FabSwingers.com forum: The condom problem....

By *ustdaveHants OP Man
over a year ago

chippenham

So I was one of the lucky single guys that got a meet impromptu the other day to meet at a pub, we'd exchanged alot of messages and was quite clear it was just a social and there would definitely be no sex, I was happy with this grabbed my wallet slapped on the sauvage and off I popped.

Anyway one thing led to another back to hers and a couple of bottles in were in the bedroom and I'm happily performing oral she returned the favour.

THEN she says put a condom on to which I replied "where are they"?

She didn't have any........ And made out it was my duty to of had some and asked me to leave!!

So should of had some to hand?

And if ladies if this situation arrised with yourself would a wank be out of the question??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess if you weren't expecting more than a drink and a laugh them no but it's fab and there is always a chance it might become more so probably best to have some ready in future

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Why did you expect her to supply the condom?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I understand the annoyance there if you were under the assumption it was a social only. BUT yes, it's your responsibility to provide your own condoms. I wouldn't expect a woman I met to have a stock for all sizes, so I would have a few of my own on hand.

You live and learn OP. Sounds like the social went well so I'm sure you'll have another opportunity

LvM

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By *ralwizardMan
over a year ago

Thornaby

Yea iv had similar position... Even if she is hosting, always carry just in case

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

As you weren't expecting sex then I can understand why you didn't have them, although having socials turn into sex I'd always take some just incase.

I'd say it's both parties responsibility.

Mrs

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't wank men off who can't be bothered to pop to the shop for condoms.

I do have my own, but I have a conversation with the man to ask if he wants to use mine or prefers his own.

I've come across lots of men who think it's the other person's responsibility to put a condom on his penis.

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

A boy scout should always come prepared. Carry a condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you never provided condoms previously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't believe she should have put the onus 100% onto you to have had condoms on you. To start with as you said you believed it was just going to be a social and secondly why does she not have a stash seeing as you were at her house?

I have only met people at clubs and I always carry my own stash of condoms on me....I think it is not only wrong to leave it up the man to provide the condoms but actually quite rude to just expect a man to provide them.

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By *ustdaveHants OP Man
over a year ago

chippenham

Bad nanna the wank off was said in jest. Just my squaddie humour

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By *ustdaveHants OP Man
over a year ago

chippenham

"Have you never provided condoms previously

Always cover Mr lover but thought just a drink nothing more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I don't believe she should have put the onus 100% onto you to have had condoms on you. To start with as you said you believed it was just going to be a social and secondly why does she not have a stash seeing as you were at her house?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have sex during a social but if it was a sex meet I'd always take my own condoms.

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
over a year ago

Durham

Always having condoms is a good call.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"So I was one of the lucky single guys that got a meet impromptu the other day to meet at a pub, we'd exchanged alot of messages and was quite clear it was just a social and there would definitely be no sex, I was happy with this grabbed my wallet slapped on the sauvage and off I popped.

Anyway one thing led to another back to hers and a couple of bottles in were in the bedroom and I'm happily performing oral she returned the favour.

THEN she says put a condom on to which I replied "where are they"?

She didn't have any........ And made out it was my duty to of had some and asked me to leave!!

So should of had some to hand?

And if ladies if this situation arrised with yourself would a wank be out of the question??

"
. School boy error mate you should have had some condoms with you it’s not as if they would take up that much space in your trouser or jacket pockets is it

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By *ubikslongswordMan
over a year ago

East Grinstead

I can see the issue here, you weren't planning on anything happening so why would you take one?

On the other hand it's a social from a site we're we all love sex.

Personally I always carry at least one with me because you never know but not expect anything

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I think that there's a lesson to be learnt there, don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that there's a lesson to be learnt there, don't you? "

Yep, next time don't ask. Just wank off in her face.

Everyone's happy!

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Only you know your size though... so I'd say in order to avoid being either a) embarrassed or b)risk ripping a condom / discomfort that's supplied by someone else, what's the harm in having one in a wallet... just keep an eye on the expiry date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess moral of the story, be prepared for any eventualities. We live & learn.

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By *ustdaveHants OP Man
over a year ago

chippenham

"Only you know your size though... so I'd say in order to avoid being either a) embarrassed or b)risk ripping a condom / discomfort that's supplied by someone else, what's the harm in having one in a wallet... just keep an eye on the expiry date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always be prepared no mater what

And for me yes it would be out the question

I have a rule

If your not going to fuck me I am not going to suck or wank it

To meny guys play the oooo I forgot the condom can I just get a bj game

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I always have my own and prefer to use them, but will still ask if they have any with them.

