FabSwingers.com forum: Nice guy?

By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I get called this quite a bit on here. Not that it bothers me, as the saying goes, nice guys always cum last

My question to you wonderful fabsters.

What constitutes being a nice guy, your thoughts please

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Genuine and respectful

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The vast majority of men are nice but the phrase has been taken over by men (op excluded) who think being nice is the reason they don't get sex or that being nice is the reason they *should* get sex.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

For me what constitutes a nice guy is someone who has no agenda and treats service staff with respect

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Someone who has manners and doesn't treat people like dirt and tends to put others before themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody who puts the toilet seat down

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

See for me personally nice is a bit bland. Nice. Surely there are more exciting words to use to describe someone?

But it's harmless. I think it means someone who is well... nice. Nothing bad to say about him. Polite. Never overly sexual or full of shit jokes. Kind and not offensive. Nice really.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

To be honest, when I hear someone say ‘he’s a nice guy’ I’m always waiting for the ‘but’.

‘But he’s a bit wet’

‘But he’s a bit boring, always going on about Football, Rugby etc..’

‘But he’s got some very dodgy views’

I prefer to hear he’s a decent bloke or stand up guy, maybe, not too many ‘but’s’ after that.

I should add I’m sure you Op are a nice guy without a but, afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See for me personally nice is a bit bland. Nice. Surely there are more exciting words to use to describe someone?

But it's harmless. I think it means someone who is well... nice. Nothing bad to say about him. Polite. Never overly sexual or full of shit jokes. Kind and not offensive. Nice really."

This.

I don't want nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get called this quite a bit on here. Not that it bothers me, as the saying goes, nice guys always cum last

My question to you wonderful fabsters.

What constitutes being a nice guy, your thoughts please"

Being nice to people in general I suppose

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"See for me personally nice is a bit bland. Nice. Surely there are more exciting words to use to describe someone?

But it's harmless. I think it means someone who is well... nice. Nothing bad to say about him. Polite. Never overly sexual or full of shit jokes. Kind and not offensive. Nice really.

This.

I don't want nice. "

Yes. Give me a bit of a dick and I'm happy.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

"I get called this quite a bit on here. Not that it bothers me, as the saying goes, nice guys always cum last

My question to you wonderful fabsters.

What constitutes being a nice guy, your thoughts please"

Being polite and being patient. Some people get arsy if you dont reply immediately and its crap. We have our own lives too yknow.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

"See for me personally nice is a bit bland. Nice. Surely there are more exciting words to use to describe someone?

But it's harmless. I think it means someone who is well... nice. Nothing bad to say about him. Polite. Never overly sexual or full of shit jokes. Kind and not offensive. Nice really.

This.

I don't want nice.

Yes. Give me a bit of a dick and I'm happy.

Which bit Meli?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See for me personally nice is a bit bland. Nice. Surely there are more exciting words to use to describe someone?

But it's harmless. I think it means someone who is well... nice. Nothing bad to say about him. Polite. Never overly sexual or full of shit jokes. Kind and not offensive. Nice really.

This.

I don't want nice.

Yes. Give me a bit of a dick and I'm happy.

Mmmm lpve to play with u and make u happy

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Its a nice way of saying thanks but no thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See for me personally nice is a bit bland. Nice. Surely there are more exciting words to use to describe someone?

But it's harmless. I think it means someone who is well... nice. Nothing bad to say about him. Polite. Never overly sexual or full of shit jokes. Kind and not offensive. Nice really."

In everyday life it's a good thing

On fab insult me then bend over and let me slap your ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who has manners and doesn't treat people like dirt and tends to put others before themselves "

^ totally agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very curious about all things psychology related, so enjoy a little bit of a personal recce from time to time.

There's a whole theory on the 'nice guy' versus the 'good guy'.

Well worth a bit of research if you are actually interested.

Being considered 'nice' isn't an asset or compliment imho. If it's given.... it's usually a brush-off, if it's claimed by a person themselves.... it's usually masking less pleasant personality traits, loosely hidden behond a veneer of social polish

There's certainly a lot of pseudo-nice behaviour on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be genuine bro the real ones will meet you

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"The vast majority of men are nice but the phrase has been taken over by men (op excluded) who think being nice is the reason they don't get sex or that being nice is the reason they *should* get sex. "

This. 100000000%

Being nice shouldn't be seen as anything other than expected behaviour. Nice isn't something you should have to put any effort into being. It's almost a minimum standard both in life and on here.

It is very commonly used by people of here to attempt to differentiate themselves from others, much in the same way words like 'genuine' and 'professional' are thrown around.

Saying you're nice means fuck all. Anyone can come across as nice online, but can easily be far from it in person.

It's a word. That's all.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

My next door neighbour is a really nice guy. He’s a little bit emancipated (nothing like the bloke in Motherland) but that means he goes out of his way to be caring and supportive to his family and put his manly pursuits aside.

This kind of extends to all the neighbours, he will put my bin out when I forget and if he sees a parcel going back in a van he’ll get it for me.

When I’m away I know my daughter can knock on his door anytime she needs help.

Nothing wrong with being a super nice guy like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have great experiences with ‘nice guys’. The kind who open doors and stop you from crossing the road without looking. They love their Mums, are friendly to people serving in shops.

