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"No not at all in terms of sex, bring it on and alcohol I don’t really drink very much to Warren to need to go dry x" why you bringing white rabbits into it then? | |||
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"Not drank over the festive period so I'll wet my mouth some way or another " Well if you have been un well you should keep fluids up. | |||
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"Been about 15 years without touching alcohol now and don’t really miss it. Mrs CT still enjoys a drink although she has cut back quite a bit. " So you could encourage her to try dry January | |||
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"Bollox that I’ve got some homebrew wine which requires attending to, plus I’ve found out that if you mix Corona with amaretto it tastes like DrPepper and I do enjoy an amaretto n coffee after work " Try a double port in a large glass with a WKD blue if you like Vimto? | |||
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"I’ve been “dry” for ten years now and it was a life changing decision. It’s not easy at first and it’s not for everyone. I now have a couple of high Adrenalin and high energy hobbies and my personal well being both mentally and physically are amazing. Sorry to crow but I can’t recommend sobriety (for me) highly enough. " Is that both of you? | |||
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"Mr doesn't drink and I drink much less nowdays. I'm down to a bottle every 10days. I may do dry January " Go for it you will feel better for it. And your partner might like it . If thay don't drink | |||
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"I am! I just need to finish the rum and wine I currently have in the house. " I'm always happy to help | |||
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"Iam will be hard as I love a drink etc But the health benefits OMG WTF" It's a great idea OP. If you can stretch to 100 AF days, you'd notice real differences. | |||
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"I’ve been “dry” for ten years now and it was a life changing decision. It’s not easy at first and it’s not for everyone. I now have a couple of high Adrenalin and high energy hobbies and my personal well being both mentally and physically are amazing. Sorry to crow but I can’t recommend sobriety (for me) highly enough. " I wholeheartedly agree, 2023 will be my 4th sober year and I wish I'd done it 20 years ago. | |||
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"Iam will be hard as I love a drink etc But the health benefits OMG WTF It's a great idea OP. If you can stretch to 100 AF days, you'd notice real differences. " Don't know about 100 Alcohol Free days Holiday in mid Feb.. | |||
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"I’ve been “dry” for ten years now and it was a life changing decision. It’s not easy at first and it’s not for everyone. I now have a couple of high Adrenalin and high energy hobbies and my personal well being both mentally and physically are amazing. Sorry to crow but I can’t recommend sobriety (for me) highly enough. Is that both of you?" No. She’ll have a couple of glasses of wine if we go out and maybe a G+t but she always has an available driver. She may do a dry January as she’s currently suffering from post Christmas “I’m fat and no one loves me!” Syndrome. | |||
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"I’ve been “dry” for ten years now and it was a life changing decision. It’s not easy at first and it’s not for everyone. I now have a couple of high Adrenalin and high energy hobbies and my personal well being both mentally and physically are amazing. Sorry to crow but I can’t recommend sobriety (for me) highly enough. I wholeheartedly agree, 2023 will be my 4th sober year and I wish I'd done it 20 years ago. " | |||
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"I'm thinking of it. January is normally too shit to get through without booze but I'm actually relishing the thought of healthy eating, going hard on the exercise and cutting out the alcohol to kick start 2023" This is my plan! I will be fit god dam it!! | |||
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"I had a dry November and I lost over a stone " Good for you do you feel good for doing it. | |||
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"Yep I'm going to give alcohol a rest for January... I've just knocked up a new batch of meth ..so that should see me through til February.. " Heisenberg? | |||
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"I had a dry November and I lost over a stone Good for you do you feel good for doing it." I am delighted with my weight loss and my skin looks better too. | |||
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"I go months at a time without drinking. If you can’t cope for one month without booze then I think you have a bit of a problem. " I have a lot of problems, this problem helps with the other problems. | |||
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"No,I don't do these month things, stoptober, dry January, no nut November etc. If I don't want to do something, I don't do it and if I do want to do something, I do it. " Exactly this, social media has a lot to answer for. Just do you and not think you have to follow a craze | |||
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"Just do you and not think you have to follow a craze" It's not really a craze, it's more of a challenge. Obviously if you aren't a regular drinker then it's not much of a challenge, but if you are it can be. | |||
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"No,I don't do these month things, stoptober, dry January, no nut November etc. If I don't want to do something, I don't do it and if I do want to do something, I do it. Exactly this, social media has a lot to answer for. Just do you and not think you have to follow a craze" Maybe people find a bit of support knowing others are doing the same? Does it really matter. | |||
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"I'm thinking of it. January is normally too shit to get through without booze but I'm actually relishing the thought of healthy eating, going hard on the exercise and cutting out the alcohol to kick start 2023" Glow up! Same, good intentions, see how long that lasts | |||