Someone that turns up to any kind of meet from here with no protection thats a red flag that they don’t bother using if if they can get away with it. It takes up very little room in a pocket or wallet so to me it says you had none at home and don’t normally use them.

I also wouldn’t be buying any story that someone had just run out … if you have a high sex drive and regular sex thats something you keep stocked up when you see it get low, during a regular shop just like you would toothpaste or shampoo

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

OP do you carry tampons when you're out with a woman in case she needs them?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"OP do you carry tampons when you're out with a woman in case she needs them?"

That's not a legitimate comparison.

He wouldn't need to use a tampon himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP do you carry tampons when you're out with a woman in case she needs them?"

Implying it's only the woman that "needs" the condom?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"OP do you carry tampons when you're out with a woman in case she needs them?

Implying it's only the woman that "needs" the condom?

A menstruating woman wouldn't expect a man to have a tampon on him for her to use.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I am genuinely amazed that a guy wouldn’t bring his own condom. The idea of expecting a lady to provide them just blows my mind.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Piss poor planning prevented priapic performance?

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By *ubikslongswordMan
over a year ago

East Grinstead

"I am genuinely amazed that a guy wouldn’t bring his own condom. The idea of expecting a lady to provide them just blows my mind. "

It was a social, taking a condom to a social is a bit expecting more than a social isn't it?

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

Prior planning and preparation prevent piss poor performance

Since you in the forces you should know this

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

Did you thrash one off when you got home OP?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It was your duty to provide the condom.

Your wallet, that you grabbed, could have easily held condoms.

It’s not being presumptuous, it’s being prepared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously you weren’t expecting anything to happen but it is fab and you should have taken some just incase. You’re responsible for keeping yourself safe. We do keep condoms but would expect the guy to have his own. You shouldn’t have gone ahead without knowing if you’d be able to keep yourself protected or not.

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I am genuinely amazed that a guy wouldn’t bring his own condom. The idea of expecting a lady to provide them just blows my mind.

It was a social, taking a condom to a social is a bit expecting more than a social isn't it?"

Or like wearing removable layers on a spring day

If it stays cold then no harm done, but if you get lucky and the sun comes out you were prepared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am genuinely amazed that a guy wouldn’t bring his own condom. The idea of expecting a lady to provide them just blows my mind.

It was a social, taking a condom to a social is a bit expecting more than a social isn't it?"

If a man told me at a social that he'd brought condoms 'just in case', I'd leave.

A social is a social.

The OP and social woman should have stopped at a shop on the way back to her place. She had made it clear it was just a social and she should have been happy that he respected that.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Before you went back to hers there should have been a conversation regarding condoms.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I am genuinely amazed that a guy wouldn’t bring his own condom. The idea of expecting a lady to provide them just blows my mind.

It was a social, taking a condom to a social is a bit expecting more than a social isn't it?"

I always carry a condom. I would definitely take one on a social as you never know how these things will play out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before you went back to hers there should have been a conversation regarding condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

two to tango

two to be prepared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before you went back to hers there should have been a conversation regarding condoms.

Totally agree

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it Louis that said "chance favors only the prepared mind"...!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did you expect her to supply the condom?"

I dunno, I’m with the op on this one. *and just my own thought and opinions.

I’m out, probably wouldn’t have expected anything so I wouldn’t pick up condoms.

If I took them back to mine, that’s where the sexy sex happens and I’d want protection if I needed it in a not so planned situation.

So why not expect the same from a woman’s bedroom?

Op. No, something happened to didn’t plan on, it’s not your fault. Or hers for that matter.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We always carry some with us as my husband uses a particular brand and one size doesn’t fit all like others have said it’s best to be prepared..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also. I e been in that situation. It was a 20mins drive to a garage.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Why did you expect her to supply the condom?

I dunno, I’m with the op on this one. *and just my own thought and opinions.

I’m out, probably wouldn’t have expected anything so I wouldn’t pick up condoms.

If I took them back to mine, that’s where the sexy sex happens and I’d want protection if I needed it in a not so planned situation.

So why not expect the same from a woman’s bedroom?

Op. No, something happened to didn’t plan on, it’s not your fault. Or hers for that matter. "

Would you ask her if she had any before you went to hers?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

You should have popped to a shop or garage to get some.

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Why did you expect her to supply the condom?

I dunno, I’m with the op on this one. *and just my own thought and opinions.

I’m out, probably wouldn’t have expected anything so I wouldn’t pick up condoms.

