the odd reply.

If not, DM me, and I will reply. Let's get that 2023 ball rolling !!

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By *piritualSFCMan
over a year ago

london


"Can I pretend I am a newbie ?

Like a phoenix.

New for 2023

Hold on. Are you new? Hello *enthusiastic wave*

Tones"

I am a new lurker

Not seen your profile before

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"Alas to be a newbie once again... Wait no I much prefer being a veteran

What a great username ! Hello "

Aww thanks Hello to you too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love how a thread for newbies has been partly taken over by regulars !

To those who don't post: hello! I was worried about posting once, and getting lost. And the truth is... I was. But post for yourself, not others. Have fun with it... And you will start to get the odd reply.

If not, DM me, and I will reply. Let's get that 2023 ball rolling !! "

The 'regulars' are trying to lure the lurkers onto the public forum with a warm welcome - not advising them to 'DM me'

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By *urveslover5Man
over a year ago

London


"Hi, self confessed lurker here "

Lurking on forum and discovering new sexy profiles is my favourite newbie thing on fabs

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Hello Newbies and Lurkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a newbie, but do sometimes lurk..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular lurker here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi you horny people

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Full time lurker here

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

I like to lurk

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

Lurker and occasional contributor, but more than anything, polite, so Hi!

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By *urbo TedMan
over a year ago

Stansted

I post sporadically but tend to lurk more, maybe I should lurk less for 2023. Morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I pretend I am a newbie ?

Like a phoenix.

New for 2023

Hold on. Are you new? Hello *enthusiastic wave*

Tones

I am a new lurker

Not seen your profile before "

Good on you for coming out of shadows time to mingle !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I post sporadically but tend to lurk more, maybe I should lurk less for 2023. Morning "

I like your dancing bum pose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love how a thread for newbies has been partly taken over by regulars !

To those who don't post: hello! I was worried about posting once, and getting lost. And the truth is... I was. But post for yourself, not others. Have fun with it... And you will start to get the odd reply.

If not, DM me, and I will reply. Let's get that 2023 ball rolling !!

The 'regulars' are trying to lure the lurkers onto the public forum with a warm welcome - not advising them to 'DM me' "
that's what I'm doing ... But also get why people feel disheartened when they post and it's ignored... So they can DM to ask for a reply to the forum post! All above board and in the spirit of the thread !

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Love a nice lurk but better when it leads to fun. Wonder if will today?

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby

I guess I'm not really a lurker anymore since I quite enjoy contributing to the forums so, figuratively speaking, I reckon it's more of a loiter with intent...

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By *urbo TedMan
over a year ago

Stansted


"I post sporadically but tend to lurk more, maybe I should lurk less for 2023. Morning

I like your dancing bum pose "

Thank you, it's the best dancing move I have

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Hello I'm new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All genuine newbies welcome here. Love helping them experience enlightenment xxx must be real not dreamers though xx

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

Welcome to the wonderful world of fab then!! May your time here be full of ups and downs for the right reasons

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yeah I was new once upon a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm kind of a Newbie, but not

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"I'm kind of a Newbie, but not "

You still look shiny to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi new too this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really newbie but I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello I have been lurking for some time now I am very shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all im an old newbie lol.??

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By *atricia Parnel OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"Hi new too this site "

Welcome to the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm kind of a Newbie, but not

You still look shiny to me "

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By *atricia Parnel OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"I'm kind of a Newbie, but not "

Ha definitely not

I'm going through all the profiles seeing whose arse and tits I recognise

But if only a few truly new to the forums have the courage to say hi, rather than dm me then it's always a win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd go ider a lurcker

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

First time poster here, please be gentle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new to the lounge , usually post in the stories and fantasies

And I do like to lurk in the background though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that's what I'm doing ... But also get why people feel disheartened when they post and it's ignored... So they can DM to ask for a reply to the forum post! All above board and in the spirit of the thread ! "

Personally, fella...i think your comment was spot on. And greatly appreciated.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I’m new

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I'm a professional newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that's what I'm doing ... But also get why people feel disheartened when they post and it's ignored... So they can DM to ask for a reply to the forum post! All above board and in the spirit of the thread !

"

Bit fake though, asking for a reply?! Not what forums are about imo. Shouldn't it happen organically?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- it stands out like a sore thumb when if replies are 'arranged' off forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be a lurker but talk too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm kind of a Newbie, but not

Ha definitely not

I'm going through all the profiles seeing whose arse and tits I recognise

But if only a few truly new to the forums have the courage to say hi, rather than dm me then it's always a win "

I hear ya. Maybe they're shy and they see how lovely you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been a bit of a lurker but have decided to become active on the forums so hi to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that's what I'm doing ... But also get why people feel disheartened when they post and it's ignored... So they can DM to ask for a reply to the forum post! All above board and in the spirit of the thread !

