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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you do yours? Asking for a friend

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Masturbate usually works for a little while.

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By *it4uMan
over a year ago

Brighton / Eastbourne / SW France


"Masturbate usually works for a little while. "

What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meditation helps.

Meditation having a wank helps more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really get it.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

yep having a wank..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep definately helps when there aren’t others to assist

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Masturbate usually works for a little while. "

It feels like wasted energy in my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fap until you cannot fap no more my friend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everyone wants don’t they?

*Woody finishes last game of solitaire.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't really get it."

^this is exactly why I asked the question. I do t get IT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual devience sounds more fun but if I have to then I guess I'm with the majority, wanking

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I share it. I find my frustration perfectly manageable if I know someone else has it worse because of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Masturbate usually works for a little while. "

Yep, that’s me too.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I’ve learned to live with the frustration, it took a while but I’m comfortable with the situation now. When it gets too much I have a wank. That generally provides a short term fix but ultimately it can be unfulfilling

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

co. antrim

I take matters into my own hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get one of my friends all horned up too and ride them until I'm done.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

its a good healthy pastime wanking..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some seem to come on here and start threads when they’ve not had any for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I share it. I find my frustration perfectly manageable if I know someone else has it worse because of me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put a meet up

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

This really isn't meant to be a boast - I'm just interested in psychology - but I don't have this either. Do some people experience sexual desire like hunger? Full after you've just eaten, then gradually hungrier until you are ravenous and would eat al.ost anything?

For me, sexual desire needs a stimulus. The world in general, and Fab in particular, is full of that, of course, so it's pretty easy! But if I were just washing up, say, or reading, I wouldn't experience sexual desire. So I suppose the frustration doesn't arise because the need doesn't make itself felt until there is a reasonable chance of satiating it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This really isn't meant to be a boast - I'm just interested in psychology - but I don't have this either. …….

For me, sexual desire needs a stimulus. The world in general, and Fab in particular, is full of that, of course, so it's pretty easy! But if I were just washing up, say, or reading, I wouldn't experience sexual desire. So I suppose the frustration doesn't arise because the need doesn't make itself felt until there is a reasonable chance of satiating it."

So, if your interested. Here’s me.

I see a photo video and I KNOW it’s sexy, because I’m a perve, and I can’t help it. Does it make me want to wank? No. But it could get me hard.

But the stimulation that gets me horny and sexually frustrated is an attraction to someone, I know I’m enjoying myself for that moment hour or a much longer time. They make me want to enjoy my sexy sex with them. That’s my frustration. Does that make sense?

I don’t walk around like I teenage hardon trying to poke every hole it will fit into.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put a meet up "

I tried that once! Not one call.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve learned to live with the frustration, it took a while but I’m comfortable with the situation now. When it gets too much I have a wank. That generally provides a short term fix but ultimately it can be unfulfilling "

I hear this and relate. I just get on with something else to move away from

Sexy thoughts.

Then, what happens in the showers stays in the shower. …. Not literally, I rinse the tray afterward.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Distract myself, have sex or masterbate

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A FB of mine can switch her sexual desires off.

But after having a good session, she’s horny for days after and is insatiable.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Have sex. Failing that, get my toys out

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Lifting heavy things usually works for me. If that doesn’t work I just have a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been frustrated for the past three years

Don’t Masturbate

Just tend to leak a lot

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Do some people experience sexual desire like hunger? Full after you've just eaten, then gradually hungrier until you are ravenous and would eat al.ost anything?"

Absolutely opposite. Once I've had some all I want is more. It doesn't matter how good it was or if it genuinely felt like I just had the soul fucked out of me, once I've regained the ability to move my limbs I'll be actively trying to get more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fly the meet now flag and just take the first off I get

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I generally don’t get it OP. I enjoy being at that “turned on and edging” stage

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lifting heavy things usually works for me. If that doesn’t work I just have a wank."

So lifting my cock is a vicious circle of misery

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A FB of mine can switch her sexual desires off.

But after having a good session, she’s horny for days after and is insatiable. "

Yes. More can make you want more.

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Lifting heavy things usually works for me. If that doesn’t work I just have a wank.

So lifting my cock is a vicious circle of misery "

That’s too deep for a Friday morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lifting heavy things usually works for me. If that doesn’t work I just have a wank.