If I took them back to mine, that’s where the sexy sex happens and I’d want protection if I needed it in a not so planned situation.

So why not expect the same from a woman’s bedroom?

Op. No, something happened to didn’t plan on, it’s not your fault. Or hers for that matter. "

For all we know the woman had a drawer full. Even if i had condoms in the drawer, if they hadn’t brought any there is a high chance i would still ask them to leave. Starting play with no regard for sexual safety as things progress would be a turn off for me.

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By *XZRMan
over a year ago

Highland

If she asked you to leave....you need to vet who you meet a little better.

Totally understand you should provide, not disputing that but asking you to leave just shows a pretty two faced attitude.... lesson learned and a bullet dodged.

If you've any self respect you'll not go running back with a wallet full of condoms.

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

Always have condoms, even if it is just a social. Never assume it’s the woman’s job to provide them.

Better to have them and not need them then need them and not have them.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I would have just used a sock or failing that if shes a bit dry some cling film!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"OP do you carry tampons when you're out with a woman in case she needs them?

Implying it's only the woman that "needs" the condom?

Actually it's the other way round.

If only the woman needed a condom then, sure, she should have them.

We only use our own (latex free) but the fact a bloke turned up without any would be a major red flag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should have popped to a shop or garage to get some.

I said something similar above!!

My story- She jumped in the car with me too, wanted to see me get all embarrassed asking for them at the window. It was hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did you expect her to supply the condom?

I dunno, I’m with the op on this one. *and just my own thought and opinions.

I’m out, probably wouldn’t have expected anything so I wouldn’t pick up condoms.

If I took them back to mine, that’s where the sexy sex happens and I’d want protection if I needed it in a not so planned situation.

So why not expect the same from a woman’s bedroom?

Op. No, something happened to didn’t plan on, it’s not your fault. Or hers for that matter.

But it did stop when the sex was on the cards didn’t it? A snog is not risking your health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did you expect her to supply the condom?

I dunno, I’m with the op on this one. *and just my own thought and opinions.

I’m out, probably wouldn’t have expected anything so I wouldn’t pick up condoms.

If I took them back to mine, that’s where the sexy sex happens and I’d want protection if I needed it in a not so planned situation.

So why not expect the same from a woman’s bedroom?

Op. No, something happened to didn’t plan on, it’s not your fault. Or hers for that matter.

Would you ask her if she had any before you went to hers? "

I don’t know. Did she say ‘fancy a drink at mine?’ No I would t have expected sex.

If she said ‘fancy sone fun at mine?’ I’d have probably made it clear, I have nothing.

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

Always gotta be prepared. I always have some but something nice about a guy who brings his own.

Bringing 1 condom to a social does not mean expectation, bring 10 however haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have a condom on me, I assume men always have a condom on them, especially with this kind of lifestyle as you never know.

I also go with the assumption that a social is never just a social, I am sure they do happen but majority of the time, I would assume play would commence.

However, I also have condoms at my house, a have a small drawer full of them (I have a husband and as both swing so "our" drawer.

I don't think it should just be down to the man to provide the condoms, obviously he should 100% but in this instance where the lady made it clear it was a social, she should have some available.

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

But it did stop when the sex was on the cards didn’t it? A snog is not risking your health.

He didn’t say they had a snog … they made it back to her house , then her bedroom and then as far as oral on each other. At which point she had to bring it up - the OP had given zero thought so far to condoms. And as an extra slap in the face was expecting to be finished off manually when sex wasn’t on the table.

From experience there are 3 categories of guys that don’t bring protection when meeting someone from fab - selfish and happy just to get his (red flag), wreckless with his sexual health (red flag), or cheating so can’t carry condoms around with him incase he forgets they are in his wallet (red flag)

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Dunno, based on your story, it sounds like there was at least one opportunity to go to a shop to quickly buy some. If “one thing led to another” and then you both actively left the pub to go back to hers, that’s when you should have broached the topic.

In any case, you learned a lesson we all do at some point. Always carry one just in case.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

"Also. I e been in that situation. It was a 20mins drive to a garage.

Was she worth the time and expense on petrol?!

For what it's worth I wouldn't turn up to a social in a pair of granny pants and without a condom (just in case as I don't want to risk being caught out). But as it was meant to just be a social she was a bit hard (fnar fnar) on you for not raiding her stash (again, I always have some at Chez Couga)

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I think a man should always have a condom in his wallet just like i always have one in my bag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But it did stop when the sex was on the cards didn’t it? A snog is not risking your health.

