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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

The comments of a woman lol they only quote a woman, they are focused on women but when a woman starts a thread it's a free for all, we all comment but the women still only quote the people they know or are attracted to....... Am I right or am I right?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Probably. If I start a thread I try to respond to everyone. I see the forum as a social space, a lot of people see it as an opportunity to hook up with people they'd like to meet. Neither is wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The comments of a woman lol they only quote a woman, they are focused on women but when a woman starts a thread it's a free for all, we all comment but the women still only quote the people they know or are attracted to....... Am I right or am I right? "

This is Schrödinger's comment. Am I quoting you because I want to attract you, or am I quoting you just to disprove your point. Or is it both?

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Probably. If I start a thread I try to respond to everyone. I see the forum as a social space, a lot of people see it as an opportunity to hook up with people they'd like to meet. Neither is wrong "
love your santa outfit but I'm going to try and reply to all equally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused, do you want mine or my dogs input?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are wrong

You are wrong in my case anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So who is this post attracting?

Greedy or Boss

Or us both?

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"The comments of a woman lol they only quote a woman, they are focused on women but when a woman starts a thread it's a free for all, we all comment but the women still only quote the people they know or are attracted to....... Am I right or am I right?

This is Schrödinger's comment. Am I quoting you because I want to attract you, or am I quoting you just to disprove your point. Or is it both? "

ahhhh yes but schrodinger approached it using physics

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I'm confused, do you want mine or my dogs input? "
you have a dog ?

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"So who is this post attracting?

Greedy or Boss

Or us both? "

this is an inclusive thread

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Can't speak for the men, but I'll reply to anyone.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Wrong, I usually reply to most if I start a thread but it's a bit much to expect it from start to finish as it kills the thread quickly

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Probably. If I start a thread I try to respond to everyone. I see the forum as a social space, a lot of people see it as an opportunity to hook up with people they'd like to meet. Neither is wrong love your santa outfit but I'm going to try and reply to all equally "

Thank you. Equal opportunities responder, I like it

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

See now this thread has attracted mostly women so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually no, what I meant is I don't do that but yes certain people do!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"The comments of a woman lol they only quote a woman, they are focused on women but when a woman starts a thread it's a free for all, we all comment but the women still only quote the people they know or are attracted to....... Am I right or am I right? "

Sometimes this is obvious along with the friendships you have here

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"You are wrong

You are wrong in my case anyway "

Ok so you reply if the thread strikes a cord by either sex?

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"You're wrong"
Oh no I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to anyone but there are a few who do it

Each to their own I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are wrong

You are wrong in my case anyway Ok so you reply if the thread strikes a cord by either sex? "

Yes I do,if I do miss someone then it's a genuine mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some reply to all others don’t

But I do find the guys who only reply to ever woman and don’t include everyone

They comes across as thirsty and probably off putting to woman

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I reply to anyone but there are a few who do it

Each to their own I say "

nope I've noticed....... I'm very observant......... You tend to reply to specific people, maybe not intentionally but nevertheless

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"The comments of a woman lol they only quote a woman, they are focused on women but when a woman starts a thread it's a free for all, we all comment but the women still only quote the people they know or are attracted to....... Am I right or am I right?

Sometimes this is obvious along with the friendships you have here "

are you drawn to threads started by women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some reply to all others don’t

But I do find the guys who only reply to ever woman and don’t include everyone

They comes across as thirsty and probably off putting to woman "

Or maybe just a bit insecure

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"The comments of a woman lol they only quote a woman, they are focused on women but when a woman starts a thread it's a free for all, we all comment but the women still only quote the people they know or are attracted to....... Am I right or am I right? "

The problem with this thread is that you're asking for opinions on too diverse a population.

Lets face it. It's pretty obvious when what you're suggesting occurs. You can clearly see it and the pattern of behaviour.

But there are also plenty of frequent posters that are single males that don't follow that pattern. They'll reply to anyone and everyone. Sure - it's often because they like the sound of their own voice and the more they respond the more their profile pic will be seen and therefore in their heads the more free advertising they'll get.....but they don't just reply to women.

