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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can someone please help how do u get notice on this site I don't judge I love everything about swinging but can't even get a reply back. How do u get verified if no one will see u or even reply back to u?? can someone help I know so am not that ugly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're new here, right? Basically don't expect anything. This place is the biggest sausage fest ever, women get literally hundreds of messages a day.

Want to get noticed then start going to the socials and the clubs.

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hi mate. It's a vicious circle I'm afraid on here. No one will meet you if you arnt "meet verified", but you can't get verified if no one will meet you.

A lot of us single blokes on here suffer from exactly the same problem.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

As above, getting out to clubs is your best bet.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

There are four things you can have on here that increase your chances:

Good avatar

Good profile text

Good gallery

Good messages

Any one of these can let you down if you get it wrong.

Remember: Cock photos are not popular.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Can someone please help how do u get notice on this site I don't judge I love everything about swinging but can't even get a reply back. How do u get verified if no one will see u or even reply back to u?? can someone help I know so am not that ugly lol"

Who are you fucking bb in your pics if you have not met anyone on here?

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By *uckyNineMan
over a year ago

prescot


"Can someone please help how do u get notice on this site I don't judge I love everything about swinging but can't even get a reply back. How do u get verified if no one will see u or even reply back to u?? can someone help I know so am not that ugly lol

Who are you fucking bb in your pics if you have not met anyone on here? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys might just have to go to the clubs the closer one to me is the attic in Derby anyone one meet for a social?

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Get rid of the actions shots we really don’t want to see them (does she know)?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes she knows already had to explain myself to someone else she cool as long as I don't show her face x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think that might be the problem I take it down thanks anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes she knows already had to explain myself to someone else she cool as long as I don't show her face x"

Ask her to verify you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be more me

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"yes she knows already had to explain myself to someone else she cool as long as I don't show her face x

Ask her to verify you. "

We thought the same

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"yes she knows already had to explain myself to someone else she cool as long as I don't show her face x"

I hate action shots and will dismiss anyone who thinks it's ok to post them publically

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Thanks guys might just have to go to the clubs the closer one to me is the attic in Derby anyone one meet for a social?"

The Attic is a great club. No guarantee of sex but if you're friendly you'll find plenty of people to chat to.

If you want to meet from here, I would suggest that you rethink your profile. That said, if you're happy that it accurately reflects you, then leave it as it is.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you get notice by standing out and being you ..

no one knows you no one knows what you like or are into ? only you know the answer to this ..

advice will not help you all it will do is give you a false profile thats not you and end up looking like all the other profiles that asked for advice ..

come on op open up feel what you want to write be you there no such thing as a perfect profile you'll never please everyone and dont forget fab its self is way way more than these tiny forums

be you be confident take your time do it a bit at a time after all its no race on here if your a guy as its hard for guys

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

The SHOUTY ‘rules’ of your profile - really necessary?

I’d say it was common sense to be shower fresh and cleaning their teeth would be basic hygiene level.

Not one person who doesn’t do the above will think ‘shit, he’s put it on his profile as a rule, so it must be a dealbreaker’

Everything has to appeal on your profile, (pics/bio/interests/messages - if one thing looks odd/strange/weird then people will just move on to the next guy…

K

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"There are four things you can have on here that increase your chances:

Good avatar

Good profile text

Good gallery

Good messages

Any one of these can let you down if you get it wrong.

Remember: Cock photos are not popular. "

Totally agree with the above, maybe look a little at your approach and list of demands.

Have a look at some of the popular guys pics and profile see where they are going right and you wrong.

Just don't expect to much.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks guys might just have to go to the clubs the closer one to me is the attic in Derby anyone one meet for a social?

The Attic is a great club. No guarantee of sex but if you're friendly you'll find plenty of people to chat to.

If you want to meet from here, I would suggest that you rethink your profile. That said, if you're happy that it accurately reflects you, then leave it as it is.

Nita"

thanks guys

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Could well be your bio...

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By *piritualSFCMan
over a year ago

london


"Can someone please help how do u get notice on this site I don't judge I love everything about swinging but can't even get a reply back. How do u get verified if no one will see u or even reply back to u?? can someone help I know so am not that ugly lol"

Change your gender to female

No don't do that. Just keep trying and have no expectations. Everyone is busy and most women on here need to hire an admin assistant, impossible for them to go through all those messages. hopefully they get time to take a break over the coming bank holiday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why rely solely on this site? If you're genuinely interested in the swinging lifestyle then get out there into the scene.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Go to clubs or to an organised meet and greet and expect nothing and when something does happen you will be plesently surprised

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to clubs or to an organised meet and greet and expect nothing and when something does happen you will be plesently surprised "

Very true I think that's the best is to to the club thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the tune of fresh prince. Du duh do do do!

Now, this is a story all about how

life on fab-can make a man feel down

And I'd like to take a minute

Just sit right there

I'll tell you how many people tell us life ain’t fair!!!

At best the ‘forumites’ will hear this every day

“Why won’t people meet me?, I’ve tried every way! “

Send dicks out, tits out, blowjob on a stool.

Deleted ignore feeling like a fool

Then a couple of messages from a woman wants wood!

Wasted your time, being blocked ain’t good

You’re ego is floored and you feel despair

You say, I’m posting in the forum because fab ain’t fair!

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By *ingerie whoreTV/TS
over a year ago

kirk hammerton


"Can someone please help how do u get notice on this site I don't judge I love everything about swinging but can't even get a reply back. How do u get verified if no one will see u or even reply back to u?? can someone help I know so am not that ugly lol"
one good tip don’t seem so desperate

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago


"Go to clubs or to an organised meet and greet and expect nothing and when something does happen you will be plesently surprised

Very true I think that's the best is to to the club thanks guys"

Purple mamba is literally round the corner from your profile picture op give that a try

Mr

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Also use your filters & block men from contacting you rather than stating you don't see gays/bi men

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By *urrey SpecialMan
over a year ago

Chertsey

That was amazing!

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By *urrey SpecialMan
over a year ago

Chertsey

It's basically Tinder on steroids for single guys on Fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried being hilarious? That has a tendency to work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to clubs or to an organised meet and greet and expect nothing and when something does happen you will be plesently surprised

Very true I think that's the best is to to the club thanks guys

Purple mamba is literally round the corner from your profile picture op give that a try

Mr"

I would go there but a family member lives next door lmao

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