Ok, but she got to that stage aswell and gave zero thought to condoms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe this one just gets striked down as experience and learning…. To save debating ‘blame’ next time you know to always have the essentials ….wallet…phone….condom…food & water for 24 hours…..and a sleeping bag….

As the scouts say… always be prepared…. Dib dib dib

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I allways have them! But yes a wank would have been on the cards! Not just a of u go lol x

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

But it did stop when the sex was on the cards didn’t it? A snog is not risking your health.

Ok, but she got to that stage aswell and gave zero thought to condoms?

Ive already said we dont know that

Had it been me, even with a drawer full of condoms, if a guy had gotten as far as into my bed without even considering what he was using for protection i would have asked him to leave too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But it did stop when the sex was on the cards didn’t it? A snog is not risking your health.

Maybe I’m mistaken, but I’ve got a good sense of humour. And I picked up the comment of a wank to be a joke. I dunno.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fault on both sides, clearly - I always have condoms, but I’d be irritated by someone who uses a casual sex website and leaves safety up to everyone else except himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have some with me but ultimately a man should too. If a man turned up without any, I'd assume he was planning to go into the cave without a coat on.

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By *ustdaveHants OP Man
over a year ago

chippenham

"I allways have them! But yes a wank would have been on the cards! Not just a of u go lol x"

Candyfloss absolute legend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a tricky one.

I always carry them, for that reason. Not that I expect anything more to happen but you just never know and I don’t see the harm in carrying one.

Also as I have a latex allergy I wouldn’t use anyone else’s, I’ve always brought my own and think men should provide them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry a bag for life with me at the very least

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

A gentleman provides the cock and the lady provides the condom if she wants the cock

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Lesson learned for you to always expect the unexpected especially with fab, people say it’s a social so they can see if you look like your pics and to see if the sparks there so I think if she invited you back to hers then the thought was probably with her you would be having sex so if she knew she had no condoms perhaps she should have asked the question if you did just in case things did progress from just chat. Two people having sex two people should be being responsible, not quite sure why people think it’s just down to the guy.

Hopefully you will get another meet, well that’s if you want one after being thrown out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have a good supply of condoms at my house in case of situations like this. If it is meant to be a social meet then I would not personally expect you too supply your own. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simples ... be prepared

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Yes always have a few in wallet just in case

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"As you weren't expecting sex then I can understand why you didn't have them, although having socials turn into sex I'd always take some just incase.

I'd say it's both parties responsibility.

Mrs "

Exactly

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No problem for me as I always have a stash I tell them no need to bring condoms unless they want a particular brand.

Can't be doing with quibbling over a condom after all I want sex as much as them

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I always have condoms. I have a latex allergy. They don’t fit all sizes though.

I have had guys tell me that they also have a latex allergy as an excuse not to use anything. The look on their face when I told them I fortunately had latex free condoms was a classic

He actually only got a mutual wank though. Completely safe fun lol

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Mrs always takes the one's we buy for a few reasons.

1: skyns are the only ones she doesn't get a reaction to and makes her sore.

2: we prefer our own one's as we know they are in date and tamper free also strong enough for rigorous sex.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Mrs always takes the one's we buy for a few reasons.

1: skyns are the only ones she doesn't get a reaction to and makes her sore.

2: we prefer our own one's as we know they are in date and tamper free also strong enough for rigorous sex."

And she carries different sizes

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

If we’re going on any kind of a fab social or meet then we’ll always take precautions with us.

Condoms, lube, fake nose and glasses, face paints, bottle of ketchup, roll of carpet tape, zip ties and most importantly a can of mace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Superbad moment…

A condom and one little bottle of spermicidal lube!

Tbh tho… if I’d have been told categorically “NO SEX” I wouldn’t have even bothered changing me underpants!…

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

You changed the rules of engagement the moment you went back to hers.

A social is a social.

You should have stuck to what was agreed, met for a drink, a chat and pleasantries. Leave it at that with the intention of meeting in the near future.

I can only vouch for myself and have always stuck to my guns when meeting for a social.

A social doesn't lead to a bedroom, so she's in the wrong asking you to put a condom on. You're in the wrong for not having one and you're both in the wrong for going that far on a social LOL!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Anyway one thing led to another back to hers and a couple of bottles in were in the bedroom and I'm happily performing oral she returned the favour.

THEN she says put a condom on to which I replied "where are they"?

She didn't have any........ And made out it was my duty to of had some and asked me to leave!!

So should of had some to hand?

And if ladies if this situation arrised with yourself would a wank be out of the question??

Hi op.

