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So initially I’m thinking…
Cookery classes
Visiting somewhere I’ve never been once a month
Learning astronomy
Some kind of dance classes
Learning new skills, maybe DIY which I’m terrible at
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"Astronomy is a very relaxing hobby to get into. I have a 'Skywatcher' telescope which serves me well. The best time of the year to observe is on a clear winters night as less heat haze from buildings. Jupiter was specially spectacular to look at in recent months. With DIY there are plenty of tutorials on youtube." Maybe a good time to start today then , it’s very clear here | |||
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"I did the same. Girls at work sat me down to watch love island one night but I just couldn’t do it. They also took me to the bingo. One of the most stressful experiences of my life "Haha I’ll have to try that | |||
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"Anyway I’ve been a bit down about my upcoming 50th in March so I’ve had a bright idea this morning. I’m going to have a ‘ firsts at 50’ year and put a positive spin on it, try new things, go places I’ve never been etc
So initially I’m thinking…
Cookery classes
Visiting somewhere I’ve never been once a month
Learning astronomy
Some kind of dance classes
Learning new skills, maybe DIY which I’m terrible at
So I’m after some inspiration from fellow formers for some ideas? So please inspire me "I can do the cooking lessons Coasteering? Wild swimming? Art? Things outside your comfort zone | |||
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"Anyway I’ve been a bit down about my upcoming 50th in March so I’ve had a bright idea this morning. I’m going to have a ‘ firsts at 50’ year and put a positive spin on it, try new things, go places I’ve never been etc
So initially I’m thinking…
Cookery classes
Visiting somewhere I’ve never been once a month
Learning astronomy
Some kind of dance classes
Learning new skills, maybe DIY which I’m terrible at
So I’m after some inspiration from fellow formers for some ideas? So please inspire me
I can do the cooking lessons
Coasteering? Wild swimming? Art?
Things outside your comfort zone"Ooh an art class sounds good | |||
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"Ah lush idea. I’m not sure if you’re into it but the three peaks challenge could be a good one. See some breathtaking views "Oooh interesting idea thank you x | |||
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"Anyway I’ve been a bit down about my upcoming 50th in March so I’ve had a bright idea this morning. I’m going to have a ‘ firsts at 50’ year and put a positive spin on it, try new things, go places I’ve never been etc
So initially I’m thinking…
Cookery classes
Visiting somewhere I’ve never been once a month
Learning astronomy
Some kind of dance classes
Learning new skills, maybe DIY which I’m terrible at
So I’m after some inspiration from fellow formers for some ideas? So please inspire me "Have a look at dance classes in your local area, there's usually lots advertised, especially with new year so close, I started Salsa dancing a while back, it's great fun | |||
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"Anyway I’ve been a bit down about my upcoming 50th in March so I’ve had a bright idea this morning. I’m going to have a ‘ firsts at 50’ year and put a positive spin on it, try new things, go places I’ve never been etc
So initially I’m thinking…
Cookery classes
Visiting somewhere I’ve never been once a month
Learning astronomy
Some kind of dance classes
Learning new skills, maybe DIY which I’m terrible at
So I’m after some inspiration from fellow formers for some ideas? So please inspire me
Have a look at dance classes in your local area, there's usually lots advertised, especially with new year so close, I started Salsa dancing a while back, it's great fun "Yeah I was going to have a look online to see what classes are starting , thank you xx | |||
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"Astronomy is a very relaxing hobby to get into. I have a 'Skywatcher' telescope which serves me well. The best time of the year to observe is on a clear winters night as less heat haze from buildings. Jupiter was specially spectacular to look at in recent months. With DIY there are plenty of tutorials on youtube. Maybe a good time to start today then , it’s very clear here " it's better in the dark  | |||
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Oooh maybe . You offering to come with me ?x"You bet ya! x | |||
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"Astronomy is a very relaxing hobby to get into. I have a 'Skywatcher' telescope which serves me well. The best time of the year to observe is on a clear winters night as less heat haze from buildings. Jupiter was specially spectacular to look at in recent months. With DIY there are plenty of tutorials on youtube. Maybe a good time to start today then , it’s very clear here it's better in the dark "Haha I meant tonight | |||
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Oooh maybe . You offering to come with me ?x
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"Anyway I’ve been a bit down about my upcoming 50th in March so I’ve had a bright idea this morning. I’m going to have a ‘ firsts at 50’ year and put a positive spin on it, try new things, go places I’ve never been etc
So initially I’m thinking…
Cookery classes
Visiting somewhere I’ve never been once a month
Learning astronomy
Some kind of dance classes
Learning new skills, maybe DIY which I’m terrible at
So I’m after some inspiration from fellow formers for some ideas? So please inspire me "Sounds great. I started photography about 10 years ago and it takes me all over the world now. About two years ago I started training in gold and silver , initially just buying then lost investment casting , cutting, soldering making jewellery etc For dancing & cookery classes I like Seville & Granada. If you book them on Airbnb experience it is cheap & the app makes it very easy to Uber around all your experiences. Other things yiu could do; fell running, wild swimming, snorkelling/diving. Do a list of mountains to climb , start with Y3P and national 3P to get fit. Then go abroad. There’s lots of less touristy ones you can pay local guides to take you up. Last year I did mount Sinai and Jebel Jais, | |||