There are also those who'll attempt to hide the fact they're looking for women to respond to by replying to the odd guy or couple. But you'll still spot the gushing, fawning and blowing of smoke up derrieres. It's not exactly subtle.

You also have the issue to contend with of couples profiles of course. Many tend to have one half that uses the forums as opposed to both, but if you lack a sharp eye and attention to detail or they don't sign off with a name or marker to signify who's posting then the guys who are starting threads looking for female attention may inadvertently be sucking up to someone lacking the 'bobs and vagene' that they wish to get close to.

Which is pretty funny when it happens to be fair.....

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not so much attraction as only replying to their friends. Nothing wrong with that but it's a little boring when the thread becomes just long private conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some reply to all others don’t

But I do find the guys who only reply to ever woman and don’t include everyone

They comes across as thirsty and probably off putting to woman

Or maybe just a bit insecure "

that as well

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Some reply to all others don’t

But I do find the guys who only reply to ever woman and don’t include everyone

They comes across as thirsty and probably off putting to woman "

thirsty? I think you appeal or you don't age, physique, humour etc

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"The comments of a woman lol they only quote a woman, they are focused on women but when a woman starts a thread it's a free for all, we all comment but the women still only quote the people they know or are attracted to....... Am I right or am I right?

Sometimes this is obvious along with the friendships you have here are you drawn to threads started by women? "

No, mostly ones about Football and Food. My kind of FAF

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Using the fab forums is very much like making love to a beautiful woman…

…fire and forget

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"The comments of a woman lol they only quote a woman, they are focused on women but when a woman starts a thread it's a free for all, we all comment but the women still only quote the people they know or are attracted to....... Am I right or am I right?

The problem with this thread is that you're asking for opinions on too diverse a population.

Lets face it. It's pretty obvious when what you're suggesting occurs. You can clearly see it and the pattern of behaviour.

But there are also plenty of frequent posters that are single males that don't follow that pattern. They'll reply to anyone and everyone. Sure - it's often because they like the sound of their own voice and the more they respond the more their profile pic will be seen and therefore in their heads the more free advertising they'll get.....but they don't just reply to women.

There are also those who'll attempt to hide the fact they're looking for women to respond to by replying to the odd guy or couple. But you'll still spot the gushing, fawning and blowing of smoke up derrieres. It's not exactly subtle.

You also have the issue to contend with of couples profiles of course. Many tend to have one half that uses the forums as opposed to both, but if you lack a sharp eye and attention to detail or they don't sign off with a name or marker to signify who's posting then the guys who are starting threads looking for female attention may inadvertently be sucking up to someone lacking the 'bobs and vagene' that they wish to get close to.

Which is pretty funny when it happens to be fair.....

A "

exactly this and lots of couples don't say who is chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually no, what I meant is I don't do that but yes certain people do! "

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"The comments of a woman lol they only quote a woman, they are focused on women but when a woman starts a thread it's a free for all, we all comment but the women still only quote the people they know or are attracted to....... Am I right or am I right?

Sometimes this is obvious along with the friendships you have here are you drawn to threads started by women?

No, mostly ones about Football and Food. My kind of FAF "

ahhhh fit as fuck changed to football and food

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"It's not so much attraction as only replying to their friends. Nothing wrong with that but it's a little boring when the thread becomes just long private conversations."
and your comments, your humour are missed I get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I start a thread, I'll try to reply to everyone until I get bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually no, what I meant is I don't do that but yes certain people do!

"

Yes?

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Using the fab forums is very much like making love to a beautiful woman…

…fire and forget "

lol true for a guy it seems its the way to get attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually no, what I meant is I don't do that but yes certain people do! "

God, you're so right and pretty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually no, what I meant is I don't do that but yes certain people do!