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"No,I don't do these month things, stoptober, dry January, no nut November etc. If I don't want to do something, I don't do it and if I do want to do something, I do it. Exactly this, social media has a lot to answer for. Just do you and not think you have to follow a craze Maybe people find a bit of support knowing others are doing the same? Does it really matter. " Actually. I hadn’t considered this. | |||
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"I'll be cutting out weekday drinking, and limiting myself to a Saturday evening treat. Currently having too many lunchtime pints and glasses of wine in the evenings. " So why not try a No drinking 4 weeks that might be only 3 weekends? | |||
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"I’ve been “dry” for ten years now and it was a life changing decision. It’s not easy at first and it’s not for everyone. I now have a couple of high Adrenalin and high energy hobbies and my personal well being both mentally and physically are amazing. Sorry to crow but I can’t recommend sobriety (for me) highly enough. I wholeheartedly agree, 2023 will be my 4th sober year and I wish I'd done it 20 years ago. " I'm 7 1/2 years sober and again it's the best thing I've done. | |||
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"Iam will be hard as I love a drink etc But the health benefits OMG WTF" F@ck no ??....the only bit of satisfaction I get | |||
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"I go months at a time without drinking. If you can’t cope for one month without booze then I think you have a bit of a problem. " This. I know its not a popular opinion given our societal relationship with alcohol but when people say they think 4 weeks alcohol free will be difficult or a challenge they really need to look at their relationship with alcohol | |||
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"Iam will be hard as I love a drink etc But the health benefits OMG WTF" I am planning to. And if it goes okay, which I suspect it will, I might keep going for the rest of the year. | |||
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"I am going for it, did it last time in 2020 and Dry January lasted until July!" Nice! I'm hoping it will kick off a longer dry bout for me too. | |||
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"Iam will be hard as I love a drink etc But the health benefits OMG WTF I am planning to. And if it goes okay, which I suspect it will, I might keep going for the rest of the year." Good for you. | |||
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"I stopped drinking in September. I wasn't a heavy drinker, as in large volume or benders but I drank every day. If I'd had a bad day I'd drink a bit more, or a good day I'd celebrate with a few extra drinks. I had a general 'unwell' feeling, I felt old and tired. I had flabby bits that I'd not had before. The worst thing, or the thing that impacted my life the most was I'd become a glass half empty, negative, type of person. Life was just 'grey' It's taken a while to see and feel the benefits but I'm really starting to feel and act like my old self again, positive, active, and a general feeling that life is good. It's a personal choice and not for everyone but it's really changed my life! Alex x " Nice one Alex, keep positive pal | |||
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"I’m still celebrating my 50th birthday up till the 22nd Jan so not a hope " That's the spirit. More spirit for this lady please | |||
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"I try to, but normally fail after a few days lol " If your finding it hard come and chat hear I might reopen post 1st Jan see if others are going it might inspire you another day. I have never managed the hole of January but I think I might with a bit of compensation. | |||
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"Not drank over the festive period so I'll wet my mouth some way or another Well if you have been un well you should keep fluids up." Wasn't unwell, just decided not to as I was too stuffed with food alcohol personally can leave it or drink had far too many wild nights out over the many years | |||
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"I try to, but normally fail after a few days lol If your finding it hard come and chat hear I might reopen post 1st Jan see if others are going it might inspire you another day. I have never managed the hole of January but I think I might with a bit of compensation. " There's also a couple of Dry January groups on facebook that might prove useful. | |||
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"I try to, but normally fail after a few days lol If your finding it hard come and chat hear I might reopen post 1st Jan see if others are going it might inspire you another day. I have never managed the hole of January but I think I might with a bit of compensation. There's also a couple of Dry January groups on facebook that might prove useful." Ohh don't do Facebook at all I'm to privet I now yet I'm hear strange right. It's just an old man thing. Me that is. | |||
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"If i open a bottle of fizz tonight there is no way I'll get through it on my own... So i maybe I would have to start on 2nd Jan" If I open a bottle of champagne tonight. I hope there’s a sexy woman sitting on a chair and opening her legs for me as her tight skirt starts riding up. … | |||
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"If i open a bottle of fizz tonight there is no way I'll get through it on my own... So i maybe I would have to start on 2nd Jan If I open a bottle of champagne tonight. I hope there’s a sexy woman sitting on a chair and opening her legs for me as her tight skirt starts riding up. … " I hope so too.. I'll be in my jammies | |||
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"As someone who works part time in a pub, and someone who loves the whole pub culture, I implore everyone to support thier local. Dry January is a gimmick and should be discouraged. The hospitality industry is still struggling after lockdowns. Footfall is no where near pre-pandemic levels. And now with upwards of £4,000 per month estimated energy bills, pubs need all the help they can get. A recent survey of 4,500 pubs found 85% are considering permanently closing for 2 days a week. And of that 85% at least 40% considering closing all together. The pub used to be the hub of a community, it was a place to socialise yes, but it was also a place you'd find your local plumber, electrician, builder, mechanic. Some pubs still have this community spirit (glad to say the one I work at does), and that community needs to be protected. A pub is not just a place to go and get d*unk. " You can stil have dry January and go to the pub, soft drinks, food, pool and mates. | |||
