FabSwingers.com forum: What do you look for before a meet ?

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over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Compatility

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By *eff4000Man
over a year ago

Camberley

Big jubbly norks

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Ill let you know when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Escape route

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Someone who interests me.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

My car keys

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

The duct tape and rope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The duct tape and rope "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowadays? My will to meet, very much non-existent these days

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"Nowadays? My will to meet, very much non-existent these days"

Same here

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By *edstockings2Couple
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

That it is a genuine couple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope.

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By *inkyKissCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Recent verifications and pics.

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By *eff4000Man
over a year ago

Camberley

"Nowadays? My will to meet, very much non-existent these days

Same here

Says the two ladies with big jubbly norks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction

Sexual compatibility

Personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Criminal record check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fanny and tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mojo

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Chemistry and compatability.

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By *overs4evaCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Good banter and same filthy interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What more than a heart beat do you need!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Chemistry, compatibility, and usually a recommendation from someone I already know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beautiful, rich, huuuuuuuuge... tracts of land

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Attraction and chemistry

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Hope. "

Lovely girl

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Attraction chemistry and a sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction and a great personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That she's real and not a group of guys waiting in a room to rob me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beautiful, rich, huuuuuuuuge... tracts of land"

I have none of those things can you lower your expectations a little please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beautiful, rich, huuuuuuuuge... tracts of land

I have none of those things can you lower your expectations a little please "

I'd rather make them even higher. Gorgeous black hair, biteable bum, witty, charming and looks absolutely delicious in a red outfit with fishnets

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Beautiful, rich, huuuuuuuuge... tracts of land

I have none of those things can you lower your expectations a little please

I'd rather make them even higher. Gorgeous black hair, biteable bum, witty, charming and looks absolutely delicious in a red outfit with fishnets

Do you know I’ve been admiring that ass all day… and yours Yule, obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beautiful, rich, huuuuuuuuge... tracts of land

I have none of those things can you lower your expectations a little please

I'd rather make them even higher. Gorgeous black hair, biteable bum, witty, charming and looks absolutely delicious in a red outfit with fishnets

Do you know I’ve been admiring that ass all day… and yours Yule, obviously

But did you fab it though?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Beautiful, rich, huuuuuuuuge... tracts of land

I have none of those things can you lower your expectations a little please

I'd rather make them even higher. Gorgeous black hair, biteable bum, witty, charming and looks absolutely delicious in a red outfit with fishnets

Do you know I’ve been admiring that ass all day… and yours Yule, obviously

But did you fab it though?"

If I could’ve fabbed it 1000 times I would’ve

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By *ornyHunk80Man
over a year ago

Watford

Tits and a pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beautiful, rich, huuuuuuuuge... tracts of land

I have none of those things can you lower your expectations a little please

I'd rather make them even higher. Gorgeous black hair, biteable bum, witty, charming and looks absolutely delicious in a red outfit with fishnets

Do you know I’ve been admiring that ass all day… and yours Yule, obviously

Glad you've given us the pleasure of yours as well

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Someone that meshes well with me

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Beautiful, rich, huuuuuuuuge... tracts of land

I have none of those things can you lower your expectations a little please

I'd rather make them even higher. Gorgeous black hair, biteable bum, witty, charming and looks absolutely delicious in a red outfit with fishnets

Do you know I’ve been admiring that ass all day… and yours Yule, obviously

Glad you've given us the pleasure of yours as well

Why thank you gorgeous. I thought I would do some festive, nun-like pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beautiful, rich, huuuuuuuuge... tracts of land

I have none of those things can you lower your expectations a little please

I'd rather make them even higher. Gorgeous black hair, biteable bum, witty, charming and looks absolutely delicious in a red outfit with fishnets

Wait! I know someone who fits that description

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beautiful, rich, huuuuuuuuge... tracts of land

I have none of those things can you lower your expectations a little please

I'd rather make them even higher. Gorgeous black hair, biteable bum, witty, charming and looks absolutely delicious in a red outfit with fishnets

Do you know I’ve been admiring that ass all day… and yours Yule, obviously

Aww thank you lovely

, you’re new one is fab too

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

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I'd say, as a general rule, we aren't attracted to meets, we're put off meets.

That doesn't mean we meet everyone we're not out off by, but when we're looking for a meet it's very much a case of finding someone who hasn't put us off, rather than finding someone we like.

We're interested in a lot of guys but they do things to put us off!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Beautiful, rich, huuuuuuuuge... tracts of land

I have none of those things can you lower your expectations a little please

I'd rather make them even higher. Gorgeous black hair, biteable bum, witty, charming and looks absolutely delicious in a red outfit with fishnets

Do you know I’ve been admiring that ass all day… and yours Yule, obviously

Aww thank you lovely

, you’re new one is fab too

Thank you. I’ve been a playful bird tonight

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Connection. Mutual interest. Physical and mental attraction. Patience. Willingness to engage with the sexual performance difficulties rooted in my gender dysphoria and historical relationship problems.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

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I'd say, as a general rule, we aren't attracted to meets, we're put off meets.

