FabSwingers.com forum: Is it too late to ask Santa for a MILF/DILF for Xmas?

By *t_uk OP Man
over a year ago

West Mersea

Is it too much to ask for at least one older lady/couple I like to like me back?

I’m writing this not to just bitch and moan about being rejected/ignored by the demographic of people I most desire - instead to ask for constructive feedback on where I’m going wrong and advice on how I can sell myself better to the more mature couples/women.

So do you have any thoughts on this?

The most common reason I am told for why they’re not interested in me is that I’m “too young” *for them* with some going as far to say I’m too young for fab. As I am very mature for my age it really annoys me to be dismissed under preconceived notions about who I am.

Moreover, I know I’m a pretty good looking guy so I know the overarching reasoning behind people’s lack of interest isn’t because I’m undesirable - as I get enough attention from women my age at least.

Which is why I am wondering if I’m going wrong with what I am saying &/or how I am saying it?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Hey Dan...I've taken a look at your profile. Your pictures aren't great and your bio or lack of it, is rubbish.

Sorry to be blunt but it is.

You are not doing yourself any favours. Take a look at other guys gallery and bio's, don't copy but take some pointers. It's hard enough in here for some guys, even with a great profile.

Good luck, Dan x

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By *esi_maverickMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Hey Dan...I've taken a look at your profile. Your pictures aren't great and your bio or lack of it, is rubbish.

Sorry to be blunt but it is.

You are not doing yourself any favours. Take a look at other guys gallery and bio's, don't copy but take some pointers. It's hard enough in here for some guys, even with a great profile.

Good luck, Dan x

Hey annebelle

Would you be kind enough to give me your feedback on my profile please xx

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Hey Dan...I've taken a look at your profile. Your pictures aren't great and your bio or lack of it, is rubbish.

Sorry to be blunt but it is.

You are not doing yourself any favours. Take a look at other guys gallery and bio's, don't copy but take some pointers. It's hard enough in here for some guys, even with a great profile.

Good luck, Dan x

Hey annebelle

Would you be kind enough to give me your feedback on my profile please xx"

Hey Desi...you have a couple of decent pics...the first one though, doesn't do it for me.

Your bio...punctuation needs sorting out and a couple of lazy spellings. Maybe put a couple of full stops and comma's where needed.

Your bio doesn't sell you ....says nothing about what you like, what your into, who you like to meet. Put some meet on the bones. You show your face so the last paragraph is redundant. If I were you I wouldn't mention old veris and why you have no new ones.

And as I said above, check out other guy's profiles for some tips on how to word things and express your wants, .

Good luck to you also x

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By *asiKhanMan
over a year ago

luton

Would love a feedback

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By *esi_maverickMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Hey Dan...I've taken a look at your profile. Your pictures aren't great and your bio or lack of it, is rubbish.

Sorry to be blunt but it is.

You are not doing yourself any favours. Take a look at other guys gallery and bio's, don't copy but take some pointers. It's hard enough in here for some guys, even with a great profile.

Good luck, Dan x

Hey annebelle

Would you be kind enough to give me your feedback on my profile please xx

Hey Desi...you have a couple of decent pics...the first one though, doesn't do it for me.

Your bio...punctuation needs sorting out and a couple of lazy spellings. Maybe put a couple of full stops and comma's where needed.

And as I said above, check out other guy's profiles for some tips on how to word things and express your wants, .

Good luck to you also x

Points noted

Thank you very much xx

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Annabelle the feedback queen

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Would love a feedback "

I'm not very good at feedback

The first thing that strikes me is the overkill of face pics

Personally, I'd pick your favorite 3 maybe and leave it at that.

Start your sentence with a capital letter.

Bio is not that bad, really. Though I like a bio that intrigues me a little. You know, makes me interested to find out more about that person. They may mention something about sensuality, passion, that kind of thing. Best bit if advice is to take a look around at other profiles. Do keep in mind that it can be difficult for guys in here, so please don't get too disheartened. X

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Annabelle the feedback queen

Hardly

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Hey Dan...I've taken a look at your profile. Your pictures aren't great and your bio or lack of it, is rubbish.

Sorry to be blunt but it is.

You are not doing yourself any favours. Take a look at other guys gallery and bio's, don't copy but take some pointers. It's hard enough in here for some guys, even with a great profile.

Good luck, Dan x

Hey annebelle

Would you be kind enough to give me your feedback on my profile please xx

Hey Desi...you have a couple of decent pics...the first one though, doesn't do it for me.

Your bio...punctuation needs sorting out and a couple of lazy spellings. Maybe put a couple of full stops and comma's where needed.

And as I said above, check out other guy's profiles for some tips on how to word things and express your wants, .

Good luck to you also x

Points noted

Thank you very much xx"

You are welcome my lovely x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I like younger guys but it's difficult to tell how you look OP. Think about how you are presenting yourself and work on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey Dan...I've taken a look at your profile. Your pictures aren't great and your bio or lack of it, is rubbish.

Sorry to be blunt but it is.

You are not doing yourself any favours. Take a look at other guys gallery and bio's, don't copy but take some pointers. It's hard enough in here for some guys, even with a great profile.

Good luck, Dan x

Hello Annabelle could you rate mine please

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Sorry but your age is a turn off for me as I have kids older than you. But there are younger women here and woman who like their guys really young so you do fir some. Your pool is not very big.

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