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By *onnynclaire OP   Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Hey all

I’m into a lot of things/will to try most things.

Over the past few years I have felt that even though not attracted to guys, I’d like to experiment but would want claire involved.

She’s totally up for that lol.

I have been slowly letting on about wanting to try women’s undies so she bought me some tights and we both really enjoyed the result.

Now I’m really willing to try going further with it.

I have let her know that if she’s up for it, I’d like to try a dress and wig and would even get rid of my beard.

Sorry if I’m waffling, this is a new feeling or desire for me.

To start it would purely just something I do with her at home when we are free.

Wanted to get it off my chest

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By *iss Boot LoverTV/TS
over a year ago

Tetbury

Do it, if you have your wife's support!

Nothing beats putting on a wig and some make up and becoming someone else for a couple of hours.

Happy to help, DM if needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it op but fair warning it’s a very slippery slope ha ha

First it be one dress and heels

And the next thing you know you have 5 wardrobes full off stuff speaking form experience here

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville


"Go for it op but fair warning it’s a very slippery slope ha ha

First it be one dress and heels

And the next thing you know you have 5 wardrobes full off stuff speaking form experience here "

5 wardrobes!

I need to come visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she up for trying you in a dress and wig? You don't have to shave if you don't want to.

Either of you might find that you're not as into it in reality as you thought. Don't feel bad if that happens, we can't help such feelings.

However if you both enjoy it then brilliant. You don't know if you don't try.

Also you're lucky you can discuss it between you.

Good luck!

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away

Why are there never articles like this for women who want to crossdress?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for it op but fair warning it’s a very slippery slope ha ha

First it be one dress and heels

And the next thing you know you have 5 wardrobes full off stuff speaking form experience here

5 wardrobes!

I need to come visit "

Maybe a bit more it’s bad

and yes anytime you like with notice lovely xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are there never articles like this for women who want to crossdress?"

Do a new thread.

It's an interesting question.

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By *onnynclaire OP   Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Thank you all for the kind words.

She’s happy for me to wear tights as she actually found that to be a turn on.

Have only discussed through messages to eachother as I’m embarrassed to actually talk about it.

She’s not too keen on me wearing a dress and makeup.

I’ve said it’s a way of us doing a bit of role reversal as we both enjoy that when she ummmm pegs me.

I find it a real turn on and she usually gets going on what gets me going.

As someone said earlier. Yeah we might dress me up and both not really like it and that will be that but to at least try would be fun right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all for the kind words.

She’s happy for me to wear tights as she actually found that to be a turn on.

Have only discussed through messages to eachother as I’m embarrassed to actually talk about it.

She’s not too keen on me wearing a dress and makeup.

I’ve said it’s a way of us doing a bit of role reversal as we both enjoy that when she ummmm pegs me.

I find it a real turn on and she usually gets going on what gets me going.

As someone said earlier. Yeah we might dress me up and both not really like it and that will be that but to at least try would be fun right."

I'm sorry but I would say don't try it. She's told you she's not keen. She doesn't want to.

If either of you do something that you're not sure about it could ruin what you have now. I don't think it's worth the risk.

Maybe try looking for someone who would enjoy it or have fun alone when she's out of the house.

It's hot as fuck with the right person. Keep doing it if you enjoy it, just listen to what she wants too. X

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By *onnynclaire OP   Couple
over a year ago

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Ok.

Maybe won’t try it then or just stick to the tights/leggings she liked seeing me in.

We’ve been together most of our lives so not just gonna part ways just because of that.

I only opened up to her about it because quite a few people I’ve heard of had their partner get really into it and even go shopping for things for the male to wear. I thought that showed a lot of love and support too.

I’ll leave it where we are comfy for now. As don’t want to push her boundaries.

Will think of something else to try while the kids are away tomorrow night lol.

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By *b72Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Get yourself some slinky underwear, we get cotton or polyester, they get silk, satin or lace, guess which feels sooo much nicer. If you both like that then move on from there. There may even be shaving at a later date depending on how fem you want to feel/look.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"Ok.

Maybe won’t try it then or just stick to the tights/leggings she liked seeing me in.

We’ve been together most of our lives so not just gonna part ways just because of that.

I only opened up to her about it because quite a few people I’ve heard of had their partner get really into it and even go shopping for things for the male to wear. I thought that showed a lot of love and support too.

I’ll leave it where we are comfy for now. As don’t want to push her boundaries.

Will think of something else to try while the kids are away tomorrow night lol.

"

Many wives support their husband's with cross dressing in a non sexual and/or a sexual way. As long as you both communicate clearly and honestly with each other that's all that matters. Have fun in your journey OP

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By *onnynclaire OP   Couple
over a year ago

Reading


"Ok.

Maybe won’t try it then or just stick to the tights/leggings she liked seeing me in.

We’ve been together most of our lives so not just gonna part ways just because of that.

I only opened up to her about it because quite a few people I’ve heard of had their partner get really into it and even go shopping for things for the male to wear. I thought that showed a lot of love and support too.

I’ll leave it where we are comfy for now. As don’t want to push her boundaries.

Will think of something else to try while the kids are away tomorrow night lol.

Many wives support their husband's with cross dressing in a non sexual and/or a sexual way. As long as you both communicate clearly and honestly with each other that's all that matters. Have fun in your journey OP "

Totally get that.

Maybe we will start small like we have.

I did look at lace undies for guys on a popular adult shop site and they looked pretty comfy.

I did like the undies with a pull off but at the front for easy access lol.

We’ve been together too many years to not communicate. We are good.

Thank you all for the kind words and advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok.

Maybe won’t try it then or just stick to the tights/leggings she liked seeing me in.

We’ve been together most of our lives so not just gonna part ways just because of that.

I only opened up to her about it because quite a few people I’ve heard of had their partner get really into it and even go shopping for things for the male to wear. I thought that showed a lot of love and support too.

I’ll leave it where we are comfy for now. As don’t want to push her boundaries.

Will think of something else to try while the kids are away tomorrow night lol.

"

She might get into it in the future. Shopping together for clothes is good fun.

I just mean tread carefully as it's difficult to go back. Maybe ask her to lead the way and if she feels like she wants you to go further, she can let you know. X

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By *onnynclaire OP   Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Sorry

Sent you a pm and realise I shouldn’t have as should keep it here.

Thank you for the advice. Small steps and see how goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad you enjoyed the kink. I wish I could wear nylons and knickers with a woman - big fantasy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heidiphox100

Non sexual youtuber whom has a supportive wife and Been blogging away for 11 years.

The ups and downs

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over a year ago

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By *ature BBW Lover 69Man
over a year ago

exeter

I have always loved the feeling of stockings , Suspenders and tights ,on my body , love a body stocking as well , I’ve not done the wig and heels yet . Love how it looks on me and just feels naughty . Definitely worth trying more

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