God, you're so right and pretty. "

It's just cringe right? Bring wine tonight

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Not sure about trying to attract people, I'm just giving my opinion, tell my story etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reply to anyone but there are a few who do it

Each to their own I say nope I've noticed....... I'm very observant......... You tend to reply to specific people, maybe not intentionally but nevertheless "

Nah I beg to differ…. There are a few women and couples who reply to the same guy as a thread continues there’s no harm in it in my eyes, these shouldn’t be taken personally if anyone doesn’t get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some reply to all others don’t

But I do find the guys who only reply to ever woman and don’t include everyone

They comes across as thirsty and probably off putting to woman thirsty? I think you appeal or you don't age, physique, humour etc "

Thirsty means desperate you can spot it a mile away if you sit back and watch

How someone will try and force them selfs on people

Buy trying to replay to ever woman on the tread

there’s also a if your face fits and all I shour your comments above have land you on the list all ready by calling people out

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Actually no, what I meant is I don't do that but yes certain people do!

God, you're so right and pretty.

It's just cringe right? Bring wine tonight "

don't you have a specific wine you like, tell him or you'll get red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I start a thread, I'll try to reply to everyone until I get bored "

You are one of the best for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wrong, I usually reply to most if I start a thread but it's a bit much to expect it from start to finish as it kills the thread quickly "

I used to start threads for people to chat and discuss like a group in a pub.

I reply to what was said, not the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure about trying to attract people, I'm just giving my opinion, tell my story etc."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a person is interested in the topic started they will give their tuppence worth regardless of who started it , in my opinion they are replying to the topic not the person , if they're interested in the person who started it the can always send a private reply or a message... whatever suits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The comments of a woman lol they only quote a woman, they are focused on women but when a woman starts a thread it's a free for all, we all comment but the women still only quote the people they know or are attracted to....... Am I right or am I right? "

You’re not wrong.

Most people who start threads have an agenda, and a lot of threads are directed to getting information they need for that one person they have an eye on.

I like treads that name name people in the thread title. They’re fun to watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"….

I used to start threads for people to chat and discuss like a group in a pub.

I reply to what was said, not the person. "

This is how I view the whole of the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually no, what I meant is I don't do that but yes certain people do!

God, you're so right and pretty.

It's just cringe right? Bring wine tonight "

It's unabashedly shameful. Red or white?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually no, what I meant is I don't do that but yes certain people do!

God, you're so right and pretty.

It's just cringe right? Bring wine tonight

It's unabashedly shameful. Red or white?"

The white we had last time was good.

I'm embarrassed for them.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I think some posters are more inclusive than others and only reply to who they like or fancy...i may be wrong...#not all posters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm confused, do you want mine or my dogs input? you have a dog ? "

Now there's giraffes involved too. I think we've solved the issue, you my friend are Dr Dolittle.

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I'm confused, do you want mine or my dogs input? you have a dog ?

Now there's giraffes involved too. I think we've solved the issue, you my friend are Dr Dolittle."

I talk to the animals

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I try to comment on everyone who posts on any of my threads, but if lots of people post at the same time it clogs up the thread with reply and quotes.

I don't fancy anyone on the forums so I respond by what the person has said.

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I try to comment on everyone who posts on any of my threads, but if lots of people post at the same time it clogs up the thread with reply and quotes.

I don't fancy anyone on the forums so I respond by what the person has said. "

really...... Nobody?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually no, what I meant is I don't do that but yes certain people do!

God, you're so right and pretty.

It's just cringe right? Bring wine tonight

It's unabashedly shameful. Red or white?

The white we had last time was good.

I'm embarrassed for them. "

But what snacks go with them? They honestly just need a day off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually no, what I meant is I don't do that but yes certain people do!

God, you're so right and pretty.

It's just cringe right? Bring wine tonight don't you have a specific wine you like, tell him or you'll get red "

What’s wrong with red?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're not wrong macky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually no, what I meant is I don't do that but yes certain people do!

God, you're so right and pretty.

It's just cringe right? Bring wine tonight don't you have a specific wine you like, tell him or you'll get red

What’s wrong with red?

"

Nothing, absolutely nothing at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn’t give a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I have to resist responding to FH, even though he is more than a tiny bit delicious.

