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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious as to how many messages you ladies receive on a daily basis ?

Seen one status saying over 500,is this an exaggeration?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This number varies on how many dick pictures I decide to send on the day

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By *hataliceinwanderlustWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

10-15 on a normal day, when on top pics maybe 100?

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester


"10-15 on a normal day, when on top pics maybe 100? "

You are hot though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few but then I dont spend half my life on here and the other half taking pics to put on here

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Usually around 5 a day unless a new pic is uploaded x

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Usually 50 to 100 a day. Unless I post a photo that seems to be a good one then I can occasionally get around 200. Got to page 1 of hot photos once and that generated 1000 messages so I'm not keen to go back there any time soon.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"10-15 on a normal day, when on top pics maybe 100? "

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It's a polarising topic the top pics.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If a woman has no mail filters in place I imagine she'd certainly receive several hundred at first

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By *aunchycouple2410Couple
over a year ago

wakefield

We’re lucky if we get 2/3 new people messaging us a week might spark up some old conversations that have been dormant for a couple weeks but it’s bee no really quiet recently on here

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

One or two absolute max.

Maybe a handful more if I've sent some messages.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"If a woman has no mail filters in place I imagine she'd certainly receive several hundred at first"

That's somehow incredibly depressing.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

We get maybe 15ish a day from people I don’t chat to regularly. Filters are pretty tight!

I prefer getting messages from people I’d consider a Fab friend

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester


"We get maybe 15ish a day from people I don’t chat to regularly. Filters are pretty tight!

I prefer getting messages from people I’d consider a Fab friend "

Your pics are great. But I wouldn’t mail. Too hot!

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

…

About 10-20 on average, but a lot more if I’ve uploaded a pic. My filters are quite restricted which helps

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"We get maybe 15ish a day from people I don’t chat to regularly. Filters are pretty tight!

I prefer getting messages from people I’d consider a Fab friend

Your pics are great. But I wouldn’t mail. Too hot!"

Thank you! You probably wouldn’t anyway, we share very different political views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t really get that many messages anymore from new people unless we’ve uploaded a new picture. Maybe 15/20 a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday 127 I have no idea why tbh as I’d not posted anything. But I don’t think I’ve set my filters too well so that probably don’t help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t put a number on it as it all depends on

Different things

Like uploading a new picture

Or being on the forums all day

I tend to get high messages

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Daily oh it could raise to a massive 5 or 6 if I upload a pic or something.Normally though it ranges between 0 and 2 so either my filters work exactly how I want them to or I have a crap profile

Either way it works for me as I have never wanted a load of messages that I most likely won't read or reply to I just don't see the point personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually single figures.

I've been storing them up though so I look more popular.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

I can get 100s although my filters are pretty fierce. Usually it's manageable due to the high proportion of hey/wanna fuck etc. messages that just get deleted. It's out of control ATM with virtually every message being a 'proper' message. Between Christmas and New Year I'm going to go ninja, have a ruthless clear out then change my approach to block, use winks and go Bumble style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe two or three messages a month on average

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yesterday 127 I have no idea why tbh as I’d not posted anything. But I don’t think I’ve set my filters too well so that probably don’t help. "

So suppose the ones saying they're recieving 100 plus messages just need to tighten up on filters...that's a shame as they could actually be missing out on someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds like you you've cracked the code as to not get pestered

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm sure you're very popular and in no need of storing them up..

Btw save me a mince pie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd love to know if that "Hey wanna fuck ". Actually works ?

Maybe that's my next topic to post...

Personally I've never used it as it's not my style

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

If I get 20 without putting up a new picture, then i'm doing very well.

Maybe around 100 if I put up a new picture.

Really crap at replying to messages also.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can imagine it gets overwhelming replying to so many so can see why you don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I tick the 'Looking for men' box I can get 20 - 30 in a day. With the exact same profile as it is right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t message lady’s at all

Message only when message me

Tends to work for me

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Never really counted not that many lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I tick the 'Looking for men' box I can get 20 - 30 in a day. With the exact same profile as it is right now. "

Plenty of choice then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t message lady’s at all

Message only when message me

Tends to work for me "

Wow you must be good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never really counted not that many lol"

I'm sure you get plenty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to know if that "Hey wanna fuck ". Actually works ?

Maybe that's my next topic to post...

Personally I've never used it as it's not my style "

It does, I tried it, I’m also getting a breakfast out of it

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"We’re lucky if we get 2/3 new people messaging us a week might spark up some old conversations that have been dormant for a couple weeks but it’s bee no really quiet recently on here"

I can't see why. You are stunning

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Well over 100 a day .

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Have 949 currently unopened so quite a few a day x

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By *aximum_funMan
over a year ago

West Herts

I had one unsolicited message once, such a happy day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I tick the 'Looking for men' box I can get 20 - 30 in a day. With the exact same profile as it is right now.

Plenty of choice then "

I don't want to meet the type of person who would message a blank profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get 5 or 6 in a day, I think this is quite a lot, for a bloke, reading the comments above. These are from women & couples.

I know if I set my message filters so that men could message me aswell , I'd probably get about 20 a day, as this is what generally happens when I've done that.

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By *aximum_funMan
over a year ago

West Herts


"I get 5 or 6 in a day, I think this is quite a lot, for a bloke, reading the comments above. These are from women & couples.

I know if I set my message filters so that men could message me aswell , I'd probably get about 20 a day, as this is what generally happens when I've done that."

Clearly you've got what it takes!

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Probably 10-15 on a good day, unless we've posted a pic. Made page 11 of hot pics with our latest.. so messages went berserk!!! Haha

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not that many as I use a good few filters.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I think I must get loads but generally I don’t read them unless they’re from friends or other forumites. Just easier to leave them all yellow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well over 100 a day . "

Wow..Hopefully some decent ones drop in there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have 949 currently unopened so quite a few a day x"

Well if you get bored of Christmas TV it'll certainly give you something to catch up on...have a feeling one of them is from me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had one unsolicited message once, such a happy day!"

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Have 949 currently unopened so quite a few a day x

Well if you get bored of Christmas TV it'll certainly give you something to catch up on...have a feeling one of them is from me "

Never time to b bored! Ohh I shall take a look x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I must get loads but generally I don’t read them unless they’re from friends or other forumites. Just easier to leave them all yellow "

And it's a pretty colour

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