FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie here and best way to get some verifications

By *ricdonna1971 OP Man
over a year ago

Hastings

I've not been here long and have no verifications so wanna know what's best way to get some on my profile as I send messages out saying I'm interested and don't seem to be getting many replies or any offers of some fun in and around my area

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Cam/chat rooms?

Socials?

Clubs?

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By *ricdonna1971 OP Man
over a year ago

Hastings

Ty appreciated and any other advice that would help my chances

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Since you asked for advice - what on earth possessed you to add captions to your dick pics? I'm not sure whether I'm more upset by the slightly manic prose itself or the primary school typography. Kudos for your openness to creative experimentation but this falls even wider of the mark than Google Glass.

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

"Since you asked for advice - what on earth possessed you to add captions to your dick pics? I'm not sure whether I'm more upset by the slightly manic prose itself or the primary school typography. Kudos for your openness to creative experimentation but this falls even wider of the mark than Google Glass."

I had to look after you said that, well only the first pic and I never read the the Comoc Sans text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ART d&l! He put a lot of time into that bad boy rhyme!

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By *oanne ETV/TS
over a year ago

Near Warrington

"I've not been here long and have no verifications so wanna know what's best way to get some on my profile as I send messages out saying I'm interested and don't seem to be getting many replies or any offers of some fun in and around my area "

You really need to review your profile, it's very unattractive. Reword, punctuate, don't demand and you will get your rewards.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

What makes you think that “offers for fun” will automatically land on your inbox/lap?

Genuine question.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

You'll struggle to get replies as most of your profile is dick pics and a useless disclaimer that you probably haven't even read yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many cock pics, one is enough.

Punctuation required desperately.

Get rid of disclaimer, pointless.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Get to know people and chat with them as none will just jump into bed with you. Respect and treat people well always. Don’t expect someone will just meet you. Can have a lot of fun. I took ages to know some and we enjoyed

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Ty appreciated and any other advice that would help my chances "
11 dick pics lol you asked for advice as well omg

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

There's 4 or 5 of your dick pics are exactly the same meaning you just changed the date on them

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By *ricdonna1971 OP Man
over a year ago

Hastings

"Too many cock pics, one is enough.

Punctuation required desperately.

Get rid of disclaimer, pointless. "
how about now then take a look n let me know ur opinion and any advice too ty appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes you think that “offers for fun” will automatically land on your inbox/lap?

Genuine question. "

OP, people read profiles. Most do not meet people who don't respect other people's preferences.

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Too many cock pics, one is enough.

Punctuation required desperately.

Get rid of disclaimer, pointless. how about now then take a look n let me know ur opinion and any advice too ty appreciated "

“Love making pussy squirt uncontrolably multiple times“

I would delete this part op

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By *bwlady123Woman
over a year ago

private

Definitely recommend using cams and attending clubs.

Clubs won’t grantee you get a chance to play. It will probably be unlikely the first few times but you’ll get to meet more people, make friends ect.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I wouldn’t be put off by the lack of verifications.

There are lots of other things that may possibly sort of kinda put me off first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best and easiest way would be attending a social. Second to that going to a club.

You could get a cam verification but it probably wouldn’t help you.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP..seriously..sort your profile out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet someone, and ask them for a verification. Simple!

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

Your profile tells us all we need to know.

Winston and Lady Astor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If guys put more effort into talking to and meeting women they actually liked instead of focusing purely on getting a verification they may do better on here.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"If guys put more effort into talking to and meeting women they actually liked instead of focusing purely on getting a verification they may do better on here. "
exactly you don't need them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only get veris on cam or on meets, do that! Not everyone cares about them. They do not mean that you are reliable oreven good. Now, if we where on tripadvisor or p*nternet?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Socials, camming, clubs are the best way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If guys put more effort into talking to and meeting women they actually liked instead of focusing purely on getting a verification they may do better on here. "

I think they try this and get no replies so work their way down to anyone online.

I think many assume that verifications open the floodgates to sex sex sex.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Your profile tells us all we need to know.

Winston and Lady Astor "

Ouch !

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Ty appreciated and any other advice that would help my chances "

Ok.

If your aim is a verification then get one through cam.

If you think a verification is the answer to a f2f meet I wouldn't hold my breath.

Only message people where you meet their requirements, age limits,area etc

Please look at your profile as your shop window..

It's full of cock pics... You don't need them one at the most.

Also get some more photos on you have a whole body...

Your blurb is a repeat of the parts above so in fact says nothing

You don't accommodate which in some cases can infer you are attached and some will immediately bypass you.

Also lots of people review a profile before even opening your message.

As for getting along on the site

You get out what you put in ..

It's rare people will message you.The number of single men on the site means many people don't need to they get enough mail.