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"Anyway I’ve been a bit down about my upcoming 50th in March so I’ve had a bright idea this morning. I’m going to have a ‘ firsts at 50’ year and put a positive spin on it, try new things, go places I’ve never been etc
So initially I’m thinking…
Cookery classes
Visiting somewhere I’ve never been once a month
Learning astronomy
Some kind of dance classes
Learning new skills, maybe DIY which I’m terrible at
So I’m after some inspiration from fellow formers for some ideas? So please inspire me
Sounds great. I started photography about 10 years ago and it takes me all over the world now. About two years ago I started training in gold and silver , initially just buying then lost investment casting , cutting, soldering making jewellery etc
For dancing & cookery classes I like Seville & Granada. If you book them on Airbnb experience it is cheap & the app makes it very easy to Uber around all your experiences.
Other things yiu could do; fell running, wild swimming, snorkelling/diving.
Do a list of mountains to climb , start with Y3P and national 3P to get fit. Then go abroad. There’s lots of less touristy ones you can pay local guides to take you up. Last year I did mount Sinai and Jebel Jais, "This sounds great, thank you ! | |||
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Could be a live band in a theatre, or a full on rave at a club with some great headliner djs
Its my job, but might be a nice experience if your looking to try new things | |||
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"Anyway I’ve been a bit down about my upcoming 50th in March so I’ve had a bright idea this morning. I’m going to have a ‘ firsts at 50’ year and put a positive spin on it, try new things, go places I’ve never been etc
So initially I’m thinking…
Cookery classes
Visiting somewhere I’ve never been once a month
Learning astronomy
Some kind of dance classes
Learning new skills, maybe DIY which I’m terrible at
So I’m after some inspiration from fellow formers for some ideas? So please inspire me "Visit Zip world on North Wales and right Velocity 2....... A fantastic experience but not for the faint of heart | |||
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"Got any tattoos or ever wanted one ? They’re popular. "I meant to post about that too , yeah I’m having my first one . My mate said she’s going to take me as I’ve been on about it for ages | |||
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"If you fancy a totally new experience, how about being part of the crew for a night running the laser show
Could be a live band in a theatre, or a full on rave at a club with some great headliner djs
Its my job, but might be a nice experience if your looking to try new things "That sounds good but how would I sort that out? | |||
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"On astronomy Jupiter is going to be visible on the Eastern side of the moon on the 29th. Look at upcoming events in your local area and volunteer if you want to make them achievable, they can vary from litter picking, tree planting, bee keeping and helping out at farms or nature reserves to nude bike races and life models " Oooh I like these ideas | |||
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"I did the same. Girls at work sat me down to watch love island one night but I just couldn’t do it. They also took me to the bingo. One of the most stressful experiences of my life
Haha I’ll have to try that "Don’t try the bingo, I thought that was stressful too  | |||
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"On astronomy Jupiter is going to be visible on the Eastern side of the moon on the 29th. Look at upcoming events in your local area and volunteer if you want to make them achievable, they can vary from litter picking, tree planting, bee keeping and helping out at farms or nature reserves to nude bike races and life models " Anything happening around Uranus next month? | |||
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"Perhaps a creative writing course?" Nice idea thank you x | |||
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"Perhaps a creative writing course? Nice idea thank you x " My pleasure. There is one such course in Stratford up on Avon. A full week of emersion in the art of putting pen to paper! | |||
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"Perhaps a creative writing course? Nice idea thank you x My pleasure. There is one such course in Stratford up on Avon. A full week of emersion in the art of putting pen to paper!" I need to get googling to see if there is something similar in my area x | |||
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"Perhaps a creative writing course? Nice idea thank you x My pleasure. There is one such course in Stratford up on Avon. A full week of emersion in the art of putting pen to paper! I need to get googling to see if there is something similar in my area x " SUA is a mere bus ride from you! | |||
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"Meet 50 new people from Fab during the year. Doesn't have to be play, just social meets. That would be fun, I think it's so interesting meeting new people." This is a good idea. | |||
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"Perhaps a creative writing course? Nice idea thank you x My pleasure. There is one such course in Stratford up on Avon. A full week of emersion in the art of putting pen to paper! I need to get googling to see if there is something similar in my area x SUA is a mere bus ride from you!" It’s miles away ! | |||
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"Meet 50 new people from Fab during the year. Doesn't have to be play, just social meets. That would be fun, I think it's so interesting meeting new people. This is a good idea. "Mass social....yeah! | |||
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"Meet 50 new people from Fab during the year. Doesn't have to be play, just social meets. That would be fun, I think it's so interesting meeting new people. This is a good idea.
