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"Clear out my life. Reduce what i have Sell or giveaway items in the loft and garage. Less junk more fun." That’s a good one | |||
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"I don't really make them because it feels like a lot of pressure. And kind of silly. But I am this year. I'm going to be a bit more open about how I really feel about things. Say yes more frequently without worrying about others. Put myself first more. See, it sounds so... self focused, no?" . Say yes more frequently you say….. interesting.. | |||
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"I don't really make them because it feels like a lot of pressure. And kind of silly. But I am this year. I'm going to be a bit more open about how I really feel about things. Say yes more frequently without worrying about others. Put myself first more. See, it sounds so... self focused, no?" Yeah that’s fair. That’s good that you’re making one For me personally, I regret the things I didn’t do because you learn from the things that you did do. Sometimes you need to do what you think it right not what others think is right because you can’t please everyone, no matter how hard you try. Maybe but you’ll learn more about what you want out of life and be better for it. | |||
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"Mine is just to be more proactive. I've not been well and although mainly its physical a lot of it has been mental. If I can just get myself into a positive mindset I think things can and will only get better. I need and want to find "me" again ... I miss her everyone does " Don’t be too hard on yourself, you will return to fabulousness x | |||
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"I don't really make them because it feels like a lot of pressure. And kind of silly. But I am this year. I'm going to be a bit more open about how I really feel about things. Say yes more frequently without worrying about others. Put myself first more. See, it sounds so... self focused, no?" Sounds like a great plan to me. Liz. X | |||
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"I don't really make them because it feels like a lot of pressure. And kind of silly. But I am this year. I'm going to be a bit more open about how I really feel about things. Say yes more frequently without worrying about others. Put myself first more. See, it sounds so... self focused, no? Yeah that’s fair. That’s good that you’re making one For me personally, I regret the things I didn’t do because you learn from the things that you did do. Sometimes you need to do what you think it right not what others think is right because you can’t please everyone, no matter how hard you try. Maybe but you’ll learn more about what you want out of life and be better for it. " That's very true. I think that although I'm not a people pleaser, I do tend to do things that will keep others happy. Keep schtum on things that make me unhappy because for some odd reason (hi childhood) I place more value on their happiness than my own. And that's not quite right. A wise man told me this morning I'll soon be in the prime of my life and shouldn't regret opportunities not taken. So I'm saying yes to more things in 2023. Even if some might not be the best decision. | |||
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