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By *asycouple1971 OP   Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Do you send face pics when someone asks for one?

How do you respond?

This person asking is not verified so thinking they might be fake or just pic collectors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your choice, but if someone who isn’t at least photo verified, asked for one without sending one first I’d decline. Been caught out before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t send in that scenario

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Do you send face pics when someone asks for one?

How do you respond?

This person asking is not verified so thinking they might be fake or just pic collectors."

Two questions.

Who made the first contact - you or them?

Are you actually interested in the profile or not?

A

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Only After a good few msgs and the banter is good,

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Only After a good few msgs and the banter is good, "

^^ I concur!

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By *iPythonMan
over a year ago

In my pants

I make a call if I think it’s going somewhere or I think they are genuine.

In the scenario you describe OP, probably not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only after we have exchanged quite a few messages and I'm interested in them.

I do think people who have their face photos in public display are very brave!

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

If interested and they send one when they ask sure no problem but if someone with no pics asks they get politely told no until they provide one of there own with proof like the daily newspaper in it

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Only after we have exchanged quite a few messages and I'm interested in them.

I do think people who have their face photos in public display are very brave!"

I don't think them necessarily brave. It's all personal choice but I'm always a little worried about discretion.

It's great that they have no hang ups about being easily identified on a swingers site, but others may feel differently and require a more discreet approach.

Not putting everyone into the same basket, but if they're not worried about their own privacy how much will they worry about yours?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only after we have exchanged quite a few messages and I'm interested in them.

I do think people who have their face photos in public display are very brave!

I don't think them necessarily brave. It's all personal choice but I'm always a little worried about discretion.

It's great that they have no hang ups about being easily identified on a swingers site, but others may feel differently and require a more discreet approach.

**Not putting everyone into the same basket, but if they're not worried about their own privacy how much will they worry about yours?**

A"

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Do you send face pics when someone asks for one?

How do you respond?

This person asking is not verified so thinking they might be fake or just pic collectors.

Two questions.

Who made the first contact - you or them?

Are you actually interested in the profile or not?

A"

Two very important questions

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We only send face pictures if we're going to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely send face pictures.

Unless you've peaked my interest it ain't happening.

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By *r_GreyscaleMan
over a year ago

North Hertfordshire

Love it when you send a face pic and then the chat just ends! Subtle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is everybody who doesn’t have verifications supposed to be fake or a picture collector? I better step it up, send nudes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I think it’s a genuine request I’ll send one, if I can see there’s first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love it when you send a face pic and then the chat just ends! Subtle "

Wait what?!?

I thought they'd just got really busy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love it when you send a face pic and then the chat just ends! Subtle "

They’re allowed to change their minds….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love it when you send a face pic and then the chat just ends! Subtle

Wait what?!?

I thought they'd just got really busy. "

I like to believe that cos that’s happened to me before I had a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 times out of 10, I’ll just send a face pic with the first message just so they don’t have to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A face picture could be anyone's faces. Unless you meet no one would be any the wiser.

We only send one when we are seriously considering a meet.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I rarely send face pictures.

Unless you've peaked my interest it ain't happening. "

•

Ahem, "piqued". Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly never but if its someone I've chatted with for a while then i might, but very reluctantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wait for the Guy to send me a face pic if he does then great if not well tbh thats fine to unless I'm looking to meet him

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I wouldn’t continue to chat to someone without seeing one, I have mine on my profile, but appreciate some can’t/won’t do that, but I’m not going to expend a huge amount of effort talking to a cleavage (I save that for the pub)

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

bristol

If someone asks for a face pic they must send one or two first then I'll respond with mine if I'll interested. If they're not verified it depends on how long they've been on the site

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By *aximum_funMan
over a year ago

West Herts

Most of the (single woman) profiles that I see say something along the lines of "no face pic no reply" so I'm quite surprised by the number of people in this thread that don't expect to exchange those early in the conversation.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

I only send a face pic when i want to deter someone from ever contacting me again

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Unverified I wouldn't be talking to them let alone sending photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask! Don't ask you don't get people.

I also send on account of being a handsome son of a bitch that only sometimes has women say 'you look young' - yeah well sorry I'm not wrinkled to the max looking gaunt and ill you precious angel face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unless I plan on licking their peen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't send one if they're unverified but if we've been chatting a while and think it could end up going somewhere, I'll send one so they're not too invested if they don't find me attractive and if they want to send one back, it's up to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inconsistent in my replies.. very dependent on my mood. However I do think it's important to know early on if you find that face attractive (both ways). I usually do the autodelete when read... irrelevant really as can't imagine anyone wanting to collect it!

