FabSwingers.com forum: proud of myself :-)

By *ummy mummy OP Woman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

When my ex came to pick up the kids this morning they went off to the car and he was still hanging about so I knew something was coming...I said so see you next Tuesday..he said what day is that,I said the first,so he said oh we were planning on going out nye...so I said you will need to get a sitter then as you said you were having the kids for a whole week,something they were looking forward tosince he has not had them all month, I said last new year's he was supposed to have them and him and the gf took off to spain for the weekend instead!I said I will not be here so if you want to go out you will have to get someone to babysit.he walked away muttering...just happy I stuck to my guns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done you. X

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

good girl!

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

Well done for staying strong! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done proud of you xxx

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By *acciWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Good for you hun well done x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done for sticking to your guns my hubbys ex wife always changed the dates she had the kids and it upset them big time

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By *dsuzieTV/TS
over a year ago

Burton-upon-trent

Well done huni x

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By *cotladMan
over a year ago

lanarkshire

Well done mrs. I hate folk that dontvtake responsibillity n folk who mess kids about. It aint their fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

massive high 5 woop woop!

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By *ummy mummy OP Woman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

Thank you everyone

spirits even higher now as have just spoken to my best and oldest friend from back home on the phone for the first time in ages...feeling ok about being on my own today now

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

"Well done you. X "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good on you sweetie. Always had same shite off sons dad, never stuck to times he was supposed to have/ had him. I dontbother now. Not worth upsetting my son for.

Good luck n enjoy your alone time xx

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

7 hot days and 7 steamy nights then????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent well done, my ex is an arse when it comes to dates, will only have the girls if it is his turn and won't help should anything turn up unexpectedly grrrrrr !!!!

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

"Thank you everyone

spirits even higher now as have just spoken to my best and oldest friend from back home on the phone for the first time in ages...feeling ok about being on my own today now

You are never truly alone when you have your forum friends.

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By *ummy mummy OP Woman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

"7 hot days and 7 steamy nights then????

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hoping for a couple at least...need to get rid if this cough first though...lol

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By *ummy mummy OP Woman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

"Excellent well done, my ex is an arse when it comes to dates, will only have the girls if it is his turn and won't help should anything turn up unexpectedly grrrrrr !!!!

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he has not even been having them on his dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done, its not nice when folk try to take advantage of a person's good nature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Excellent well done, my ex is an arse when it comes to dates, will only have the girls if it is his turn and won't help should anything turn up unexpectedly grrrrrr !!!!

he has not even been having them on his dates"

I had to take mine to court in the end

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"7 hot days and 7 steamy nights then????

hoping for a couple at least...need to get rid if this cough first though...lol"

take bigger sips of wine

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By *ummy mummy OP Woman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

"7 hot days and 7 steamy nights then????

hoping for a couple at least...need to get rid if this cough first though...lol

take bigger sips of wine

Haha. If only...not even any in the house

(unfortunately due to my body absorbing too much iron my alcohol intake has to be limited now

)tail end of cold and flu from this past week...

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Well done you ..hope you have lots of fun set up whilst they are away..

beware he doesnt ring you before NYE saying one of the kids are sick and want to come home. have a good break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is a lucky sod and he doesn't even know it. I would give my right arm and left if needs be to see my gorgeous children. I was blessed when they were born and sadly don't see them now. All I want to be is a loving father who is so proud of his children but a woman scorned and all that now I am lucky if I get a text. So unfair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woo hoo, good girl, and now you CAN go to the ball

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He is a lucky sod and he doesn't even know it. I would give my right arm and left if needs be to see my gorgeous children. I was blessed when they were born and sadly don't see them now. All I want to be is a loving father who is so proud of his children but a woman scorned and all that now I am lucky if I get a text. So unfair.

I can't help wondering why fathers whose exes prevent them from seeing their children haven't taken them to court for legally binding access rights? A mother must obey a court order the same as anyone else you know.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

It breaks my heart that on one thread there is a dad who is gutted he can't spend time with his son and who would happily jump through hoops and here we have a dad trying to weasel out of time with his!

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By *ummy mummy OP Woman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

"It breaks my heart that on one thread there is a dad who is gutted he can't spend time with his son and who would happily jump through hoops and here we have a dad trying to weasel out of time with his!

It does break mine as well...I have never stopped my ex from seeing our kids,have bent over backwards to accomidate him in the past to have it thrown in my face. I would never stop him from seeing them...and unless their is abuse involved,I can not understand mums or dads who stop the other parent from seeing the kids out of spite or whatever as it is the kids who end up being hurt...and well as seen in posts here today the parent dying to spend time with their kids.(hope this males sense...under the influence of a very strong Canadian lemsip type hot drink...lol)

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I agree my ex is like that he always wrangles his way out of seeing his daughter and changes things cos he knows I sort my social life round him having her so good girl for sticking to your guns and not backing down xxx

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Good for you... Friskys ex hasn't seen, phoned or even sent a birthday card to his son in 4 years. We never tried to stop him seeing him even though he was unreliable...

But if you ask the ex in front of witnesses why he hasn't seen his son he breaks down in tears and says " I don't even know if my son is dead or alive, they won't let me see him or contact him." He really doesn't give a shit about my step son or any one else for that matter. We don't bad mouth him in front of my step son, but hope he grows up to realise what a shit his father has been to him....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I said so see you next Tuesday "

I know this is a serious post but this bit made me laugh

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

" I said so see you next Tuesday

I know this is a serious post but this bit made me laugh

Yes I did have to re read the post in the beginning but realised it wasnt what she was saying

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Very well done you. Us mums need time out as well enjoy your break x

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Oh and I also laughed at see u next tuesday lol sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proud of you (even though i just met you lol) x

Now your a brave _ummy mummy xx sometimes you just need time to yourself

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