FabSwingers.com forum: Longest 'hello' to fuck..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So theres a thread running about how quickly you make the decision, but I was wondering the opposite.. people lead busy lives these days, sometimes theres a lockdown

, some people like to build a rapport, a friendship, etc, so what is the longest you have gone, from first contact, to meeting someone for sex?

I think mine is about 2 years!!

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

"So theres a thread running about how quickly you make the decision, but I was wondering the opposite.. people lead busy lives these days, sometimes theres a lockdown

, some people like to build a rapport, a friendship, etc, so what is the longest you have gone, from first contact, to meeting someone for sex?

I think mine is about 2 years!!"

Ongoing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So theres a thread running about how quickly you make the decision, but I was wondering the opposite.. people lead busy lives these days, sometimes theres a lockdown

, some people like to build a rapport, a friendship, etc, so what is the longest you have gone, from first contact, to meeting someone for sex?

I think mine is about 2 years!!

Ongoing

So you haven't had any meets?

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Clocks still ticking away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clocks still ticking away!

Same here.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

About 3 months of contact, initially on here then off site till our calenders synced up

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"Clocks still ticking away!

Same here.

I have situational circumstances - what's your excuse!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’ve been seeing my Nigerian princess for 4 months now, and we’ve yet to do the deed

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would say about 6 or 7 years…

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Bit over 2.5 years.

saying hello in 2020 doesn't help

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

A long time. At least months. But I love the build-up.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

I generally have the attention span of a gnat so am only interested in local and if it doesn't happen quickly I lose interest. The very occasional exception is if the guy is sitting at the top of my 'to do' list but isn't within striking distance. Then I have been known to bide my time for months

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

About 20 years. Used to flirt with girl at school and we kept in contact. Met up with her long time after school for a drink. One thing led to another. We both felt we had missed out not taking further before

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

With rare exceptions if its gonna happen then pretty quickly x

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

6 months from her initial contact to consummation.

18 months from her initial contact to me finally telling her last night "no thank you".

Being a gentleman sometimes has its misgivings.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Some I've met some time ago... And it's never going to occur.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I started talking to someone on here in the spring of 2020, life got in the way and we lost touch. Started talking again earlier this year and it still took another 2 months to actually find out what he was like in bed.

Unfortunately life has got in the way again, but I do hope we can pick things back up when life settles down again.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Some I've met some time ago... And it's never going to occur."

But that's ok, I've got a friend from that... Which is the main thing.

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

I find if people genuinely want to meet, it can happen quite quickly. Unfortunately because of fake profiles it can be all your life, I was Catfished on here and it wasn't untill about 6 months that I realised.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"6 months from her initial contact to consummation.

18 months from her initial contact to me finally telling her last night "no thank you".

Being a gentleman sometimes has its misgivings."

If I understand this correctly, you split with someone last night? Hope you are ok xx

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Off the top of my head, longest I've gone from first contact to consummation is 12 years.

I recently thought I was going to get there with someone after 22 years, but it didn't work out.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

5 years. He took me out on a date we didn't have sex. Then due to circumstances we didn't meet for another 5 years for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clocks still ticking away!

Same here.

I have situational circumstances - what's your excuse!

I want to get to know someone properly before I have my first ever meet with somebody.

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
over a year ago

Durham

When it’s right and you always know when it’s right it’s going to happen pretty quickly

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Ours was probably 1½-2 years. I forget when we first got in contact (but I know when it all happened!)

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By *ilffadMan
over a year ago

swansea

24 years!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Hmmm a couple years I think for me

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

likely 9-12 months.

I forget when we first started talking, and they have had y accounts on here since then.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

2 years approx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably about a year or so, its tough when people live so far away. There's people I've been speaking to longer than that and we haven't nailed it down yet sigh.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"When it’s right and you always know when it’s right it’s going to happen pretty quickly "

Nooooooo. Often the opposite, lust is impatient when you’re not that fussy.

Life , timing and other partners- good ones are often polysaturated for a reason! And sometimes you choose not to rush.

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By *renchy19Man
over a year ago

Heathrow

About 5 years. When I was with my ex we used to hang out with her best mate and her husband. When I caught the ex over the side we stayed in touch and in time her and her husband broke up. One night we ended up in bed and we were fucking for about a year. My ex was none too pleased to find out I was fucking her mate!

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"I want to get to know someone properly before I have my first ever meet with somebody."

Ohh, first ever meet? Yeah, fair enough... no rush! Fingers crossed all goes well for you.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Just under four years, I checked our WA messages. Fuck knows how he put up with my intermittent waffling messaging style. How he still does.

It takes me some time to think I'd want to meet someone generally (rare exceptions obviously) and I'm a bit of a slow burner.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Probably about 3 yrs ...periodic messaging between us. It was so worth the wait!

Things just came together when it was right.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"6 months from her initial contact to consummation.

18 months from her initial contact to me finally telling her last night "no thank you".

Being a gentleman sometimes has its misgivings.

If I understand this correctly, you split with someone last night? Hope you are ok xx"

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Yes, it's all good, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Six years and counting !

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

Just a couple of months for me!

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