I respond to anyone whose comment resonates, OP, so your theory is correct from the standpoint of Redhead HQ over here.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Incredibly wrong. I quote people to point out they're being a bellend, and that if that bellend was to cone near me it would simply be a bell, coz the end would be Bobbitted and thrown to a grizzly bear.

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Now I have to resist responding to FH, even though he is more than a tiny bit delicious.

I respond to anyone whose comment resonates, OP, so your theory is correct from the standpoint of Redhead HQ over here."

see I knew it

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Actually no, what I meant is I don't do that but yes certain people do!

God, you're so right and pretty.

It's just cringe right? Bring wine tonight don't you have a specific wine you like, tell him or you'll get red

What’s wrong with red?

"

Red red wine stay close to me

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Actually no, what I meant is I don't do that but yes certain people do!

God, you're so right and pretty.

It's just cringe right? Bring wine tonight

It's unabashedly shameful. Red or white?

The white we had last time was good.

I'm embarrassed for them.

But what snacks go with them? They honestly just need a day off"

cheesy bisquits

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

If it's an interesting point I'll quote it and add my ramblings on to the end of it. I can think of several posters who I don't know or fancy but quote oft.

Some threads I'm more likely to respond to those I know because I know they'll understand my humour. Or will have a good debate rather than resorting to you're wrong I'm right way of posting.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"The comments of a woman lol they only quote a woman, they are focused on women but when a woman starts a thread it's a free for all, we all comment but the women still only quote the people they know or are attracted to....... Am I right or am I right? "

I think most generally respond to anyone, some do get caught up in conversation, theres always the ones on the fab the above that lurk and only respond to women but generally I think it's a good mix.

Mrs

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I try to comment on everyone who posts on any of my threads, but if lots of people post at the same time it clogs up the thread with reply and quotes.

I don't fancy anyone on the forums so I respond by what the person has said. "

Same none I've come across on forums I fancy really x

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I try to comment on everyone who posts on any of my threads, but if lots of people post at the same time it clogs up the thread with reply and quotes.

I don't fancy anyone on the forums so I respond by what the person has said.

Same none I've come across on forums I fancy really x"

in what way do you not fancy them, their look in most cases you can't see it or it's a penis you're replying to or it's their comments?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I try to comment on everyone who posts on any of my threads, but if lots of people post at the same time it clogs up the thread with reply and quotes.

I don't fancy anyone on the forums so I respond by what the person has said.

Same none I've come across on forums I fancy really xin what way do you not fancy them, their look in most cases you can't see it or it's a penis you're replying to or it's their comments? "

I'm gonna jump in on this one.

I don't fancy people as standard. I don't know them or enough about them TO fancy them.

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I try to comment on everyone who posts on any of my threads, but if lots of people post at the same time it clogs up the thread with reply and quotes.

I don't fancy anyone on the forums so I respond by what the person has said.

Same none I've come across on forums I fancy really xin what way do you not fancy them, their look in most cases you can't see it or it's a penis you're replying to or it's their comments?

I'm gonna jump in on this one.

I don't fancy people as standard. I don't know them or enough about them TO fancy them.

"

yes but the lady I quoted didn't give a reason she said she didn't fancy anyone in forums are you saying the same or just had enough of the whole thing or disillusioned with it all?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I try to comment on everyone who posts on any of my threads, but if lots of people post at the same time it clogs up the thread with reply and quotes.

I don't fancy anyone on the forums so I respond by what the person has said.

Same none I've come across on forums I fancy really xin what way do you not fancy them, their look in most cases you can't see it or it's a penis you're replying to or it's their comments? "

Just nothing that grabs me really! As most don't as u say have a face pic! Which is what I'm attracted to! A cock pic is nice but do like to see who it's attached to! With pms people send a face pic which is important for me x

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I try to comment on everyone who posts on any of my threads, but if lots of people post at the same time it clogs up the thread with reply and quotes.

I don't fancy anyone on the forums so I respond by what the person has said.

Same none I've come across on forums I fancy really xin what way do you not fancy them, their look in most cases you can't see it or it's a penis you're replying to or it's their comments?

