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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re not all bad. Bloody typical that’s your lot though. No wonder why it’s the lesser of two evils at times!!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

That will teach you for being polite

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't! "

But on the up side when you have many whom don't it should be easier to laugh at it x

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We’re not all bad. Bloody typical that’s your lot though. No wonder why it’s the lesser of two evils at times!!"

I know there are a lot of you good guys out there.

It's not my fault they don't read profiles but somehow it is x

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"That will teach you for being polite "

I know...I'm going back to being a bi*ch x

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"We’re not all bad. Bloody typical that’s your lot though. No wonder why it’s the lesser of two evils at times!!

I know there are a lot of you good guys out there.

It's not my fault they don't read profiles but somehow it is x"
your a cock tease putting this out there lol

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't!

But on the up side when you have many whom don't it should be easier to laugh at it x "

It is x

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We’re not all bad. Bloody typical that’s your lot though. No wonder why it’s the lesser of two evils at times!!

I know there are a lot of you good guys out there.

It's not my fault they don't read profiles but somehow it is x your a cock tease putting this out there lol "

Nothing wrong with a bit of teasing

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I used to say no thank you then block. Never had any come back messages

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Did you not get the memo? It's not that you're rude for not replying. It's that you're rude for not replying with a "Yes!"

Sorry you went through that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't! "

Pretty much

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"That will teach you for being polite

I know...I'm going back to being a bi*ch x"

This sounds great but is it average or full throttle x

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite no thank you

If continued block

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Did you not get the memo? It's not that you're rude for not replying. It's that you're rude for not replying with a "Yes!"

Sorry you went through that."

I've been through worse, some random guy on the Internet throwing his toys out the pram just makes me glad I said no x

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"That will teach you for being polite

I know...I'm going back to being a bi*ch x

This sounds great but is it average or full throttle x"

Full throttle Scottish redhead bit*h

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Aww bless the male ego, such a fragile thing.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cock tease! They don’t want replies, they want their cocks sucked, jeez

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We NEVER reply to messages if we're not interested in the sender.It really is much easier that way.

M and M

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You cock tease! They don’t want replies, they want their cocks sucked, jeez "

Ffs....I've been doing it all wrong. See I'm the problem

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We NEVER reply to messages if we're not interested in the sender.It really is much easier that way.

M and M"

I never used to but thought with it being the season of goodwill, I'd be nice and give it a go x

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I've actually kept count this week of the messages I received.

21 dick pics.

9 that just say hi or X

6 commenting on my tits and nothing else

8 telling me how good they are in bed.

5 ' I know you only seek women, but,'

7 wanna meet now

3 'im local, let's meet'

2 ' can we meet, my husband would love to watch 2 women together'

2 couples, that clearly aren't couples.

Most of which who have tantrum when told to read my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never sent me one

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You never sent me one "

I only replied to people who sent me one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't! "

More than happy to have a polite conversation, just ask Littlebird and many other lovely ladies on here. Drop me a line!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You never sent me one

I only replied to people who sent me one "

Oh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't! "

Nothing wrong with being a cock tease...some guys on here think they're over privileged

f?uk um !

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't!

Nothing wrong with being a cock tease...some guys on here think they're over privileged

f?uk um !"

That's the problem...I won't

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't! "

Not worth my limited mental energy/capacity. I block all men. Any men I meet at clubs I let them know that I have to message them first. A few single men have come through on couples or Trans/CD profiles but that is nothing compared to the amount of drivel from single men. I have zero time to waste especially on abusive, threatening, rude, entitled people. It's not just Fab, I'm this way in real live in person. I've been through too much shit to put up with any shit now.

As my granny would say if you don't like it, leave and don't let the door hit you on the backside on the way out. My granny was the original Maverick. She buried multiple babies and 2 life partners. Raised 6 children to adulthood only for 2 to die before her and had 2 husbands. And of course, she was good-looking.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Did you not get the memo? It's not that you're rude for not replying. It's that you're rude for not replying with a "Yes!"

Sorry you went through that.

I've been through worse, some random guy on the Internet throwing his toys out the pram just makes me glad I said no x"

Lol! The toddler in my head regularly throws the toys out the pram....I can't be dealing with two adult toddlers. One I can control and talk down off the ledge but the other adult...um no... not my responsibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(**I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know**)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't! "

What was your polite reply?

**

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I just don’t reply to any of them….

