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Dogging etiquette

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

So attempted dogging again tonight at my local spot to me Wigan and no dice I don’t know if I’m doing something wrong. Im very new to dogging and I’m so used to the club scene could anyone help me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give the dog a bone.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Patience needed. Observe and learn.

As most people are not mutually compatible with most other people, it takes time to find the right matches. And single men are not in short supply, so you need realistic expectations and not to be pushy. Or, take a partner/arrange in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s fucking freezing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s fucking freezing"

Where there's a will, there's a way.

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle


"It’s fucking freezing

Where there's a will, there's a way."

Where there’s a will there’s a relative LOL.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

There’s no arse sniffing in this is there?? Asking for a friend…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So attempted dogging again tonight at my local spot to me Wigan and no dice I don’t know if I’m doing something wrong. Im very new to dogging and I’m so used to the club scene could anyone help me out"

^Wigan peer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where there other people there too, it makes it easier. (Ie Not just yòu in a layby with your pants down)

Would guess dogging is mostly a spectator sport unless you have previously messaged people to meet? Possibly not the free for all porn makes us think it is. Possibly? I dont really know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The black clad occupants of any white car with yellow fluorescent stripes on the side, and a blue light on the roof, is always up for dogging.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

You need to make sure everyone knows you're there and ready to party. When you arrive, beep your horn for 10 seconds continuously then flash your lights 15 times. Make sure you've got your cock out ready for the women who'll be swarming all over you.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Just walk up to any car window in the vicinity furiously masturbating to show you mean business. NB don’t try this in Tesco though like I did…

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Launceston

And leave your engine running & headlights on full beam when parked up.... apparently that goes down well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok op a serious answer never tryed dogging but I would presume the rule are as followed

1 be polite

2 be curtise

3 wait your turn without bargain in

4 rap your tool

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By *ewisbi76Man
over a year ago

west edinburgh


"Where there other people there too, it makes it easier.....Would guess dogging is mostly a spectator sport unless you have previously messaged people to meet? "

This is true. Much easier to prearrange to meet people. People often update their profile status to attract interest and you can arrange a time ,place and swap enough informtion that you feel comfortable

most dogging sites are also gay cruising sites. You're much more likely to be propositioned by a guy than a couple/female.

Once a site gets a reputation they're often very busy with people just sat in their cars and get an occasional visit from the police. its also more and more common for groups of young'uns to hang about videoing people, a real problem recently, had a meet cancelled a couple of months ago due to a corsa full of neds videoing everyone sat in the car park.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So attempted dogging again tonight at my local spot to me Wigan and no dice I don’t know if I’m doing something wrong. Im very new to dogging and I’m so used to the club scene could anyone help me out"

Don't let the dog use its teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did it go ?

Was Nora there again ?

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By *obajxMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"It’s fucking freezing"

"Freezing"

That's an unusual name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s fucking freezing

"Freezing"

That's an unusual name"

You’ve not met her sister, roasting

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

Thanks for the advice was curious and I’m guessing I was going at the wrong times as last night there were a couple there but the first time I went there was no one there

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Always take your DoggingBlanket™®

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By *nubisIsisCouple
over a year ago

Field Of Reeds

Well we have been having the issue of leering guys or those that hover. But at the moment we think our spot by us is dead because it’s constantly advertised on here. So we are thinking about another spot closer to us as it’s a shame as we enjoyed our original spot

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"Well we have been having the issue of leering guys or those that hover. But at the moment we think our spot by us is dead because it’s constantly advertised on here. So we are thinking about another spot closer to us as it’s a shame as we enjoyed our original spot"

It is difficult. If a good spot gets too well known it just attracts the wrong sort of attention. But then you find somewhere that could be a good place, but nobody knows about it and thee is nobody going there. So you tell a few folk that you know, and it's fine for a while. Then the word gets out and it's back to the wanking dead turning up...

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By *aughty-couple1980Couple
over a year ago

wigan


"Thanks for the advice was curious and I’m guessing I was going at the wrong times as last night there were a couple there but the first time I went there was no one there"

Also take into account that the couple that was out at that spot has age restrictions as your almost same age as our children so not all blokes that go dogging are for us we also like comunication through fab before we put on any show

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

There are places not too far from Wigan, pretty rural. But not going to say much more. They're widely known about online and appear very active.

