FabSwingers.com forum: The swingling lifestyle.

By *ultured Gent16 OP Man
over a year ago

close.

Maybe it’s been asked before but I’m genuinely curious as to different peoples reasons for being here.

Is it because you’ve been hurt and won’t trust anyone to get close again and this fulfils a great many needs within a safe environment.

Or is it that the aspect of sharing with full amounts of trust between partners that appeals.

Are your needs not being met within a relationship that you don’t want to lose, so seek escape and companionship within the confines of this site?

I’m sure there are a great many reasons that I’ve not listed but I’m a nosy bugger.

For me.

It’s a trust thing.

Letting people close is an issue for me.

What about you?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

To have some fun basically, we both enjoy sex, making new friends so why not.

Mrs

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I cannot have enough sex within conventional relationship structures.

That's it.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Maybe it’s been asked before but I’m genuinely curious as to different peoples reasons for being here.

Is it because you’ve been hurt and won’t trust anyone to get close again and this fulfils a great many needs within a safe environment.

Or is it that the aspect of sharing with full amounts of trust between partners that appeals.

Are your needs not being met within a relationship that you don’t want to lose, so seek escape and companionship within the confines of this site?

I’m sure there are a great many reasons that I’ve not listed but I’m a nosy bugger.

For me.

It’s a trust thing.

Letting people close is an issue for me.

What about you? "

You forgot those people with fragile self esteem and egos that use Fab as a means of validating their existence through posting photos in the vein hope of being liked, or who obtain a sense of value by being nothing but a fuck hole!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Maybe it’s been asked before but I’m genuinely curious as to different peoples reasons for being here.

Is it because you’ve been hurt and won’t trust anyone to get close again and this fulfils a great many needs within a safe environment.

Or is it that the aspect of sharing with full amounts of trust between partners that appeals.

Are your needs not being met within a relationship that you don’t want to lose, so seek escape and companionship within the confines of this site?

I’m sure there are a great many reasons that I’ve not listed but I’m a nosy bugger.

For me.

It’s a trust thing.

Letting people close is an issue for me.

What about you? "

I'm just here for the friendships we make.

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By *ultured Gent16 OP Man
over a year ago

close.

"Maybe it’s been asked before but I’m genuinely curious as to different peoples reasons for being here.

Is it because you’ve been hurt and won’t trust anyone to get close again and this fulfils a great many needs within a safe environment.

Or is it that the aspect of sharing with full amounts of trust between partners that appeals.

Are your needs not being met within a relationship that you don’t want to lose, so seek escape and companionship within the confines of this site?

I’m sure there are a great many reasons that I’ve not listed but I’m a nosy bugger.

For me.

It’s a trust thing.

Letting people close is an issue for me.

What about you?

That was one particular train if thought I had not envisioned.

But I guess it’s relevant…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe it’s been asked before but I’m genuinely curious as to different peoples reasons for being here.

Is it because you’ve been hurt and won’t trust anyone to get close again and this fulfils a great many needs within a safe environment.

Or is it that the aspect of sharing with full amounts of trust between partners that appeals.

Are your needs not being met within a relationship that you don’t want to lose, so seek escape and companionship within the confines of this site?

I’m sure there are a great many reasons that I’ve not listed but I’m a nosy bugger.

For me.

It’s a trust thing.

Letting people close is an issue for me.

What about you?

Ah but all of that can be a part of a person's personal journey from somewhere to somewhere else. Not a bad thing particulary unless they get stuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the penis.. big ones, little ones, thin ones, fat ones.

All about the peen.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm more poly than swing if I'm honest. But I enjoy the general hedonism of the club scene and I've found some fantastic people through here. I don't care for the traditional monogamous codependant relationship structures and enjoy the freedom of the lifestyle I've chosen for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poorly matched sexual appetite and interests within the vanilla world. Perhaps idealistic but finding some form of relationship from the non-vanilla world would be wonderful.

Another is to push myself to get out of my own comfort zone more as I am very much an introvert.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Maybe it’s been asked before but I’m genuinely curious as to different peoples reasons for being here.

Is it because you’ve been hurt and won’t trust anyone to get close again and this fulfils a great many needs within a safe environment.

Or is it that the aspect of sharing with full amounts of trust between partners that appeals.

Are your needs not being met within a relationship that you don’t want to lose, so seek escape and companionship within the confines of this site?

I’m sure there are a great many reasons that I’ve not listed but I’m a nosy bugger.

For me.

It’s a trust thing.

Letting people close is an issue for me.

What about you?

That was one particular train if thought I had not envisioned.

But I guess it’s relevant…

Plenty of people use these types of sites to feed an exhibitionist streak but have no real intention of meeting others and don’t consider themselves swingers.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

"Maybe it’s been asked before but I’m genuinely curious as to different peoples reasons for being here.

Is it because you’ve been hurt and won’t trust anyone to get close again and this fulfils a great many needs within a safe environment.

Or is it that the aspect of sharing with full amounts of trust between partners that appeals.

Are your needs not being met within a relationship that you don’t want to lose, so seek escape and companionship within the confines of this site?

I’m sure there are a great many reasons that I’ve not listed but I’m a nosy bugger.

For me.

It’s a trust thing.

Letting people close is an issue for me.

What about you? "

I'm here because I heed more than my husband can give me sexually.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I am here because I enjoy meeting couples and being watched by hubby as his wife and I get to know each other better.

It has nothing to do with emotional needs/relationships etc - I just enjoy varied sex with interesting people.

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