That doesn't mean we meet everyone we're not out off by, but when we're looking for a meet it's very much a case of finding someone who hasn't put us off, rather than finding someone we like.

We're interested in a lot of guys but they do things to put us off! "

I rather like this negative approach. It has the merit of novelty. Does everyone begin with 100, and you mert those who still have, say, 90 points after closer inspection?

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By *orties CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Online, interested in my profile, replies to or initiates a message and gets back in reasonable time, actually interested in a meet.

In rl GSOH willing to meet for coffee first, clean appearance and clothes, can say her name, nice chemistry, wants to take it on to a drink maybe.

Zipless fuck later lol, the one where your clothes fall off and you do oral sex right away lol..

Alternative music friendly would be a bonus

Reality, well most guys would meet a ham sandwich in Ugg boots and hoop earrings, mainly because it has flaps hehe.

(I do like flaps but no flaps at all is fine as well lol!)

"Comment your filthy depraved sick lusts and loser fantasies below

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Comment below "

Attraction

Missy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has this happened to anyone?

"That she's real and not a group of hairy arsed guys waiting in a room to rob or bum me lol"

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

That they're single ,we get on well and fancy each other .

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"Nowadays? My will to meet, very much non-existent these days

Same here

Says the two ladies with big jubbly norks

And your point is?

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"Comment below

I'd say, as a general rule, we aren't attracted to meets, we're put off meets.

That doesn't mean we meet everyone we're not out off by, but when we're looking for a meet it's very much a case of finding someone who hasn't put us off, rather than finding someone we like.

We're interested in a lot of guys but they do things to put us off!

I rather like this negative approach. It has the merit of novelty. Does everyone begin with 100, and you mert those who still have, say, 90 points after closer inspection?"

We don't score them, but there's some traits we avoid.

Mrs is dominant, and phrasesike "ill fuck her", "will your guy let me

...", or anything to do with foreplay will put us off

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By *eff4000Man
over a year ago

Camberley

"Nowadays? My will to meet, very much non-existent these days

Same here

Says the two ladies with big jubbly norks

And your point is?

That I love big jubbly norks and I'm sad you've both lost the will to meet lol

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

A pen and paper so I can write down where I'm going

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

What's a "Meet"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way the site works an age range eg 18-30 is not a preference but a STRICT EXCLUSION RULE for anyone OVER 30

So the way that works, setting a RULE, will further minimise YOUR user chances of meeting anyone suitable eg someone that is older than 30 but still looks good enough to just as well be 30 or under and looks allright lol

Setting your age range to 18-99 gets around that and you can make your own mind up about them if y'all make contact.

The shortcut to seeing if someone has set their ages so strictly as to exclude YOU/USERS is the WINK function. Winks won't be accepted if they break the set recipient age rule.' Its one way to find out anyway. (FRIEND requests work the same way.)

So I am only able to consider women that have set their preferences to allow my message/wink to get to them.

I'd also say its 60 / 40 read to unread sent messages in my sent box.

So I can ALSO only expect to contact women who do actually pay attention to their inboxes.

Age is a pretty blunt edged decision rule, though there are a few better ones on the tips and advice area.

So be careful how you set an age preference.

Also if you can't be assed to deal with an inbox wtf are you doing here? exhibitionism? Nothing wrong with that BUT there could be a category for ONLINE EXHIBITIONISM ONLY to cut down on wasted messaging.

So its not just, what you look for, but who you can actually realistically reach through the site.

"Comment below /and someone may see your post, get interested in your witty input, piccy and profile and good sexy santa things may happen lol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Where all the fire exits are.

Unattended packages.

Men reading a news paper with eye holes cut out.

People in sunglasses touching their ear.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beautiful, rich, huuuuuuuuge... tracts of land

I have none of those things can you lower your expectations a little please

I'd rather make them even higher. Gorgeous black hair, biteable bum, witty, charming and looks absolutely delicious in a red outfit with fishnets

Wait! I know someone who fits that description

Really? They're normally so hard to come by but sure they're worth it

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

A suitably quiet and secluded location.

A bath

lots of ice

Someone with both kidneys

Profit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

proof of life

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Dat ass

LvM

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Respect.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Physical attraction and chemistry

They absolutely have to be drama free and not take it too seriously.

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales

"Comment below "

I Always look for oncoming traffic …….

remember your green cross code people!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice, straight forward..... not weird. So much weird haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A criminal record.

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By *illie fitMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Making sure I’m not dreaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A criminal record."

I’ve always wanted to f the police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks and personality and we need to get on before we get off

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By *ralextacyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Compatible, honest, naughty, suggestive

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

A pulse

just joking. For me this indefinable thing called chemistry

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Compatibility and a connection.

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By *lack4WhiteFemMan
over a year ago

Closer 2 U

Get Her to laugh ... rest is easier.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Down to earth, realistic, original (no copy and paste messages)and most of all fun make us laugh its a great place to start....

Sweet

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

2 tits a hole and a heart beat, anything else is a bonus

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