I see where you’re coming from - but best to have them handy. I used to have loads of free gum clinic condoms handy - but they tended to be very thick and rather tight if you’re well endowed - so little sensitivity/pleasure for the chap.

I generally do have a few of the ‘better’ condoms in stock but no woman can cater for every size, preference, allergies etc.

if you want your meet to be a great experience for your willy then you need to find the ideal condom for you anyway - rather than just one a woman might have to hand.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"OP do you carry tampons when you're out with a woman in case she needs them?"

I do have a mate that carries them when he's out on his Ducati motorbike. He's got a small oil leak somewhere in the Vee and the tampon does a brilliant job soaking it up

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Yep down to the guy to bring one or two for a night out not always expecting sex but you never know where the notion might take ya!

It's called being grown up and mature enough to respect women simples and your own sexual health

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Mrs always takes the one's we buy for a few reasons.

1: skyns are the only ones she doesn't get a reaction to and makes her sore.

2: we prefer our own one's as we know they are in date and tamper free also strong enough for rigorous sex."

As an aside - I find it surprising how many fab males have so little knowledge/experience of condoms - and use this to argue the case for bareback as they struggle to maintain an erection when wearing one.

Guys - your willy is important so it’s worth spending a little time, money and effort to keep him happy and safe during intercourse.

Most supermarkets offer discounts on higher end brands (Durex and Skyns both offer ultra thin but durable varieties).

Before you have a meet - practice wanking whilst wearing them. When you can do this without losing your erection then you’re ready to stick it inside a vagina.

You’re welcome.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We wouldn't go to a social (where it had been made clear it was just that) with condoms.

You both assumed too many things it seems

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've always brought my own condoms to meets. But in saying that I find it annoying that some men don't bring any with them . It's not a lot to ask for someone to bring condoms with them and not be expecting others to provide for them all the time.

And even when I am meeting for a social I always have some with me just in case on the off chance it goes farther.

And no op a wank would not be on offer if there was no condoms either I just couldn't be bothered if I'm honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry condoms if Im On a meet social or otherwise yes most expect men to have them and most do but I'm responsible for me so prefer to have them

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Yep down to the guy to bring one or two for a night out not always expecting sex but you never know where the notion might take ya!

It's called being grown up and mature enough to respect women simples and your own sexual health

So women are exempt from being grown up and mature about their own sexual health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play to the op for not asking if bareback was on the menu

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By *ustdaveHants OP Man
over a year ago

chippenham

Anyway one thing led to another back to hers and a couple of bottles in were in the bedroom and I'm happily performing oral she returned the favour.

THEN she says put a condom on to which I replied "where are they"?

She didn't have any........ And made out it was my duty to of had some and asked me to leave!!

So should of had some to hand?

And if ladies if this situation arrised with yourself would a wank be out of the question??

Hi op.

I generally do have a few of the ‘better’ condoms in stock but no woman can cater for every size, preference, allergies etc.

if you want your meet to be a great experience for your willy then you need to find the ideal condom for you anyway - rather than just one a woman might have to hand.

Point noted and will never forget again.

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By *liceinwanderlust101Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge/London

If I was in this situation we would just do soft stuff, I wouldn’t kick him out for that alone but wouldn’t do penetrative sex.

I only use condoms for prevention of STI’s, I’m 110% protected from pregnancy but I would not be amused to catch something for the first time in 28 years!

Nothing wrong with a social escalating into a meet, many of us have been there I’m sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have a stash at home plus one in my bag for such impromptu moments, I never ever assume the man will have a condom but might also be wise to pop one in your wallet or car for future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, you aren’t expecting sex so that’s fair to not have them but it don’t think it should’ve been her job to provide them. condoms come in different sizes and she might have one that’s too small or too big. Couldve went to the shop to get one

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

I dont know,

But if you are playing the game (Fab) then surely you (both of you) dont rock up to a meet without thinking every angle is covered, lesson learned here OP, next time add a rubber to the wallet grab and a splash of smelly,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither come off great imo.

Noone discussed this until very late.

Noone was prepared.

She may edge it as she mentioned it. Were you planning to go bare back ?

Personally I'd have my own. Because durex are fucking erection killers. If I was caught by suprise on a social I'd stop off when it looked more than that. It doesn't even have to be a big deal or need a discussion tbh.

Safe words. Now that's something that needs to be discussed

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Anyway one thing led to another back to hers and a couple of bottles in were in the bedroom and I'm happily performing oral she returned the favour.

THEN she says put a condom on to which I replied "where are they"?

She didn't have any........ And made out it was my duty to of had some and asked me to leave!!

So should of had some to hand?