Mass social....yeah! "I was thinking one at once! | |||
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"Anyway I’ve been a bit down about my upcoming 50th in March so I’ve had a bright idea this morning. I’m going to have a ‘ firsts at 50’ year and put a positive spin on it, try new things, go places I’ve never been etc
So initially I’m thinking…
Cookery classes
Visiting somewhere I’ve never been once a month
Learning astronomy
Some kind of dance classes
Learning new skills, maybe DIY which I’m terrible at
So I’m after some inspiration from fellow formers for some ideas? So please inspire me "Well done op. Easier said than done. But the intention is wonderful. We pass this earth only once so important to make sure we regret what we do more than what we haven't done. As for ideas... Learning... Anything... Languages... Skills...history...Night classes... Teaching? Volunteering.? Travelling? Achieving? Happiness? Weight loss / gain? Running a half marathon? A 10k? Spiritual enlightenment? Good luck with your brilliant ideas? | |||
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"Meet 50 new people from Fab during the year. Doesn't have to be play, just social meets. That would be fun, I think it's so interesting meeting new people. This is a good idea.
Mass social....yeah!
I was thinking one at once! "Spoilsport | |||
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"Anyway I’ve been a bit down about my upcoming 50th in March so I’ve had a bright idea this morning. I’m going to have a ‘ firsts at 50’ year and put a positive spin on it, try new things, go places I’ve never been etc
So initially I’m thinking…
Cookery classes
Visiting somewhere I’ve never been once a month
Learning astronomy
Some kind of dance classes
Learning new skills, maybe DIY which I’m terrible at
So I’m after some inspiration from fellow formers for some ideas? So please inspire me
Well done op. Easier said than done. But the intention is wonderful. We pass this earth only once so important to make sure we regret what we do more than what we haven't done.
As for ideas... Learning... Anything... Languages... Skills...history...Night classes... Teaching? Volunteering.? Travelling? Achieving? Happiness? Weight loss / gain? Running a half marathon? A 10k? Spiritual enlightenment? Good luck with your brilliant ideas? "Oooh lovely ideas. I could learn Spanish x | |||
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"Following with interest as I’m hitting big 50 in April (where’s the crying face emoji when you need it?). Great idea, I’ve been thinking the same recently, but as I have two very young children with special needs, my possibilities are quite limited." There should be stuff online you can do . I’ll pm you x | |||
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"Following with interest as I’m hitting big 50 in April (where’s the crying face emoji when you need it?). Great idea, I’ve been thinking the same recently, but as I have two very young children with special needs, my possibilities are quite limited. There should be stuff online you can do . I’ll pm you x " I'm friends with both of you. Let's meet up x | |||
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"Following with interest as I’m hitting big 50 in April (where’s the crying face emoji when you need it?). Great idea, I’ve been thinking the same recently, but as I have two very young children with special needs, my possibilities are quite limited. There should be stuff online you can do . I’ll pm you x "  | |||
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"Following with interest as I’m hitting big 50 in April (where’s the crying face emoji when you need it?). Great idea, I’ve been thinking the same recently, but as I have two very young children with special needs, my possibilities are quite limited. There should be stuff online you can do . I’ll pm you x I'm friends with both of you. Let's meet up x"How small world  | |||
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"Following with interest as I’m hitting big 50 in April (where’s the crying face emoji when you need it?). Great idea, I’ve been thinking the same recently, but as I have two very young children with special needs, my possibilities are quite limited. There should be stuff online you can do . I’ll pm you x I'm friends with both of you. Let's meet up x
How small world "I chat with the best Seriously, let's do this ladies x | |||
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"Anyway I’ve been a bit down about my upcoming 50th in March so I’ve had a bright idea this morning. I’m going to have a ‘ firsts at 50’ year and put a positive spin on it, try new things, go places I’ve never been etc
So initially I’m thinking…
Cookery classes
Visiting somewhere I’ve never been once a month
Learning astronomy
Some kind of dance classes
Learning new skills, maybe DIY which I’m terrible at
So I’m after some inspiration from fellow formers for some ideas? So please inspire me
Well done op. Easier said than done. But the intention is wonderful. We pass this earth only once so important to make sure we regret what we do more than what we haven't done.
