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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all I hope you have had a fantastic festive break

I was just sat here in this ‘unknown week’ between Xmas and new year …. And I thought to myself….

Would it be rude / too intrusive to ask a couple (male & female or female & female) if you could join them just to watch? Not in a creepy drooling on yourself kind of way… but just to see how others interact with one another? And it be ‘real life’ and not just a staged porn shoot?

Always curious

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

A stranger asking to watch is going to come across in the creepy drooling way I think.

Asking people you already know who are into that might be okay. But don't make it an opening gambit.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

You’d probably have more luck going to a club.

Whilst we’d be happy someone watching for a bit privately, another person would be there to join in too.

We don’t get off any more having someone watch us but maybe others will. Also doesn’t detract - I switch off to my surroundings once in the zone…I’m having sex not performing for someone.

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A stranger asking to watch is going to come across in the creepy drooling way I think.

Asking people you already know who are into that might be okay. But don't make it an opening gambit."

Thank you

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Fairly common in clubs. I know that’s the usual advice on here but if you just want to watch people have sex there probably isn’t a better place for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’d probably have more luck going to a club.

Whilst we’d be happy someone watching for a bit privately, another person would be there to join in too.

We don’t get off any more having someone watch us but maybe others will. Also doesn’t detract - I switch off to my surroundings once in the zone…I’m having sex not performing for someone.

K"

Yes I think I need to have my first club visit

The porn comment was for exactly that reason of it not being a ‘performance’

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fairly common in clubs. I know that’s the usual advice on here but if you just want to watch people have sex there probably isn’t a better place for it."

I best get to google then…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A stranger asking to watch is going to come across in the creepy drooling way I think.

Asking people you already know who are into that might be okay. But don't make it an opening gambit."

Yeah. A creepy drooling approach is my bag.

Get your own approach, OP

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hello all I hope you have had a fantastic festive break

I was just sat here in this ‘unknown week’ between Xmas and new year …. And I thought to myself….

Would it be rude / too intrusive to ask a couple (male & female or female & female) if you could join them just to watch? Not in a creepy drooling on yourself kind of way… but just to see how others interact with one another? And it be ‘real life’ and not just a staged porn shoot?

Always curious "

Like an impartial observer? Would it be for mutual sexual pleasure?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A stranger asking to watch is going to come across in the creepy drooling way I think.

Asking people you already know who are into that might be okay. But don't make it an opening gambit.

Yeah. A creepy drooling approach is my bag.

Get your own approach, OP"

But if yours works I’m stealing it haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello all I hope you have had a fantastic festive break

I was just sat here in this ‘unknown week’ between Xmas and new year …. And I thought to myself….

Would it be rude / too intrusive to ask a couple (male & female or female & female) if you could join them just to watch? Not in a creepy drooling on yourself kind of way… but just to see how others interact with one another? And it be ‘real life’ and not just a staged porn shoot?

Always curious

Like an impartial observer? Would it be for mutual sexual pleasure?"

It would certainly turn me on… and if I was adding to their experience then that would be amazing ….

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm sure some couples are looking for that

Voyeurism is popular. But you would be better off in a club

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

If it's what you want and if you don't ask you don't get then ask away.

Some may find it creepy ....some may enjoy putting on a show.

I have these kind of offers and I'm wary of them, for ultimately don't people want to 'get off' and they may see this as a way in.

I dare say there are those true voyeuristic and don't need to touch.

Would that be seen as a kink as there is no sexual pleasure in the moment?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Got carried away there

Ah...an impartial observer

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

You could go to a club to observe the natives

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"You could go to a club to observe the natives "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure some couples are looking for that

Voyeurism is popular. But you would be better off in a club"

Club scene it is…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's what you want and if you don't ask you don't get then ask away.

Some may find it creepy ....some may enjoy putting on a show.

I have these kind of offers and I'm wary of them, for ultimately don't people want to 'get off' and they may see this as a way in.

I dare say there are those true voyeuristic and don't need to touch.

Would that be seen as a kink as there is no sexual pleasure in the moment?

"

You don’t need to touch to get off surely? Within the mind stimulation can be excelled?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could go to a club to observe the natives "

I need to get looking

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