But get them naked and they are creative, unpredictable and FILTHY. Love that dichotomy.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I have great experiences with ‘nice guys’. The kind who open doors and stop you from crossing the road without looking. They love their Mums, are friendly to people serving in shops.

But get them naked and they are creative, unpredictable and FILTHY. Love that dichotomy."

Gentleman in the streets, nasty between the sheets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who shits on positive behaviour and characteristics is to be avoided, by definition they are negative people.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Nice", such an insipid word isn't it? It's a sit-on-the-fence non-committal word, borderline disingenuous.

"Did you enjoy the Abstract works of art at the Halcyon Gallery?". Yes, it was...nice.

How was your Fab playdate, that was months in the planning? Oh, it was...nice.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"See for me personally nice is a bit bland. Nice. Surely there are more exciting words to use to describe someone?

But it's harmless. I think it means someone who is well... nice. Nothing bad to say about him. Polite. Never overly sexual or full of shit jokes. Kind and not offensive. Nice really.

This.

I don't want nice.

Yes. Give me a bit of a dick and I'm happy.

I want the whole dick!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"...He’s a little bit emancipated (nothing like the bloke in Motherland)... "

Tut tut.

He's truly awesome. Maybe one day you'll realise that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the above.

We men are not owed sex.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I don't have a huge problem with being called nice. I am nice, and don't see it as the pejorative that some people think it is, but appreciate you might choose/prefer/hope someone to use a different adjective in some circumstances!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have great experiences with ‘nice guys’. The kind who open doors and stop you from crossing the road without looking. They love their Mums, are friendly to people serving in shops.

But get them naked and they are creative, unpredictable and FILTHY. Love that dichotomy.

Gentleman in the streets, nasty between the sheets

Exactly

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

I think it has probably been said... but "nice" should be a baseline. Everyone should be "nice" and then add the awesome bits on top. After all, the antonym of nice is nasty (or awful). And that's not something that humans should be.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I think it has probably been said... but "nice" should be a baseline. Everyone should be "nice" and then add the awesome bits on top. After all, the antonym of nice is nasty (or awful). And that's not something that humans should be."

But being nasty is so much fun.

Nasty Nick

Dirty Den

Nice Norman….

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

"I have great experiences with ‘nice guys’. The kind who open doors and stop you from crossing the road without looking. They love their Mums, are friendly to people serving in shops.

But get them naked and they are creative, unpredictable and FILTHY. Love that dichotomy.

Gentleman in the streets, nasty between the sheets

Exactly

Was brought up with if you can't be nice don't be anything.

Matters not one jot if I am called nice

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

But being nasty is so much fun.

Nasty Nick

Dirty Den

Nice Norman….

Den was Dirty. That's not the opposite to nice

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

But being nasty is so much fun.

Nasty Nick

Dirty Den

Nice Norman….

Den was Dirty. That's not the opposite to nice

Yeah but not Dirty in a fun or muddy way.

He was a proper wrong un!

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

But being nasty is so much fun.

Nasty Nick

Dirty Den

Nice Norman….

Den was Dirty. That's not the opposite to nice

Yeah but not Dirty in a fun or muddy way.

He was a proper wrong un!"

Aww man. Wikipedia did not tell me that.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Nice isn’t an exciting adjective but it does cover all bases

I like ‘delightful’

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Nice isn’t an exciting adjective but it does cover all bases

I like ‘delightful’ "

Call me what you like if you're sucking chocolate out my arsehole

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"Nice isn’t an exciting adjective but it does cover all bases

I like ‘delightful’

Call me what you like if you're sucking chocolate out my arsehole

And this is why FB does nothing for me

Bill Jones from the village page never said things like this !!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Nice isn’t an exciting adjective but it does cover all bases

I like ‘delightful’

Call me what you like if you're sucking chocolate out my arsehole

And this is why FB does nothing for me

Bill Jones from the village page never said things like this !! "

Maybe I should spice that page up, I'd get an instant ban though

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"Nice isn’t an exciting adjective but it does cover all bases

I like ‘delightful’

Call me what you like if you're sucking chocolate out my arsehole

And this is why FB does nothing for me

Bill Jones from the village page never said things like this !!

Maybe I should spice that page up, I'd get an instant ban though

Why do you think I left

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Nice isn’t an exciting adjective but it does cover all bases

I like ‘delightful’

Call me what you like if you're sucking chocolate out my arsehole

And this is why FB does nothing for me

Bill Jones from the village page never said things like this !!

Maybe I should spice that page up, I'd get an instant ban though

Why do you think I left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In public I am happy to play the grey, nice man, who no one really talks about at all. If you do get to know me, unlikely, but if you do you'd better brace yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I don’t know but wanted to be part of this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have great experiences with ‘nice guys’. The kind who open doors and stop you from crossing the road without looking. They love their Mums, are friendly to people serving in shops.

But get them naked and they are creative, unpredictable and FILTHY. Love that dichotomy."

I love you for using "dichotomy"

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"I don't have a huge problem with being called nice. I am nice, and don't see it as the pejorative that some people think it is, but appreciate you might choose/prefer/hope someone to use a different adjective in some circumstances!"

You are, I’ve met you and you’re nice and funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Somebody who puts the toilet seat down "

A slight tangent I’m sorry, but why do so many people not put the toilet lid down also? It’s not there to prop the cistern up, go to the toilet, put the seat and lid down when finished please and thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Note to self: don’t deviate from forum topic

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