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For anyone that's struggling over Christmas

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Christmas maybe great for most but for some can be a awful time of the year ,So for anyone that's lonely Fed up or depressed my thoughts are with you and hopefully people on here maybe able to bring a bit of cheer into the next week

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Thank you, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gr8 thread, best wishes to all & know that if uR 1 of these peeps who r struggling - I'm sure many of us on here will lend an ear if it helps incl. me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to join this thread. Anyone in real talking helps xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first Christmas alone after the death of my mum in June. It’s gonna be tough. Just letting my kids do their own things as they both have partners. I’m not gatecrashing their Christmas. Got my ready meal with holly in it lol. Got my 58th on NYE to look forward to

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Great thread, its a Christmas alone here for me too. Dinner at the parents but my own company otherwise

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I shall be at work alone all through Xmas if any one wants a chat I'm here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life's full of struggles, is never easy with each of us all having some sort of difficulties. Some more so than others, and we can & should take comfort in knowing that nothing stays the same forever, we should not ever give up on hope that with time there'll be better days ahead. Peace and luv to all esp. those going through difficult times. Best wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, once kids left home, I hate Christmas. Se it for what it really is. For millions it is a time of sadness, worry, embarrassment, fear, lonely. Nothing like the bullshit adverts on TV. We should each if possible put £10 into someone gas meter so they can at least be warm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, once kids left home, I hate Christmas. Se it for what it really is. For millions it is a time of sadness, worry, embarrassment, fear, lonely. Nothing like the bullshit adverts on TV. We should each if possible put £10 into someone gas meter so they can at least be warm."

£10 into someone's gas meter is a gr8 suggestion, knowing actions speak better than mere words.

We should also check up on the elderly make sure they are all ok.

Doing the little things can make such a big difference to someone's life (definitely more kindness needed in this World of ours).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely thread OP. I'm at home this Xmas by myself, my choice as I just can't spend it with my family, thanks to my mum and sister's attitude. As usual though I'm getting the blame for it. It's a difficult time for a lot of people, for different reasons. I hope everyone gets through it ok x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christmas maybe great for most but for some can be a awful time of the year ,So for anyone that's lonely Fed up or depressed my thoughts are with you and hopefully people on here maybe able to bring a bit of cheer into the next week "

That’s lovely….. Merry Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate hate hate xmas . Iv no family no gf my children where taken from me two yeats ago by thete mum who up and moved agter id seen thwm every day for 16 yrs its my sons 16th onn 29th amd all i wanna do is end thing vut then i think i cant cause hopefully one day they will want to see me ahain .... cant find happiness love or even get laid haha christmas is the worst

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By *iking 777Man
over a year ago

wick

It's a strange time of year when you own your own . I need to get some shopping but can't be arsed with the street and all the Christmas stuff so l think hide away till Tuesday

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thankyou op. I'm going to my mums for dinner but will spend the rest of the day alone. If anyone wants a chat my inbox is open. But no smutty chat

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Christmas gets me down every single year. All that expectation of jollity unfortunately has the opposite effect on me, I’m looking forward to Monday morning.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

It can be a terrible time of year for some folks.

Working right through till next Wednesday but Paul and I do try to make an extra special effort to say Merry Christmas and engage with single people in any pub we visit, we did it yesterday and it's amazing how good it is to chat with new people, everyone has a tale to tell, an elderly gentleman kept us in fits of laughter, what a life he had led.

We don't do big family Christmas dinners, just not our thing but will be thinking of those who are not as fortunate as us, we are always happy to engage with others.

Hope Christmas brings good cheer to everyone and 2023 be a fabulous year.

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By *axBonkersMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

Thank you OP

I was going to be alone this xmas but I was luck to find a friend who was also alone and we've decided to spend Xmas together.

Much love to those who do spend it alone.

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

Had my first xmas breakdown this morning. Likely to lose everything I've worked six years for in the next 12 months, lost the first part yesterday. And theres not a thing I can do to change a bit of it, its entirely out of my hands.

Trying to be positive but it's not easy.

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By *ave65Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

So beautiful words as my mum past away on Wednesday 21/12/22 ?? got to keep strong for my kids and grandkids but it’s hard xx

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