Bit fake though, asking for a reply?! Not what forums are about imo. Shouldn't it happen organically? "
possibly. But there are reasons ppl are DMing you and not posting. One reason my be that it's seen to be hard to break into the group of regulars. Tbh, I'm guessing ... But if we want to be more inclusive, with asking ourselves why ppl don't post. Anyway, I'm gonna stop here ... Not sure this all helps make the forum feel welcome! And that's what the OP was about !

Welcome lurkers and new ppl. y'all.

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By *ustyMilfxxxCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

I completely get you.

I’m a lurker and occasional poster.

I would have a preference to email a response to a post.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I come, I go, I come and then I go again.

Hello lurkers, newbies, non-lurkers and non-newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbie and lurker here

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Waves to the quiet people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tits to my box first then I’ll talk

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By *atricia Parnel OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"I have been a bit of a lurker but have decided to become active on the forums so hi to everyone"

Hello and welcome

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By *atricia Parnel OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"I completely get you.

I’m a lurker and occasional poster.

I would have a preference to email a response to a post.

"

Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so new here, but hey

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By *old HoopsWoman
over a year ago

Near Chester

Definitely more of a lurker than poster.

Most of the time, what I'd say has been said already so no point spoiling the flow of the thread.

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By *on2fingersMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Gwynedd

Relatively a Newbie , been lurking on the forums but for 2023 will become more of a poster

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Hello and Happy New year!

We are new, having just finished our 14 days of enforced lurkery and quite a while in the shadow lands before that.

Beef

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all, been on and off this site several times but it's only this current profile where I've started to post in forums so hello everybody and happy new year. Not too late to say that is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that's what I'm doing ... But also get why people feel disheartened when they post and it's ignored... So they can DM to ask for a reply to the forum post! All above board and in the spirit of the thread !

Bit fake though, asking for a reply?! Not what forums are about imo. Shouldn't it happen organically? possibly. But there are reasons ppl are DMing you and not posting. One reason my be that it's seen to be hard to break into the group of regulars. Tbh, I'm guessing ... But if we want to be more inclusive, with asking ourselves why ppl don't post. Anyway, I'm gonna stop here ... Not sure this all helps make the forum feel welcome! And that's what the OP was about !

Welcome lurkers and new ppl. y'all. "

I agree about the regulars part. From what I've seen on forums so far it's very much the same people who post with occasional posts from others. Can seem very cliquey at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All genuine newbies welcome here. Love helping them experience enlightenment xxx must be real not dreamers though xx"

There's a real person behind every profile.

What do you mean dreamers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, been on and off this site several times but it's only this current profile where I've started to post in forums so hello everybody and happy new year. Not too late to say that is it? "

I think it's ok till the end of Feb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, been on and off this site several times but it's only this current profile where I've started to post in forums so hello everybody and happy new year. Not too late to say that is it?

I think it's ok till the end of Feb. "

Phew! Thanks for clearing that up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbie here, whats this forum all about? Which clique can I join?

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Come and say hi

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I'll lurk a bit... Sure,it's allowed..

I'm shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, been on and off this site several times but it's only this current profile where I've started to post in forums so hello everybody and happy new year. Not too late to say that is it? "
I've been told we can say it until the 8th. Although as I work with Asia, I then move into happy Chinese new year !

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Come and say hi

I'll lurk a bit... Sure,it's allowed..

I'm shy. "

That's the impression I got

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Come and say hi

I'll lurk a bit... Sure,it's allowed..

I'm shy.

That's the impression I got "

Shhhh...you... I try my best here.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newbie here, whats this forum all about? Which clique can I join? "

The sex thing? Cfn me

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By *atricia Parnel OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"Definitely more of a lurker than poster.

Most of the time, what I'd say has been said already so no point spoiling the flow of the thread. "

Welcome

It's no matter if it's said twice, you post if you want to. We all do

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By *atricia Parnel OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"Relatively a Newbie , been lurking on the forums but for 2023 will become more of a poster "

Welcome

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By *atricia Parnel OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"Hello and Happy New year!

We are new, having just finished our 14 days of enforced lurkery and quite a while in the shadow lands before that.

