FabSwingers.com forum: how long

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How long have you all been single for? Any plans to try and change that, or happy with how you are?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Technically since March, realistically since June, technically technically not. But intending to remain living alone and enjoying myself for as long as humanly possible.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

12 years, but was basically single for years before he left.

No plans to change it; relationships are draining.

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

I was happily single for 4 years, then that got interrupted for 18 months. I guess technically single now for 3 months. Always happy being single, but wouldn't dismiss the right person if she came along.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Single for 7years now. Quite happy with my single life but you never know what the future holds.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Happily single - almost 4 years. Would find it difficult living with someone now tbh, but likewise, would consider if right person. However just watching couples when out, arguing over petty things, makes me happy to be single lol.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Mostly single for 20 years now. Not planning on changing it.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

...fuck me, 11 years now? Maybe 12? Do we count the last two years as legit time blocks, they kinda felt bullshit didn't they?

I'm not looking to change it. My strange little life is quite alright, I reckon.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Almost 4 years single and couldn't be happier and plan to stay that way for a very long time.

I ain't got time for mind games and people still hung up on their exs...so yeh ain't got time for that!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

10 years I'm sort of happy within my own bubble but when I'm ready or she is give it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming up to 6 years now

I enjoy the single life

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Forever... I'd like to date, don't think I'd want anything too serious though.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Since 5:46pm on Christmas Day….

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

About three years I think. Happy being single but miss the odd night/wknd away,meals out etc

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Since 5:46pm on Christmas Day…."

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

be single and stay a free spirit,

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By *1876Man
over a year ago

Dudley

I'm happy as I am right now, but am also open to change, depending on the path that life takes me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until Ryan comes a knocking.

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By *liceinwanderlust101Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge/London

April when I got divorce letters through the door (cheers mate) - open to a new relationship in the scene but no desire to live with someone.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I think the longest I was ever single for, as an adult, was about six months. Maybe eight. It doesn’t really suit me.

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By *issMBWoman
over a year ago

North

Almost six years. I'm getting far too used to it.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Almost six years. I'm getting far too used to it."

Are you going a little bit feral?

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

just over 5 years in general I am happy single, there are things I miss but not actively looking for a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over 2 years. I'm happy in my own company so no plans to change but a regular fwb would be nice

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I've been single for about 18 years although I've had a couple of long term relationships in that time, both met through Fab.

I'm possibly open to a relationship in the future, but not right now.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"12 years, but was basically single for years before he left.

No plans to change it; relationships are draining. "

I know exactly what you mean. But they should be, they should do the opposite. Maybe once your love tank has been emptied you’re done

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

Just over a year since my wife of 40+ years died.

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By *r swing2Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've been single 3yrs , now looking for someone to enjoy the lifestyle with

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I have been single for the vast majority of the last 4 yrs. it would be lovely to meet someone and enjoy the swinging lifestyle as a couple , until then I’ll carry on enjoying life and flying solo

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Since 5:46pm on Christmas Day…."

You bought her a washing machine for Christmas didn't you.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"12 years, but was basically single for years before he left.

No plans to change it; relationships are draining.

I know exactly what you mean. But they should be, they should do the opposite. Maybe once your love tank has been emptied you’re done

My one and only relationship sucked every ounce of my emotional energy from me.

I can't even contemplate what another relationship might be like.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

8......any takers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Single' about 5 yrs. Unentangled about 2 years. No plans to change anything just yet.

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