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Alone at Christmas

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Christmas can be a great time for lots of people but for many it’s a lonely and tough time. Half of it is the comparison with others who are having such a ‘wonderful’ time but please try to remember, it’s just another day.

Being alone doesn’t diminish your worth

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By *yanMan
over a year ago

leicester

If anyone feels lonely, just ping a message

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

What Tea Monkey said ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree. Even being in company can feel lonely..depending on the circumstances.

Hope everyone who does feel lonely can think about making plans to meet new people, in whatever capacity that may be.

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By *asepaul71Man
over a year ago

Buxton

Cyber hugs to anyone feeling lonely today x

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Agree. Even being in company can feel lonely..depending on the circumstances.

Hope everyone who does feel lonely can think about making plans to meet new people, in whatever capacity that may be. "

Absolutely. Loneliness can come in many guises and being surrounded by people who don’t ‘see’ us is isolating in its own way.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Cyber hugs to anyone feeling lonely today x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christmas can be a great time for lots of people but for many it’s a lonely and tough time. Half of it is the comparison with others who are having such a ‘wonderful’ time but please try to remember, it’s just another day.

Being alone doesn’t diminish your worth"

^ what Tea Monkey says.

Huge virtual ((((((hugs)))))) for anyone feeling lonely x

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By *luboyoMan
over a year ago

North West / Birmingham


"Christmas can be a great time for lots of people but for many it’s a lonely and tough time. Half of it is the comparison with others who are having such a ‘wonderful’ time but please try to remember, it’s just another day.

Being alone doesn’t diminish your worth"

Definitely doesn't diminish anyone's worth. Everyone has different circumstances for many different reasons. Happy Christmas to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does get a bit much all the stuff about family, parties, etc. Always wish for it to be over like many I suspect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im alone as my lovely wife died recently , lonely , no ive got her memory to keep me company

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

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By *trongbobMan
over a year ago

rochester

I'm on my own today but I'm OK with that

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"im alone as my lovely wife died recently , lonely , no ive got her memory to keep me company "
sorry for your loss

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

You can be even more lonely in the wrong relationship! Here’s a big hug to anyone feeling by lonely . And sort it out in 2023 - no one should be lonely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thoughts go out to those who are alone and struggling, and also to those who even though they have family and friends around them, still feel alone and/or lonely. Not an easy time for many, just remember, you are not alone.

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By *ez200Man
over a year ago

malaga

I'm alone this year for the 1st time it's hard but I'll get though it bit of loving wouldn't go a mis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll be alone this evening and done this for years but Boxing Day will be spent with family. Sending love and hugs to those that are alone

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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

We’ve both felt alone in the past, one of us when truly alone and the other whilst in a toxic relationship. Loneliness is awful, it’s nothing to say hello as you past someone on the street as that might be the only contact that person has all day.

Merry Christmas all

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Well said OP.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I’m alone pretty every Christmas. It’s entirely by choice – I prefer it to all the alternatives available to me. I hope everyone else in the same position can also find a way to enjoy their solitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree. Even being in company can feel lonely..depending on the circumstances.

Hope everyone who does feel lonely can think about making plans to meet new people, in whatever capacity that may be.

Absolutely. Loneliness can come in many guises and being surrounded by people who don’t ‘see’ us is isolating in its own way. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im alone as my lovely wife died recently , lonely , no ive got her memory to keep me company "

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

I hope everyone who is alone manages to find some joy in the day

Posh

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If anyone wants to message my inbox is open I'm just going out for a few hours but will be back about 4

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Although I will be spending Christmas with 3 other family members in other ways I am alone but it’s ok as I know there are other people worse off than me.

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By *nterblueMan
over a year ago

manchester

If you're alone or with people, or even feeling anxious about being around too many people today, thoughts and hugs go out to you.

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

I won't be for the next 3-4 hours or so.

Off to the gym to do our annual 1,000,000 kg total charity liftathon on Christmas day with 7 mates.

I'll be alone later in much pain

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By *weetguy33Man
over a year ago

some where near you

So sad to hear some people are alone over this festive period.

If anyone is from leeds and needs food get intouch 12pm to 2pm.

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

It's ok not to be ok. Do what you need to get through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you love someone, hold them close. If you love someone and they're not well hold them closer. If you've just lost somebody, then please join me in a group hug.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm fine with it I'm lying on beach naked in 30 degrees may go and have my Christmas Dinner about 3 pm and oooo a rather attractive Spanish lady checked in in room opposite she's said hi a couple of times

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By *ornishkink69Man
over a year ago

penzance

I'm alone this Christmas due to illness but not feeling sad for myself.

If anyone is struggling today feel free to message. It's better to share than suffer in silence

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Smooches for all the lonely.

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