And if ladies if this situation arrised with yourself would a wank be out of the question??

It is your responsibility to have one and she was right to say no. Despite it being unexpected it is always worth popping one in your wallet just in case.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"A gentleman provides the cock and the lady provides the condom if she wants the cock

We provide the warm holes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A gentleman provides the cock and the lady provides the condom if she wants the cock

We provide the warm holes

They have to be warm?

oh crap

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"A gentleman provides the cock and the lady provides the condom if she wants the cock

We provide the warm holes

They have to be warm?

oh crap"

Unless you're drinking an iced drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As it's Fab and you never know what may happen in the moment, I'd always take a couple just in case as it's better to have them and not need them.

Of the meets I have had though, the couple or woman have always had condoms but normally prefer to use my own unless they also have the same brand I use. If she had initiated it though, I would've expected her to have some but I also you that only you can control what you do

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Well, I've learnt something from this thread. I always thought condoms came in one size - tight

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By *uzie_jennifer_2TV/TS
over a year ago

near Wembley

Some years ago I met a guy from fab for sex at his. It was very late night on a very quiet road, so started off a little bit nervously. He was much older and when I revealed my school outfit he got very excited for me. Then it all came crashing down when I asked for his condoms.

To this day I cannot quite explain it, but when I opened the packet, there was some sort of yellowish crusty fluid inside the condom. If I recall correctly, there was some dusty yellow 'flakes' for lack of a better word. "That's odd" I remarked and asked for some others. He gave me 2 more and insisted they were all brand new, unused, and they did seem to be unopened, but they all had that crusty slime inside.

Needless to say a complete dampener so we wanked each other off and left it at that. Im still utterly confused by it tho

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I always carry condoms even as a woman because I have a latex allergy and you never know when fun things can happen.

Men who aren't prepared always flag up as a risk.

Some women think it's the man's job to provide them, but I do think all women should have some emergency ones just in case.

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By *ust me 999Man
over a year ago

near you

The 7P rule definitely breached here

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
over a year ago

norwich

So surely when you were leaving the pub it was obvious where it was heading so would have been an ideal time to pop to the machine in the toilet

I think it's sensible for women to carry spares but it's not their responsibility.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"If I was in this situation we would just do soft stuff, I wouldn’t kick him out for that alone but wouldn’t do penetrative sex.

I only use condoms for prevention of STI’s, I’m 110% protected from pregnancy but I would not be amused to catch something for the first time in 28 years!

Nothing wrong with a social escalating into a meet, many of us have been there I’m sure. "

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I quite like the p+sitive spin on this response and the assured diplomacy.

Clearly responsibility lies on both sides when it comes to any form of prophylaxis, but a soft play or some form of 'enhanced social' would have been ideal to diffuse the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always carry condoms even as a woman because I have a latex allergy and you never know when fun things can happen.

Men who aren't prepared always flag up as a risk.

Some women think it's the man's job to provide them, but I do think all women should have some emergency ones just in case."

Having sex is hardly an emergency.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Always carry a few condoms in your wallet.

I think both men and women should have condoms on hand just in case such situations arise

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By *exyPirateMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Stick one in your wallet!

Problem solved!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Having sex is hardly an emergency.

Not in itself, but having sex with a latex condom can result in a trip to the emergency room so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having sex is hardly an emergency.

Not in itself, but having sex with a latex condom can result in a trip to the emergency room so."

Fair point.

I'd never trust a man's condoms anyway. He may have had them for 10 years.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Having sex is hardly an emergency.

Not in itself, but having sex with a latex condom can result in a trip to the emergency room so.

Fair point.

I'd never trust a man's condoms anyway. He may have had them for 10 years. "

I don’t trust other people’s condoms cos they aren’t guaranteed to fit me.

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

If you wasn’t expecting to have sex, why would you carry a condom?

I wouldn’t say it was your fault or you was in the wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like a strange way to end the meet regardless.

Between the pub and going back to hers it might if popped into your head where it was heading?

Also it'd be interested to see how many active fab members wouldn't have some condoms in their house even if they weren't planning anything.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's always sensible to go equipped some may think it's a chance thing thinking far too ahead like it's only thing on the mind but also prepared rather than it being awkward killing the moment

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By *edonisthenryMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Funnily enough, having a condom in your wallet was the only sex advice my dear old dad gave me. That was the sum of my education from him.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

There’s shops everywhere that sell them if it’s an emergency. It’s really not rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't wank men off who can't be bothered to pop to the shop for condoms.

I do have my own, but I have a conversation with the man to ask if he wants to use mine or prefers his own.

