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By *ixedDevil OP   Man
over a year ago

Bootyville

A question to anyone really. What are the pro’s and cons of having an open relationship/polyamory? For people that are married/attaches, does it affect the relationship you have with one another or does it bring you closer together?

Are there any non sexual benefits?

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By *ocopops1962Man
over a year ago

Glasgow / Lindon

OP , are you looking for advice on how to bring up the subject with your partner ?

It could go either of two ways …

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

If you want to send us a message about poly, free feel. Pro's/con's list on a Forum thread will break my brain, but happy to take it to PM.

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By *ixedDevil OP   Man
over a year ago

Bootyville


"OP , are you looking for advice on how to bring up the subject with your partner ?

It could go either of two ways …

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Not quite. I’m single but I have two fwb’s who both know each other and are aware of the situation. I guess I wanted to see other people’s perspective on it that’s all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pros - Get to ride multiple penises

Cons - Constantly reassessing boundaries, dealing with insecure moments and making sure all parties are happy.

When it's good it's great but sometimes it's hard work.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"OP , are you looking for advice on how to bring up the subject with your partner ?

It could go either of two ways …

Not quite. I’m single but I have two fwb’s who both know each other and are aware of the situation. I guess I wanted to see other people’s perspective on it that’s all "

Perhaps look at a v relationship if the two fwbs don't want to be involved with each other

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By *ixedDevil OP   Man
over a year ago

Bootyville


"Pros - Get to ride multiple penises

Cons - Constantly reassessing boundaries, dealing with insecure moments and making sure all parties are happy.

When it's good it's great but sometimes it's hard work."

How do you get through the insecure moments? Overall would you say going polyamory was the right decision for you?

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By *ixedDevil OP   Man
over a year ago

Bootyville


"OP , are you looking for advice on how to bring up the subject with your partner ?

It could go either of two ways …

Not quite. I’m single but I have two fwb’s who both know each other and are aware of the situation. I guess I wanted to see other people’s perspective on it that’s all

Perhaps look at a v relationship if the two fwbs don't want to be involved with each other "

How do you mean?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My late partner and myself where in an open relationship. As well as meeting together we met alone. We had a very honest and trusting relationship and always told each other when we where meeting. We never had rules as such but we had unwritten rules if that makes sense we trusted each other to use protection and not disrespect each other. It worked very well for us

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By *ixedDevil OP   Man
over a year ago

Bootyville


"My late partner and myself where in an open relationship. As well as meeting together we met alone. We had a very honest and trusting relationship and always told each other when we where meeting. We never had rules as such but we had unwritten rules if that makes sense we trusted each other to use protection and not disrespect each other. It worked very well for us"

That sounds amazing. I guess when it works out and you almost have a system with one another, it can be brilliant

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live


"My late partner and myself where in an open relationship. As well as meeting together we met alone. We had a very honest and trusting relationship and always told each other when we where meeting. We never had rules as such but we had unwritten rules if that makes sense we trusted each other to use protection and not disrespect each other. It worked very well for us"

I’d love to have this with someone

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By *ixedDevil OP   Man
over a year ago

Bootyville


"My late partner and myself where in an open relationship. As well as meeting together we met alone. We had a very honest and trusting relationship and always told each other when we where meeting. We never had rules as such but we had unwritten rules if that makes sense we trusted each other to use protection and not disrespect each other. It worked very well for us"

I’m also sorry for your loss x

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