FabSwingers.com forum: Do you surprise yourself sometimes?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are you ever suprised at who you fancy?

You shouldn’t fancy them because they don’t fit your ‘type’, but somehow they do/did?

Is it their personality that did it or a physical thing?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

As K has said before, I don't really have a "type" (although glasses go a long way apparently

) but there's certainly people who've I've not been attracted to initially, that as I've got to know them and their personality better I've become more attracted to

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find it surprising when I fancy anyone at all.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I suprise myself constantly.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I don’t have a type so no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes sometimes. I'm usually drawn to feminine looking females, but occasionally I'm stopped in my tracks by a more masculine looking lady and I'm like WOW, its usually one sided so nothing happens but they stay in my mind

Mrs C

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

It's always been personalty for me so people vary greatly but the common denominator would be calm, kind and honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes sometimes. I'm usually drawn to feminine looking females, but occasionally I'm stopped in my tracks by a more masculine looking lady and I'm like WOW, its usually one sided so nothing happens but they stay in my mind

Mrs C "

Yes!!! That what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always find it surprising when I fancy anyone at all. "

This didn’t surprise me

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

All the time, it’s the fun bit of being clinically insane.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, sometimes I fancy myself In the mirror when I dress up. ??.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being able to make me laugh usually does the trick.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Personality and attitude and overall compatibility above anything else whilst of course orher factors will matter too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do, sometimes I fancy myself In the mirror when I dress up. ??."

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

I surprise myself all the time who I fancy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being able to make me laugh usually does the trick. "

Alas I’m All out of jokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not now.. in the past yes but i defo have a type now

... quirky misfits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. I’ve even had a moment of fancying a woman. Though the moment passes and I realise I’m just liking their style/energy/vibe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t have a type so no"

Not even a personality type?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah recently I’ve been reflecting on my “type” and realised that I always go for a certain kind of person based on their persona rather than looks.

It’s like this certain personality type over rides anything else (obvious health and looks are still important, but personality wins)

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I did suprise myself recently,I farted and it was so loud it made me jump.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Are you ever suprised at who you fancy?

You shouldn’t fancy them because they don’t fit your ‘type’, but somehow they do/did?

Is it their personality that did it or a physical thing?

More so in cases of why did I find them attractive/alluring in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if anything I'm anally fussy and stuck to the same type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do, sometimes I fancy myself In the mirror when I dress up. ??."

Relatable.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

I have a definite physical type but that is trumped by a guy that can make me laugh like a drain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do, sometimes I fancy myself In the mirror when I dress up. ??.

Relatable. "

Latest pic you've uploaded? Understandable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a definite physical type but that is trumped by a guy that can make me laugh like a drain"

I wanna plug your drain!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do, sometimes I fancy myself In the mirror when I dress up. ??.

Relatable. "

Wow Mrs Shiv is stunning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get or jump on this 'typically attractive' train. There's a big difference between finding someone attractive and being attracted to someone.

Every person I've been with looks different but one thing is the same, they have something in their personality I vibe with. Without that, I can't be attracted to anyone.

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