I've come across lots of men who think it's the other person's responsibility to put a condom on his penis.

Not a responsibility to provide it but a lot more fun if the other person puts it on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having sex is hardly an emergency.

Not in itself, but having sex with a latex condom can result in a trip to the emergency room so."

The reason why I only carry latex free....god forbid I'd be the one to put someone in a&e.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

"Why did you expect her to supply the condom?"

Probably a grey area on opinions there. The lady supplying one would mean she would know that nothing has been tampered with. But the guy should always have a couple spare.

That’s how I would view it.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

My thoughts are that it was a social

Would I take condoms to a social at a coffee shop or bar probably not actually, as I wouldn’t take a kit bag.

If I was having a social at someone’s house, you don’t want to sound presumptuous by taking them but it’s always good to have a couple on you just in case

I am surprised that the lady didn’t have any at all. If she had said it was a social at her house and things escalated then would have thought she would have some also

However I suppose it’s fine line with being prepared and presumptuous. A friend years ago go changed in my hotel room then said to me a few weeks later why I didn’t offer to join her in shower

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

Benjamin Franklin said, “By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If neither of you thought to stop off at the shop going home, and then were too pissed to drive to a shop to buy any I would have got you on your knees and had you wank over my feet as punishment for not having one in your wallet. Next time both our pockets would be overflowing with condoms and all would be fine

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Anyway one thing led to another back to hers and a couple of bottles in were in the bedroom and I'm happily performing oral she returned the favour.

THEN she says put a condom on to which I replied "where are they"?

She didn't have any........ And made out it was my duty to of had some and asked me to leave!!

So should of had some to hand?

And if ladies if this situation arrised with yourself would a wank be out of the question??

Lesson learned; always carry at least one condom, even if ‘only’ a social is arranged

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Anyway one thing led to another back to hers and a couple of bottles in were in the bedroom and I'm happily performing oral she returned the favour.

THEN she says put a condom on to which I replied "where are they"?

She didn't have any........ And made out it was my duty to of had some and asked me to leave!!

So should of had some to hand?

And if ladies if this situation arrised with yourself would a wank be out of the question??

Was there no condom machine in the pub toilets? Surely you had an inkling the social was going well and could have led to more……?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Anyway one thing led to another back to hers and a couple of bottles in were in the bedroom and I'm happily performing oral she returned the favour.

THEN she says put a condom on to which I replied "where are they"?

She didn't have any........ And made out it was my duty to of had some and asked me to leave!!

So should of had some to hand?

And if ladies if this situation arrised with yourself would a wank be out of the question??

"
keep a couple in your wallet..problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If neither of you thought to stop off at the shop going home, and then were too pissed to drive to a shop to buy any I would have got you on your knees and had you wank over my feet as punishment for not having one in your wallet. Next time both our pockets would be overflowing with condoms and all would be fine

Makes notes....

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I think men's pants should have condom pockets

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Just use a toffee crisp wrapper

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Washing up gloves one size fits all

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Seems like a strange way to end the meet regardless.

Between the pub and going back to hers it might if popped into your head where it was heading?

Also it'd be interested to see how many active fab members wouldn't have some condoms in their house even if they weren't planning anything.

I do, but I would have said let's go back to mine, I have condoms. Although, a social is a social for me.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Just have some on you next meet ,just in case it turns into more.

You live and learn .

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I think both should be prepared.

Shame it turned into an issue.... could have just left it at oral

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Just use a toffee crisp wrapper"
I thought it was a Mars bar wrapper ..

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I always take one. Seems presumptuous, but as this tale tells, you never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always ALWAYS have one with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always ALWAYS have one with you.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Always carry a few condoms in your wallet.

I think both men and women should have condoms on hand just in case such situations arise"

Exactly. I would rather a guy be prepared on the off chance, I have plenty at home, different varieties, including latex free then there's no excuses for them not to wear one.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Always have two with me no matter what I'm doing. I've had a few unexpected shags so it had paid off.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Anyway one thing led to another back to hers and a couple of bottles in were in the bedroom and I'm happily performing oral she returned the favour.

THEN she says put a condom on to which I replied "where are they"?

She didn't have any........ And made out it was my duty to of had some and asked me to leave!!

So should of had some to hand?

And if ladies if this situation arrised with yourself would a wank be out of the question??

dam so you didn't even get to nut

even from a blowie.. thats harsh indeed

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By *arkcrystalMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Like my dad told me just before he fucked my sister, always come prepared.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Like my dad told me just before he fucked my sister, always come prepared."