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By *tranger swings 69Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"I only send a face pic when i want to deter someone from ever contacting me again "

Hahahahaha tickled me this

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By *tranger swings 69Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

We only send them after a bit of message tennis and all seems to be going well, no chance would we send to a blank and or unverified account

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Actually, face pic Friday

Send them to any old Tom dick or Harry on a Friday !!!

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

I have to be fairly interested in somebody to be motivated enough to send a face pic. I'm a fiercely private person, so if I'm asked for a face pic in early stages of a chat it sets off alarm bells tbh

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By *asycouple1971 OP   Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Thanks all.

Will see how it goes before we send a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the (single woman) profiles that I see say something along the lines of "no face pic no reply" so I'm quite surprised by the number of people in this thread that don't expect to exchange those early in the conversation."

Mine specifically says 'no face pix'... If I'm asked for a face pix, or get sent one unprompted , its almost a guarantee that the conversation will never develop into anything more meaningful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I prefer not to see them.

In my head they are super hot as well as funny, then they send it and it's just eugh. Then you have to phase the conversation out which is always awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I prefer not to see them.

In my head they are super hot as well as funny, then they send it and it's just eugh. Then you have to phase the conversation out which is always awkward. "

Especially when people say 'so what do you think' [of my photo]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I prefer not to see them.

In my head they are super hot as well as funny, then they send it and it's just eugh. Then you have to phase the conversation out which is always awkward.

Especially when people say 'so what do you think' [of my photo] "

Oh I hate those people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I prefer not to see them.

In my head they are super hot as well as funny, then they send it and it's just eugh. Then you have to phase the conversation out which is always awkward. "

This is the worst thing ever , especially when you already kinda like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I prefer not to see them.

In my head they are super hot as well as funny, then they send it and it's just eugh. Then you have to phase the conversation out which is always awkward. "

Ouch!

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Sometimes I prefer not to see them.

In my head they are super hot as well as funny, then they send it and it's just eugh. Then you have to phase the conversation out which is always awkward.

Especially when people say 'so what do you think' [of my photo] "

Yes

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

If I'm chatting with intention and the chat is going okay, I'm a fan of unceremoniously swapping faces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I prefer not to see them.

In my head they are super hot as well as funny, then they send it and it's just eugh. Then you have to phase the conversation out which is always awkward.

Ouch! "

Moral of the story.. Don't send a face pic

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

I've been caught out too many times

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I send in return to someone asking, who sends their face pic - if matched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always like to swap face pics quite early on. I don’t want to be wasting each others time if it turns out there’s no attraction.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live


"We always like to swap face pics quite early on. I don’t want to be wasting each others time if it turns out there’s no attraction. "

This and the auto delete is handy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not photo verified but that’s my choice, I am verified. I don’t believe you can treat people like they are fake unless proved otherwise. There are people who aren’t tech savvy, or who have issues like dyslexia or dyspraxia which means they can’t work things out like others can. Have a heart & give them your mug shot, they may then just block you lol

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I dont have that problem! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I prefer not to see them.

In my head they are super hot as well as funny, then they send it and it's just eugh. Then you have to phase the conversation out which is always awkward.

Ouch!

Moral of the story.. Don't send a face pic "

Fiiiiiine... Dick pic it is then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always like to swap face pics quite early on. I don’t want to be wasting each others time if it turns out there’s no attraction. "

^ looks like Megan Fox

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Do you send face pics when someone asks for one?

How do you respond?

This person asking is not verified so thinking they might be fake or just pic collectors."

Not straight away...but if I like what I see I usually do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the profile and if they are verified Etc .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to share a photo if its mutual, we all see each others faves in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only after we have exchanged quite a few messages and I'm interested in them.

I do think people who have their face photos in public display are very brave!

I don't think them necessarily brave. It's all personal choice but I'm always a little worried about discretion.

It's great that they have no hang ups about being easily identified on a swingers site, but others may feel differently and require a more discreet approach.

Not putting everyone into the same basket, but if they're not worried about their own privacy how much will they worry about yours?

A"

Good point. I also would hate to be approached when out in the street if I was with my children for example.

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