So lifting my cock is a vicious circle of misery

That’s too deep for a Friday morning."

It's never too deep

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Lifting heavy things usually works for me. If that doesn’t work I just have a wank.

So lifting my cock is a vicious circle of misery

That’s too deep for a Friday morning.

It's never too deep "

It is when you’ve only got a couple of inches

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lifting heavy things usually works for me. If that doesn’t work I just have a wank.

So lifting my cock is a vicious circle of misery

That’s too deep for a Friday morning.

It's never too deep "

Even in a morning?

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"

So, if your interested. Here’s me.

I see a photo video and I KNOW it’s sexy, because I’m a perve, and I can’t help it. Does it make me want to wank? No. But it could get me hard.

But the stimulation that gets me horny and sexually frustrated is an attraction to someone, I know I’m enjoying myself for that moment hour or a much longer time. They make me want to enjoy my sexy sex with them. That’s my frustration. Does that make sense?

I don’t walk around like I teenage hardon trying to poke every hole it will fit into. "

Completely interested. And thank you. Yes, I didn't imagine the latter! Just fascinated by how sex is different in different people.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Do some people experience sexual desire like hunger? Full after you've just eaten, then gradually hungrier until you are ravenous and would eat al.ost anything?

Absolutely opposite. Once I've had some all I want is more. It doesn't matter how good it was or if it genuinely felt like I just had the soul fucked out of me, once I've regained the ability to move my limbs I'll be actively trying to get more."

Really interesting. Thank you. But that feeling must fade at some point, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have sex. Failing that, get my toys out"

Are we talking Legos & Hot Wheels cars?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Really interesting. Thank you. But that feeling must fade at some point, no?"

Usually shortly after parting ways with the person who caused it.

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By *oey16Man
over a year ago

West Sussex


"I just get one of my friends all horned up too and ride them until I'm done."

I would love to have a friend like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sex drive is not the same as MrW&W so when i need it i know i will get it and if he is horny he just shoves he cock my face and ill suck him off and that usually gets me horny so we end up fucking anyway. Romance is not dead in this house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just have sex usually

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

I just beat it till it's red raw and can't take no more

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I only really get cock hungry when I'm ovulating, so I tend to arrange to meet one of my friends for a weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really get it."
I totally understand whyb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't seem to finish when wanking so haven't done in months sex or bj is the only way I can cum

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By *orridgeCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Torridge

Have a nice cup of tea and then crack on with the household chores

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Really vigorous wank with sandpaper followed by dipping my cock in TCP usually helps for a few days, give it a go Woody

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Tell him - talk about all those debauched thoughts, drive ourselves even more crazy then do all those debauched things together when I see him

Failing that I was recently gifted a we vibe toy which definitely hits the spot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't meet anyone, find someone that will tell you all the disgusting things they'd do to you and love them forever

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By *fweonlymeettwiceMan
over a year ago

Madrid

I usually have 3 to 4 wanks but there was a time when I managed 7 or 8 in a 24 hour period ??

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By *orthwhile27Man
over a year ago

dark side of the moon


"Masturbate usually works for a little while.

What she said "

What they have both said.

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By *fweonlymeettwiceMan
over a year ago

Madrid

Like saying goes you can beat an egg but you can't beat a wank

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Really interesting. Thank you. But that feeling must fade at some point, no?

Usually shortly after parting ways with the person who caused it."

Rookie error for that person to leave at all, then.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Rookie error for that person to leave at all, then. "

I have a very limited social battery. All my favourites know to get out of my hair before it's exhausted.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Rookie error for that person to leave at all, then.

I have a very limited social battery. All my favourites know to get out of my hair before it's exhausted."

Ah, that makes perfect sense - thank you for indulging my curiosity.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

An Artificial Vagina does the trick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do some people experience sexual desire like hunger? Full after you've just eaten, then gradually hungrier until you are ravenous and would eat al.ost anything?

Absolutely opposite. Once I've had some all I want is more. It doesn't matter how good it was or if it genuinely felt like I just had the soul fucked out of me, once I've regained the ability to move my limbs I'll be actively trying to get more."

I’m exactly the same especially after using a toy hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really get it."

Neither do I, that's why I'm frustrated.

Oh, by 'it' you meant...never mind.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"How do you do yours? Asking for a friend "

Wank

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