Beef "

Welcome

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By *illie fitMan
over a year ago

wonderland

Hello I’m newish hope that counts

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Hi newbies

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By *atricia Parnel OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"that's what I'm doing ... But also get why people feel disheartened when they post and it's ignored... So they can DM to ask for a reply to the forum post! All above board and in the spirit of the thread !

Bit fake though, asking for a reply?! Not what forums are about imo. Shouldn't it happen organically? possibly. But there are reasons ppl are DMing you and not posting. One reason my be that it's seen to be hard to break into the group of regulars. Tbh, I'm guessing ... But if we want to be more inclusive, with asking ourselves why ppl don't post. Anyway, I'm gonna stop here ... Not sure this all helps make the forum feel welcome! And that's what the OP was about !

Welcome lurkers and new ppl. y'all.

I agree about the regulars part. From what I've seen on forums so far it's very much the same people who post with occasional posts from others. Can seem very cliquey at times"

Yes it is. There are many friendship groups on here, which can be Intimidating to people new to the forums. I had the same thoughts when I first joined, but I kept on posting anyway and made friends

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By *atricia Parnel OP   Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"Hello I’m newish hope that counts "

Welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that's what I'm doing ... But also get why people feel disheartened when they post and it's ignored... So they can DM to ask for a reply to the forum post! All above board and in the spirit of the thread !

Bit fake though, asking for a reply?! Not what forums are about imo. Shouldn't it happen organically? possibly. But there are reasons ppl are DMing you and not posting. One reason my be that it's seen to be hard to break into the group of regulars. Tbh, I'm guessing ... But if we want to be more inclusive, with asking ourselves why ppl don't post. Anyway, I'm gonna stop here ... Not sure this all helps make the forum feel welcome! And that's what the OP was about !

Welcome lurkers and new ppl. y'all.

I agree about the regulars part. From what I've seen on forums so far it's very much the same people who post with occasional posts from others. Can seem very cliquey at times

Yes it is. There are many friendship groups on here, which can be Intimidating to people new to the forums. I had the same thoughts when I first joined, but I kept on posting anyway and made friends "

Yay!! Always nice to make new friends

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Come and say hi

I'll lurk a bit... Sure,it's allowed..

I'm shy.

That's the impression I got

Shhhh...you... I try my best here.lol"

Yes that's what I meant, you are a very upstanding member of the community

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Come and say hi "

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We need to see more of these welcoming and convivial threads.

Well done Compy. I'm glad I thought of this for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go through stages of being lurkers..

Well i(rabbit do) i love looking through the forum's. Some seriously beautiful people on here

(Mrs)

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By *and321Couple
over a year ago

south

Hey all. Joined few wks back but only just getting to grips with things over the Xmas holz x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bumping

in the spirit of finding light hearted fun and who knows maybe everyone might get along?? Lol

So don't be shy (ignore my name) as the OP says come say hi

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Good bump, Shy! We could do with some happiness and love today.

To anyone who doesn’t regularly post in the forums - come and play

I’m having an easy day at work and it’s sunny outside, so things are good.

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By *ove2lickMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Dont post much but have a good lurk on the threads I like

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"Dont post much but have a good lurk on the threads I like "

Welcome like2lick! Would you rather stay in the background and observe? Or are you just building up? No wrong answer - it’s whatever suits

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

Love having a good old lurk

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"Love having a good old lurk"

Sometimes nothing better, eh Kate?! Looking at your pictures, you certainly don’t seem shy!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I try and send messages to newbies on the send a nice message threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont post much but have a good lurk on the threads I like "

Hey!

What kind of threads do you look at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try and send messages to newbies on the send a nice message threads"

Sometimes it's good to see new profiles, see what fresh ideas they can bring to the forums x

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Correct"

Hi

What's correct??

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

New profile

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

Only been here 3 months ish so I count as a newbie , not a lurker thou I randomly pop up in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New profile "

You agree it's good to see new profiles/people trying out the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only been here 3 months ish so I count as a newbie , not a lurker thou I randomly pop up in the forums "

I've only been posting about 7 months. Wonder if there's a word that's between newbie and old hat? Do people say old hat? I do, or did I just make that up?

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’ve probably been posting for about the same period, maybe around 8-9 months. So neither a newbie or old timer…

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I believe one or two do use the term old hat, if you got a old hat spare thou I have it quite sunny here so will come in handy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe one or two do use the term old hat, if you got a old hat spare thou I have it quite sunny here so will come in handy "

I thought I'd made it up lol

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

Oh I've definitely heard that saying before, I'm sure someone will post and help us both out what the old hat saying means?