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By *nubisIsisCouple
over a year ago

Field Of Reeds


"There are places not too far from Wigan, pretty rural. But not going to say much more. They're widely known about online and appear very active."

That’s the problem we have honestly even though they are advertised constantly they are dead still but oh well

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By *nubisIsisCouple
over a year ago

Field Of Reeds


"Thanks for the advice was curious and I’m guessing I was going at the wrong times as last night there were a couple there but the first time I went there was no one there

Also take into account that the couple that was out at that spot has age restrictions as your almost same age as our children so not all blokes that go dogging are for us we also like comunication through fab before we put on any show "

We understand and are the same but if it’s someone’s first time like the OPs then should really help them a bit instead of making snarky comments

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"There are places not too far from Wigan, pretty rural. But not going to say much more. They're widely known about online and appear very active.

That’s the problem we have honestly even though they are advertised constantly they are dead still but oh well"

Hmmmmm. If you cross the border from Wigan into one of the adjoining towns and take to the hills? It LOOKS busy on occasions I've driven past or stopped with my FWB (we don't go dogging, but often stop in that sort of area together).

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By *nubisIsisCouple
over a year ago

Field Of Reeds


"There are places not too far from Wigan, pretty rural. But not going to say much more. They're widely known about online and appear very active.

That’s the problem we have honestly even though they are advertised constantly they are dead still but oh well

Hmmmmm. If you cross the border from Wigan into one of the adjoining towns and take to the hills? It LOOKS busy on occasions I've driven past or stopped with my FWB (we don't go dogging, but often stop in that sort of area together)."

We will definitely look into that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure to pick up your shit and put in bin.

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By *eedsanewusernameMan
over a year ago

Mainly under the bed...


"It’s fucking freezing

Where there's a will, there's a way."

Where there's a willy there's a way, but if it's freezing said willy usually tries to hide inside your own body...like a second belly button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't piss on too many lampposts and always carry poo bags just in case.

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By *nubisIsisCouple
over a year ago

Field Of Reeds


"Don't piss on too many lampposts and always carry poo bags just in case."

That’s brilliant

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By *nubisIsisCouple
over a year ago

Field Of Reeds

So we had these 2 guys last night scared most off one kept bouncing in and out of the car park constantly. The other parked dead close to my car then gave me like a death stare. Then he proceeded to follow me as I left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The dogging season is not officially open yet usually starts around beginning of May then if we’re lucky enough to have an Indian summer it can go on until mid late October, I’m not actually going out yet but there’s plenty of preparation work that can be done beforehand checking on lube and condom supplies, keeping active and stretching daily, checking batteries in your torch etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would recommend that you carry a flashlight and blink it in the eyes of the woman who is ready to submit to you. Six times for a blowjob, ten times for penetration and thirty times for anal.

When I go dogging I do not like to be spoken to I much prefer the flashlight.

Also, make sure to compliment her footwear.

Please do not take my advice seriously.

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By *nubisIsisCouple
over a year ago

Field Of Reeds


"I would recommend that you carry a flashlight and blink it in the eyes of the woman who is ready to submit to you. Six times for a blowjob, ten times for penetration and thirty times for anal.

When I go dogging I do not like to be spoken to I much prefer the flashlight.

Also, make sure to compliment her footwear.

Please do not take my advice seriously.

"

That’s funny haha

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By *nubisIsisCouple
over a year ago

Field Of Reeds

The guy last night that kept bouncing in and out of the spot last night did scare a fair few people off

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

Thanks to those that gave some good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dogging is very much a spectator sport.

If your lucky enough to find a couple playing, then certainly watch. you might even play with your knob but dont expect to get your Nat King.

If on the even rarer event that they invite you to join them then you truly have struck lucky.

But don't go with any expectation and you wont be dissapointed.

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Dogging is very much a spectator sport.

If your lucky enough to find a couple playing, then certainly watch. you might even play with your knob but dont expect to get your Nat King.

If on the even rarer event that they invite you to join them then you truly have struck lucky.

But don't go with any expectation and you wont be dissapointed."

Oh I never have gone with any expectation as if it happens it happens you know haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did it go ?

Was Nora there again ? "

Can someone reply my existential question?

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By *eantwentytwentytwoMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Lol

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

Virtually all of the dogging meets i have been to are prearranged

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Virtually all of the dogging meets i have been to are prearranged "

I might have to start doing that as went up today and got nothing but abuse from a couple

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