Just nothing that grabs me really! As most don't as u say have a face pic! Which is what I'm attracted to! A cock pic is nice but do like to see who it's attached to! With pms people send a face pic which is important for me x"

yes but that's private messaging where the guy is trying to get your attention here in forums the guy is trying to get many womens attention...... Hedging his bets so to speak.... Some attention is better than none

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I try to comment on everyone who posts on any of my threads, but if lots of people post at the same time it clogs up the thread with reply and quotes.

I don't fancy anyone on the forums so I respond by what the person has said.

Same none I've come across on forums I fancy really xin what way do you not fancy them, their look in most cases you can't see it or it's a penis you're replying to or it's their comments?

Just nothing that grabs me really! As most don't as u say have a face pic! Which is what I'm attracted to! A cock pic is nice but do like to see who it's attached to! With pms people send a face pic which is important for me xyes but that's private messaging where the guy is trying to get your attention here in forums the guy is trying to get many womens attention...... Hedging his bets so to speak.... Some attention is better than none "

True! But don't fancy them as don't see their faces ! Are a few I find amusing in a good way well one! And some I find annoying few of those lol x

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I try to comment on everyone who posts on any of my threads, but if lots of people post at the same time it clogs up the thread with reply and quotes.

I don't fancy anyone on the forums so I respond by what the person has said.

Same none I've come across on forums I fancy really xin what way do you not fancy them, their look in most cases you can't see it or it's a penis you're replying to or it's their comments?

Just nothing that grabs me really! As most don't as u say have a face pic! Which is what I'm attracted to! A cock pic is nice but do like to see who it's attached to! With pms people send a face pic which is important for me xyes but that's private messaging where the guy is trying to get your attention here in forums the guy is trying to get many womens attention...... Hedging his bets so to speak.... Some attention is better than none

True! But don't fancy them as don't see their faces ! Are a few I find amusing in a good way well one! And some I find annoying few of those lol x"

ahhhh OK get you but if you were to get to know a thread poster then you might fancy them, you just haven't made any attempt to get to know them I guess

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I try to comment on everyone who posts on any of my threads, but if lots of people post at the same time it clogs up the thread with reply and quotes.

I don't fancy anyone on the forums so I respond by what the person has said.

Same none I've come across on forums I fancy really xin what way do you not fancy them, their look in most cases you can't see it or it's a penis you're replying to or it's their comments?

Just nothing that grabs me really! As most don't as u say have a face pic! Which is what I'm attracted to! A cock pic is nice but do like to see who it's attached to! With pms people send a face pic which is important for me xyes but that's private messaging where the guy is trying to get your attention here in forums the guy is trying to get many womens attention...... Hedging his bets so to speak.... Some attention is better than none

True! But don't fancy them as don't see their faces ! Are a few I find amusing in a good way well one! And some I find annoying few of those lol xahhhh OK get you but if you were to get to know a thread poster then you might fancy them, you just haven't made any attempt to get to know them I guess "

Maybe x

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

See I know ya know

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

It’s age old isn’t it? Two people can make the same comment but the OP will only respond to the person they either know or fancy. If it’s to be an inclusive environment then responding to everyone would help that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s age old isn’t it? Two people can make the same comment but the OP will only respond to the person they either know or fancy. If it’s to be an inclusive environment then responding to everyone would help that "

Spot on!

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"It’s age old isn’t it? Two people can make the same comment but the OP will only respond to the person they either know or fancy. If it’s to be an inclusive environment then responding to everyone would help that "
exactly this

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

It does make me laugh sometimes, when various guys ignore all the males in a thread and just reply to the females.

Each to their own though. We all like a chuckle sometimes

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"It does make me laugh sometimes, when various guys ignore all the males in a thread and just reply to the females.

Each to their own though. We all like a chuckle sometimes "

and me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does make me laugh sometimes, when various guys ignore all the males in a thread and just reply to the females.