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By *r Potato HeadMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm not really a newbie, just not been on the forums much these days.

Hello to those who remember me, and hello to those who don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not really a newbie, just not been on the forums much these days.

Hello to those who remember me, and hello to those who don't."

Hello glitter ball!

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By *r Potato HeadMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'm not really a newbie, just not been on the forums much these days.

Hello to those who remember me, and hello to those who don't.

Hello glitter ball! "

Hello lovely, hope all is good with you...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fairly new to the site. Was here sometime ago for a short time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I think I cover both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not really a newbie, just not been on the forums much these days.

Hello to those who remember me, and hello to those who don't.

Hello glitter ball!

Hello lovely, hope all is good with you...x"

I'm well thanks

So what keeps you in the forums? What topics do you like to see?

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By *ppydayzzMan
over a year ago

Leighton Buzzard

Not really new, but in, out, shake it all about… hi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fairly new to the site. Was here sometime ago for a short time "

Welcome back!

It's good to have some fresh profiles joining in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like a lurker because my husband does most of the chatting on forums now

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I think I cover both"

Hello you. I'm still liking that I'm radiant lol

Come join in and talk about whatever you'd like x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really new, but in, out, shake it all about… hi!"

Hello! Are you a mover and shaker lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like a lurker because my husband does most of the chatting on forums now

F"

Haha does he, spank him lol

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By *ppydayzzMan
over a year ago

Leighton Buzzard


"Not really new, but in, out, shake it all about… hi!

Hello! Are you a mover and shaker lol"

I like to move til I get the shakes

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Lurker checking in.

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By *r Potato HeadMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'm not really a newbie, just not been on the forums much these days.

Hello to those who remember me, and hello to those who don't.

Hello glitter ball!

Hello lovely, hope all is good with you...x

I'm well thanks

So what keeps you in the forums? What topics do you like to see?"

I used to love the "I fancy you threads" always a bit of fun, and sometimes turned up an unexpected surprise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I think I cover both

Hello you. I'm still liking that I'm radiant lol

Come join in and talk about whatever you'd like x"

I speak as I find, your smile is totally infectious x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just saying hi and look for advice. Yes totally a newbie and finding it difficult to even have a conversation on here so any advice for this greenhorn x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just saying hi and look for advice. Yes totally a newbie and finding it difficult to even have a conversation on here so any advice for this greenhorn x"

Try having a public pic, from experience don't overdo the cock pics. Be yourself, and in time you'll get there. I've been on here before, but really was just a lurker lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really new, but in, out, shake it all about… hi!

Hello! Are you a mover and shaker lol

I like to move til I get the shakes "

Hold the milkshakes for a bit but i like mine thick and creamy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lurker checking in. "

Hello!

Gruesome???? Aww no way I don't believe it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not really a newbie, just not been on the forums much these days.

Hello to those who remember me, and hello to those who don't.

Hello glitter ball!

Hello lovely, hope all is good with you...x

I'm well thanks

So what keeps you in the forums? What topics do you like to see?

I used to love the "I fancy you threads" always a bit of fun, and sometimes turned up an unexpected surprise"

I think there's one currently happening, but you've found your way in here so hope you'll stay

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Well, technically!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just saying hi and look for advice. Yes totally a newbie and finding it difficult to even have a conversation on here so any advice for this greenhorn x"

Hey just get stuck in, find a topic you like or start your own, everyone was new once and it can be daunting but keep at it

There's some threads that have great advice if you use the search forums function, it does help to have a pic instead of the silhouette and it doesn't need to be a face or cock pic!

There's fun to be had if you put a smidgen in

Xx

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I pop in here again briefly but got plane fueling up going all over uk before flying to Peru lol

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Just saying hi and look for advice. Yes totally a newbie and finding it difficult to even have a conversation on here so any advice for this greenhorn x

Hey just get stuck in, find a topic you like or start your own, everyone was new once and it can be daunting but keep at it

There's some threads that have great advice if you use the search forums function, it does help to have a pic instead of the silhouette and it doesn't need to be a face or cock pic!

There's fun to be had if you put a smidgen in

Xx"
or just be a idiot like me and post random twaty messages haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only been here 6 weeks.

Practically a virgin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just saying hi and look for advice. Yes totally a newbie and finding it difficult to even have a conversation on here so any advice for this greenhorn x

Hey just get stuck in, find a topic you like or start your own, everyone was new once and it can be daunting but keep at it

There's some threads that have great advice if you use the search forums function, it does help to have a pic instead of the silhouette and it doesn't need to be a face or cock pic!