As for ideas... Learning... Anything... Languages... Skills...history...Night classes... Teaching? Volunteering.? Travelling? Achieving? Happiness? Weight loss / gain? Running a half marathon? A 10k? Spiritual enlightenment? Good luck with your brilliant ideas?
Oooh lovely ideas. I could learn Spanish x "Si Muy bien, dos cerveza por favor ¿ | |||
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"Anyway I’ve been a bit down about my upcoming 50th in March so I’ve had a bright idea this morning. I’m going to have a ‘ firsts at 50’ year and put a positive spin on it, try new things, go places I’ve never been etc
So initially I’m thinking…
Cookery classes
Visiting somewhere I’ve never been once a month
Learning astronomy
Some kind of dance classes
Learning new skills, maybe DIY which I’m terrible at
So I’m after some inspiration from fellow formers for some ideas? So please inspire me "You’ll enjoy the astronomy, I do it. However, buy the best you can afford and join a local club to avoid disappointment. Make your first targets Saturn and Jupiter and you’ll be hooked. | |||
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"Anyway I’ve been a bit down about my upcoming 50th in March so I’ve had a bright idea this morning. I’m going to have a ‘ firsts at 50’ year and put a positive spin on it, try new things, go places I’ve never been etc
So initially I’m thinking…
Cookery classes
Visiting somewhere I’ve never been once a month
Learning astronomy
Some kind of dance classes
Learning new skills, maybe DIY which I’m terrible at
So I’m after some inspiration from fellow formers for some ideas? So please inspire me
You’ll enjoy the astronomy, I do it.
However, buy the best you can afford and join a local club to avoid disappointment.
Make your first targets Saturn and Jupiter and you’ll be hooked."There’s a place nearby that do it, I’ll look into It x | |||
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"Anyway I’ve been a bit down about my upcoming 50th in March so I’ve had a bright idea this morning. I’m going to have a ‘ firsts at 50’ year and put a positive spin on it, try new things, go places I’ve never been etc
So initially I’m thinking…
Cookery classes
Visiting somewhere I’ve never been once a month
Learning astronomy
Some kind of dance classes
Learning new skills, maybe DIY which I’m terrible at
So I’m after some inspiration from fellow formers for some ideas? So please inspire me "reading between the lines,, almost 50 and only now learning to cook,,
going places she has never been before,, going late night dogging
learning astronomy,, watching the stars while lying back on a park bench with a few guys around whilst dogging?? | |||
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Hope you find something OP and don’t worry about the big birthday. I’m sure you’ll be pleasantly surprised that you don’t feel any different at all xx | |||
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"I started ticking off my fuck-it list; live entertainment I've never experienced; did a burlesque course; I'd like to have a go at being a life drawing model (still on my list); silly things like taking an afternoon off work to do something naughty; visit places in England you've never been; do things that make you feel good too and expand your own confidence. You'll be surprised how many new opportunities come your way once you start saying yes to things. As my friend used to say - if it ain't gonna kill you or get you pregnant, it's all good! Enjoy the journey
C x"Thanks babe , I feel better and more positive about it already , changed my mindset xx | |||
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"Perhaps a creative writing course? Nice idea thank you x My pleasure. There is one such course in Stratford up on Avon. A full week of emersion in the art of putting pen to paper! 500 miles? I need to get googling to see if there is something similar in my area x SUA is a mere bus ride from you! It’s miles away ! " | |||
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"Perhaps a creative writing course? Nice idea thank you x My pleasure. There is one such course in Stratford up on Avon. A full week of emersion in the art of putting pen to paper! 500 miles? I need to get googling to see if there is something similar in my area x SUA is a mere bus ride from you! It’s miles away ! " 500 miles or more? | |||
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"Perhaps a creative writing course? Nice idea thank you x My pleasure. There is one such course in Stratford up on Avon. A full week of emersion in the art of putting pen to paper! 500 miles? I need to get googling to see if there is something similar in my area x SUA is a mere bus ride from you! It’s miles away ! 500 miles or more?" Can you be creative and write a song about it? | |||
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"Oooooo what about a tattoo? I meant to get one in my 50th year but I'm running out of time. Can't really justify the expense at the moment and don't want a cheap crap one." Will pm you with a picture | |||
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"I had a thought about something you could do everyday - use your less dominant hand more for everyday tasks. Things like brushing your teeth, scrolling with your mouse, hoovering, filling a kettle, stirring a brew .. the list is endless and it'd both occupy and develop hand eye skills" That's actually alot harder than you'd first think. Try masturbating with your left hand - quite difficult right??? Hey it's a swinging site I gotta drag the tone down a bit occasionally | |||
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