Each to their own though. We all like a chuckle sometimes "

yes I am so with you.

heterosexuality needs to be protected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't feel we are obliged to reply to everyone at all the times. It would be really tedious when threads get busy and disrupting the flow. However, it's causing a bit eye roll, when same people constantly come on the threads just to bat eye lashes at those who they fancy rather than reply to the original post

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"It does make me laugh sometimes, when various guys ignore all the males in a thread and just reply to the females.

Each to their own though. We all like a chuckle sometimes

yes I am so with you.

heterosexuality needs to be protected "

Please do not cross the protected line ——————

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does make me laugh sometimes, when various guys ignore all the males in a thread and just reply to the females.

Each to their own though. We all like a chuckle sometimes "

Some people are very open that they are only here to talk and hopefully pick up women (I don’t know another way to say that!) so I get it. But it does make me laugh. Because if I was going to talk to anyone who is on my wave length, it’s probably going to be the majority of the men.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"It does make me laugh sometimes, when various guys ignore all the males in a thread and just reply to the females.

Each to their own though. We all like a chuckle sometimes "

Some women do this with the guys 2! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does make me laugh sometimes, when various guys ignore all the males in a thread and just reply to the females.

Each to their own though. We all like a chuckle sometimes

Some women do this with the guys 2! X"

No they d……. Oh, that’s why they don’t reply

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"It does make me laugh sometimes, when various guys ignore all the males in a thread and just reply to the females.

Each to their own though. We all like a chuckle sometimes

Some women do this with the guys 2! X"

exactly

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If I start a thread I rarely post on it again after the op.

They are usually light-hearted threads that don't require further interaction from me so they are never done to attract anyone or draw attention to me.

I've seen numerous kiss/ fuck/avoid threads where the op is so busy kissing and fucking that it turns into a cock/pussy blocking thread.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"The comments of a woman lol they only quote a woman, they are focused on women but when a woman starts a thread it's a free for all, we all comment but the women still only quote the people they know or are attracted to....... Am I right or am I right? "

We all use Fab, and indeed, the forum, in our own way. For me, I’m geographically too far from the bulk of people who use the site anyway, so whatever I post on any thread is unlikely to attract any ‘useful’ attention, so I just say what I think, no holds barred.

At the end of the day, this site is probably 60% guys, 30% couples, and 10% single ladies

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"The comments of a woman lol they only quote a woman, they are focused on women but when a woman starts a thread it's a free for all, we all comment but the women still only quote the people they know or are attracted to....... Am I right or am I right?

We all use Fab, and indeed, the forum, in our own way. For me, I’m geographically too far from the bulk of people who use the site anyway, so whatever I post on any thread is unlikely to attract any ‘useful’ attention, so I just say what I think, no holds barred.

At the end of the day, this site is probably 60% guys, 30% couples, and 10% single ladies "

true but penrith isn't that far away if you're in Cornwall

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"It does make me laugh sometimes, when various guys ignore all the males in a thread and just reply to the females. "

Is that each woman, or both of them?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"The comments of a woman lol they only quote a woman, they are focused on women but when a woman starts a thread it's a free for all, we all comment but the women still only quote the people they know or are attracted to....... Am I right or am I right?

We all use Fab, and indeed, the forum, in our own way. For me, I’m geographically too far from the bulk of people who use the site anyway, so whatever I post on any thread is unlikely to attract any ‘useful’ attention, so I just say what I think, no holds barred.

At the end of the day, this site is probably 60% guys, 30% couples, and 10% single ladies true but penrith isn't that far away if you're in Cornwall "

Think you’re thinking of Penarth……

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"The comments of a woman lol they only quote a woman, they are focused on women but when a woman starts a thread it's a free for all, we all comment but the women still only quote the people they know or are attracted to....... Am I right or am I right?

We all use Fab, and indeed, the forum, in our own way. For me, I’m geographically too far from the bulk of people who use the site anyway, so whatever I post on any thread is unlikely to attract any ‘useful’ attention, so I just say what I think, no holds barred.

At the end of the day, this site is probably 60% guys, 30% couples, and 10% single ladies true but penrith isn't that far away if you're in Cornwall

Think you’re thinking of Penarth…… "

lol

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