Seems loads easier and I love yellow

Hope it didn’t spoil your day too much OP xx

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(**I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know**)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't!

What was your polite reply?

** "

Please read the profile

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I just don’t reply to any of them….

Seems loads easier and I love yellow

Hope it didn’t spoil your day too much OP xx"

Take a lot more than that to spoil it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still no messages

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Still no messages "

You'll be happy about that then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy it’s difficult to get replies let alone meets but that not an excuse to be rude to someone. I’m respectful even if being rejected but they’ve made up their mind and getting mad isn’t gonna do anything. Best to just accept their decision and move on

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I've actually kept count this week of the messages I received.

21 dick pics.

9 that just say hi or X

6 commenting on my tits and nothing else

8 telling me how good they are in bed.

5 ' I know you only seek women, but,'

7 wanna meet now

3 'im local, let's meet'

2 ' can we meet, my husband would love to watch 2 women together'

2 couples, that clearly aren't couples.

Most of which who have tantrum when told to read my profile.

"

That's a great idea, I might give it a go. Wonder if there's a common theme.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(**I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know**)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't!

What was your polite reply?

**

Please read the profile "

When they very obviously didn't... I've repeated this more than once and they still haven't got it

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(**I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know**)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't!

What was your polite reply?

**

Please read the profile

When they very obviously didn't... I've repeated this more than once and they still haven't got it "

It's like profile blindness and then they have the cheek to blame us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(**I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know**)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't!

What was your polite reply?

**

Please read the profile

When they very obviously didn't... I've repeated this more than once and they still haven't got it

It's like profile blindness and then they have the cheek to blame us "

I ask them to read mine and they suddenly have a bi woman friend. Apparently lesbians love MFF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't! "

We just delete and block now, before they take their frustration out on us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just reply to the hot ones.

So yeah, I never reply.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I just reply to the hot ones.

So yeah, I never reply. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always appreciated your replies… thank you x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Im surprised whiny posts persuaded you to reply. You shouldn’t feel any pressure to

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"I just reply to the hot ones.

So yeah, I never reply.

"

Thats me out then x

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Im surprised whiny posts persuaded you to reply. You shouldn’t feel any pressure to "

No pressure, I just thought I'd be nice for once x

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I just reply to the hot ones.

So yeah, I never reply.

Thats me out then x"

I bet you are knee deep in replies x

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By *issMBWoman
over a year ago

North


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't! "

Same! Just this week I've been called a frigid bitch, a timewaster (that one was because I took four hours to reply to their message that said "hi" and nothing else, from a practically blank profile), ignorant and a fake. I've got 350 more messages to get through, I'll have to start deleting some without a reply just to get through them.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't! "

We've had half a dozen today asking if we're looking to meet tonight or tomorrow.

I mean.....aside from tomorrow being Xmas eve.....there is a fairly clear message on our profile about us makin bit obvious if we want company by doing simple things like adding a meet post, a status update, tv adverts and putting up neon signs on the M5 whenever we're free and looking to meet.

I've asked each guy that sent a message if they'd actually read our profile and all said yes.

I guess we're being a bit vague or something.

A

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By *LIVEANDKICKING100Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't! "
I didn't realise replying was mandatory. It is a tad frustrating when you message somone who you are interested in and the message didn't even get read let alone replied to. But I don't take it personally but do rue perhaps the missed opportunity for some mutual fun.Your prifile and pics are fab by the way

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"So after reading several threads from some guys moaning that some woman are rude for not responding to messages, I thought I'd be polite and reply to some of mine....

Since doing so I've still been called rude, ignorant, a cock tease etc etc...(I honestly wish they would tell me something I didn't already know)

So it seems you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't! "

Well, that unfortunately justifies our single guy block..

We have many single guys as friends, so don't pigeon hole but as always some spoil it for all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We definitely aren't all like those guys, they just need to grow the F up and realise the world doesn't revolve around them.

Once I've sent someone a message it is then there message to do with what they please with, I've had them deleted, ignored read and not reply to, but never had anyone reply and say not interested and why should anyone waist there time in doing so??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is definitely something in the air at the moment. I have received 2 offensive/arsey messages today, both from couples that I've never had any conversation with before. God knows why. Maybe they just don't like this time of year and it makes them feel better to try to knock people down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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My work here is done, that’s enough interwebs for you all today, salut! X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think it's a case of sending a no thanks, then blocking and running. No come back

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