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"As someone who works part time in a pub, and someone who loves the whole pub culture, I implore everyone to support thier local. Dry January is a gimmick and should be discouraged. The hospitality industry is still struggling after lockdowns. Footfall is no where near pre-pandemic levels. And now with upwards of £4,000 per month estimated energy bills, pubs need all the help they can get. A recent survey of 4,500 pubs found 85% are considering permanently closing for 2 days a week. And of that 85% at least 40% considering closing all together. The pub used to be the hub of a community, it was a place to socialise yes, but it was also a place you'd find your local plumber, electrician, builder, mechanic. Some pubs still have this community spirit (glad to say the one I work at does), and that community needs to be protected. A pub is not just a place to go and get d*unk. " But my nearest pub is 20 minutes away and I over drink in them. Well use to. Dry January for me is a reset and I bet you make more profit on lemonade then you do on the beer.. | |||
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"I'm thinking of it. January is normally too shit to get through without booze but I'm actually relishing the thought of healthy eating, going hard on the exercise and cutting out the alcohol to kick start 2023 This is my plan! I will be fit god dam it!!" My plan too - but won’t beat myself up too much if I fall off plan. Every day will be a new start J x | |||
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"Iam will be hard as I love a drink etc But the health benefits OMG WTF" I can't it's my birthday and a big one at that lol, the big 50 (Ms Fox) not to mention a big game on Monday | |||
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"Dry two months. Never felt better. Lost weight and have extra cash. Used Allen Carr's 'The Easy Way to Control Your Drinking' on Audible (free if it's your first download) No willpower needed " Congratulations. I hope that your success continues | |||
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"I am doing it from 3rd so dryish January " Is that when you're expecting the hangover pre planned | |||
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"I'm thinking of it. January is normally too shit to get through without booze but I'm actually relishing the thought of healthy eating, going hard on the exercise and cutting out the alcohol to kick start 2023 This is my plan! I will be fit god dam it!! My plan too - but won’t beat myself up too much if I fall off plan. Every day will be a new start J x" That's how I look at it but I am more determined this year and got to stat early as now on call till Monday so can't drink Alcohol. What was I thinking when I put my name down. | |||
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"As someone who works part time in a pub, and someone who loves the whole pub culture, I implore everyone to support thier local. Dry January is a gimmick and should be discouraged. The hospitality industry is still struggling after lockdowns. Footfall is no where near pre-pandemic levels. And now with upwards of £4,000 per month estimated energy bills, pubs need all the help they can get... The pub used to be the hub of a community, it was a place to socialise yes, but it was also a place you'd find your local plumber, electrician, builder, mechanic. Some pubs still have this community spirit (glad to say the one I work at does), and that community needs to be protected. A pub is not just a place to go and get d*unk." How is Dry January a gimmick? That seems like a rather ill-informed opinion. Also, pubs are not owed our custom. Lots of placing are struggling - doesn't mean we're obliged to give them our money. Lots of pubs *don't* have the community spirit you talk of any more. However, you are right - pubs are not just somewhere to get d*unk. Therefore, your whole complaint about Dry January is irrelevant. | |||
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"Yes I started on the 27th " Good for you keep it up | |||
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"As someone who works part time in a pub, and someone who loves the whole pub culture, I implore everyone to support thier local. Dry January is a gimmick and should be discouraged. The hospitality industry is still struggling after lockdowns. Footfall is no where near pre-pandemic levels. And now with upwards of £4,000 per month estimated energy bills, pubs need all the help they can get. A recent survey of 4,500 pubs found 85% are considering permanently closing for 2 days a week. And of that 85% at least 40% considering closing all together. The pub used to be the hub of a community, it was a place to socialise yes, but it was also a place you'd find your local plumber, electrician, builder, mechanic. Some pubs still have this community spirit (glad to say the one I work at does), and that community needs to be protected. A pub is not just a place to go and get d*unk. " If a pub isn't just a place to get d*unk stock a decent range of non alcoholic options and you'll still get trade? | |||
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"no way....not possible!" agree on my 2nd bottle of red already and its 18:18 | |||
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"Am I fuck! Can't think of anything worse! I don't drink often, but I wont be abstaining!" I agree | |||
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"I’m not but I have intentionally stopped drinking for 3 months before and it felt good. I don’t drink regularly really atm….I don’t think I’ve drank since Xmas. I drink very on and off but good luck OP! Remember it’s just 1 month out of your whole life that you’re giving it up for and it makes it seem like not so much time think of the benefits and hope you smash your dry January! " Thank you Good luck to everyone one giving it a go | |||
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"I have had a drink every night for over a year, 2 tins Guinness and 3 whisky usually during week and more at weekends I find it extremely difficult not to have a drink, some mornings I wake up and say no drink tonight but always end up opening a tin and pouring a nip. If I can go one night without, I will then try for a full week without." Sounds like a plan! | |||
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