What happens in Bristol really needs to stay in Bristol

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Like my dad told me just before he fucked my sister, always come prepared.

What happens in Bristol really needs to stay in Bristol

Bristol is filth I tell you

all the heretics are there

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I thought all men carried a 15 year old condom in their wallet?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Like my dad told me just before he fucked my sister, always come prepared.

What happens in Bristol really needs to stay in Bristol

Bristol is filth I tell you

all the heretics are there

Fred West was from that neck of the woods so that’s says it all

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"Why did you expect her to supply the condom?"

E why you expect him to

Social remember

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Like my dad told me just before he fucked my sister, always come prepared.

What happens in Bristol really needs to stay in Bristol

Bristol is filth I tell you

all the heretics are there

Fred West was from that neck of the woods so that’s says it all

I dont have much positive things to say about Bristol to be honest so I am not surprised lol

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I think that in the OP case he was not at fault for leaving the house without a condom, it was however apparently made clear it was a social only.

However, once they realised it was going further they both had the chance to get some or bring up the subject.

I don't do meets outside clubs but if I did and I had invited someone back to my house, I'd not expect him to have some on him. In fact I'd probably find it presumptuous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You were clearly never a boy scout OP.

Be prepared. Always, be prepared

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Most single fella’s I’ve got jiggy with had at least one in their wallet, albeit they had to check their use by date beforehand!

I always had some in a draw when I was young childfree and single. Nothing worse then getting your pash on and you have to stop due to no condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like my dad told me just before he fucked my sister, always come prepared.

What happens in Bristol really needs to stay in Bristol

Bristol is filth I tell you

all the heretics are there

Fred West was from that neck of the woods so that’s says it all

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wasn't he Gloucester?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that in the OP case he was not at fault for leaving the house without a condom, it was however apparently made clear it was a social only.

However, once they realised it was going further they both had the chance to get some or bring up the subject.

I don't do meets outside clubs but if I did and I had invited someone back to my house, I'd not expect him to have some on him. In fact I'd probably find it presumptuous "

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it happen twice to me, the men contacted me, I had met them both previously, (separately), things were going well, when I asked if they had a condom, both said no, I thought you'd have one, which I didn't, i think if the man asks to meet I would expect him to have the condom,

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I've had it happen twice to me, the men contacted me, I had met them both previously, (separately), things were going well, when I asked if they had a condom, both said no, I thought you'd have one, which I didn't, i think if the man asks to meet I would expect him to have the condom, "

Even if it was just a social where you had made it clear no sex was involved ?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I think that in the OP case he was not at fault for leaving the house without a condom, it was however apparently made clear it was a social only.

However, once they realised it was going further they both had the chance to get some or bring up the subject.

I don't do meets outside clubs but if I did and I had invited someone back to my house, I'd not expect him to have some on him. In fact I'd probably find it presumptuous "

Me neither, and I'd ask him if he's ok with the ones I have.

A 1 minute conversation would have avoided this problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if it was just a social where you had made it clear no sex was involved ? "

I'd met them socially before, these were a naked naughty meets,

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

"Yep down to the guy to bring one or two for a night out not always expecting sex but you never know where the notion might take ya!

It's called being grown up and mature enough to respect women simples and your own sexual health

So women are exempt from being grown up and mature about their own sexual health

Nope I just assume they would be on top of that too...its just about respect for women mainly

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Man should always carry a condom.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I always carry one anywhere i go

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"Man should always carry a condom."

Oh why normal the woman desires if it happening lol

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"I always carry one anywhere i go"

Problem solved lol pre planing ect X

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
over a year ago

norwich

I used to carry a condom in my wallet but it was like a donor card

Just hope someone can make use of Itchen I'm dead

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

As soon as she suggested going back to hers you should of gone to the men's loo and got a packet out of the machine. If there are still such things, it's been a while since I was in the men's

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Man should always carry a condom."

Precisely! One never knows who one might connect with in the fruit and veg aisle at sainsbury’s.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Man should always carry a condom.

Precisely! One never knows who one might connect with in the fruit and veg aisle at sainsbury’s.

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its the reason for the small pocket in the 501s after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have condoms on hand when you're going even for an "innocent social" with someone you got to know from Fab.

"Innocent" can go to "sexy time" real quick, and you don't want to be caught off guard. Though I suppose this applies for both men and women; men shouldn't expect women to just do bareback sex with them, and women shouldn't expect men to shoulder the responsibility of sexual protection/contraception alone, i.e. you wanna be extra sure whoever you're fucking is rubbered up, make sure you have one with you and you put it on him!

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