Start looking at social events near you get to those, start talking to real people

(Another also to get the verification you seem desperate for)

You could look at local clubs.. enquire on costs/waiting list...but while they are great social places it still isn't a guarantee of play

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Agree with what's been said op,many of us will check a profile before a message & if it's unappealing it would be a delete.

You don't need to have so many cock shots op ,I'd click straight off after the first few.

Take some more pics of other bits of you that aren't so graphic.

Also get rid of the squirting bit ,that also puts me off op.

Write what you can offer meets and why they should choose you ,rather than a full on list of acts you're into .

Verifications aren't the be all and end all ,but socials are a good way to get to know others and may lead to verifications.Have a search in the events section and see if there are any you could attend.

Always be polite & read a person's profile ,then only message if you think you for what they're after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP..seriously..sort your profile out."

Brutal mwah xx

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"If guys put more effort into talking to and meeting women they actually liked instead of focusing purely on getting a verification they may do better on here. "

When a large number of profiles say they won't reply to anyone without meet verifications, it makes it near impossible to get talking to people you like.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Too many cock pics on your profile for starters , no full body shot.

Get to club go to a social .

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

The best way is to shag OP. Don’t be picky, any holes a goal as long as you get the first verification. Good luck dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One dick pic is enough, sometimes too much

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By *ricdonna1971 OP Man
over a year ago

Hastings

Hi guys I rally appreciated ur comments and have made adjustments too so like I said new to this scene hence why I've asked in forum so have a look now and tell me what u think and any more information or advice u can give will be appreciated and within time hopefully I'll make it better and include more photos to make it better I'm abit rusty and still learning too but thanks to everyone that's replied ????

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By *ricdonna1971 OP Man
over a year ago

Hastings

I meant really lol not rally ha ha

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Patience and a fairly adequate cock has helped me

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Having read the forum, I am glad so see you have taken slot of the advice on board. I'd perhaps lead with non cock images.

RE verifications.

You are 50, with age range 18 to 75. Your pool based on age, range and area is limited.

You need to generate a positive presence online and offline.

Online through forum postings, chatroom interaction. Be seen. Be remembered for the right reasons.

Offline, as previously expressed, socials, clubs. Be seen. Be remembered for the right reasons.

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By *ricdonna1971 OP Man
over a year ago

Hastings

Hello cheers for that advice and good to know what everyone says made some changes and will continue to along the way and also new pics too and yes I look at the forums and reply on some even also and it's always good to get others opinions and learn from them and in time hopefully things will get better and I'll gain more experience and also verifications along the way appreciated ty

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Hello cheers for that advice and good to know what everyone says made some changes and will continue to along the way and also new pics too and yes I look at the forums and reply on some even also and it's always good to get others opinions and learn from them and in time hopefully things will get better and I'll gain more experience and also verifications along the way appreciated ty "

Also remember your approach build a connection leading to chemistry find common ground regardless what the site is

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By *ricdonna1971 OP Man
over a year ago

Hastings

Yeah np will do I know its not easy at first but I'll get there in time ty

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

You'll be alright. Just take things with a pinch of salt sometimes. Not everyone will be for you and vice versa but there are some good uns. Its worth waiting occasionally

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Yeah np will do I know its not easy at first but I'll get there in time ty "

And get involved within the forums it's a great way to connect with others that can also lead anywhere between what you'll be doing on the site

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Its a womans market to pick and choose, verifications mean squat and tbh profile means nothing neither does that first thought out message

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Its a womans market to pick and choose, verifications mean squat and tbh profile means nothing neither does that first thought out message

It means everything including the approach. It doesn't need to be thought out just common sense

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Its a womans market to pick and choose, verifications mean squat and tbh profile means nothing neither does that first thought out message

It means everything including the approach. It doesn't need to be thought out just common sense "

And it will still get deleted unread.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Also everyone has different opinions of what is what, can easily be cam verified if you go on the cam rooms here but does take knowing someone or possibly having someone nice enough in the forums to come check out your cam just to give you that initial verification, best of luck op

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Hey eric, while you work in your profile why don't you hang around the forum for a bit. Get yourself known, you never know you may make a friend.

Good luck with it all

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Its a womans market to pick and choose, verifications mean squat and tbh profile means nothing neither does that first thought out message

It means everything including the approach. It doesn't need to be thought out just common sense

And it will still get deleted unread. "

Could be many reasons like not compatible, people don't just bounce around if they are getting on really well they'll continue and rest of the messages can just end up being unread

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

"Hey eric, while you work in your profile why don't you hang around the forum for a bit. Get yourself known, you never know you may make a friend.

Good luck with it all "

Actually best advice so far the forums are the best part this site tbh

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