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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Before you can say you’ve quit smoking?

Related question - how long before I admit I’m unfortunately celibate?

My point is, what length of time has to pass before it turns from trying to do something to actually doing it? Or are you ALWAYS in the phase of trying, just further along than you were.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

People at AA meetings all still call themselves alcoholics even if they haven't had a drink for 20 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quit six months ago but still vape so still smoke technically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think celibacy is a choice. If you're just not having sex that is different. Don't get too down about it Woody, things often change when you least expect it.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Before you can say you’ve quit smoking?

Related question - how long before I admit I’m unfortunately celibate?

My point is, what length of time has to pass before it turns from trying to do something to actually doing it? Or are you ALWAYS in the phase of trying, just further along than you were.

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I believe that when you start telling people that you "HAVE quit" it marks a change of mindset from "trying to quit". Saying it proudly and often will help it become a reality.

Cal

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

The second you say you are a non smoker Woody, you are.

Repeat it to yourself periodically throughout the day.

When offered a cigarette respond with .... Thanks but no cos, i'm a non smoker.

Thoughts become words, words become beliefs , beliefs become behaviour , behaviour is who you are.

x

I haven't smoked for about 15 years or more. Prob 20 ish.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I must have been typing my response when Cal posted. Basically we both said the same thing.....

Start thinking and saying that you are a non smoker..... worked for me.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I often think if I only had a little religious faith I'd have loved to be a monk. Lots of peace. Structure. Time to read and think. No emails demanding spreadsheets by 2 hours ago.

I've had years without sex where I was desperate for it, and years without where I was almost wholly untroubled. I suppose the only issue with the latter is it becomes a habit. Once you get to that stage with not smoking it must be great, but if not having sex becomes easier because you are taking measures - putting up emotional walls, etc - to ease the pain, it is also easier to fall into never having sex again.

Emotional walls, after all, have two sides.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Im not disagreeing but I do think it's not a good comparison.

Sex is natural, fun, good for you .

Smoking is unnatural, and very unhealthy.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Im not disagreeing but I do think it's not a good comparison.

Sex is natural, fun, good for you .

Smoking is unnatural, and very unhealthy.

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Fair. But Woody started it, Miss!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Im not disagreeing but I do think it's not a good comparison.

Sex is natural, fun, good for you .

Smoking is unnatural, and very unhealthy.

Fair. But Woody started it, Miss! "

Ahhhhhhh you are right! I just re read ..... he did ask about celibacy.

Meh ...... my mistake and my apols.

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