There's fun to be had if you put a smidgen in

Xx or just be a idiot like me and post random twaty messages haha "

Don't encourage!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only been here 6 weeks.

Practically a virgin. "

Open to newcumers? Lol

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Supershy, you gorgeous human

Welcome newbs and lurkyloos. Be brave, say hi and join in

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm trying my best lol

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"I'm trying my best lol

"

You’re doing a god job (which autocarrot made ‘nob’) miss!

It’s always nice to see new faces

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By *ove2lickMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Dont post much but have a good lurk on the threads I like

Hey!

What kind of threads do you look at? "
whatever catches my eye ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont post much but have a good lurk on the threads I like

Hey!

What kind of threads do you look at? whatever catches my eye ha "

You mean pics lol lol just say it!

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By *ornycouple7884Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

Newbie and 1st post too. Fascinating what I'm finding out on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newbie and 1st post too. Fascinating what I'm finding out on the forums "

Wow!! Welcome, how cool your first post and it's here!!

Sorry I use a lot of exclamation marks lol

Have you been watching and lurking? What have you thought so far? It's a safe space here lol

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By *ornycouple7884Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

Not lurking as such. Just searching for info on clubs locally etc and reading a fascinating thread on female evacuation too!!!

Nothing wrong with exclamation marks.

Plenty of messages to us from men but be good to chat to others too as most people seem really friendly

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By *ornycouple7884Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

*ejaculated NOT evacuation eek

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle somewhere


"*ejaculated NOT evacuation eek "

Welcome to the forums

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By *toney420Man
over a year ago

chatham

Is everyone alright idk what to post lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*ejaculated NOT evacuation eek "

Haha I won't tell if you don't lol

That's great, have you had a previous profile or are you brand new? You'll have some more horn dogs viewing you if you enjoy more forum threads and post on them. I'm happy that a few profiles have stepped forward and posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is everyone alright idk what to post lol "

Another first time poster? Hey!!

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By *ornycouple7884Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

We're brand new to this...but had a few meets already.

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By *ove2lickMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Dont post much but have a good lurk on the threads I like

Hey!

What kind of threads do you look at? whatever catches my eye ha

You mean pics lol lol just say it!"
pics n a bit ov banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Miss Winkle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're brand new to this...but had a few meets already."

Your profiles great, you know what you want and

I wish you good luck on here

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Looks like a fun place to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont post much but have a good lurk on the threads I like

Hey!

What kind of threads do you look at? whatever catches my eye ha

You mean pics lol lol just say it!pics n a bit ov banter "

We all like a bita banter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Miss Winkle "

Hey, who's Miss Winkle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like a fun place to be "

Ooh another newbie!!! Hello!!

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"Looks like a fun place to be

Ooh another newbie!!! Hello!!"

And hello to you. Is there a fresher's party?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like a fun place to be

Ooh another newbie!!! Hello!!

And hello to you. Is there a fresher's party? "

I'm not in with the cool lingo lol what's that?

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"Looks like a fun place to be

Ooh another newbie!!! Hello!!

And hello to you. Is there a fresher's party?

I'm not in with the cool lingo lol what's that? "

Usually what they call a first year student at university

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a newbie, but am an occasional lurker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like a fun place to be

Ooh another newbie!!! Hello!!

And hello to you. Is there a fresher's party?

I'm not in with the cool lingo lol what's that?

Usually what they call a first year student at university "

Aha. So not a party with sweets like refreshers lol

If you want a party go for it!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Not a newbie, but am an occasional lurker"

It’s been nice to see you pop in again, here and there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a newbie, but am an occasional lurker"

Hey beaut, thanks for posting!!

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By *rivateBiDancerMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"I get lots of dms from lurkers - dunno why they're afraid to post openly, we're a lovely bunch

So Do I which is why I do the threads, took me 3 months after I first joined, before I was happy posting on the forums "

You suggested I got involved at a Social last year. Better late than never

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"Looks like a fun place to be

Ooh another newbie!!! Hello!!

And hello to you. Is there a fresher's party?

I'm not in with the cool lingo lol what's that?

Usually what they call a first year student at university

Aha. So not a party with sweets like refreshers lol

If you want a party go for it!"

I might just do that if I can stand the pace. Might have to be a small party though. Thanks for the welcome anyway. I have actually been on before for a bit but had to reevaluate a few things and come back with renewed vigour. Sometimes it is needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a newbie, but am an occasional lurker

It’s been nice to see you pop in again, here and there. "

Thank you

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