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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im just wondering, as a newbie to this webiste, what is the best way to start on here?

Go to a club?

Try and meet random people?

And yes, i know i need a better profile photo but im currently sick and just used that to verify.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Start with an outstanding profile and work from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start at the bottom and work your way up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And what exactly would that consist of (other than a better photo)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or is it the top and work your way down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An eye catching profile is a starting point, and try to get yourself along to social events and clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run away now while you still can

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Im just wondering, as a newbie to this webiste, what is the best way to start on here?

Go to a club?

Try and meet random people?

And yes, i know i need a better profile photo but im currently sick and just used that to verify."

Both. You answered your own question

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Welcome.

Search for and read the other threads from newbies asking for advice.

Feel better, feel yourself and then present that.

Good luck.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Im just wondering, as a newbie to this webiste, what is the best way to start on here?

Go to a club?

Try and meet random people?

And yes, i know i need a better profile photo but im currently sick and just used that to verify."

Profile wize, get rid of the cock avatar. Very unappealing, and this is coming from a cock queen who loves cock pics. Just not as an avatar or 20 times similar angle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So anything and everything at the wall and hope something sticks basically?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Start by writing a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet at Asda, Aisle 6

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know, i had no other photos, thats just the verification photo as i didnt want to send a face pic (not knowing this site before).

Then had people saying i needed something other than the no photo thing.

When im better ill think of something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So anything and everything at the wall and hope something sticks basically?"

Yes, women love this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start at the bottom and work your way up"

^ This is how I do sexy sex.

Op, you answered your own question with three good solid ideas in your post.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"So anything and everything at the wall and hope something sticks basically?

Yes, women love this. "

If there is one thing all women without exception hate, it's being treated as individuals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know, i had no other photos, thats just the verification photo as i didnt want to send a face pic (not knowing this site before).

Then had people saying i needed something other than the no photo thing.

When im better ill think of something "
you've been here three months. And a cock pic isn't a verification pic.

I'd start by being honest as my Spidey sense are saying you arent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Actualy i made an account 3 months ago to because it wouldnt let me open stuff without it and never used it. I then came back yesterday, reopened it and did the verification/ actually used the site for the first time. And there was 2 pics, that and the same holding a piece of paper with my username on....literally the same minus the paper

Your spider sense has let you down on this 1 sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So anything and everything at the wall and hope something sticks basically?

Yes, women love this.

If there is one thing all women without exception hate, it's being treated as individuals."

He knows^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actualy i made an account 3 months ago to because it wouldnt let me open stuff without it and never used it. I then came back yesterday, reopened it and did the verification/ actually used the site for the first time. And there was 2 pics, that and the same holding a piece of paper with my username on....literally the same minus the paper

Your spider sense has let you down on this 1 sadly "
open stuff?

Look forward to the profile revamp

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ye, to be specific the chat section, it doesnt let you open it unless your a supporter which i thought was the whole site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message as many men as you can…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well i've updated my photo (still shit but the best i can do whilst sick) and actually created a profile text.

Anything im missing/ can still improve upon?

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

When you can much better pics and not 20 dick pics please so boring - put some effort in check profiles of other males for ideas but what goes down well in my experience are a variety showing you naked (but not focusing on cock) and dressed - I love suited and booted clean cut style, others like the tradie style, funny can be good too like Christmas or other seasonally themed pics.

Bio - describe yourself in an interesting/funny/self deprecating way but also say what you have to offer and what you’re looking for in general terms (the kind of person not specific sexual acts/fantasies)

Clubs and socials are good for making connections, and building confidence. When messaging make it clear you’ve read their profile and steer clear of super boring “hi how are you?” Type messages (this includes “how are you finding fab?” And “fancy a fuck?” Type messages.

Genuinely hope this is of help to you

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"And what exactly would that consist of (other than a better photo)"
words tell people something about yourself, that pic is fine add other pics after all your profile is your advert, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i've updated my photo (still shit but the best i can do whilst sick) and actually created a profile text.

Anything im missing/ can still improve upon?"

If you press 'reply + quote' it will help people to know who you are responding to

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

A good profile text and pictures is a good start but yes, actually going to a club or some social events is probably the best way to actually meet people and get your face known.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i've updated my photo (still shit but the best i can do whilst sick) and actually created a profile text.

Anything im missing/ can still improve upon?"
good start.

I kinda like the profile pic. It's got colour and will stand out from cock pics.

Good honesty in the profile. But it's a bit generic. Other being being new I get nonsense of you. We are all selling ourselves to others. You need the show what the other person is getting when they buy you. Even more so if you are taking things slowly. If the first meet is a social then you need to sell it will be a fun social.

That said... Write a profile you enjoy writing not just something you have to do. In an older profile i ripped off a song (fres Prince irrc). Because it amused me. It got way more messages than I expected because it showed me as me. Even if that is an unfunny dickhead who thinks he's funny.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Well i've updated my photo (still shit but the best i can do whilst sick) and actually created a profile text.

Anything im missing/ can still improve upon?good start.

I kinda like the profile pic. It's got colour and will stand out from cock pics.

Good honesty in the profile. But it's a bit generic. Other being being new I get nonsense of you. We are all selling ourselves to others. You need the show what the other person is getting when they buy you. Even more so if you are taking things slowly. If the first meet is a social then you need to sell it will be a fun social.

That said... Write a profile you enjoy writing not just something you have to do. In an older profile i ripped off a song (fres Prince irrc). Because it amused me. It got way more messages than I expected because it showed me as me. Even if that is an unfunny dickhead who thinks he's funny. "

Yea I love bios with a bit of creativity and imagination I’m more likely to respond to a message from someone with a bio like that

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